Sosua Reports

[Oakie]

oakie, it's great to have you back. i'm glad you emerged from this story mostly unrep001hed. i believe you've mentioned you had the financial means to experiement with this. honestly it would have bankrupted most of us. but i am not going to start flaming you for trying, and i would hope you would ignore all the people that may try to flame you. you are actually in a unique position to advise any newbies of the pitfalls and headache they may experience trying to go down this road.

as for me; after multiple trips to sosua since 2008, my last trip to sosua was in may 2012. later that year i went to colombia, and the rest is history, lol. i've been trying my best to get back to the dominican republic, but colombia currently has my dick and balls in a (gently) vice grip, so it doesn't look hopeful, lol.

anyway, welcome back. hopefully you will branch out from sosua and explore the entire island. ignore any temptation to seek out la princessa trying to rekindle an old flame. if you think you are about to "fall off the wagon" again, seek out cuba dave and he'll coach you on the "big papi" vs."pocket change" philosophy (you want to be "pocket change"

http://youtu.be/rxp5yu0552e

).

most importantly, have fun!

-sp-

it wasn't that bad, financially. i figured it was actually cheaper than having a steady girlfiend / wife, especially since now i wasn't going down there every couple months or so. i did set limits, and when that limit was reached that was it. (it wasn't like i was giving her an apartment, moto concho, expensive jewelry or even a car, which i know some guys have)

the consensus here was that "cut off the money and see what happens", but after a couple years she is still calling and messaging, and on my facebook, etc. since i haven't replied or acknowledged her during that time, she is only now beginning to ease off.

i'm curious about "columbia", so i'll get on that forum and hope to see you there. if it's better than sosua, i can only imagine!

thanks for the cubadave link. he says it all, but he subscribes to the "they're all the same" theory, which misses a lot, and takes the adventure away it from it all. there is the rare one that has a level of maturity, sophistication, sense of humor that rises miles above the endless parade of simple working chicas. i know, i've "auditioned" lots of them over time, and never found one that i could ever have anything in common with, much less dare to introduce them to some of my family, which i did with her, and she handled herself perfectly in that situation. she is the head of her extended family (s) and i spent most of my time down there with them. i saw where a lot of the money going over time, mostly to the family (s) for things like a refrigerator, beds, stuff for the kids, etc, and they would thank me personally and show me proudly what my money had bought. my version of charitable contribution to the third world (and great sex).

it just felt good, and for me that's what it's all about.

the money you spend on chicas, is gone forever, but with a regular, the returns build up over time, and you don't need money every time you go out, or want to get laid. they learn what you like, and you learn what she likes. there's no surprises, disappointments, or trouble of any kind.

sorta like leasing a car, as opposed to going through the hassle of hiring one every day.

[Tempoecorto]

most languages are a lot more flexible and open to playing around with apparent contradictions than you are suggesting. never heard of the movie "little big man"?

there is a figure of speech called "oxymoron", meaning a self-contradiction, which has been effectively used by writers since the time of homer.

lol! what has gotten unto you charles pooter. homer and oxymoron. i thought you left all that dumb stuff to the indians.

[Charles Pooter]

Not to mention big disco which was closed down. Name eludes me.

High Caribe?

In those days Puerto Plata was a more active place for mongering than Sosua.

[Sammon]

Yeah, I remember how it used to be back in the day. A lot of new jacks will never know about things like Clasicos, Pasions and cheap fares into POP either, but you can't miss what you never had.

Not to mention big disco which was closed down. Name eludes me All the girls and guys used to go there. No need to rub elbows because it was really nice with big open areas and big dance floor. I used to park right near the entrance and just tipped the attendant there. Cannot find cheap airfares anymore because the travel agencies and resorts book them by the block.

There were couple of brothels on the main strip. All you need to pay is barfine of 100 pesos. After that you negotiate with the girl. There were quite a few lookers.

Attached is one of them.

[Orgasmico]

This is how we used to kill time in the daytime in the " Old Sosua".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5W10...ature=youtu.be

Yeah, I remember how it used to be back in the day. A lot of new jacks will never know about things like Clasicos, Pasions and cheap fares into POP either, but you can't miss what you never had.

[Charles Pooter]

of course he made sense with the message he was conveying, but with all the mongering he has done in latin america does he know anything about spanish? the root word "papa" means daddy. when you substitute the second "a" with an "i" it puts the root in the diminutive (smaller) form to make papi, meaning "little daddy." if you substitute the second "a" with an "o" it puts the root in the augmentative (bigger) form to make papo, meaning "big daddy." hence, saying big papi (big little daddy) don't make no sense at all.

most languages are a lot more flexible and open to playing around with apparent contradictions than you are suggesting. never heard of the movie "little big man"?

there is a figure of speech called "oxymoron", meaning a self-contradiction, which has been effectively used by writers since the time of homer.

[Yanqui69]

Of course he made sense with the message he was conveying, but with all the mongering he has done in Latin America does he know anything about Spanish? The root word "papa" means daddy. When you substitute the second "a" with an "i" it puts the root in the diminutive (smaller) form to make papi, meaning "little daddy." If you substitute the second "a" with an "o" it puts the root in the augmentative (bigger) form to make papo, meaning "big daddy." Hence, saying Big Papi (Big Little Daddy) don't make no sense at all.

Recall that Boston Red Sox player David Ortiz is called "Big Papi."

Changing Papa' to Papi, changes the word from Dad to Daddy, but I wouldn't go so far as to include "little" in the meaning.

Papi is an affectionate term for Daddy, and "Big Papi" translates as "Big Daddy"

[Wrx2005]

Agreed. I may not handle things the way you did with the restaurant chick (that's not my style) , but I respect that that's the way you decided to handle the situation and you were satisfied with the outcome and that's all that matters. Me arguing with you is like someone arguing with someone else who paid $200 for an escort in BKK and had a great time. I would never hire an escort, nor would I ever pay $200 in Bangkok, but he did and that's that. It's just a story. No more, no less.

Moving on, and at the risk of being told to RTFF, are any massage places in Sosua open again, are they worth going to, and do they provide extras? I am looking to find a couple of daytime activities while I am there.

I hear man. You would not handle things the way I did. I wish I knew why re scheduling with a chica was such a hard pill to swallow for a few cats. I mean you would have thought I mistreated the chica or she was my GF?

[Mr Enternational]

If you think you are about to "fall off the wagon" again, seek out Cuba Dave and he'll coach you on the "Big Papi" vs."Pocket Change" philosophy (you want to be "Pocket Change"

http://youtu.be/rXP5yu0552E

Of course he made sense with the message he was conveying, but with all the mongering he has done in Latin America does he know anything about Spanish? The root word "papa" means daddy. When you substitute the second "a" with an "i" it puts the root in the diminutive (smaller) form to make papi, meaning "little daddy." If you substitute the second "a" with an "o" it puts the root in the augmentative (bigger) form to make papo, meaning "big daddy." Hence, saying Big Papi (Big Little Daddy) don't make no sense at all.

[SavePros321]

hey save a pro!

its a long story, but the bottom line is that all the advice i got from here, both positive (from you and coolie) and negative (from most of the others) was in its own way more or less correct.

i always said i would let the forum know how things worked out, but there was not really any finale to it. it just petered out.

i tried for two years to get her papers in order, both she and i spent a lot of time at the canadian consulate in sd (manned by dominican employees) explaining why she should be allowed to come for a simple vacation. this involved putting money in her bank account, and sending her two tickets. at least one visa expired due to my rigid schedule control, her adopted daughter's schooling, and her son's annual summer vacation with her (which she considered sacrosant). a hurricane on the way to the airport with her mother and her brother also got in the way one time.

if i hadn't been so rigid on the timing at my end, it could have worked, but then i wouldn't have been in control of the situation. for the same reason i refused to give her a ring and a firm offer of commitment (marriage?) which would have helped with the consulate who actually told me, insultingly, that they were in the business of preventing guys exporting putas to work their trade in other countries.

in the meantime her bank account gradually got depleted (what else?) the western union money was flowing, and i finally gave up. she's still there, and i'm still here. i stopped returning her phone calls and texts.

now tell me what's going with you?

oakie, it's great to have you back. i'm glad you emerged from this story mostly unrep001hed. i believe you've mentioned you had the financial means to experiement with this. honestly it would have bankrupted most of us. but i am not going to start flaming you for trying, and i would hope you would ignore all the people that may try to flame you. you are actually in a unique position to advise any newbies of the pitfalls and headache they may experience trying to go down this road.

as for me; after multiple trips to sosua since 2008, my last trip to sosua was in may 2012. later that year i went to colombia, and the rest is history, lol. i've been trying my best to get back to the dominican republic, but colombia currently has my dick and balls in a (gently) vice grip, so it doesn't look hopeful, lol.

anyway, welcome back. hopefully you will branch out from sosua and explore the entire island. ignore any temptation to seek out la princessa trying to rekindle an old flame. if you think you are about to "fall off the wagon" again, seek out cuba dave and he'll coach you on the "big papi" vs. "pocket change" philosophy (you want to be "pocket change" http://youtu.be/rxp5yu0552e).

most importantly, have fun!

-sp-

[Phuquer]

La Princessa has family working all over town, so it'll be interesting to see if my cover get's blown. I really wouldn't be sorry if it did. Besides with a detailed post like this, I feel I'm exposing myself anyway. But it's all true, so I don't give a shit at this point in my life.

Wow. What a great story. I am glad you found happiness. Don't worry about having your cover blown. Go there like it's your first time. Keep a low profile. Don't bring attention to yourself and nobody will know you are there. So many people go there every single day that it's virtually impossible for anybody to put two and two together and figure out that you are there. They are busy thinking about other things to check out every single person around. I think you will be fine.

[Oakie]

Oakie, long time no see! What's it been about 3 or 4 years since you've logged into this forum?

How did everything go getting La Princessa up to Canada? I believe that is where you left off on ISG. You sort of disappeared after that!

Hey Save a Pro!

Its a long story, but the bottom line is that all the advice I got from here, both positive (from you and Coolie) and negative (from most of the others) was in its own way more or less correct.

I always said I would let the forum know how things worked out, but there was not really any finale to it. It just petered out.

I tried for two years to get her papers in order, both she and I spent a lot of time at the Canadian consulate in SD (manned by Dominican employees) explaining why she should be allowed to come for a simple vacation. This involved putting money in her bank account, and sending her two tickets. At least one visa expired due to my rigid schedule control, her adopted daughter's schooling, and her son's annual summer vacation with her (which she considered sacrosant). A hurricane on the way to the airport with her mother and her brother also got in the way one time.

If I hadn't been so rigid on the timing at my end, it could have worked, but then I wouldn't have been in control of the situation. For the same reason I refused to give her a ring and a firm offer of commitment (marriage?) which would have helped with the Consulate who actually told me, insultingly, that they were in the business of preventing guys exporting putas to work their trade in other countries.

In the meantime her bank account gradually got depleted (what else?) the Western Union money was flowing, and I finally gave up. She's still there, and I'm still here. I stopped returning her phone calls and texts.

I would say this, for all the other romantics out there, true love would find a way, that If we really felt we were in love with each other it would have been much easier, but I wanted to keep control with little commitment. I wasn't ready to marry her (and her family). You can't have it both ways, I guess.

The Good news. While this was going on I met in my home town, a part time Japanese student / stripper who in return for me "helping" her gave me more than I could have dreamed of. No hassle, no drama, she lives close by, and drives! It's been two years now, and I'm saving money.

But, this winter is driving me nuts, and I need some sun on my aging body.

La Princessa has family working all over town, so it'll be interesting to see if my cover get's blown. I really wouldn't be sorry if it did. Besides with a detailed post like this, I feel I'm exposing myself anyway. But it's all true, so I don't give a shit at this point in my life.

Now tell me what's going with you?

[Tempoecorto]

This should be a "best of" post.

Completely agree!

[Tempoecorto]

Where's the Chica Ombudsman when you need one?

Almost doubled over, laughing!

[FruitNinja]

Look here is the thing about dogs. I used to work as a weekend administrator at a large hospital and was responsible for scheduling and managing about 300 employees on the typical weekend or holiday-doctors, nurses, techs, kitchen staff, cleaners, security-everybody.

It was important that people showed up for work, preferably on time so that the previous shift could go home, to manage overtime costs, to meet statutory requirement such as Medicare rules, and to provide effective quality care to patients and their families.

Employees would come up with all sorts of spurious reasons why they were late or absent and most of it would be lies. That is just normal human behavior, and one has to manage it, no matter how angry one would like to become.

For example a $30 per hour nurse calls and says she is taking sick leave on a public holiday, but you know perfectly well that she works part time for an agency that pays $90 per hour for working on holidays in some other hospital. So today she is getting $30 per hour from you, plus $90 per hour from someone else.

You have an employee who calls and says he / she ate something at McDonalds last night and have been having diarrhea and vomiting all night. You say fine, you will call the Public Health Department to report this and they will probably come to interview the employee about this outbreak of food poisoning. Half an hour later the employee calls to say they took some pills and are feeling better already and maybe it was the home brewed beer, not McDonalds.

You have an employee who you know is a heavy drinker who calls at 5:00 am And says his / her car will not start and it is being towed. Yeah, right.

People do this all the time, even responsible employees in what you may regard as the best health care system in the world. It is not worth losing any sleep over, and you just have to treat them like dogs. Don't pay any attention to what they say, just focus on the behavior (absenteeism) and managing the consequences (gaps in scheduled services).

You are on vacation and a prostitute calls to say she is running late for an appointment. You suspect she is "cheating" on you. Get over it! Tell her you are amused at her presumption and ask if the sex was good with the other guy. Make her suck your dick while she tells you about it. Make her say "Papi only your guevo makes me feel good" while you tell her "Mami, no other woman makes me hard like you do" It is all lies, but it is all good fun.

This should be a "best of" post. I partake of the game at home as well as abroad. Regardless of the situation these girls will find a way to complicate it. I run a business that requires an immense amount of planning and scheduling in a 1st world country where everyone is time centric, and I deal with it. Now move my obsessive compulsive ass to a third world country where time stands still and in their eyes I'm a freak. Got to take the dial from 11 to about 2.

I waited for one FL here for an hour in my car. It was the middle of winter. Turned out it was time well spent.

I'm out of here next Friday! I get to go to 2 for a month.