Sosua Reports

[Twice Divorced]

It seemed to me the "bond of marriage" and U. S. Dating rituals were ultimately nothing less than a subtle but effective form of prostitutional extortion and exploitation of ME.

Yes, somebody gets it!!!

Sex has become such a crime in the U. S. That now, just telling a woman how nice she looks, a strong glance, etc. Will get you a look as though you are some kind of pervert. I'll pass!

If not a charge of sexual harassment! The beautiful thing about the Dominicanas is that you can smile at them, and get a smile back 95% of the time.

[Worf1972]

Does the EXPLOITATION theory apply to the 100's of Caucasion women chasing down and "exploiting" the local Dominican men or is is just us men that are the bad guys?

For every looney here that bangs, hits, and "exploits" there are 100's that simply want to come here just to be with a Dominican woman that makes them remember what it feels like to be a man again, And most ALL of us are willing to treat them like ROYALTY in return. Finally, once we again feel like REAL MEN, we are more than willing to feed them, buy them clothes, feed their children and buy their children clothes. When we return, they jump for joy and are excited to see us again and again and again.

I'm a fairly good looking handsome man in my mid 40's with a successful business but the exchange for my time and money is exponentially more beneficial with the novia I found "exploiting" here in the D. R. After 13 years of being beaten up and down in a marriage ending in an ungodly divorce settlement, and an additional 14 years of honest effort to date impossible to please and demanding American women with bad attitudes, sexual hangups, financial demands, and even worse, poor care for their appearance and I'll take a Dominican woman EVERY TIME. All they have ever asked of me is to be treated nicely like a lady, and in return I feel like a KING.

It seemed to me the "bond of marriage" and U. S. Dating rituals were ultimately nothing less than a subtle but effective form of prostitutional extortion and exploitation of ME. Sex has become such a crime in the U. S. That now, just telling a woman how nice she looks, a strong glance, etc. Will get you a look as though you are some kind of pervert. I'll pass!

I'll agree, I see a fair share of "pigs" out there, but no chica has ever been forced to lay down with any of them, it is their choice, and their choice alone. The D. R. Also ensures there are no pimps, and the girls (AND MEN) practicing the trade are doing so at their own free will. Consentual sex and yes, even prostitution is NOT ILLEGAL in the D. R. Matter of fact, unlike their American counterparts, the Dominican women seem to actually enjoy the act of sex, and also take considerable pride in pleasing their man in a non-sexual ways.

The people of the Dominican Republic seem just fine with running their own country. The rest of us are guests and not forced to visit if we don't like it. Unless you are Dominicana, you should stick to manipulating the sexual mentality where you live and try to fix the multitude of your own problems you have in your country.

My kindest thanks for allowing me to express my opinion.

Bob

YOU NEED TO WRITE A BOOK, some idiot did on hobbyist going to Brazil called "blame it on Rio". Maybe if someone express what men needed instead of millions of women being influenced by "Oprah and Sex in the city", maybe relationships would be better.

[Travelguyr3]

There was a fantastic post on getting around Sosua by pictures. It was very helpful

I missed this.

1st time to Dr this Dec. and this would be helpful.

Link to this anyone?

[Fuckup]

I'm new to the monger sceen. I'd like to find a chica or two that can squirt. Also, if any of you have had a twosome, do the chicas get into to it with each other. Like, do they go down on one another?

[Bobsthrobbinknob]

My one big mistake I made: There were times when I was approached by a chica for some love, but I was not ready for that moment, Should have taken down their phone #'s.

Get a cheap Dominican Cell Phone!

I FINALLY purchased a cell phone here in Sosua, completed my first week of two today and it makes a HUGE difference. I got it right across the street from SeaBreeze Hotel on Alex Martinez. "Gino", the owner at SeaBreeze walked me across the street, told them what I wanted and they fixed me up. It's a Clairo, cost me 550 pesos (about $15 US) and included activation and 100 peso card. I mostly have been texting on it and still on the first 100 peso card after 5 days.

The best part of it if you use it for mongering is that you just hand it to the chicas and have them dial their number and save their name. Some will just grab it and do it without asking. A couple daytime walks will generate more numbers to call than you can handle.

Unfortunately, mine is just a "long leash" used by my novia.

[Member #3435]

Moses, I think your anger is aimed at the wrong person. If you read what Schwmmr was suggesting ("Christmas", "Easter") then you'll realize the irony in his suggestions.

Here is the real culprit...thine name is "Alias":

Dude thanks,

This guy clearly missed reading between the lines.

Schwmm

[Tablefall]

Arrived Thanksgiving Week. I am your lazy spoon fed monger, This is my first trip to sosua. There was a fantastic post on getting around sosua by pictures. It was very helpful. Stayed in the new wing at the new garden hotel. Great socializing with some fellow mongers.compared to BB's, there were so many places to explore and walk around day or night. My fun is mostly daytime, evening. Didn't do the nightclubs. Pulled in chica's from the hotel, massage parlors, street. Did mostly ST. I never do LT. In my hunting it was a little difficult to find some good quality chicas. I think puerto plata city girls is a step above. At BB's the girls are ready to move on after you pop off, In sosua the girls give you their full time even after the leeche is gone. I had a good time. , Great places to eat, Hung out at the famous Lapassions a couple of times. My one big mistake I made: There were times when I was approached by a chica for some love, but I was not ready for that moment, Should have taken down their phone #'s. Sosua beach is a longer stretch than I thought. Did a day trip to Santiago with my wingman Lionel (your man on the ground). Hooked me up with a non-pro chica for the evening. Back in the cold NYC. I have my memories and smiling on the inside. Thanks to all who post on the forums. You keep me going!

[Fuddzie]

For every looney here that bangs, hits, and "exploits" there are 100's that simply want to come here just to be with a Dominican woman that makes them remember what it feels like to be a man again, And most ALL of us are willing to treat them like ROYALTY in return. Finally, once we again feel like REAL MEN, we are more than willing to feed them, buy them clothes, feed their children and buy their children clothes. When we return, they jump for joy and are excited to see us again and again and again.

Bob, this section has goine from sex to crime to the needs of the monger and chica or chico. It appears that we all have a different view of each from our own experiences. There's truth in each posting whether someone wishes to exploit and cause harm or enjoy the feelings of having a ship in the night to share our time with. Thats why there are males and females and this thing we call respect. I did appreciate your post.

[Bobsthrobbinknob]

Does the EXPLOITATION theory apply to the 100's of Caucasion women chasing down and "exploiting" the local Dominican men or is is just us men that are the bad guys?

For every looney here that bangs, hits, and "exploits" there are 100's that simply want to come here just to be with a Dominican woman that makes them remember what it feels like to be a man again, And most ALL of us are willing to treat them like ROYALTY in return. Finally, once we again feel like REAL MEN, we are more than willing to feed them, buy them clothes, feed their children and buy their children clothes. When we return, they jump for joy and are excited to see us again and again and again.

I'm a fairly good looking handsome man in my mid 40's with a successful business but the exchange for my time and money is exponentially more beneficial with the novia I found "exploiting" here in the D. R. After 13 years of being beaten up and down in a marriage ending in an ungodly divorce settlement, and an additional 14 years of honest effort to date impossible to please and demanding American women with bad attitudes, sexual hangups, financial demands, and even worse, poor care for their appearance and I'll take a Dominican woman EVERY TIME. All they have ever asked of me is to be treated nicely like a lady, and in return I feel like a KING.

It seemed to me the "bond of marriage" and U. S. Dating rituals were ultimately nothing less than a subtle but effective form of prostitutional extortion and exploitation of ME. Sex has become such a crime in the U. S. That now, just telling a woman how nice she looks, a strong glance, etc. Will get you a look as though you are some kind of pervert. I'll pass!

I'll agree, I see a fair share of "pigs" out there, but no chica has ever been forced to lay down with any of them, it is their choice, and their choice alone. The D. R. Also ensures there are no pimps, and the girls (AND MEN) practicing the trade are doing so at their own free will. Consentual sex and yes, even prostitution is NOT ILLEGAL in the D. R. Matter of fact, unlike their American counterparts, the Dominican women seem to actually enjoy the act of sex, and also take considerable pride in pleasing their man in a non-sexual ways.

The people of the Dominican Republic seem just fine with running their own country. The rest of us are guests and not forced to visit if we don't like it. Unless you are Dominicana, you should stick to manipulating the sexual mentality where you live and try to fix the multitude of your own problems you have in your country.

My kindest thanks for allowing me to express my opinion.

Bob

[Fuddzie]

We all should stop going to the DR because we are just adding to the problem. Yes we are taking advantage of these innocent young women who would not be selling themselves if it were not for us horrible gringos from North America. Yes we must stop at once and these young women would turn themselves back into the great chaste women they are.

Se Vende....this is printed every where. Everything is for sale in the DR and I mean everything. If no more North Americans went there they would still be selling themselves. What is the most confusing day of the year in the DR?
Fathers Day ! That's because they have no clue as to who daddy is!

Alias talks about doing some "really sick shit".

Well nothing I ever came up with to do with a chica ever raised her eyebrows but some of the things they came up with did raise mine.

Just because of who these girls are does not mean you can treat them as non-humans. They are human beings and need to be treated as such. This does not mean because you pay them for some time in the sack that you took them to raise.

Oh and they hate you because you have money. It does not matter where you are from. You have money and they do not. Therefore, they hate you.

I have gone to Boca Chica more times than you guys have fingers and toes. When I went I was an oddity since the place was covered with Italians and Germans. They hated them because they were the most common tourist in the area. Americans were more of a rarity and the vast majority of them stayed at the all inclusive hotels. Therefore, they did not hate me. They loved me. Then bunches of Americans started going and they began to hate Americans.

I also wonder how long DR has been a monger destination. Maybe it's just a job like working at Mickey D's. But what ever the case, Whetherr we are Ameriacns, Germans or Italians, they must be treated with respect. And keep in mind we are guest in their beautiful country.

[Carolinaman]

We all should stop going to the DR because we are just adding to the problem. Yes we are taking advantage of these innocent young women who would not be selling themselves if it were not for us horrible gringos from North America. Yes we must stop at once and these young women would turn themselves back into the great chaste women they are.

Se Vende....this is printed every where. Everything is for sale in the DR and I mean everything. If no more North Americans went there they would still be selling themselves. What is the most confusing day of the year in the DR?
Fathers Day ! That's because they have no clue as to who daddy is!

Alias talks about doing some "really sick shit".

Well nothing I ever came up with to do with a chica ever raised her eyebrows but some of the things they came up with did raise mine.
Just because of who these girls are does not mean you can treat them as non-humans. They are human beings and need to be treated as such. This does not mean because you pay them for some time in the sack that you took them to raise.

Oh and they hate you because you have money. It does not matter where you are from. You have money and they do not. Therefore, they hate you.
I have gone to Boca Chica more times than you guys have fingers and toes. When I went I was an oddity since the place was covered with Italians and Germans. They hated them because they were the most common tourist in the area. Americans were more of a rarity and the vast majority of them stayed at the all inclusive hotels. Therefore, they did not hate me. They loved me. Then bunches of Americans started going and they began to hate Americans.

[Fuddzie]

I know this isn't the only blog for DR mongers online. It appears that chicas can be found without much hunt in nearly any city in the country. I wonder why Sousa is so special? If the foreign monger is afraid of this spot, then go to another. And if many leave, the chicas will follow. Perhaps a new little sea shore village strip with better security.

I'm in the mental health field and I understand all the reasond why these girls and boys give themselves. Where ever you are from in the world, the reasons are less than joyful indeed. We do take advantage of their situations and sadly, we come with our own sad situations to travel for sex without emotional attachment...just like the girls and boys.

But you know, it's always been this way for thousands of years and appearently albeit sad, agreeable exchange.

[DeepMmpactt]

I live since 15 years in Sosua. And everything is sound and save.

Stop writing all this BS.compare to New York Sosua is a save place

I agree with you, I have been to New York. Harlem, Queens, Manhattan. Etc. You step into the wrong neighborhood at the wrong time and youd wish you gone to Sosua, hell Los Angeles aint no joke. The point is to be aware. And not naive, of your surroundings. Hey Bob. It seems like you are hell bent. On proving that Sosua is a dangerous place. Okay! We get the point! Its one thing, writing on how you need to be cautious. But it seems "the skyy is falling". When it come to you. I've been to Sosua, I am cautious of my surroundings as of any other place, either Domincan Republic or here in Portland, Or. Trouble is trouble no matter where you go. But I won't go as far as to say Sosua is safe and sound. That would be naive on my part.

[Twice Divorced]

If you were to get out of So-sewer, the puta capital of the DR, you will find that the DR is a beautiful country NOT dependant upon prostitution. The gringo and his cash is a hard find other than in puta city. So don't think for one second the DR would collapse without the monger's cash. To you and other mongers don't ever think the entire country is like Sosua. Go to SD, Jarabacoa, Santiago, Juan Dolio, and see how much sex you can get with your cash. These chicas won't as much give a gringo the time of day. Matter of fact you can visit the campo or the barrios and you will find prostitution is not the main cash flow buisness of the DR.

Yes, the cabanas are used primarily for Dominicanos and their novias.

I'm not sure how it is that you misinterpreted my comments as meaning that prostitution is the only "industry" in the country, but you need to re-read my comments again and take them in the vein in which they were meant. Since the OP regarding the topic was mongering related, my comments were limited only to that. It had nothing to do with the country being dependent on it. My ultimate point was that prostitution in the DR exists outside of that which serves the foreigner, hence the comment about the many cabanas that exist in the country. True, to some degree they exist for the "dominicanos and their 'novias'", just make sure you don't tell the Dominicano's wife about it, and certainly don't confront him when he's leaving Illusions or Passions with his "novia" on the way to one of them cabanas. If your point was to give the impression that those cabanas are used solely for "legitimate" relationships, I don't buy it for a second. The average Dominican cannot afford the cost of a room to go fuck his "girlfriend". However, the more affluent Dominican can certainly afford to sneak off with his hooker, I mean, his "novia".

BTW, I have been outside of Sosua. In fact, I rarely go to Sosua and prefer to stop in only on occasion. I have been to all of the places you've listed , with the exception of Juan Dolio (haven't heard enough to make me want to go), and I've had pussy in every one of them. True, the campos and barrios are not prostitution dependent because there aren't enough mongers who will venture into them to make them so. However, read some of the TR's on other sites where mongers did take the gamble and went into these areas. They certainly didn't seem to have much of a problem engaging the local chicas, for a price, of course. HeHeHe

My tie to the DR goes well beyond mongering and I tend to associate mostly with Dominicans when I am there, which is about 6 months out of the year. Are you sure you're as in tune with the place as you seem to believe you are?

[Reconnoiter]

BTW, your original post is starting to look very suspect. I am beginning to believe you are a "wolf in sheep's clothing" and are actually an operative of Code Pink. I've only been on this board for a year but never have I come across someone so "excited" about the word "exploitation." I mean damn, you used the word at least 3 times...

I'm just going to head off this creep with the handle "Alias" which is some sort of jedi mind trick alias/handle that we can't see through. What he'll say next, I promise, is that we're all exploitators afraid of the word "exploitation."

Personally I feel exploited when I'm talking to a woman in a nightclub and it becomes apparent that she needs me to buy her a drink to continue the conversation. Or when I meet a pretty woman and I'd like to spend more time getting to know her and she insists (along with our oppressive society) that I have to pay (for a meal, or concert tickets, or a house and two cars) for her to keep me company.

And nothing on the face of the earth can be more exploitative than a strip club -- calculate your net worth before you enter one and recalculate when you leave. Has it ever gone up? I didn't ask to have these needs, they came in with puberty, but yet I am exploited for these natural needs.

What's funny is if an older woman does something to make herself feel young again like get plastic surgery -- you ever see the way it's treated if it doesn't work out. She's a victim of some company or surgeon. But if a man does something similar he's an exploiter.

If you get married and the wife stays home full-time while you are the breadwinner -- you exploited her. If she works and you stay home full-time while she is the breadwinner -- you're exploiting her. If you both work and earn the bread -- you're exploiting her (she has add'l burdens of motherhood and faces sexism at work).

If you go to a strip-club and spend a weeks worth of salary in a few hours -- you're exploiting her/them. If you have a penis and you woke up this morning and are still breathing, look around to see the nearest woman (even a blood relative) -- guess what, all together now -- you're exploiting her.

Please let's not feed this troll, my excuse is it's Thanksgiving; and everybody gets fed today.