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08-22-19 16:43 #31182
Posts: 1908No Drama, please!
Mongers who show no respect to the locals, will never get respect from the locals, and vice versa.
In my experience, things go badly when a monger (usually inebriated) drama queen, meets a hooker drama queen.
They'll wake up the whole neighborhood!
Most visitors to Sosua manage to get by without endless confrontations with bad hookers and police!
(As usual IMHO and YMMV).
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08-22-19 08:53 #31181
Posts: 1348I realize
That a monger may make himself a target by giving into a chica. That chica can inform other chicas about how they got over on you. I get it. A guy could be targeted. So what's a monger to do? I say get back on your bicycle and be prepared in case it happens again. A guy can always handle things differently. He's not necessarily locked into having only one option for handling trouble.
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08-22-19 08:34 #31180
Posts: 1348You both have valid points.
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Xpartan [View Original Post]
The way some guys deal with it, is by cutting their losses rather than extend the drama only to end up feeling more miserable after the encounter. Cutting ones losses early is not always about avoiding an encounter with police, but about peace of mind. Whatever works to get rid of a troublesome chica quickly, sometimes that's the best course to take. Much easier to put that encounter behind you and move on. If he gives in, he can chock it up as part of the cost one may endure in the p4 p game. He just made an extra donation.
As I said before, a guy has to discern the situation in front of him. I dont advocate automatically giving into a chica just because she's challenging you. But sometimes you have to use Travel Wisdom instead of sticking to a principle. It's like Lets Make A Deal. You have to make a decision based on the unknown. You have to weigh the potentials. If getting rid of a chick costs 500 pesos, as opposed to the possibility of corrupt or opportunistic cops being called to potentially fleece you, the 500 pesos is the better option. When a guy is faced with a situation, he shouldn't be concerned about how giving in is going to reinforce chicas trying to bamboozle mongers. He should be concerned about mitigating the problem by doing what he deems best in the moment. Calling some chicas bluff just might be the initial and satisfactory course of action. It's up to the individual to figure that out.
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08-22-19 06:35 #31179
Posts: 1348Originally Posted by OldKool [View Original Post]
My very 1st encounter with police was in 2008. I was driving a rental with my Dominican / American GF and a car full of people. I drove right towards a police checkpoint and rolled down my window. As soon as I opened my mouth and spoke in English the officer waved me on. Fast forward to 2016, I was driving my personal SUV and an AMET officer in Jarabacoa waved for me to pull over. I rolled down my window and spoke to her in English. She looked at me as if to say, I don't want no part of you, I won't be able to understand a word you say. She waved me on.
I got stopped by cops a few times in Sosua looking for a propina. I can think of a dozen or more encounters, all minor situations that had nothing to do with anything I did wrong. It was just cops being cops. In all my encounters they were mutually respectful and no drama. In most cases if you arent doing anything wrong or illegal you don't have to worry about being fucked up, just because you have a police encounter. As for the few that you saw get fucked up? They only represent themselves not anybody else, they dealt with the consequences accordingly. So do the folks who have had numerous encounters with police with no negative consequences or bad incidents, is that something to be proud of?
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08-22-19 05:52 #31178
Posts: 1348Fair assessment!
Originally Posted by Xpartan [View Original Post]
But for some reason it seems there are certain guys who need the game to adjust to their sensitivities and budget. They are easily turned off by chicas demanding "too much" and acting like they are in control of the situation. So for them, Sosua has become a shithole. But guess what? The DR like many other destinations, negotiating is part of the culture / system. So if a person is easily turned off or insulted because most chicks he runs into asks for too much, then that is a problem he has to deal with. Not that Sosua let him down.
I have heard enough reports of guys here and in person, that negotiated with a chica, where the price started off at some ridiculous amount, and they both agreed on something considerably lower. Like I said, enough guys are turned off by that. Their vibe for the chica is shot. Their vibe for the whole scene is shot. A few bad apples on a particular vacation, and everything about Sosua is fucked up. Meanwhile the reports from guys who thoroughly enjoyed themselves on their vacation, that is never considered. Like the fat girl out with her friends who never got to dance at the club like her girlfriends. The fat girl will say the club is fucked up just because she didn't have a good time. Meanwhile her GF's are willing to go again. A lot depends on the individual and timing, not necessarily the location or venue.
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08-22-19 05:07 #31177
Posts: 272I learned to pound the pavement looking for pussy during my Cuba years but the Sosua girls are all herded into the bars by police so no stragglers on the streets.
I eventually went to Classicos and would pull a few girls out for a interview at small street café before bringing her to my room.
A lot of the club girls are headaches so make sure you read them the riot act before taking them home.
There are some good deals for food. The German restaurant on the highway has all you can eat buffet on Thursday - 400 pesos. Food was excellent.
There's a little restaurant across from New Garden and they have Taco Tuesday which was excellent -- 50 pesos each.
I also liked the inexpensive Dominican food served at Ricky's Fried Chicken.
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08-22-19 04:30 #31176
Posts: 1973Don't feel that Sosua is expensive
Of course, compared to what? Manila? Then maybe.
Let's see. A budget yet still decent apartment is $25-30. An upscale condo or good hotel room $60-80. Villa or ocean view condo $90+.
Food is very cheap, IMHO. $15 for lunch, $20-25 for dinner with a couple beers. 35-40 in an upscale with a few drinks.
Pussy: $40-50ST, never had LT.
I didn't find it expensive at all.
The next mongering destination in this hemisphere with a beach (albeit shitty) is Cartagena, and it's substantially more. $70ST is not a small change. Higher cost of food, too. Of course, Medellin or Bogota would be dirt cheap compared to that if the beach is not important.
Sosua can still be a cheap paradise with a right chica, IMHO.
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08-22-19 02:31 #31175
Posts: 1348Originally Posted by Adinga [View Original Post]
Granted when a guy is on a short vacation, he is expected to over indulge mainly because he is on a fixed schedule. But even for a 10 day to 2 week trip, a guy does not have to fuck or drink every single day / night. So if he budgets for a chica everyday, but he doesn't fuck everyday, he is saving money. If he drinks less, he is saving money. He has just made his trip a little cheaper. More than enough guys on vacation have told me that they don't fuck everyday like they used to. That they like the idea of keeping their money in their pocket rather than giving it to some chick, especially when they arent that desperate to get laid. In essence there are things any monger can do to make his trip cheaper. You can't lose (money), when you don't play.
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08-22-19 02:01 #31174
Posts: 1348Not a great trip? Would you accept an average trip?
Originally Posted by Adinga [View Original Post]
Or she travels to where he is and stays with him. I have seen women (even with suitcases) get off the bus or pull up in a taxi or moto in Sosua, ready to stay with a guy. Women that nobody has ever seen in Sosua before. So my point is, Sosua may be dead for enough casual mongers who are hoping that their needs will be met by what Sosua has to offer on their particular trip.
Others will have adapted to not relying on what the streets / clubs and beaches have to offer in terms of women. Instead they will enjoy Sosua for it's other benefits, and secure their female company from established contacts or some other form.
As far as Sosua no longer being a cheap vacation destination? Thats a yes and a no, and a it depends on who it applies to. A lot depends on who is making the assessment. More accurately. Sosua is no longer a cheap vacation destination to whom it applies to. Not everybody may feel that way. An appropriate question to ask is, is Sosua still an affordable vacation destination? Not whether it is cheap or not. I live in Sosua, and as far as I'm concerned, I think Sosua is very affordable. I have a roster of regulars that I do TLN's with. Used to give them 2200 pesos, now I give them 3000. Been doing that for a while. I think 3000 for TLN is an affordable deal. Not cheap, but affordable. Mind you, I always established regulars way before I started living in Sosua. So personally I don't have a lot to complain about, even though the scene on the street has evolved. I don't look exclusively for my talent from the streets, clubs or beaches. Sometimes a situation just falls in my lap.
In the HBO TV show THE WIRE, Marla Daniels said to her (police LT.) husband at dinner: "The game is rigged. But you can't lose, if you don't play" You won't have a bad or disappointing trip, if you never come to Sosua to play. On the other hand, for the daring, the creative, the ones who see opportunity and the glass half full, their experience and circumstances in Sosua may differ significantly. Sosua is not responsible for adapting to our budgets. We have to take some responsibility on what our finances can adapt to or tolerate. Where in the world are the cheap destinations for mongers?
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08-22-19 00:41 #31173
Posts: 15970Originally Posted by OldKool [View Original Post]
Everyone that drives rental cars in DR know that the cops look for that in order to pull you over in hopes of scaring you into giving them money. My brain is bigger than my balls because I understand that this is going to happen as part of driving there and I do not give in to it. It is simply a scare tactic.
I understand this the same that you should understand 90% of those Sosua hoes are going to try to pull some bullshit on you including stealing your shit and promising services they have no no intention on delivering, but still insisting to be paid the agreed upon amount. Obviously it works on enough people because both groups keep trying the same scams over and over again.
If it really was not worth the trouble then you would stop fucking with them Sosua hoes. People (you included) have reported time and time again the games that have been played by those broads that are not played other places, yet you keep going back for more. So it must really be worth the trouble (for you at least).
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08-21-19 22:27 #31172
Posts: 3114Not worth the trouble
Mr E s 20 encounters with police is not something to be proud of. I have been going to DR for 9 years and zero police encounters. I have seen a few people get fucked up because their balls were bigger then their brains. Corrupt people with gun can be dangerous and not to be played. A smart ass tourist makes great target. Never forget you are in some one elses country.
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08-21-19 17:35 #31171
Posts: 1973You have to choose your battles
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
But let's think about it some more.
Let's say she does call the cops in the middle of the night. Then what happens?
A lawyer? Fine. Will he cost me less than 2 K Pesos?
What if she cries [CodeWord123]? What if she's in cahoots with the cops (takes just one bad cop to run an extortion scam on a gringo)?
But let's say things work out great, and the cops laugh at the stupid ***** and leave. The condo I was staying at has an eviction clause if the cops are called for any reason. I can't blame them, really.
You can counter that I can stay at a hotel instead. But I don't want to. I love to spread out, LOL.
I mean, you can stick to your principles, but it's $40 we're talking about. I'm on a 5-day outing, do I really need the aggravation?
This is strictly theoretical, of course. No one has tried to get me pay upfront in Sosua yet, but dreadful service. Sure.
Once in Rio, a GDP demands to be paid right after she got to my apartment. I say no. She insists. I say, I'll put the money on the table, and you get it after we're done. She says no, give me the cash now. I say go to hell. She threatens to call the cops. I say here, use my phone.
She says OK, let's fuck. I say no, you've broken my Junior. That cracked her up. Surprisingly, we had a good session afterwards.
In Pattaya, a girl promises 2 hours with 2 shots, tries to leave after 40 minutes. I give her 50%. She starts crying and cursing, I kick her out, she keeps banging on the door. I call security. The end.
My RTFF tells me things are different in Sosua. Like you yourself said, Sosua is the only place in the world it's happened to you.
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08-21-19 14:17 #31170
Posts: 15970Originally Posted by Xpartan [View Original Post]
In a case that you are describing the only word you need to know is embajada. I am sure you have seen shows where a person gets taken in by police and the only word the person will say if they are smart is lawyer. Well, if the police come to you in DR, all you need to say is embajada.
Of all the hookers on this planet that have threatened to call the cops on me, the only one that actually did it was in Sosua and that did not work out well for her. As many Dominican cops (at least 20) have pulled me over trying to get money from me, I have given exactly 0 pesos to date and have never been ticketed or taken to jail.
Don't just sit around and allow yourself to be extorted if you know you have done nothing wrong. Hustlers are depending on you to be scared. That is the only way the hustle will work. Scared money can't win.
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08-21-19 08:02 #31169
Posts: 1348I hear you!
Originally Posted by Xpartan [View Original Post]
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08-21-19 07:18 #31168
Posts: 1348Originally Posted by Xpartan [View Original Post]
Moreover, the exchange guy in the back of the plaza where the Altice cellular store is, you don't need any documents at all. Just the money. A little side tip. I don't know about all places, but this same exchange guy will cash a personal check if you present your original passport. Now the rate is not as good as exchanging cash, but the benefit is being able to get your hands on some money in an emergency. I found this out on a visit several yrs ago, seeing a guy get money using a personal check and his foreign passport. Much later, I did the same thing. Brought a personal check for 1500 USD, and my original passport. The exchange rate might have been a few points lower than the cash rate, but the main thing is, it was another option.
Mind you, that was 3 or 4 yrs ago. So I don't exactly know if their policy about personal checks has changed.