Sosua Reports

[SubCmdr]

Nobody is telling you what to do! We are happy you are happy!

We are just trying to keep up with you. First you are getting pussy for free, then Sosua is finito and we all should all move on, you'd never go to Sosua unless you are forced, now it seems you are happy buying pussy in Sosua again.

Just keep in touch y,all!..

Damn straight Mr. Oakie! And all the while not a damn word actually deals with "sharing information on having sex with women. " From what I have read he is not the only poster not sharing any useful information on having sex with women in th Sosua Reports forum. (Professor WRX comes to mind).

[SubCmdr]

Ok next time I'll address the head inside of your pants.

No thanks! I got plenty of lovely chicas to do that. Didn't know you rolled like that my man. But to each his own.

[Oakie]

What a big wrong assumption that is. Some days I like to cook at home and others I like to eat out. Some days I like a big juicy porterhouse and some days I like a hot dog and fries. Some days I like to drive my car and others I like being on my motorcycle. Some days I like a thick amazon chick and other days I like a skinny minnie. Some days I like a white chick. Some days I like a dark chick. Some days I like to fuck with nonpros and some days I like to fuck with hookers. It is ridiculous to assert that someone must be relegated to one or the other. If it is so obvious to you that something is missing from free chicks you should have no problem saying what that something is. It sounds like woman talk to me. Taking stabs in the dark trying to make something wrong when there is nothing wrong.

Nobody is telling you what to do! We are happy you are happy!

We are just trying to keep up with you. First you are getting pussy for free, then Sosua is finito and we all should all move on, you'd never go to Sosua unless you are forced, now it seems you are happy buying pussy in Sosua again.

Just keep in touch y,all!

[Mr Enternational]

The guys that come here, including you, are obviously missing something that they are not getting for free, that's why they are here.

What a big wrong assumption that is. Some days I like to cook at home and others I like to eat out. Some days I like a big juicy porterhouse and some days I like a hot dog and fries. Some days I like to drive my car and others I like being on my motorcycle. Some days I like a thick amazon chick and other days I like a skinny minnie. Some days I like a white chick. Some days I like a dark chick. Some days I like to fuck with nonpros and some days I like to fuck with hookers. It is ridiculous to assert that someone must be relegated to one or the other. If it is so obvious to you that something is missing from free chicks you should have no problem saying what that something is. It sounds like woman talk to me. Taking stabs in the dark trying to make something wrong when there is nothing wrong.

[Oakie]

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

Their skepticism is understandable, as this forum is basically about sharing info on mongering, not the art of seduction. LOL.

The guys that come here, including you, are obviously missing something that they are not getting for free, that's why they are here.

Now you might be the kind of guy that read playboy for Hugh Heffner's articles on his "philosophy", but most were more interested in "paying tribute" to Barbie Benton.

[Wrx2005]

you really haven't provided me with any useful information.

Understood. Ok next time I'll address the head inside of your pants instead of the one connected to your neck.

[Oakie]

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

True! It's life, Mr. E.

Some folks come back from the dance unsatisfied, while others have more action than they can handle. Winners and losers!

Life is not fair, but you can increase the odds by listening to the advice of winners, rather than losers!

Of course, like with politicians, don't listen to what they say, watch what they do! There are many ways to spot a phony, even if you've never met them!

[Mr Enternational]

The problem with y'all is that you all want to quantify everybody's personal experience to make it align with your own.

Still comes all back to: one size doesn't fit all, and YMMV.

Just share!

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

[Manizales911]

Actually, I've had many very fine experiences with paid pussy. But not with free pussy. You DO get what you pay for. If you don't pay money, you will pay for it in aggravation over time. I prefer to pay money.

I didn't mean to suggest that free pussy costs more MONEY over the long haul. But it will cost you more in terms of having to put up with crap. The best thing about paying for it is knowing that you can walk away at any time and it's done. Not so easy with freebies. Often, you give you your freedom to obtain free pussy. My freedom is priceless, and giving that up is quite a bit more costly to me than mere money.

I agree 10000%. I paid dearly for "free" pussy in my life and now I just pay a few bucks and get better sex and with my favoritas a great day and night of partying and fucking.

[Oakie]

There is no need to complicate matters. What I took from the original post was that sex that is free is usually within the context of a (so-called romantic) relationship where sex is not explicitly paid for, but the long term cost after the sexual relationship is over may be much higher, especially if things like child support are involved, having to sell a jointly owned home and / or vehicles, give up part of a pension, and so on. The poster was clearly not referring to free sex donated by generous hookers, even though in the DR it is often possible to get a lap dance as a free sample, whereas in the US people actually pay for lap dances--or so I have heard.

The problem with y'all is that you all want to quantify everybody's personal experience to make it align with your own. It's a circular argument that goes on forever and resolves nothing.

The reasons people need to do that I will leave to professional psychologists. (not the cheap amateur imposters that populate this forum).

There are so many variables to the actual cost of any commodity that it can only make sense to the individual and his individual means and personal desires. Some would rather drive a BMW and cut down on steak and alcohol, while some love to party and are happy to take the subway. It's all relative.

DR pussy is not cheap, if I'm sitting in the middle of Canada.

As for pay vs free, there are so many variables.

With a wife or GF, you can pay with money, your emotions, your time, your health, your sanity, your safety, your wealth, even your career.

With a puta you can pay by the pop, the hour, the time of day or night, or like some of us spend time with ladies who have no meter running at all but expect a reasonable reward, based on past expectations.

All you can do is relate your own experience.

I don't take issue with folks unless they question my own way to enjoy my life. (or in rare cases remind them of previous inconsistent positions they have taken while lecturing me).

Still comes all back to: one size doesn't fit all, and YMMV.

Just share!

[Frannie]

But you are making an assumption that everyone ("any reasonable mind") would make the same deduction as you did. I didn't make that deduction. Do I have a reasonable mind? Or is your statement incorrect? (I'll leave that as a exercise for the reader but feel free to weigh in on the subject).

There is no need to complicate matters. What I took from the original post was that sex that is free is usually within the context of a (so-called romantic) relationship where sex is not explicitly paid for, but the long term cost after the sexual relationship is over may be much higher, especially if things like child support are involved, having to sell a jointly owned home and / or vehicles, give up part of a pension, and so on. The poster was clearly not referring to free sex donated by generous hookers, even though in the DR it is often possible to get a lap dance as a free sample, whereas in the US people actually pay for lap dances--or so I have heard.

[Oakie]

However it is in the tone of his post when he indicates that free has always cost him more and gives the reader advice to pay up front for a cheaper rate. Therefore any reasonable mind will deduce that he sees getting free as a worse experience from a financial standpoint than tricking because it ALWAYS costs him more. Something does not always have to be explicitly said for someone to get the idea. See Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio. "I know it when I see it. ".

I gave you a lot of credit for questioning my reference to mongers here, as "normal average folks".

Yet above you appeal to these same people, as folks with "reasonable minds" to back up your opinions?

Aren't you forgetting we are all dysfunctional, third world poverty exploiting, adulterous, cheating, sexual addicts who spend thousand of dollars and travel thousands of miles, to pay for, on average, a 20 minute fuck with some poor hungry chica?

[SubCmdr]

However it is in the tone of his post when he indicates that free has always cost him more and gives the reader advice to pay up front for a cheaper rate. Therefore any reasonable mind will deduce that he sees getting free as a worse experience from a financial standpoint than tricking because it ALWAYS costs him more. Something does not always have to be explicitly said for someone to get the idea. See Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio. "I know it when I see it. ".

But you are making an assumption that everyone ("any reasonable mind") would make the same deduction as you did. I didn't make that deduction. Do I have a reasonable mind? Or is your statement incorrect? (I'll leave that as a exercise for the reader but feel free to weigh in on the subject).

Also your analogy is incorrect. You said: "Something does not always have to be explicitly said for someone to get the idea". Then you quote the sentence from Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart's threshold test for obscenity. The phrase "I know it when I see it" according to Wikipedia: "Is a colloquial expression by which a speaker attempts to categorize an observable fact or event, although the category is subjective or lacks clearly defined parameters". The writer stated an opinion not a fact. And it was not a observable event. It can be argued that you are using a statement that deals with visual references which is not applicable in this instance. We are dealing with an entirely different idea. This "tone" of the written word of the writers post that you speak of is not same as a visual reference and therefore cannot be "seen" only interpreted. Furthermore, things need be explicitly said in order for everyone to get the same idea.

When you are finished trying to impress me and others with your knowledge of things completely unrelated to pussy, note that I'm still waiting for the exchange of information on having sex with women that you posted about. And if you could give me some insights on how to get free pussy in Sosua while you were at it that would be even better.

Here are my Sosua Mongering Suggestions:

1. Find a ho. 2. Fuck a ho. 3. Pay a ho.

In Sosua if you state explicitly the services that you want you are more likely (but not necessarily so) to receive them. The problem is similar to a purchasing any service, you order the service, you receive the service and pay for the service. But you may or may not be happy with the quality of the service. In an area as personal as sex, I would think the ho's are in an impossible situation when it comes to pleasing everyone and meeting individual quality standards for sexual experiences. Hell, even the quality of sex with my regulars vary depending upon their mood and mine also. If you don't like the price the ho wants to charge you for the services you wish to receive. Move on. If you ask for a specific service and she refuses tell her to put her clothes back on and get out. And if the service you receive is not good then don't repeat (but don't forget to moan and complain about it here).

I've always liked the idea that you don't pay for sex, you pay a ho to leave. Free pussy is often defined as "not paying money". In my country of origin you don't pay for jail or prison time. You receive free housing and free food. Remind you of anything. LOL!

[Oakie]

Actually, I've had many very fine experiences with paid pussy. But not with free pussy. You DO get what you pay for. If you don't pay money, you will pay for it in aggravation over time. I prefer to pay money.

I didn't mean to suggest that free pussy costs more MONEY over the long haul. But it will cost you more in terms of having to put up with crap. The best thing about paying for it is knowing that you can walk away at any time and it's done. Not so easy with freebies. Often, you give you your freedom to obtain free pussy. My freedom is priceless, and giving that up is quite a bit more costly to me than mere money.

Absolutely agree.

I have 3 or 4 attractive women at home in my life who are interested in some kind of relationship. These are women I've encouraged. But if they come over for the day, night or weekend, I'm always happy when they're gone so I can get back to my own selfish lifestyle, which I feel I have earned by working hard and raising a family. When they call or text, I'm flattered but sometimes just don't want to answer the phone.

It's an age thing for me. These women need and deserve more from me than I am willing to give.

It's Saturday morning now and I have 3 calls to return. That's work for me. I don't like to work to a calendar on my weekends. I have enough commitments to existing family anyway.

[Member #2041]

You must have had some pretty bad experiences if that is the case. Remember YMMV. I guess you have been getting some shitty mileage. And what happened to you get what you pay for? Are you telling us that our main metric in getting pussy should be to cheap out? I guess everything ain't for everybody.

Actually, I've had many very fine experiences with paid pussy. But not with free pussy. You DO get what you pay for. If you don't pay money, you will pay for it in aggravation over time. I prefer to pay money.

I didn't mean to suggest that free pussy costs more MONEY over the long haul. But it will cost you more in terms of having to put up with crap. The best thing about paying for it is knowing that you can walk away at any time and it's done. Not so easy with freebies. Often, you give you your freedom to obtain free pussy. My freedom is priceless, and giving that up is quite a bit more costly to me than mere money.