Sosua Reports

[SubCmdr]

I don't think comparing relationship sex to sex with prostitutes on a qualitative level is possible.

For me they have been / are very different qualitative experiences. For me, when judging my sexual experiences on a qualitative basis, sex with a prostitute has on average never been better than sex that I've had within a relationship. I understand that my opinion may be a unique one. It represents my biases, personal preferences and paradigm that I bring to the table when filing the after action report and conducting the debriefing. But that does not mean that I haven't had some excellent sexual experiences with prostitutes that, on a qualitative basis, was sexually satisfying also. It's just not possible for me to compare them. Because in my mind (which one is exercise left to the reader) they are very different types of experiences.

If had to grade the sex on a strict quantitative basis, I'm not entirely certain that relationship sex was / is more expensive than sex with prostitutes on a cost per orgasm basis, especially if my experiences and data was sorted by country where the action took place. This is because the Dominican Republic has some unique characteristics that allow you to have an ongoing sexual relationship (if you live here) for well within the costs (on a per orgasm basis) that others spend having sex with prostitutes on an ad hoc manner. Let me rephrase that for the inevitable critics that will read and comment. This is because the Dominican Republic has some unique characteristics that allow me to have an ongoing sexual relationship (since I live here) for well within the costs (on a per orgasm basis) that I have spent having sex with prostitutes on an ad hoc manner.

Are you happy now? LOL!

[SubCmdr]

There is no need to complicate matters. What I took from the original post was that sex that is free is usually within the context of a (so-called romantic) relationship where sex is not explicitly paid for, but the long term cost after the sexual relationship is over may be much higher, especially if things like child support are involved, having to sell a jointly owned home and / or vehicles, give up part of a pension, and so on. The poster was clearly not referring to free sex donated by generous hookers, even though in the DR it is often possible to get a lap dance as a free sample, whereas in the US people actually pay for lap dances--or so I have heard.

Nothing complicated about establishing a set standard and placing a quantitative value on sex. That would allow all sex to be measured on a set scale.

Because the possibility exists that "free sex" that happens (using your definition) or because one "has game" or one just "gets lucky" may not cost anything close to what it costs to pay a prostitute for sex (even for a short time). One has to keep the situations and the context in mind.

I would assert that the cost of a long term relationship involving "free sex" would cost you a lot less within the DR than the same relationship would cost in my country of origin.

[SubCmdr]

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

I haven't seen one post that says you are lying on your dick.

Although I don't find stories about your personal desires and exploits to be interesting or useful within the Sosua Reports forum, I'm sure others do. What I would find useful is a report that details or explains how you do what you do. I'd consider that a useful "exchange of information about having sex with women".

Staying with your analogy and writing style, in an informal conversation among friends, I'd tell you that I actually don't give a fuck about the type of car you use, tell me how you got the mileage you are claiming to get!

[SubCmdr]

Nobody is telling you what to do! We are happy you are happy!

We are just trying to keep up with you. First you are getting pussy for free, then Sosua is finito and we all should all move on, you'd never go to Sosua unless you are forced, now it seems you are happy buying pussy in Sosua again.

Just keep in touch y,all!..

Damn straight Mr. Oakie! And all the while not a damn word actually deals with "sharing information on having sex with women. " From what I have read he is not the only poster not sharing any useful information on having sex with women in th Sosua Reports forum. (Professor WRX comes to mind).

[SubCmdr]

Ok next time I'll address the head inside of your pants.

No thanks! I got plenty of lovely chicas to do that. Didn't know you rolled like that my man. But to each his own.

[Oakie]

What a big wrong assumption that is. Some days I like to cook at home and others I like to eat out. Some days I like a big juicy porterhouse and some days I like a hot dog and fries. Some days I like to drive my car and others I like being on my motorcycle. Some days I like a thick amazon chick and other days I like a skinny minnie. Some days I like a white chick. Some days I like a dark chick. Some days I like to fuck with nonpros and some days I like to fuck with hookers. It is ridiculous to assert that someone must be relegated to one or the other. If it is so obvious to you that something is missing from free chicks you should have no problem saying what that something is. It sounds like woman talk to me. Taking stabs in the dark trying to make something wrong when there is nothing wrong.

Nobody is telling you what to do! We are happy you are happy!

We are just trying to keep up with you. First you are getting pussy for free, then Sosua is finito and we all should all move on, you'd never go to Sosua unless you are forced, now it seems you are happy buying pussy in Sosua again.

Just keep in touch y,all!

[Mr Enternational]

The guys that come here, including you, are obviously missing something that they are not getting for free, that's why they are here.

What a big wrong assumption that is. Some days I like to cook at home and others I like to eat out. Some days I like a big juicy porterhouse and some days I like a hot dog and fries. Some days I like to drive my car and others I like being on my motorcycle. Some days I like a thick amazon chick and other days I like a skinny minnie. Some days I like a white chick. Some days I like a dark chick. Some days I like to fuck with nonpros and some days I like to fuck with hookers. It is ridiculous to assert that someone must be relegated to one or the other. If it is so obvious to you that something is missing from free chicks you should have no problem saying what that something is. It sounds like woman talk to me. Taking stabs in the dark trying to make something wrong when there is nothing wrong.

[Oakie]

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

Their skepticism is understandable, as this forum is basically about sharing info on mongering, not the art of seduction. LOL.

The guys that come here, including you, are obviously missing something that they are not getting for free, that's why they are here.

Now you might be the kind of guy that read playboy for Hugh Heffner's articles on his "philosophy", but most were more interested in "paying tribute" to Barbie Benton.

[Wrx2005]

you really haven't provided me with any useful information.

Understood. Ok next time I'll address the head inside of your pants instead of the one connected to your neck.

[Oakie]

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

True! It's life, Mr. E.

Some folks come back from the dance unsatisfied, while others have more action than they can handle. Winners and losers!

Life is not fair, but you can increase the odds by listening to the advice of winners, rather than losers!

Of course, like with politicians, don't listen to what they say, watch what they do! There are many ways to spot a phony, even if you've never met them!

[Mr Enternational]

The problem with y'all is that you all want to quantify everybody's personal experience to make it align with your own.

Still comes all back to: one size doesn't fit all, and YMMV.

Just share!

This is the exact reason why I am tickled when people on this board say that I am living in a fantasyland and it is not possible to have done something that way or the other. Just because you do not get the same mileage as the next guy, there is no reason to assert that his car is not real.

[Manizales911]

Actually, I've had many very fine experiences with paid pussy. But not with free pussy. You DO get what you pay for. If you don't pay money, you will pay for it in aggravation over time. I prefer to pay money.

I didn't mean to suggest that free pussy costs more MONEY over the long haul. But it will cost you more in terms of having to put up with crap. The best thing about paying for it is knowing that you can walk away at any time and it's done. Not so easy with freebies. Often, you give you your freedom to obtain free pussy. My freedom is priceless, and giving that up is quite a bit more costly to me than mere money.

I agree 10000%. I paid dearly for "free" pussy in my life and now I just pay a few bucks and get better sex and with my favoritas a great day and night of partying and fucking.

[Oakie]

There is no need to complicate matters. What I took from the original post was that sex that is free is usually within the context of a (so-called romantic) relationship where sex is not explicitly paid for, but the long term cost after the sexual relationship is over may be much higher, especially if things like child support are involved, having to sell a jointly owned home and / or vehicles, give up part of a pension, and so on. The poster was clearly not referring to free sex donated by generous hookers, even though in the DR it is often possible to get a lap dance as a free sample, whereas in the US people actually pay for lap dances--or so I have heard.

The problem with y'all is that you all want to quantify everybody's personal experience to make it align with your own. It's a circular argument that goes on forever and resolves nothing.

The reasons people need to do that I will leave to professional psychologists. (not the cheap amateur imposters that populate this forum).

There are so many variables to the actual cost of any commodity that it can only make sense to the individual and his individual means and personal desires. Some would rather drive a BMW and cut down on steak and alcohol, while some love to party and are happy to take the subway. It's all relative.

DR pussy is not cheap, if I'm sitting in the middle of Canada.

As for pay vs free, there are so many variables.

With a wife or GF, you can pay with money, your emotions, your time, your health, your sanity, your safety, your wealth, even your career.

With a puta you can pay by the pop, the hour, the time of day or night, or like some of us spend time with ladies who have no meter running at all but expect a reasonable reward, based on past expectations.

All you can do is relate your own experience.

I don't take issue with folks unless they question my own way to enjoy my life. (or in rare cases remind them of previous inconsistent positions they have taken while lecturing me).

Still comes all back to: one size doesn't fit all, and YMMV.

Just share!

[Frannie]

But you are making an assumption that everyone ("any reasonable mind") would make the same deduction as you did. I didn't make that deduction. Do I have a reasonable mind? Or is your statement incorrect? (I'll leave that as a exercise for the reader but feel free to weigh in on the subject).

There is no need to complicate matters. What I took from the original post was that sex that is free is usually within the context of a (so-called romantic) relationship where sex is not explicitly paid for, but the long term cost after the sexual relationship is over may be much higher, especially if things like child support are involved, having to sell a jointly owned home and / or vehicles, give up part of a pension, and so on. The poster was clearly not referring to free sex donated by generous hookers, even though in the DR it is often possible to get a lap dance as a free sample, whereas in the US people actually pay for lap dances--or so I have heard.

[Oakie]

However it is in the tone of his post when he indicates that free has always cost him more and gives the reader advice to pay up front for a cheaper rate. Therefore any reasonable mind will deduce that he sees getting free as a worse experience from a financial standpoint than tricking because it ALWAYS costs him more. Something does not always have to be explicitly said for someone to get the idea. See Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart in Jacobellis v. Ohio. "I know it when I see it. ".

I gave you a lot of credit for questioning my reference to mongers here, as "normal average folks".

Yet above you appeal to these same people, as folks with "reasonable minds" to back up your opinions?

Aren't you forgetting we are all dysfunctional, third world poverty exploiting, adulterous, cheating, sexual addicts who spend thousand of dollars and travel thousands of miles, to pay for, on average, a 20 minute fuck with some poor hungry chica?