Sosua Reports

[Oakie]

Camaro 1257.

Yes, this seems like a decent strategy, although by the very act of taking her out of D'Latinos you are making some commitment of time and resources to her, but not irrevocably, which is good. I think that after a little while it can be a good idea to talk dirty for a bit. Ask her something like,"If you come to the room with me, what can you do to make me happy?" If her response sounds good, then respond by telling her that you have a girlfriend back home, so you cannot cheat. If the chica is any good at all she will start telling you all the reasons why you should cheat, and this can be turned into a bit of a flirtation and make you co-conspirators in cheating the (possibly nonexistent) girl back home. At any rate you should be able to establish if your chica has a good sense of humor and a lusty outlook and hopefully whether she will be sexually responsive to you.

Of course you can replace my script with one of your own. You can also teach yourself Spanish by prehearsing the lines you will use in Spanish via Google Translateto make yourself sound more fluent, and of course the same lines can be recycled for different chicas.

My strategy is somewhat different, but it is very successful for me, and always leads to a more satifying experience.

I hang at two or three bars, where I might have long standing relationships (through my old novia, LP) with the chica bartenders. We discuss family, their latest relationships, pregnancies etc, and talk about what happened to the ones that are no longer there. I've actually been to some of their homes. I'm having a good time and not apparently looking to get laid. This is my base, from which I'm operating.

Usually, there are chicas hanging around who are also friends of theirs, so we have something in common. If I see one that interests me, I'll buy her a beer. Might also buy the bartender a drink at the same time, and by the body language of the bartender, I can tell if she approves my choice and gives the green light. (they have that "look" if you buy the wrong one a drink).

It's not noisy like Rhumba or D'Latin, so you can chat (interview, or audition) at leisure. If she turns your crank on a barstool, she can probably do the same in bed. While this is going on there are others around giving you the sign, so if the present conversation is going nowhere, you can gradually enlarge the circle to bring another one in. At some point I leave the bar once or twice with my tab still running (ATM machine, or across the street if I see an old face, or just for a stroll and a smoke) and this really seems to establish my credit in the eyes of the chicas, and further perks their interest. It also give me a breather to think clearly about my choices.

This may sound too complicated or structured, but in reality it flows naturally and there's no direct propositioning or negotiating until you've found "the one".

You've had a couple of beers, face time with her, she's known to your friends the bartenders, she's given you a hard on already, she's happy to be "chosen", and you're off to the races.

Note, there's no wingman involved, because I mostly travel alone.

[Frannie]

Camaro 1257.

This is the reason learning basic Spanish is an asset to the DR mongering scene. In the case of D Latin's I have received good results interviewing chicas by going to the back enclosed porch area where it is cooler and the noise is not as loud, as well as asking the chica to accompany me either to the Mernegue across the street or the Mamajama Café. This changes the vibe and makes it more like a date experience where you can laugh joke and check her pulse. On one occasion I discovered a chica was sick but still wanted me to take her and another occasion a chica didn't want to talk but wanted to go straight to my hotel room. In both instances I was glad I took the time to interview because I am sure their situations would have reflected in their performance.

Yes, this seems like a decent strategy, although by the very act of taking her out of D'Latinos you are making some commitment of time and resources to her, but not irrevocably, which is good. I think that after a little while it can be a good idea to talk dirty for a bit. Ask her something like,"If you come to the room with me, what can you do to make me happy?" If her response sounds good, then respond by telling her that you have a girlfriend back home, so you cannot cheat. If the chica is any good at all she will start telling you all the reasons why you should cheat, and this can be turned into a bit of a flirtation and make you co-conspirators in cheating the (possibly nonexistent) girl back home. At any rate you should be able to establish if your chica has a good sense of humor and a lusty outlook and hopefully whether she will be sexually responsive to you.

Of course you can replace my script with one of your own. You can also teach yourself Spanish by prehearsing the lines you will use in Spanish via Google Translateto make yourself sound more fluent, and of course the same lines can be recycled for different chicas.

[Tempoecorto]

She could borrow 150, so maybe just a lame excuse unless she was seeking assurance that you will reimburse.

Money is not the issue. She knows that. I told her to borrow when she told me at the last moment. And she knows me for two years. So that is why I gave up trying to figure out.

[Camaro1257]

Yes, good points.

I was in D'Latino last night purely in an observational capacity as I was with a beautiful woman. There were plenty of chicas available. To me it seemed that it would be very difficult to make an informed choice in that place as it is difficult to converse, somewhat dark, difficult to circulate and talk to a lot of people because you need to put your mouth by the person's ear to speak, and many guys who visit don't speak Spanish, or not much, anyway, which makes it hard to read the fundamental character of the girl. The best ones are those that you have some kind of a vibe with, but this may only become apparent in the bedroom. In a crowded noisy place with lots of chicas it is a crapshoot, and maybe a completely random selection will be just on average as good as a carefully chosen target.

This is the reason learning basic Spanish is an asset to the DR mongering scene. In the case of D Latin's I have received good results interviewing chicas by going to the back enclosed porch area where it is cooler and the noise is not as loud, as well as asking the chica to accompany me either to the Mernegue across the street or the Mamajama Café. This changes the vibe and makes it more like a date experience where you can laugh joke and check her pulse. On one occasion I discovered a chica was sick but still wanted me to take her and another occasion a chica didn't want to talk but wanted to go straight to my hotel room. In both instances I was glad I took the time to interview because I am sure their situations would have reflected in their performance.

[Frannie]

At the same time, I kind of am coming to Frannie's conclusion that "quality" sex is intimately connected with feelings. I had a woman who looked away as I was humping her (a first timer and no chemistry) while another one (a second timer but first time I gave her an excellent orgasm without entering her as she was not ready) gave me the time of a night leading to the wee hours.

Yes, good points.

I was in D'Latino last night purely in an observational capacity as I was with a beautiful woman. There were plenty of chicas available. Interestingly a large proportion were actually light skinned, even though we tend to think of Sosua as a resort for those who like the juice of the darker berry.

To me it seemed that it would be very difficult to make an informed choice in that place as it is difficult to converse, somewhat dark, difficult to circulate and talk to a lot of people because you need to put your mouth by the person's ear to speak, and many guys who visit don't speak Spanish, or not much, anyway, which makes it hard to read the fundamental character of the girl.

That way you will probably end up taking a girl whose general looks and outline meet your selection criteria, but this brings no guarantee whatsoever of great sex (assuming that is what you are looking for.) Often the best lookers are the worst performers anyway. Just today I saw a lovely Haitian girl of about 18 walking along the road. She had a perfect symmetrical face, legs, a bottom like a peach, perfect pins, the indolent stroll that I like, plus perfect brown velvet skin. She looked back over her shoulder three times at me and we exchanged nods and smiles, but I did not approach as I had other things to do. And yet, perfect as she was, there is absolutely no guarantee at all that she would be any use in the sack.

The best ones are those that you have some kind of a vibe with, but this may only become apparent in the bedroom. In a crowded noisy place with lots of chicas it is a crapshoot, and maybe a completely random selection will be just on average as good as a carefully chosen target.

[Frannie]

No, time is definitely running short for me. Nonetheless, I find it is hard to get into the minds of these people without being in their shoes. A girl was supposed to visit me from Los Almacigos but only at the last moment she spoke of not having money for the passage. Knowing that we are speaking of 150 pesos, from our perspective, it is hard to see why one cannot think of these things ahead of time. I can only speculate and yes, I am not going to be trying to change it for a day when all that she will have to go through, in life, would be without any support from me. Nonetheless, I confess that faced with the scheduling stress of various women each day given the short 7 day stint of mine, it sometimes gets me for most likely no fault of theirs.

She could borrow 150, so maybe just a lame excuse unless she was seeking assurance that you will reimburse.

[Tempoecorto]

The chase and the expectation. That's what it's all about.

No doubt it gets the adrenaline going. At the same time, I kind of am coming to Frannie's conclusion that "quality" sex is intimately connected with feelings. I had a woman who looked away as I was humping her (a first timer and no chemistry) while another one (a second timer but first time I gave her an excellent orgasm without entering her as she was not ready) gave me the time of a night leading to the wee hours.

[Tempoecorto]

So Tempo no e corto after all?

No, time is definitely running short for me. Nonetheless, I find it is hard to get into the minds of these people without being in their shoes. A girl was supposed to visit me from Los Almacigos but only at the last moment she spoke of not having money for the passage. Knowing that we are speaking of 150 pesos, from our perspective, it is hard to see why one cannot think of these things ahead of time. I can only speculate and yes, I am not going to be trying to change it for a day when all that she will have to go through, in life, would be without any support from me. Nonetheless, I confess that faced with the scheduling stress of various women each day given the short 7 day stint of mine, it sometimes gets me for most likely no fault of theirs.

[GrownMan1]

The chase and the expectation. That's what it's all about.

My buddy had a great saying. When I told him I was going out with my dream girl finally, or even a hot date, he would say,"don't powder your ass".

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I think that's what I love about the DR. Unlike the US You can powder your ass! Upgrade your standards once you get off the plane. If you are a person with a little pesos pussy is easy accessable and cheap. From 19-99, its not about will you get some, its what sexy chica or chicas is on the menu for the morning, noon, and / or night. It's hard to go wrong once you have a general understanding.

[Frannie]

The chase and the expectation. That's what it's all about.

You have to be prepared to invest in the unknown, because you never know when everything will come together perfect! It does come together often enough to make the investment worthwhile, though.

My buddy had a great saying. When I told him I was going out with my dream girl finally, or even a hot date, he would say,"don't powder your ass".

He was absolutely right. The more you look forward to something, the more something will go wrong.

When you haven't seen a shower in days, and you don't care, THAT"S when the magic happens. Go figure!

Spot on. Post of the millennium.

[Frannie]

Not to beat a dead horse, but fuck Rome and train them in the way they should go. I think I have more pussy than time, so that is the least of my worries. Whenever I give them a time I literally start my stopwatch.

But then you are making an investment of your time to train them, like a racehorse owner with your stopwatch in your hand clocking intervals. Isn't it a bit obsessional to take a stopwatch to the DR for this purpose?

It is true that pussy is a commodity like eggs or potatoes and branding is not very important, but sex is all about the interaction of personalities, and while it might be an exaggeration to say everyone is unique, the variety of types of personality is almost infinite.

[Frannie]

No worries! I typically have 20 women scheduled for a week long trip. So my stress is really with culling. Today I had to say goodbye to one woman from Bonao and another from San Francisco. Both screwed up on time and schedule issues.

At the same time a university girl came ahead of schedule and another girl from barrio kept me posted by texting as she boarded the carro but the point I was making was that I'm on no mission to change the country. Rome it will always be long after I am gone. LOL.

So Tempo no e corto after all?

It is all mental attitude. It is always better to be the latecomer than the impatient waiter, and if you are the waiter, then to have a don't care attitude. To me this is better than missionary endeavors to improve the Dominican breeding stock.

[Frannie]

None of the above, to tell the truth. Sordid details to follow.

Every threesome is different, because you are dealing with a complex interaction of personalities and sexual roles.

My preference is to start with a chica with whom you have a long term, but excellent sexual relationship, one where you don't pay for sex and have bareback sex, that way the pressure is off. You can then start with just having a third chica along to observe and gradually build into more participation as a fun thing.

My latest threesome involved adding a barmaid from the Rancho Tipico close to where Passions used to be (still is, but closed). She could not leave until 3:30 a. M. She was / is a tallish Haitian girl who does not speak Spanish, hardly. She did not look all that great dressed as she was just in regular jeans and top, but when the clothes came off at the cabana, she had a spectacular unmarked gorgeous body with marvelous smooth skin, no tattoos, etc.

She also had a tremendous technique for handling a pussy, obviously having studied instructional videos on two-handed techniques (she would make a great piano player) and it was just one long screaming, grinding orgasmathon in which I was more or less a spectator, occasionally lending a helping hand or tongue, though I did get my rocks off at the end, of course. Just a great experience. Went home afterwards at 5:00, slept, then fucked again at 9:00 with fresh memories of the night before.

Also have another chica of 19 lined up for the next round. This kind of thing is what makes Sosua so great.

[Tempoecorto]

Not to beat a dead horse, but fuck Rome.

No worries! I typically have 20 women scheduled for a week long trip. So my stress is really with culling. Today I had to say goodbye to one woman from Bonao and another from San Francisco. Both screwed up on time and schedule issues.

At the same time a university girl came ahead of schedule and another girl from barrio kept me posted by texting as she boarded the carro but the point I was making was that I'm on no mission to change the country. Rome it will always be long after I am gone. LOL.

[Frannie]

Franny you"re a stud!

Now, to my mind there's only a couple ways this happens, either you paid for two chicas, or you spent time setting it up with two chicas that liked each other, or it just happened while partying.

Tell us more!

None of the above, to tell the truth. Sordid details to follow.