Santo Domingo

[PilotPete]

Thank you for the responses. I'm taking good advice and not counting on Seeking. I've had moderately good luck with it when traveling the US and got very lucky in Medellin, meeting 2 good bi-sexual English speakers.

Does a he come with the Nuru? That would leave me with blue balls if not, LOL.

[SalseroLoco2]

Thank you for the report. Is a good massage and he available here? Sometimes it's what I'm in the mood for.

Talking to a couple from Seeking but with my very limited Spanish, their limited English and the boots-on-ground reports of flakiness that option is looking worse all the time. I would, ideally, want to spend a couple days with a fun and intelligent Chica just to get out for some fun with a local.

It's not a good massage per se. Go to pornhub look up nuru massage videos, and subtract penetration and that will get you pretty close. Lots of slipping and sliding with with a hottie for about $50.

[Mr Enternational]

Talking to a couple from Seeking but with my very limited Spanish, their limited English and the boots-on-ground reports of flakiness that option is looking worse all the time. I would, ideally, want to spend a couple days with a fun and intelligent Chica just to get out for some fun with a local.

Once again good luck with that. If you pull that off then you should play the lottery next. If you are going for fucking then you will hit the nail on the head. If you are going for fun with a smart chick then I am pretty sure you will miss that mark.

First of all you will have to find the smart chick, which will be a monumental task. In the past 16 years and over 100 trips, I have met less than 10 and I speak pretty damn good Spanish. After you have found that needle in the haystack, you will have to come up with a plan of what you guys are going to do together. These women are by no means leaders and are 100% followers. Just ask any of them what they would like to do on a date and the answer is undoubtedly going to be get to know each other. They are not going to be able to give you suggestions of where to go or what to actually do. They can tell you go to a restaurant, but you will be waiting a mighty long time approaching never for a suggestion of which restaurant.

It is like they have no social or recreational dreams or ambitions. Hell, even I can be looking at TV and see a commercial and think to myself damn I would like to check that place out. But not them. They will be going wherever you take them, so if you do not know the country and the things to do and places to eat around there then unfortunately you will just be sitting and starring each other in the face. If you do happen to get a suggestion on where to eat from them then 100% it will be Adrian Tropical. These are not jokes; it is simply the truth of being in DR.

P.S. I was talking to a Dominican chick yesterday on Tinder. I asked her what she does in New York. She said she does not live in New York. I said but your profile says New York. She said she just put it like that. So just imagine how many have put Santo Domingo and live nowhere near Santo Domingo. This is the kind of dumb shit that will frustrate you when dealing with these chicks. Once again, good luck on your search for a smart fun one.

[PilotPete]

Thank you for the report. Is a good massage and he available here? Sometimes it's what I'm in the mood for.

Talking to a couple from Seeking but with my very limited Spanish, their limited English and the boots-on-ground reports of flakiness that option is looking worse all the time. I would, ideally, want to spend a couple days with a fun and intelligent Chica just to get out for some fun with a local.

[SalseroLoco2]

I think my post below asking for a quiet bar was probably a bit naive haha.

I have never been a fan of nighttime mongering spots, though I realize I am in the minority here. I have fluent Spanish and good dance skills (not bachata sadly) so I can usually do pretty well with non-pros given a little time. I generally like to hit casas and massage places during the day, and then date normal girls at night (where I can seem like a real caballero by not pushing for sex, where really I might not even have it in me after my daytime activities!

Here in SD I absolutely love Spa Odisea. Although there is no sex there far as I can tell (and I've tried a lot! I find half of the girls to be model quality, sexy, pretty faces, sweet. And the other half are pretty damb cute too! The nuru massage is almost as good as sex, maybe better sometimes.

I did pop into Casa Theresa one day around lunchtime and was not impressed with the selection. Maybe I was too early.

On the apps, I was using Badoo before I left the states and made a bunch of matches and moved a few over to WhatsApp. Since I only have a week I narrowed down to three. Of those, one is an absolute knockout who seems like an interesting mature woman I'd actually enjoy talking to. Another one was super hot though a bit on the serious side. She got stuck at my place because of curfew after our first date and didn't want to have sex right away. I don't sleep well with a strange woman in my bed under normal conditions, even less with blue balls. So that sucked, though I did get a lot of reading done that nighthaha.

This morning a sexy Haitian spinner I met through Badoo and who had been a bit flakey the past few days, finally managed to meet me. She was sweet and shy and hardly spoke. And then came over to my apartment and turned into a sex machine who wanted to make a video and would have been fine with no condom (I was strong, the stress afterwards is not worth the momentary pleasure). She also never mentioned or asked for money, though I did press a few thousand into her hand "for her trip. " I'm actually not even sure if she was expecting money. A lot of chicas will drop hints about their money issues in early convo, but she never did. I think she might have really needed to get laid!

The grumpy one wants to go to Jarabacoa with me but hot as she is, she's too boring to spend a few days with, and I suspect she would be boring in the sack. The Haitian has to go to la Romana for some kind of job interview. So now I'm waiting for mature knockout to come home from vacation. Meanwhile I matched with a bunch of ladies on Tinder but they're all a bit too far away. Traffic in this town in such a pain in the ass, I should probably restrict the search to 10 miles or less.

I can't imagine what it would be like to live here full-time with enough time to assemble a serious roster. You'd almost need to hire a manager! I need to ice my balls just thinking about it. I suspect if you wanted to settle down you could find some great women here too, though that perfect mix of beauty and brains is hard to find.

SL.

[SavePros321]

Welcome to DR. You have to have a deep roster because you will get more excuses than a little bit. Even if you do finally get her over, get ready for more excuses. First she asks me if I want a 3 some. I say no. Then she says you do not like 3 somes? I say how much. She goes into a thing of how she is not a hooker and is going through a bad situation. I said ok, how much. She says 5000. I say no. I want to know how much for only you, not for you and your friend. She says 4000. I told her sorry, I only have 2000. She said 3000 because she had to get a taxi. I told her I would order her an Uber. 2000. So we settled on the 2000. And I did try to order the Uber, but in true Dominican fashion this chick don't have the address to where she is. Why they always think you can tell Uber to just meet them by the big oak tree 3 doors down from Mrs Sanchez? These Dominican chicks will frustrate the fuck out of you.

I know there are many baddies to be had in SD, but stories like this continue to keep me away. That and the blackouts, LOL.

Maybe if I get 1-2 months to kill at one time, but would still end up saying to myself "why stress yourself out when you can go somewhere less stressful?

So far one thing has held true for me: the further you get away from the USA, the better the overall experience.

[Mr Enternational]

Thank you, would you say Tinder is the best app to build a roster within DR, particularly with those in Santo Domingo? I've not current on what else may be comparable.

Actually if you really want normal hookers that are not up for games then I would say go on skokka. It will also cost you less. The chicks on apps like Tinder want to play that role like they are not hookers, are generally low budget, and will always think they are worth at least $100 for some reason.

[Tempoecorto]

Why they always think you can tell Uber to just meet them by the big oak tree 3 doors down from Mrs Sanchez?

I have to say, I cracked up with that line. Perhaps you should try Saturday Night Live?

[SouthGent]

You have to have a deep roster because you will get more excuses than a little bit. Even if you do finally get her over, get ready for more excuses. Saturday at 8 pm I contacted a Tinder chick to come over. They are so used to the scamming bullshit excuses that the broad had the nerve to tell me to send her money to go to the salon. First of all, I wanted her to come right then. Second of all there was no damn salon open Saturday night at 8 pm.

Thank you, would you say Tinder is the best app to build a roster within DR, particularly with those in Santo Domingo? I've not current on what else may be comparable. Appreciate your reporting and wisdom.

[GrownMan1]

we are not dealing with "escorts" but quasi regular people and so one might justifiably be concerned about their feelings.

Indeed. Escorts are professionals. They have professional emotional restraint. They won't try to change the narrative. Regular chicas consistently try to change the narrative. Lying to them could grant them The notion to think they have power they don't have over your wallet and your movements.

In my experience being confident and straight up about your movements gets respect. It's like telling a woman you're married before you start dealing with her. It's funny how they can respect the cheating but will crucify you for lying. Manning up being straightforward and confident about your decision making or masculine attributes. It doesn't stop a chica from trying to change the narrative anyway but you're at a better controlling point.

[Mr Enternational]

I'm in Santo Domingo now and wondering if anyone can recommend a relatively quiet bar / restaurant for dates (or maybe to pick up non- or semi-pros). This place is fucking loud, and even though I enjoy a good salsa club (per my handle! In general I'm not of fan of the common combo of bad speakers and traffic noise I find here.

LOL. Good luck with that!

[Mr Enternational]

Met a bunch of hotties on Badoo before I came but they've been a bit flakey so far (no surprise I suppose). One chica was suggesting AirBnbs in Jarabacoa we could go to after chatting on WhatsApp for two days. Now that I'm in the same country on the other side of town, I'm struggling to get her out for a simple drink.

Welcome to DR. You have to have a deep roster because you will get more excuses than a little bit. Even if you do finally get her over, get ready for more excuses. Saturday at 8 pm I contacted a Tinder chick to come over. They are so used to the scamming bullshit excuses that the broad had the nerve to tell me to send her money to go to the salon. First of all, I wanted her to come right then. Second of all there was no damn salon open Saturday night at 8 pm.

I had another Tinder chick come over one day last week. Funny thing, when I went outside to let her in I did not see her, but saw another chick outside loitering. Weird thing to see in the residential area. My chick finally came to the gate. We went in and got to fucking. Everything was cool at first. Then when I got to fucking good all the excuses came. 1. She already came 2 times. 2. She has to get to school by noon. 3. Her leg hurts. 4. She is hungry. 5. Her dad is in the hospital. I said next time you tell a mf all this before you come so he will not invite you.

Then when I finally did finish, that chick jumped up so fast. She hit the shower and left the soap on the floor of the shower. Walked around the apartment leaving water footprints. Left the towel on the floor of the bedroom. Just total bad manners hood shit.

She kept trying to get me to give her the money inside the apartment, but I walk them out first. And I told her that I would drop her off where she needed to go. She said it was far and to just give her taxi money, but I said I don't have anything else to do. We went outside and were pulling off in the car and the chick I saw earlier ran up. So evidently she did not plan on being there long in the first place because the chick was her friend that had arrived with her. When I first started talking to her she was trying to get me into a 3 some. I guess that was the other chick. Glad I turned that down.

So she has no idea where we are going. Her friend fires up the GPS on her phone. We go to some hospital or clinic that was like only 2 streets over. They literally could have walked. So I think the daddy sick part was the actual story. She asked for the money. I had put the 2000 pesos we agreed on into the cup holder (plus 250 for the money she spent for the taxi to get there) when we had gotten into the car. I pointed at it. She got it and asked for more for food and because her dad was sick. I told her that was not my problem.

That broad was fine as fuck on those pictures, looked like she had fake parts. In real life she still had the body and I could tell it was all natural, but there were a bunch of war wounds that came with it. Looked like she got burned by a grate on her right thigh plus a few bullet holes to go with it. Who the fuck knows. Then she called herself sending me a message trying to come back a couple of days later. Negative!

P.S. I forgot to add that they try to play that stupid ass game. First she asks me if I want a 3 some. I say no. Then she says you do not like 3 somes? I say how much. She goes into a thing of how she is not a hooker and is going through a bad situation. I said ok, how much. She says 5000. I say no. I want to know how much for only you, not for you and your friend. She says 4000. I told her sorry, I only have 2000. She said 3000 because she had to get a taxi. I told her I would order her an Uber. 2000. So we settled on the 2000. And I did try to order the Uber, but in true Dominican fashion this chick don't have the address to where she is. Why they always think you can tell Uber to just meet them by the big oak tree 3 doors down from Mrs Sanchez? These Dominican chicks will frustrate the fuck out of you.

[SouthGent]

Correct. You just walk up the stairs that are on the side of the building.

Thank you, Mr Enternational. That helps. I just booked a space at the Marriott in that area, first-timer there so I played it as safe as I could in the city. If I can offer you a beverage in appreciation during my travels from 3/29 to 4/5 at said location, let me know.

[Mr Enternational]

To clarify, is GBP the GBP Girl house? Sounds like a must-visit, and would like to confirm these great times myself. And may I PM you (once I join) about making the best route to get upstairs as you stated?

Correct. You just walk up the stairs that are on the side of the building.

[Tempoecorto]

Yo Temp I think what Grownman means by masculinity down there is to just man up and be straight with the chicas. Let them know that they are NOT the only female you're seeing, put them on your schedule of when you will allow her to see you and if she don't like it she can space and move on.

Perhaps that is what he meant. I can tell you one thing though: the Dominican masculine man lies as much as a Non-Dominican does in his land, as far as "getting some" is concerned. The candor you refer to, is presumably because it is a buyer's market, and we are not dealing with "escorts" but quasi regular people and so one might justifiably be concerned about their feelings.