Santo Domingo

[Mr Enternational]

The very next day he told me how The night went down. They talked a lot and she was very opinionated. About 1230 she said she was tired and going to sleep. She went to the couch and fell asleep. He went to his room and did the same.
It took him about 3 1/2 days to finally get her. He said the sex was good but now he's off to Greener pastures. Typical gringo. A very common and predictable outcome.

Makes no sense to me. A lot is missing from the story, but seems he could have been more aggressive and told her to get in the bed with him. Also he volunteered $30 babysitter and $50 uber. Let them take the bus.

I also do not get fucking a chick and then trying to "wean her off"? Maybe that is how I am different. I don't just go fucking regular chicks then try to ditch them. I make friends with people and try to stay friends with people. Never know when you will need that friend. And even if we have not talked in a long time we can pick right back up at the drop of a hat.

A chick from Santo Domingo came to visit me in the States 4th of July last year. Stayed at my house. Holiday celebration with my family and all. Hell, I had been dealing with her for 3 or 4 years and I didn't even know she spoke English until she was hanging around my cousins at the pool while I was swimming. But I had totally forgotten about her until the other day when I was searching my whatsapp for another chick with a similar name.

It was just 3 days shy of 1 year since I last talked to her. Picked up right where we left off. Me blaming her for not sending me a message and her blaming me for not sending her a message. Still friends and she said she will come back to visit next time she has vacation. She is the one I called asking what to do that time the machine ate my card at Santo Domingo airport because she works at that bank's corporate office.

Also spoke to an ex-girlfriend from years ago that lives in Salcedo. She used to come visit me in Sosua all the time when I used to hang out there. She said she would come visit me in the States next summer.

I just don't get trying to burn bridges and get rid of people. Maybe that is why I have so many chicks, because I don't just throw them away like that guy said he was going to do. I be pack-ratting chicks.

[GrownMan1]

I met a guy from my home state in Boca Chica. His partners had a hand in managing the Anhvee in the Su. However, he was in Boca Chica getting his fill of the country. He was Dolo solo however he was operating well for someone with a little knowledge of the country.

He was using the Tinder app setting up dates with girls that he found interest in. One of the girls he met on tinder was from PC. She spoke Conversational English which was a plus for him. Besides his translator he didn't speak Spanish.

We talked briefly and he told me how excited he was to meet the young lady. Golden brown Dominican about a 7 on the looks scale.

They agreed that she was coming to meet him. He paid $30 for a babysitting fee and $50 for an Uber. Since he was not asking me for my advice; I kept my comments to myself.

The very next day he told me how The night went down. They talked a lot and she was very opinionated. About 1230 she said she was tired and going to sleep. She went to the couch and fell asleep. He went to his room and did the same. At about 3:30 in the morning he woke up pissed because she was still on the couch. Yeah he paid for her babysitter and Uber plus they went out on a date sparing no expenses.

By 530 he was telling her it's time for her to leave. She was a little ticked about it however he did pay for her Uber ride back.

He later left to the Su to be with his boys. When I talk to him he was having a good time. He told me he was averaging five chicas a day.

He later came back to the Boca chica area. Guess who he called to come and visit. Yep The same chica who wouldn't just give him sex! Poor young fox couldn't get those grapes off his mind.

It took him about 3 1/2 days to finally get her. He said the sex was good but now he's off to Greener pastures. Typical gringo. A very common and predictable outcome.

[Mr Enternational]

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

That is for guys that want to believe they are getting a better or less used chick. And also a good excuse for a chick to charge you more. Nobody is separating chicks that go to SA from chicks that go to Tinder, from chicks that go to Skokka, or any other site. As with any site you will have to weed through to get what you want. The other day a guy in the Medellin thread was saying there have been a lot of scammers on SA recently.

The site is primarily used by American guys to find sugar babies to support in the USA. I guess for guys that like to use the semi-pro euphemism. My mind does not work like that. For me it is either I am forking over money or I am not. Ain't no such thing as semi-paying; same as in my mind there is no such thing as semi-pro - she fucking for money or she isn't.

[GrownMan1]

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

SA $90 A month are you serious? Dominican Cupid Tinder and tag are free to join. They do offer upgraded membership between 19 and $30 per month.
In my opinion DC offers more when you're trying to meet someone or they are trying to meet you based on compatibility. You create a profile where are you talk a little bit about yourself. You're allowed to disclose personal information. I E do you have children living with you. Once you pay for the subscription you can directly communicate with any Member.

Tinder is more new generation. You basically say what area you are looking for in the age range. They start giving you pictures for you to like or dismiss. When a Mutual like is established; you can start to converse with her. If you paid the $19.99 upgraded membership fee.

Tag is like my space. Very outdated and not popularly used.
Most of us would prefer meeting non-pros and getting GFE. However I caution newbies about this route. Know how much time you have for your vacation. If you are on a short vacation stop wasting your time trying to look for a normal relationship. What I mean is if you only have five days in the country, do you want to waste three days of Wining and dining trying to have sex with one chica who is not planning on giving any sex until she gets to know you better.

[StrawHat]

I've used SA for years now so yes, the monthly cost gets me in the door. I'm comfortable with using Seeking and have been successful over the years.

I just joined DominicanCupid a few weeks ago and have not yet successfully connected in person with anyone from that site. I'm giving myself time to get the feel of that site. Chica availability seems different than seeking but based on the noted success of others on this forum, I will keep plugging away till I figure it out.

Strawhat.

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

[Nite_Runner]

I began my mongering time in the DR using DR Cupid. There was a broad variety of girls. Non pros to scammers. I will be seeing my 1st cupid girl from 8 years ago this weekend. She still turns me on and she knows what I like and how to do it. I nolonger use any dating sites beecause I have aquired a phone fill of girls. Every girl on cupid was different and many were very nice. Almost all were looking for boy friends. The semipros were the true gems. They are willing to meet up with you and be your girlfriend for a while with no strings attached. They will give you convincing GFE at a reasonable price. For me Cupid was a real winner.

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

[Mr Gogo]

I'm doing my morning walk on El Conde and one of the expats who stays near the university walked with me. We stopped at the coconut water spot on Conde for a large, no sugar, a little ice for 125 pesos.

He said its a spot near his condo that has a nice Colmado and working girls. We walked down to the malecon and walked west for 38 minutes to the only gas station on the malecon. Oh shit, this is my spot from back in the day that me and Mr E used to frequent.

The gas station used to be a hess now its an ESO. Nelly car rental is 50 feet away. We post up and grab two president lights small. Another Conde expat hit me up and asked where we were so he caught a taxi from Conde to our spot for 200 pesos. The presidents turned into a bottle of Brugal followed by another. The vultures were circling us.

One dike with a punk rock haircut with a fat girl, an older mature lady sitting sola at the bar and chics walking by trying to catch our eyes. I see this pretty slim girl with spandex pants, pretty feet and a foot tattoo. Her name is Anna. She is from Azua and approached me and I reached out to shake her hand when my boy cut her path and snatched her from me. I laughed because he always does this so I sit back and enjoy the show. The Anna snatcher had been hounding every girl walking by, so I figured he would trip himself up eventually. These girls can get possessive at times. Even Anny had my guard up because she was trying too hard. She danced for us, showed off her pretty feet and even grabbed a broom and swept our area and cleaned our small table.

I'm still side eyeing the older chica sola at the counter but in reality I'm not fucking any of these girls, just enjoying my time on the wild side. Two other nice girls pulled up a seat and brought two beers.

My boy said Anna told him 1500 pesos TLN and 15 minutes later they were gone. I was hungry and didn't want beans, rice and chicken so we headed back to Conde for a spot that has a great salad with chicken and shrimp, Fenix for 550 pesos.

I never felt unsafe on the west end and I would recommend adventurous mongers to take a trip down there. With the curfew, 5-8 pm is best. Back in the day the weirdos would come out after 9 pm. Crackheads, scantily dressed skanks, I've even seen a girl on crutches missing a leg selling pussy.

[OldKool]

I began my mongering time in the DR using DR Cupid. There was a broad variety of girls. Non pros to scammers. I will be seeing my 1st cupid girl from 8 years ago this weekend. She still turns me on and she knows what I like and how to do it. I nolonger use any dating sites beecause I have aquired a phone fill of girls. Every girl on cupid was different and many were very nice. Almost all were looking for boy friends. The semipros were the true gems. They are willing to meet up with you and be your girlfriend for a while with no strings attached. They will give you convincing GFE at a reasonable price. For me Cupid was a real winner.

Hey Mr.

International. Since you have so much experience in the DR, which app would you recommend for meeting non pros and semi pros?

[GrownMan1]

There's Badoo and even Tagged now Badoo especially will have more "non pros" on their but they won't be as cute. The point is Dominicans or people outside of the west don't use dating apps at all. They're only used in feminist countries. All dating apps in the "third world" are prostitution apps were women are targeting tourists.

No matter where you go there you are. Treach Uptown Anthem.

Trip.

I kind of see what you mean. With the exception of the word all. The majority of the dating apps are use for hook ups. Tender doesnt even ask for you to talk about yourself. You are operating based on pictures. I think there are small percentage of typical girls on there. You have members on here who are fluent in Spanish. They can decipher, target, and affectively Communicate more casually with that small percentage of Chicas. Especially if those guys are familiar with their culture.

I don't know how sincere that chica would be about actually looking for a relación seria - Serious relationship. In my opinion it will be a contract with too many expectations. But there are a small percentage of people that seem to make it work.
Mr. E I don't know how any chica can take you serious. But I've seen you in operation. Dude you pop up on them Like a Jack-in-the-Box. And you keep so many how the hell do you keep up. The boy got a problem.

[Mr Enternational]

Didn't think about the regular girl putting 90+ as her age to hide her profile from certain people.

They do not do it because they are trying to hide. They do it because they are not intelligent. They also put they are 4'1" 800 lbs and that they live in Santo Domingo. On their pictures it is obvious they are 5'6" and 115 lbs. When you ask what part of Santo Domingo they live in, they will say Puerto Plata. Most are also not skilled in conversation beyond Hello, How are you doing? That is good to hear.

I swear that DR is the Philippines twin on this side of the world because they do the exact same stupid shit. I was in Manila one time talking to a chick that had Manila in her profile. It was going smoothly and I wanted to meet up with her so I asked what part of Manila she was in. Turns out she was nowhere near Manila, but she was in Davao. A totally different island that you have to take a plane to. I cussed her out. Why the hell would you put Manila? I am in Manila looking for people in Manila. If I am in London looking for people in London, I am not trying to waste time talking to people who are in Paris. She said that if she would have put Davao she would not get as many interests. Well no shit because not as many people are looking for chicks in Davao as they are Manila.

Being familiar with DR, I ALWAYS ask them what part of whatever city they have in their profile they live in. You will save yourself a bunch of otherwise wasted time if you do the same. They are subject to be on the other side of the island than where they have put.

[Sawassdee]

You answered my question to Mr. E about DR Cupid. Thanks.

Didn't think about the regular girl putting 90+ as her age to hide her profile from certain people. I'll use the apps for pipelining and it might even make sense to have someone pick you up in the strange town. But If you're staying in a place multiple months apps lose their effectiveness over the long haul. It better to meet them in person like the locals do Usually you pay a priemium for Internet based poon especially noobs that don't speak the language.

Apologies, I Did not mean to step on the Illustrious Brother Mr. E's toes. Whatever he says will be well worth listening to.

Apps are only 1 tool. Whenever I am staying for any decent amount of time 2 weeks to 1. 5 years I use the same strategy. My breakdown is a combination of Dating Apps / Websites (the entire time) . Always new girls being added or girls rejoining that took a break for a while that you have not previously seen.

Regular girls I meet in the streets, mall, stores, restaurants etc.

My favorites:

I always take tours because I am a history and social science buff, the biggest additional benefit is meeting girls on the tour visiting from other countries or currently staying for a while plus local girls I meet while touring and possibly a sexy tour guide.

And my favorite. I take a class in almost every country whether physical (martial arts, dancing, join a gym, any class to sharpen my skillset mentally (I studied NLP, studied and taught Pick up etc. All in different countries.

Why? Because you will meet GIRLS either local that are taking the class or foreign also taking the class. These girls are not pros and have an automatic trust and bond with you making the transition to sex easy. And as a plus giving you new girls in countries you will eventually travel to to bang and learn the terrain from upon arrival.

Last the instructors and local and foreign guys in the class. The locals will show you their terrain safely giving you more places to go and meet non pros.

And the foreigners will help you navigate their country if you decide its on the radar. I've met some great dudes who have shown me around to places I could'nt find on my own.

So no 1 tool for everything. And not always a premium on internet based chicas. I typically hunt non pros on the internet. The choice to give them a gift is typically mines. And if i do or don't in the last decade i have never recieved flak for not or the amount if.

[Triple Darknes]

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I'm over 50 and personally I have always lowered my age anywhere from 10 - 15 years on all dating apps. I do it for 2 reasons.

1) I try to find a COMMON (middle ground) age that I will SHOW UP in their inboxes as a desired match FOR the MAJORITY of women on that app/website ages 18 - 55* (I find some still bangable or good for a BBBJ on a slow night) lol. Not for profit of course.

*So basically I want to show up in as many inboxes as possible in order to have more ladies choose me 1st. The #1 secret to online mutual not for profit desired GF sex.

#2) Because I place my desired matches IN women age range from 18 - 99 I get to see all the girls. And because of my STATED younger age I find even more opportunities for the same as above from.

A. Young women with self confidence issues that don't get much attention from guys her own age and as a result they only placed older men lets just say 50+ as a desired match in their profile. (Yes they exist) And some are what I considered slept on. They look plain f 'in Jane in their style of fashion, but hot naked and in bed. Just start a convo.

B. Shy girls who don't want anyone to know they are on a dating site or girls that made an innocent mistake and there age is stated way too high to like 90+. (Sometimes Pros, but if you are interested and want to know you have say Hello.

C. COUGARS- Chicks who actually believe they are 11+ years older than you and also placed men age 50+ (for this example) in there desired profiles. Easy Pickings if you find one attractive and just say Hi. Don't ever tell them or give notion to your real age. You will F up their fantasy of getting that young dick and sperm in the places your real GF would never go for.

As far as which app is better to meet Non Pros? Per my experience each app or website has a mixture of Pros, semi pros, and non pros. You just have to interview the ones that SHOW you strong attention.

Every area / country has an app for meeting chicks in that area. In any new place I start by googling apps and websites for meeting girls in (name of place you desire to meet them).

As far as good results in DR.

Mine are Dominican Cupid, Latin American cupid, afro introductions, Caribbean cupid.

*Best part of Joining 1 cupid site is that you can join the others with the press of a button without creating a new profile. Click and point for any other area or country.

And Tinder almost every where. Tinder can show you girls currently in your immediate vicinity. And you can communicate for free.

My attached Dating Profile. LOL.

You answered my question to Mr. E about DR Cupid. Thanks.

Didn't think about the regular girl putting 90+ as her age to hide her profile from certain people. I'll use the apps for pipelining and it might even make sense to have someone pick you up in the strange town. But If you're staying in a place multiple months apps lose their effectiveness over the long haul. It better to meet them in person like the locals do Usually you pay a priemium for Internet based poon especially noobs that don't speak the language.

[Triple Darknes]

That could not be farther from the truth. I have been on Latin Cupid 15 years, Thai Cupid 12 years, Tagged 11 years, used Tinder in Philippines, Badoo in Thailand and have met and am still meeting plenty of professional women that are not hookers on all of them. I do not use dating apps for hookers. I just go to the location they are known to be in that particular city for that. I use dating apps to meet normal chicks and have met many normal girlfriends in third world countries on them.

I get what you're saying but my Tinder profile abroad is way less filled out than my Dating app profiles back home. I get what you're saying Dating app chicks usually have jobs and aren't fulltimers but I only had one date that lead to no sex one time in Dar Es Salaam and I couldn't be mad because I was a newbie. It wasn't that she was opposed to sex but she wanted a date to justify fucking me for free. I was so pissed off that I didn't agree to a second date.

After that I learned how to say what I needed to say so that we had an understanding. That being said I was too forward in most sexual place on earth here in Santo Domingo with Tinder and got a burner account thanos snapped away. I guess they weren't working girls. The point is I fucked everygirl I met on Dating apps overseas, can't say the same in the states.

Does DR Cupid work the same as Tinder Gold meaning that you can take DR Cupid to say Colombia and vice versa? Or is it a totally different site?

[Sawassdee]

Wondering which is best for my age. I'm over 60. Chicas on Cupid put age demographic preferences in their profile. Curious also of your age to see if I should consider Tinder instead. If anyone knows, which site deals more with non or semi pros versus hardcore putas?

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I'm over 50 and personally I have always lowered my age anywhere from 10 - 15 years on all dating apps. I do it for 2 reasons.

1) I try to find a COMMON (middle ground) age that I will SHOW UP in their inboxes as a desired match FOR the MAJORITY of women on that app/website ages 18 - 55* (I find some still bangable or good for a BBBJ on a slow night) lol. Not for profit of course.

*So basically I want to show up in as many inboxes as possible in order to have more ladies choose me 1st. The #1 secret to online mutual not for profit desired GF sex.

#2) Because I place my desired matches IN women age range from 18 - 99 I get to see all the girls. And because of my STATED younger age I find even more opportunities for the same as above from.

A. Young women with self confidence issues that don't get much attention from guys her own age and as a result they only placed older men lets just say 50+ as a desired match in their profile. (Yes they exist) And some are what I considered slept on. They look plain f 'in Jane in their style of fashion, but hot naked and in bed. Just start a convo.

B. Shy girls who don't want anyone to know they are on a dating site or girls that made an innocent mistake and there age is stated way too high to like 90+. (Sometimes Pros, but if you are interested and want to know you have say Hello.

C. COUGARS- Chicks who actually believe they are 11+ years older than you and also placed men age 50+ (for this example) in there desired profiles. Easy Pickings if you find one attractive and just say Hi. Don't ever tell them or give notion to your real age. You will F up their fantasy of getting that young dick and sperm in the places your real GF would never go for.

As far as which app is better to meet Non Pros? Per my experience each app or website has a mixture of Pros, semi pros, and non pros. You just have to interview the ones that SHOW you strong attention.

Every area / country has an app for meeting chicks in that area. In any new place I start by googling apps and websites for meeting girls in (name of place you desire to meet them).

As far as good results in DR.

Mine are Dominican Cupid, Latin American cupid, afro introductions, Caribbean cupid.

*Best part of Joining 1 cupid site is that you can join the others with the press of a button without creating a new profile. Click and point for any other area or country.

And Tinder almost every where. Tinder can show you girls currently in your immediate vicinity. And you can communicate for free.

My attached Dating Profile. LOL.

[BigTimeFun]

That could not be farther from the truth. I have been on Latin Cupid 15 years, Thai Cupid 12 years, Tagged 11 years, used Tinder in Philippines, Badoo in Thailand and have met and am still meeting plenty of professional women that are not hookers on all of them. I do not use dating apps for hookers. I just go to the location they are known to be in that particular city for that. I use dating apps to meet normal chicks and have met many normal girlfriends in third world countries on them.

Hey Mr.

International. Since you have so much experience in the DR, which app would you recommend for meeting non pros and semi pros?