Santo Domingo

[Turgid]

On Earth sex is the is the other half of the second Dynamic. 1st is self survival (eating, avoiding danger etc.) 2nd is procreation which requires sex. I don't see them avoiding sex. I see it as desiring and having sex freely as well as in addition to using sex to aid in there addressing the 1st Dynamic when it fits them.

I came to that understanding at 19 when the older fellas taught me that cougars (ages 33 and up at that time) were a young mans best friend. Since then I've learned on my own that women absolutely love and freely enjoy sex with whom they desire it from. However use it to get what they want from the groups opposite that. I know its said there is absolutely no free sex. From my own life experience I can tell you that's not true. I just choose to keep quiet as its quoted by others who believe differently.

Unfortunately for me I never got to bang a cougar in my adolescent years. I used to masturbate to them a lot though especially my next door friend's mom who wore sexy hot shorts. I used to look through the window at her watering her plants and do it, she used to see me looking at her too. Ah, what I wouldn´t do to bang that sexy Italian signora now.

My experience with desired sexual prospects has been that they see themselves as prima donnas and want me to work very hard to get into their panties. I always got the impression that they saw me as a marriage prospect thus placing many obstacles to putting out. Hardly beings who want sex as much as I do.

[Knowledge]

It seems like a lot of work, much more than I am willing to do.

Come on E you've been a vet so long you forgot how we as newbies think. Most of us want non-pros and / or GFE. We lie about our age, living location, Marriage status, occupation, and a whole Lotta other shit to make us look like The guy we want them to perceive. Once we complicate our ejective then we slowly pull our heads out the Lions mouth.

While he was talking to her online they establish they were going to meet. Just meet no sex. Just getting to know one another. From that point they are no longer playing checkers. She's thinking I'm going to show him I'm different and I'm serious about playing my part. He's thinking she's acting so serious I'm going to get that pussy when she comes over. To show he's a good guy he volunteers to pays for her babysitter and Uber. She arrives and they have seriously intimate conversations. He loves the fact that she can speak English. The language barrier will always be a problem in meeting a Spanish Chica unless you speak it.

She showed him how determined she was. After the great conversation and small flirting; she got tired and took her position on the couch. Check. By 330 he found himself on vacation, pussy at his fingertips, but a lone in the bed by himself. Stuck with a stubborn ass chica who is royally pissing him off and turning him on at the speed. Not being able to take it no more he took an L. To save face he paid for her Uber back. Five days and about 20 Chicas later; he's calling her to see her again. A lot of us are not young wolves anymore. We would have left those grapes alone after the first or second Failed attempt. Vets to this game understand that being straight up and forward is the best defense..

[Sawassdee]

I heard that on the planet Epsilon Reticuli b that is the case but on Earth it is different.

On Earth sex is the is the other half of the second Dynamic. 1st is self survival (eating, avoiding danger etc.) 2nd is procreation which requires sex. I don't see them avoiding sex. I see it as desiring and having sex freely as well as in addition to using sex to aid in there addressing the 1st Dynamic when it fits them.

I came to that understanding at 19 when the older fellas taught me that cougars (ages 33 and up at that time) were a young mans best friend. Since then I've learned on my own that women absolutely love and freely enjoy sex with whom they desire it from. However use it to get what they want from the groups opposite that. I know its said there is absolutely no free sex. From my own life experience I can tell you that's not true. I just choose to keep quiet as its quoted by others who believe differently.

[GrownMan1]

Don't kiss up to them. Just turn shit around and make it to your advantage.

I also do not give them too many definite answers. See when the chick told him we are not going to fuck we are just going to talk or whatever, he said ok. I would never agree to something like that. I would respond with one of my favorite things to say: We'll see. Had she paid her own way there I guarantee you she would not have left that place without getting some dick.

Yes my ghost face friend; you are speaking from experience. As olski said experience is the best teacher. But I got to give it to my man, he was learning from his mistakes fast. I was a little more hardheaded.

[Turgid]

............ My basic premise is women desire sex more than men..............

I heard that on the planet Epsilon Reticuli b that is the case but on Earth it is different.

[Sawassdee]

I also do not give them too many definite answers. See when the chick told him we are not going to fuck we are just going to talk or whatever, he said ok. I would never agree to something like that. I would respond with one of my favorite things to say: We'll see. There is no way I would ever take fucking off the table. Funny thing about women is that they feel free not fucking when you are spending your money. Women like to fuck just as much as men but they don't want to let on to it. Had she paid her own way there I guarantee you she would not have left that place without getting some dick.

Damn Mr E. It could not have been spelled out any better. My basic premise is women desire sex more than men and are freakier than men.

If I like her and she likes me. Then we should be fucking! As long as it falls inside my core principles. IE. Not my buddies chick, not if your pussy is sick (std's). Etc. Just about anything else it should be on. And if not then she is putting on a show. And chicks don't put on shows unless they want to sell you some BS (idea of themselves being 100% wholesome and different) or to be paid (in cash).

My thoughts are as long as they are still excitedly and voluntarily standing in a long cue of other chicks to suck dick AND eat pussy behind the curtain onstage or off stage and breaking into hotels and locating undisclosed rooms of people they have never met but want to fuck and etc..., then this will remain true.

[Mr Enternational]

While he was talking to her online they establish they were going to meet. Just meet no sex. Just getting to know one another. From that point they are no longer playing checkers. She's thinking I'm going to show him I'm different and I'm serious about playing my part. He's thinking she's acting so serious I'm going to get that pussy when she comes over. To show he's a good guy...

OK I get it now. He was trying to be nice and sweet. I am always real. Chicks hate me for it because I don't give them a fantasy of knight in shining armor, but at the same time they are attracted to it.

Recently I have been talking to this lawyer in Santo Domingo. 2 days ago she asked me if I would go to church with her. I said no. Then yesterday she said I talk bad to her. I said what are you talking about. She said when I asked you to go to church with me you said no. Uhhh. I guess most guys would have said yes doing shit they did not really want to do in hopes of fucking. So she took my denying her request as me talking bad to her. Nope. Just being honest.

Then chicks have a habit of saying I don't want a man that is just after sex. I tell them sex is a part if a relationship. I don't want a woman that just wants to go out and spend my money eating at restaurants. They understand that. Don't kiss up to them. Just turn shit around and make it to your advantage.

Reminds me of when I met a chick and took her to my buddy's wedding in Bayahibe. We went out to eat and she ordered shrimp and shit. I introduced her to the waiter as my lover. She said no we are just friends. I said friends don't eat shrimp. She said what do they eat. I said whatever they pay for. And we have been lovers ever since. And that had to be at least 4 years ago. We had stopped by Boca Chica to holler at you on our way to that wedding.

I also do not give them too many definite answers. See when the chick told him we are not going to fuck we are just going to talk or whatever, he said ok. I would never agree to something like that. I would respond with one of my favorite things to say: We'll see. There is no way I would ever take fucking off the table. Funny thing about women is that they feel free not fucking when you are spending your money. Women like to fuck just as much as men but they don't want to let on to it. Had she paid her own way there I guarantee you she would not have left that place without getting some dick.

[GrownMan1]

Makes no sense to me. A lot is missing from the story, but seems he could have been more aggressive and told her to get in the bed with him. Also he volunteered $30 babysitter and $50 uber. Let them take the bus.

I also do not get fucking a chick and then trying to "wean her off"? Maybe that is how I am different. I don't just go fucking regular

Come on E you've been a vet so long you forgot how we as newbies think. Most of us want non-pros and / or GFE. We lie about our age, living location, Marriage status, occupation, and a whole Lotta other shit to make us look like The guy we want them to perceive. Once we complicate our ejective then we slowly pull our heads out the Lions mouth.

While he was talking to her online they establish they were going to meet. Just meet no sex. Just getting to know one another. From that point they are no longer playing checkers. She's thinking I'm going to show him I'm different and I'm serious about playing my part. He's thinking she's acting so serious I'm going to get that pussy when she comes over. To show he's a good guy he volunteers to pays for her babysitter and Uber. She arrives and they have seriously intimate conversations. He loves the fact that she can speak English. The language barrier will always be a problem in meeting a Spanish Chica unless you speak it.

She showed him how determined she was. After the great conversation and small flirting; she got tired and took her position on the couch. Check. By 330 he found himself on vacation, pussy at his fingertips, but a lone in the bed by himself. Stuck with a stubborn ass chica who is royally pissing him off and turning him on at the speed. Not being able to take it no more he took an L. To save face he paid for her Uber back. Five days and about 20 Chicas later; he's calling her to see her again. A lot of us are not young wolves anymore. We would have left those grapes alone after the first or second Failed attempt. Vets to this game understand that being straight up and forward is the best defense.

When he called her back I saw them leaving going on a date. They both looked happy with each other. Three days later he Finally got her. He achieved his adjective. Now he's looking for the next challenge.

[Mr Enternational]

The very next day he told me how The night went down. They talked a lot and she was very opinionated. About 1230 she said she was tired and going to sleep. She went to the couch and fell asleep. He went to his room and did the same.
It took him about 3 1/2 days to finally get her. He said the sex was good but now he's off to Greener pastures. Typical gringo. A very common and predictable outcome.

Makes no sense to me. A lot is missing from the story, but seems he could have been more aggressive and told her to get in the bed with him. Also he volunteered $30 babysitter and $50 uber. Let them take the bus.

I also do not get fucking a chick and then trying to "wean her off"? Maybe that is how I am different. I don't just go fucking regular chicks then try to ditch them. I make friends with people and try to stay friends with people. Never know when you will need that friend. And even if we have not talked in a long time we can pick right back up at the drop of a hat.

A chick from Santo Domingo came to visit me in the States 4th of July last year. Stayed at my house. Holiday celebration with my family and all. Hell, I had been dealing with her for 3 or 4 years and I didn't even know she spoke English until she was hanging around my cousins at the pool while I was swimming. But I had totally forgotten about her until the other day when I was searching my whatsapp for another chick with a similar name.

It was just 3 days shy of 1 year since I last talked to her. Picked up right where we left off. Me blaming her for not sending me a message and her blaming me for not sending her a message. Still friends and she said she will come back to visit next time she has vacation. She is the one I called asking what to do that time the machine ate my card at Santo Domingo airport because she works at that bank's corporate office.

Also spoke to an ex-girlfriend from years ago that lives in Salcedo. She used to come visit me in Sosua all the time when I used to hang out there. She said she would come visit me in the States next summer.

I just don't get trying to burn bridges and get rid of people. Maybe that is why I have so many chicks, because I don't just throw them away like that guy said he was going to do. I be pack-ratting chicks.

[GrownMan1]

I met a guy from my home state in Boca Chica. His partners had a hand in managing the Anhvee in the Su. However, he was in Boca Chica getting his fill of the country. He was Dolo solo however he was operating well for someone with a little knowledge of the country.

He was using the Tinder app setting up dates with girls that he found interest in. One of the girls he met on tinder was from PC. She spoke Conversational English which was a plus for him. Besides his translator he didn't speak Spanish.

We talked briefly and he told me how excited he was to meet the young lady. Golden brown Dominican about a 7 on the looks scale.

They agreed that she was coming to meet him. He paid $30 for a babysitting fee and $50 for an Uber. Since he was not asking me for my advice; I kept my comments to myself.

The very next day he told me how The night went down. They talked a lot and she was very opinionated. About 1230 she said she was tired and going to sleep. She went to the couch and fell asleep. He went to his room and did the same. At about 3:30 in the morning he woke up pissed because she was still on the couch. Yeah he paid for her babysitter and Uber plus they went out on a date sparing no expenses.

By 530 he was telling her it's time for her to leave. She was a little ticked about it however he did pay for her Uber ride back.

He later left to the Su to be with his boys. When I talk to him he was having a good time. He told me he was averaging five chicas a day.

He later came back to the Boca chica area. Guess who he called to come and visit. Yep The same chica who wouldn't just give him sex! Poor young fox couldn't get those grapes off his mind.

It took him about 3 1/2 days to finally get her. He said the sex was good but now he's off to Greener pastures. Typical gringo. A very common and predictable outcome.

[Mr Enternational]

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

That is for guys that want to believe they are getting a better or less used chick. And also a good excuse for a chick to charge you more. Nobody is separating chicks that go to SA from chicks that go to Tinder, from chicks that go to Skokka, or any other site. As with any site you will have to weed through to get what you want. The other day a guy in the Medellin thread was saying there have been a lot of scammers on SA recently.

The site is primarily used by American guys to find sugar babies to support in the USA. I guess for guys that like to use the semi-pro euphemism. My mind does not work like that. For me it is either I am forking over money or I am not. Ain't no such thing as semi-paying; same as in my mind there is no such thing as semi-pro - she fucking for money or she isn't.

[GrownMan1]

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

SA $90 A month are you serious? Dominican Cupid Tinder and tag are free to join. They do offer upgraded membership between 19 and $30 per month.
In my opinion DC offers more when you're trying to meet someone or they are trying to meet you based on compatibility. You create a profile where are you talk a little bit about yourself. You're allowed to disclose personal information. I E do you have children living with you. Once you pay for the subscription you can directly communicate with any Member.

Tinder is more new generation. You basically say what area you are looking for in the age range. They start giving you pictures for you to like or dismiss. When a Mutual like is established; you can start to converse with her. If you paid the $19.99 upgraded membership fee.

Tag is like my space. Very outdated and not popularly used.
Most of us would prefer meeting non-pros and getting GFE. However I caution newbies about this route. Know how much time you have for your vacation. If you are on a short vacation stop wasting your time trying to look for a normal relationship. What I mean is if you only have five days in the country, do you want to waste three days of Wining and dining trying to have sex with one chica who is not planning on giving any sex until she gets to know you better.

[StrawHat]

I've used SA for years now so yes, the monthly cost gets me in the door. I'm comfortable with using Seeking and have been successful over the years.

I just joined DominicanCupid a few weeks ago and have not yet successfully connected in person with anyone from that site. I'm giving myself time to get the feel of that site. Chica availability seems different than seeking but based on the noted success of others on this forum, I will keep plugging away till I figure it out.

Strawhat.

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

[Nite_Runner]

I began my mongering time in the DR using DR Cupid. There was a broad variety of girls. Non pros to scammers. I will be seeing my 1st cupid girl from 8 years ago this weekend. She still turns me on and she knows what I like and how to do it. I nolonger use any dating sites beecause I have aquired a phone fill of girls. Every girl on cupid was different and many were very nice. Almost all were looking for boy friends. The semipros were the true gems. They are willing to meet up with you and be your girlfriend for a while with no strings attached. They will give you convincing GFE at a reasonable price. For me Cupid was a real winner.

I just checked the monthly fee for SA is its $90 per month. For those that have experience with such, do you just consider this the "cost of doing business" or should I look for cheaper online options such as Cupid?

[Mr Gogo]

I'm doing my morning walk on El Conde and one of the expats who stays near the university walked with me. We stopped at the coconut water spot on Conde for a large, no sugar, a little ice for 125 pesos.

He said its a spot near his condo that has a nice Colmado and working girls. We walked down to the malecon and walked west for 38 minutes to the only gas station on the malecon. Oh shit, this is my spot from back in the day that me and Mr E used to frequent.

The gas station used to be a hess now its an ESO. Nelly car rental is 50 feet away. We post up and grab two president lights small. Another Conde expat hit me up and asked where we were so he caught a taxi from Conde to our spot for 200 pesos. The presidents turned into a bottle of Brugal followed by another. The vultures were circling us.

One dike with a punk rock haircut with a fat girl, an older mature lady sitting sola at the bar and chics walking by trying to catch our eyes. I see this pretty slim girl with spandex pants, pretty feet and a foot tattoo. Her name is Anna. She is from Azua and approached me and I reached out to shake her hand when my boy cut her path and snatched her from me. I laughed because he always does this so I sit back and enjoy the show. The Anna snatcher had been hounding every girl walking by, so I figured he would trip himself up eventually. These girls can get possessive at times. Even Anny had my guard up because she was trying too hard. She danced for us, showed off her pretty feet and even grabbed a broom and swept our area and cleaned our small table.

I'm still side eyeing the older chica sola at the counter but in reality I'm not fucking any of these girls, just enjoying my time on the wild side. Two other nice girls pulled up a seat and brought two beers.

My boy said Anna told him 1500 pesos TLN and 15 minutes later they were gone. I was hungry and didn't want beans, rice and chicken so we headed back to Conde for a spot that has a great salad with chicken and shrimp, Fenix for 550 pesos.

I never felt unsafe on the west end and I would recommend adventurous mongers to take a trip down there. With the curfew, 5-8 pm is best. Back in the day the weirdos would come out after 9 pm. Crackheads, scantily dressed skanks, I've even seen a girl on crutches missing a leg selling pussy.