Santo Domingo

[Charles Pooter]

... personally I do tend to prefer Haitianas to Dominicanas, but I don't think you can automatically assume they are more trustworthy.

They are definitely more trustworthy on the average. I assume you meant to write "not all more trustworthy". The only bad ones I have come across were in Sosua. Never a problem with Pto Pta haitianas.

[Frannie]

But Frannie, therein lies the problem: thinking a Dominican hooker will stick to an agreement.

That is the whole point of negotiating carefully before committing. It gives you a chance to get a feel for the character and personality of the girl and whether you and she have any kind of rapport, shared sense of humor, and so on. Of course there are some who will not stick to an agreement, but if you are a skilled chica-picker, you should be able to improve your odds. Having said that, personally I do tend to prefer Haitianas to Dominicanas, but I don't think you can automatically assume they are more trustworthy.

[Mr Enternational]

You are overthinking it. I am just saying that making sure that the chica is on board with whatever your fantasy about her might be is usually the best strategy. There are plenty of reports on these boards of guys being disappointed when a girl won't do oral sex without condom, anal sex, girl-on-girl threesome activity, and so on. In those cases it is nearly always because they have made assumptions about what the chica will do without getting advance confirmation and enthusiastic consent. Similarly in those situations where the girl is taken for all night and then leaves early, it would be worth while to agree on what time she will leave, discuss what other commitments she might have the next morning, such as child care, if any, and so on.

But Frannie, therein lies the problem: thinking a Dominican hooker will stick to an agreement.

[Frannie]

It still begs the question of how you know that is what caused you to have the best results if you never NOT did it. No control trial.

You are overthinking it. I am just saying that making sure that the chica is on board with whatever your fantasy about her might be is usually the best strategy. There are plenty of reports on these boards of guys being disappointed when a girl won't do oral sex without condom, anal sex, girl-on-girl threesome activity, and so on. In those cases it is nearly always because they have made assumptions about what the chica will do without getting advance confirmation and enthusiastic consent. Similarly in those situations where the girl is taken for all night and then leaves early, it would be worth while to agree on what time she will leave, discuss what other commitments she might have the next morning, such as child care, if any, and so on.

[Mr Enternational]

Personally I have always got the best results by talking dirty or talking about sex before doing anything with a girl to find out about her attitudes and what turns her on, what kind of experience she has, what was her best sexual experience ever, and so on.

It still begs the question of how you know that is what caused you to have the best results if you never NOT did it. No control trial.

[Frannie]

I think some guys read too much into this by trying to bring other dynamics into the equation. We present a fantasy to get a fantasy plain and simple.

Guys get very confused about these things. The women you meet are for the most part in the business of exchanging sex for money, but there are still a hell of a lot of stipulations when it comes to fantasy fulfillment in terms of what they will or won't do and YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY. Some of the girls will do anything that they think is safe in exchange for money, while others try to maintain an element of self respect by fooling themselves into thinking they are in a romantic relationship, and a large number, probably the majority, fall somewhere in-between.

Others will be more willing to enter into sex for money if they think they are going to enjoy the sex. I remember some conversations involving chicas who were talking to other chicas and did not realise that I am fluent in Spanish, when for example a girl was describing how her date of last night enjoyed performing oral sex on her all night, together with grimaces and wriggling and laughing, or another girl who worked in a salon had just lined up a date for that evening with a very good looking young German guy and was grabbing her pussy and boasting that she was going to get fucked good and proper tonight.

The majority of girls, I would say, would like a date with a good looking guy with good manners, speaking Spanish being a plus, but most of the time they have to settle for less. When it comes to fantasy fulfillment, you really have to take it on a case by case basis. For example if you want two girls to perform lesbian sex together, there will be many stipulations regarding whom they will do it with and what they will do. For example a girl may be perfectly happy bringing another girl off by touching her pussy with her hand, but will absolutely refuse to perform oral sex on her. "There is no way I am putting my mouth where another woman pisses. ".

So the bottom line is yes, money will get you into these girls' panties, but what happens next and how enjoyable it is and whether it fulfills your fantasies depends on a multitude of other factors that are functions of how you and she relate together. Personally I have always got the best results by talking dirty or talking about sex before doing anything with a girl to find out about her attitudes and what turns her on, what kind of experience she has, what was her best sexual experience ever, and so on. Even if they don't always tell the truth, it seems to make them horny talking about sexual fantasies, and it is always fun to talk one into something she has never done before when you can see that she is acting reluctant, but fascinated and excited by the idea.

[D Cups]

QUOTE=Mr Enternational; honestly do not know what they could do better if I took them to the movies or out to eat. Maybe they would give extra suction while my dick was in their mouth. QUOTE.

Hi E, you have a good point. My #1 squeeze in SD is paid handsomely paid (4 K) but she never lets me take her to movies or dinner even though I would like to. Or maybe she really doesn't want to be seen with me outside of the hotel. I dunno. But I always bring her a nice 42 DDD bra because she can't seem to find one that fits her there. She must be married or something because she only stays an hour. But what an hour it is! Aye yi yi she is so beautiful caramel skin so smooth and so stacked and she seems to enjoy being filmed. She is 27. My #2 squeeze is even more stacked but a little heavier and only 21. Jet black and pretty face. Dios mio her 44 DDDs smother me and she lets me take pics but no video. I have taken her to dinner and dancing but her policeman father doesn't let her stay the night. I pay her 2 - 3 K for a few hours and she is worth it. My #3 squeeze is a super sexy vanilla Venezuelan 32 years old 36 D but alas six months pregnant (it wasn't me). I have taken her to dinner and movies a couple of times and she spent the night for 2 K. But I will pass on her when I am there in a couple of weeks until after she has the baby. She loves being filmed on her knees with my schwantztooka in her mouth. Can't wait to see her next May and get some of that mama milk. I've got some other new cupid chicas lined up for my visit 12 - 19 November so we'll see how that goes. This time I'm staying at Maison Gautreaux which others have reported is only a one star so if its really bad I'll transfer and splurge at Crowne Plaza just up the same block. If anyone wants to hang for beer and cigars during the day just PM me but I'm not into the casas. Cheers from the Santo Domingo gringo.

[Wrx2005]

Take how Mr E views things regarding Old Kool. Mr E is hardcore and believes that because he has paid that he can hump away while the girl lays there and be gone 30 minutes later. To him that qualifies as a good session. Old Kool presents more and something different so maybe while he is humping away she is even more interested in giving him a good session by humping him back. She might not rush, she may give him seconds and she maybe will sit by the phone waiting for Old Kool to call. When Mr E calls the girl might have the attitude like "Hell no!, but I need the money" its business but with Old Kool it's fun and exciting. I guarantee you if both these guys called Old Kool will be the guy she goes with 100 percent of the time

As you can see, Mr E took some exception to your assessment. Most folks might take exception to being compartmentalized like that or to have someone else tell them what their alleged perspective / MO supposedly represents to that person or other people relating to them.

[Mr Enternational]

Take how Mr E views things regarding Old Kool. Mr E is hardcore and believes that because he has paid that he can hump away while the girl lays there and be gone 30 minutes later. To him that qualifies as a good session. Old Kool presents more and something different so maybe while he is humping away she is even more interested in giving him a good session by humping him back. She might not rush, she may give him seconds and she maybe will sit by the phone waiting for Old Kool to call. When Mr E calls the girl might have the attitude like "Hell no!, but I need the money" its business but with Old Kool it's fun and exciting. I guarantee you if both these guys called Old Kool will be the guy she goes with 100 percent of the time.

But for some reason that example falsely assumes that my girl does not hump me back and Old Kool's girl does. I posted pictures of when I went to the GBP chick before the last house. Another GBP chick invited my boy to stay at her house in Santiago. I don't know why they would do that for some clown they met in a short time session that they just needed the quick money from.

I don't get into the Pretty Woman Syndrome. I would rather date chicks that I don't have to pay and pay hookers for fucking. I don't hire a maid and take her to the movies beforehand, thinking now she will get my house extra clean. No. I want her to immediately get down to what she was hired for. If she does a good job then I will hire her again. If not, then I will look for a new maid.

And you don't know. Old Kool's girl may be thinking this mf is going to try to make me spend the whole day with him for these funky 1000 pesos. If I go with Mr E then it will only take me 30 minutes to get the 1000 pesos that I need then I can be on my way.

It reminds me of when people say they get great sessions from chicks because they tip. How can they attribute the great session to a tip when A) the tip is generally given after the session and B) they have no control trial to compare it to where they experienced a session with the girl when they gave no tip? So while Old Kool attributes a chick knocking his socks off to him taking her to the movies, a chick from my short time session must be knocking my socks off because she either likes me, she is getting money, she is a great service provider and takes pride in her work. I honestly do not know what they could do better if I took them to the movies or out to eat. Maybe they would give extra suction while my dick was in their mouth.

By the way, you get 1 hour at GBP for 1200 pesos. What a bargain!

[Wrx2005]

WRX you say we are never responsible for their lives or problems, and I agree. But then you say we have to figure out their perspective, which I disagree with. It's irrelevant what their perspective is, it's about how they present / perform the fantasy that I'm also presenting. I don't trust women so WU or marriage is a failed mission on their part.

You said I said we have to figure out their perspective, but you disagree. Can you be more specific on what perspective and the context or situation that I was talking about that we have to figure out?

Take how Mr E views things regarding Old Kool. Mr E is hardcore and believes that because he has paid that he can hump away while the girl lays there and be gone 30 minutes later. To him that qualifies as a good session. Old Kool presents more and something different so maybe while he is humping away she is even more interested in giving him a good session by humping him back. She might not rush, she may give him seconds and she maybe will sit by the phone waiting for Old Kool to call. When Mr E calls the girl might have the attitude like "Hell no!, but I need the money" its business but with Old Kool it's fun and exciting. I guarantee you if both these guys called Old Kool will be the guy she goes with 100 percent of the time.

That is a reasonable deduction based on what we think we know of how each man operates. However, I'm not quite sure I want to rely on that assumption alone.

Especially when I do not know all of the variables that can apply to why a female has gravitated to one particular guy and not another. Maybe there are things being done with these females were not privy to? I recall one of these men awhile ago claiming that he uses bait to lure women. I'm almost certain he was alluding to money, gifts, and whatever it would take to get the female motivated to take the bait. So yeah, if you include that as well as showing some chick a good time, it makes sense to deduce that that woman might gravitate to a certain guy. However, many of us might not go that route, and see that as something negative, not something positive. Meanwhile the guy who keeps it simple, he may be getting his fantasy met with another woman. It doesn't have to be the same woman that was lured by the other guy.

I think some guys read too much into this by trying to bring other dynamics into the equation. We present a fantasy to get a fantasy plain and simple. We should adjust our techniques according to how far outside of this fantasy we are drifting (money spent, time, attitude problems etc). If her Dominican boyfriend calls, if she lied, is irrelevant as long as she sticks with my fantasy. Plus I expect other shit to present itself being she is a female. Some guys don't want the fantasy and just want to bust a nut, and I respect that, but I don't pay all the money and time to fly there to just bust a 20 minute nut. Some guys want an experience and we can create our own like we can't get at home. It's when you get outside the fantasy and deal with other shit that it becomes complicated.

For the most part, I think it all boils down to each man has a right to operate the way he sees fit for himself. If one guy wants to keep things simple, present a fantasy to get a fantasy, that should be his perogative. If another guy chooses to bring other dynamics into the equation, for whatever reason that is his as well. Just because each man sees another mans pursuits as complicated or simplistic, that doesn't mean it is SO for that individual.

I get it, that we all operate differently. You know what works for you. But by the same token, nobody can define what someone elses experiences or pursuit represents for them. Nor should they to you. Ol Kools style is his. Mr E's style is his. My style is mine. The last thing we need is for anyone to tell us what our style / technique/lifestyle represents to us, just because they have a different style / technique/lifestyle. Nobodys MO directly affects another. Does it matter if one sees or does things one way, and another sees and does things differently?

Now when you live there it's no longer about the fantasy because you are living it. Naturally because you are connected you become more involved and the other dynamics take on more meaning. You become more cost conscious, you become more inquisitive, you have time to pay attention to normal shit and it's relation to you but as tourists we can keep it simple and fly to fantasy island for what we dream about at home.

That statement almost reads like, now that expats have more stuff on their plates, those guys that live there don't keep things simple like us guys on vacation. My question would be to anyone feeling similarly, is how do you know that the guys that live in fantasy island arent fully enjoying the simplistics you and other vacationers enjoy as well as the extra dynamics associated with living in the DR? Maybe some folks are more communicative and expressive than one expects. That doesn't mean they make things complicated. Or cant also enjoy simplistic mongering, while also relating to those on vacation?.

Metaphorically speaking, why can't expats walk and chew gum at the same time. LOL Moreover, I see many guys on vacation spending quality time talking to expats, gathering information in contemplation of moving to the DR. For those individuals, expats provide a valuable resource for men that need good intel. In enough instances, many men have started to make adjustments in their behavior and how they operate based on what they may have learned. I always think it's a good idea not to define someone elses reality or what someone elses perspective means to them. Because what is assumed or observed may not be the whole picture of what individuals experience or relate to. For instance, nobody can tell me what life represents to me living in Sosua just because they wouldnt do it. Whenever i hear guys claim how bored they get after 3 days in Sosua, and that there isnt anything to do, I tune that out. Their perspective is not my reality.

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[Mr Gogo]

WRX you say we are never responsible for their lives or problems, and I agree. But then you say we have to figure out their perspective, which I disagree with. It's irrelevant what their perspective is, it's about how they present / perform the fantasy that I'm also presenting. I don't trust women so WU or marriage is a failed mission on their part.

Take how Mr E views things regarding Old Kool. Mr E is hardcore and believes that because he has paid that he can hump away while the girl lays there and be gone 30 minutes later. To him that qualifies as a good session. Old Kool presents more and something different so maybe while he is humping away she is even more interested in giving him a good session by humping him back. She might not rush, she may give him seconds and she maybe will sit by the phone waiting for Old Kool to call. When Mr E calls the girl might have the attitude like "Hell no!, but I need the money" its business but with Old Kool it's fun and exciting. I guarantee you if both these guys called Old Kool will be the guy she goes with 100 percent of the time.

I think some guys read too much into this by trying to bring other dynamics into the equation. We present a fantasy to get a fantasy plain and simple. We should adjust our techniques according to how far outside of this fantasy we are drifting (money spent, time, attitude problems etc). If her Dominican boyfriend calls, if she lied, is irrelevant as long as she sticks with my fantasy. Plus I expect other shit to present itself being she is a female. Some guys don't want the fantasy and just want to bust a nut, and I respect that, but I don't pay all the money and time to fly there to just bust a 20 minute nut. Some guys want an experience and we can create our own like we can't get at home. It's when you get outside the fantasy and deal with other shit that it becomes complicated.

Now when you live there it's no longer about the fantasy because you are living it. Naturally because you are connected you become more involved and the other dynamics take on more meaning. You become more cost conscious, you become more inquisitive, you have time to pay attention to normal shit and it's relation to you but as tourists we can keep it simple and fly to fantasy island for what we dream about at home.

[Wrx2005]

Where do you come up with this stuff? Now you have to vie for a hooker's affection by taking her to the movies and out to eat and dance (AND PAY HER) in order to get a good session? I thought the purpose of paying for pussy was so you did not have to do all of the courting - and could cut right to the chase. I have never done such as you recommend and damn near always get a stellar session; especially the ST sessions in GBP, which is a casa.

Last time I hit a chick who had only been there 1 week. I think she said she had made 7000 pesos so far. (Do the math: 7000 pesos/600 (I think that is her cut) pesos per session = roughly 11 sessions in 6 days, so 2 sessions per day. She could possibly make 28k pesos or US$600 in 1 month.)

She blew my socks off as they usually do. I started getting their number and having them come for 2000 LT after work or on Sundays when they are off if I have nothing else to do. Me and the bartender traded info and now she sends me messages when new girls come. I am still trying to get her to send me pictures of the new girls to no avail.

I tend to look at women the way I do an electronic chess set. Any move you make on an electronic chess set, the machine will calculate it's own move. So when it comes to women, I don't see their movements, impressions and such as genuine interest or behavior. . I just look at it as them adapting to the moves we make.

Sort of like Matrix programming. Some women are good at attempting to fulfill a mans assumed fantasy. Others have no clue or interest in doing so. But one thing many of us should know about women in the DR. These women don't just like fucking, they love to fuck. Knowing that, I'm not impressed as I once was if I happen to have a good session. I don't readily associate it with something I did. I realize, women just like us, have their good days and their off days.

If anybody has ever paid close attention, that same woman that a guy wined and dined yesterday can be observed behaving the exact same way with another guy the next day, or the next hour. Laughing joking, frolicking, eating, drinking the whole nine. Of course enough guys don't get to see this, so they may assume there is something special about them or something they did. Women are masters of maintaining appearances and impressions. They are like extras in a movie. Blend in to the scene, and make everything look natural.

I tend to believe men are the ones that catch feelings quicker than these women do. The man is trying to give generously to reinforce good sex, and possibly a relationship/connection, and the woman is supplying sex to reinforce a man to continue paying generously. The sex in of itself is used for recreation and a means to an end/goal.

[Mr Enternational]

If you want good action you have to have some kind of relationship. Whether she is a pro or " good girl" the way you vibe together is what determines her desire to please you. I make an effort gain the chicas affection. If all you want is a quick nut then the casas will make your day. However if you want a quality experience take some time with the girls. I took a cute SW to the movies and had a meal. She tried to kill me with gratitude. I had make her stop.

Where do you come up with this stuff? Now you have to vie for a hooker's affection by taking her to the movies and out to eat and dance (AND PAY HER) in order to get a good session? I thought the purpose of paying for pussy was so you did not have to do all of the courting - and could cut right to the chase. I have never done such as you recommend and damn near always get a stellar session; especially the ST sessions in GBP, which is a casa.

Last time I hit a chick who had only been there 1 week. I think she said she had made 7000 pesos so far. (Do the math: 7000 pesos/600 (I think that is her cut) pesos per session = roughly 11 sessions in 6 days, so 2 sessions per day. She could possibly make 28k pesos or US$600 in 1 month.)

She blew my socks off as they usually do. I started getting their number and having them come for 2000 LT after work or on Sundays when they are off if I have nothing else to do. Me and the bartender traded info and now she sends me messages when new girls come. I am still trying to get her to send me pictures of the new girls to no avail.

[Wrx2005]

I have had maybe 20 girls I put in the number one spot over the last two years and only two are still communicating with me. It's funny but I think these girls have other gringo options and move me to the back of the line for when everything else dries up. Then you get that message out if nowhere that says " te extrao mi amor".

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The bottom line is, whoever is there at the moment, it is his / their turn. Any other guy in town or nearby, will be rotated and properly drained of his resources accordingly. Anybody sitting at home on his phone or computer is completely out of the loop. Remember Reverend IKE? You can send us $49.95 and I'll send you this cloth or holy water. This way you'll maintain your place in the eys of blankity blank.

This is how some guys get caught up sending money. They are hoping the offering will keep their memory with the woman alive. It is delusional for any of us to entertain any idea that we are the only source these women rely on or extract from. Some women like to brag about how many guys they have on the hook for WU or generous BFs.. Who all are thinking they are helping this poor soul, and keeping themselves relevant with her..

Here's a valid question. Of all of the 20 women you put in the number one spot, what spot did these women put you in? Especially in relation to all of the other men they may have been dealing with? My point is sometimes we pay more attention to OUR side of the issue than seeing things from their perspective, and concurrently.. And as you may recall a saying I use. "Where you stand on the issue depends on where you sit." That applies to all parties.

All men need to look up Briffaults Law on YT. Or read a brief summary. After digesting that, one just might get a better understanding of how useless it is to expect more from associating with women than what we get. .

[Wrx2005]

Good post WRX. It goes to what BQ told me after going through the full gamut with my La Vega girl. He said the screening process evolves around the ones who don't ask for anything long term. La Vega slow played it and was happy with my generosity when visiting. But after a few months she went all-in. Mom has cancer, baby sick, you don't care to send money don't talk to me. We didn't speak for two weeks then she sent me nude pictures with a " I'm sorry ". Two weeks later she was back to needing help with the hardships in the DR. She faded away thinking either I'm not the same nice guy anymore or the gringo got smart.

I have had maybe 20 girls I put in the number one spot over the last two years and only two are still communicating with me. It's funny but I think these girls have other gringo options and move me to the back of the line for when everything else dries up. Then you get that message out if nowhere that says " te extrao mi amor".

I understand more about how WRX thinks by hanging out with him. He goes directly to " Go" and has no need to go around the board. I like the chase, I like the interaction, I like having a female playing my game but for the time and money I put the into it, is it really worth it? For some it is but for some it isn't.

Right now I have two reliable girls who will come to me anywhere and will not ask for anything but I'm not cheap with them. I also have about five fake girlfriends who are slick and I have to check once every visit. But I also like a newbie to keep it fresh but most of them revert back to the standard " get gringo " mentality and that makes me not wanting anymore time with them.

P.S. Damn I miss Oakie and his interesting take on thing.

Mr G, what we consider long term in instances like what you described is nothing. Marriage to a woman for decades, now that's what I consider a LONG TERM hustle.

IMHO, women have the LONG TERM game mastered just as much as any SHORT TERM or Instantaneous Game. We know this to be true. The ultimate Long Term game It's called marriage. A woman can marry a man for decades, feed off of that man, maintain a faade of love and devotion, have children, acquire houses, go on vacations, go into business (and much more) until. She no longer wants to participate. Until she decides to cash in her chips.

The Long term were talking about here, dealing with these women aint nothing in comparison to the ultimate Long Term Game. I tend to believe, to protect our best interests we should stop measuring a womans sincerity by time frames and orchestrated impressions designed for our benefit.

Just deem women in general as being untrustworthy, with zero credibility. Anything they project at any given moment is only designed to make an impression. That impression is only valid for that moment, not a day, not a week, a month, certainly not a lifetime.

For instance, when I was younger out there trying to date in the US, me and my boys always got high off of little shit a female would do that we liked. As you can see, years later, many of us have not changed. We still are easily impressed over little shit. Now it's with poorer women.

If a chick, left a tip. If the chick paid the bill, or her share. If the chick leaned over to open my car door, If she had a job. If she drove a car. If she cooked, If she never asked for anything etc. We would be impressed and brag to each other over trivial shit like that. We would tell each other that we had a "good girl" or somebody worth building on. WTF?

Meanwhile all of that was pure delusion on our parts. We wanted to believe so much that what was represented was the womans character. We were boosted with pride for being the lucky sap that found this lovely creature. And now she was all mine. Or so we thought. Only goes to show, males / men can be just as emotional against their own best interests as females can be.

A womans strength and focus is to make the appropriate impression to get the results she seeks. Being genuine is not necessarily important

The thing with women, enough of them tend to under estimate mens awareness of them, the game and life in general. Men for the most part, generally just want a fair deal. I do this for you, you do this for me. Barter and exchange. Unfortunately with women, once they see we like them, they get to see us enjoying ourselves with them, see us come good with them, they think that many of us are easy prey that they can exploit to the fullest. They don't realize that for many of us, our vulnerability is only a temporary condition for that moment or situation.

Common sense, and our self respect has not necessarily taken leave of absence. But for enough women I believe they think we are vulnerable and ripe to be tested further to see what they can get out of us. Some of us rationalize. Oh she's a good girl, she took care of me in the bedroom, she never asked for anything blah blah blah. None of that has anything to do with her having good character. That's just our delusional reasoning. over the success of the impression they made on us.

As men we love to reward women for just being human with us. As if the shit they do is so special. Our hope is, that a woman will appreciate what we do for them, and not do anything to fuck up the arrangement. But in most cases, they always do. Always fucking up a good thing. Always trying to take advantage of a mans generosity or good will. Which means, many of us realize that a relationship, and / or arrangement with a woman is always a seasonal endeavor. There is almost never anything permanent or everlasting.

The idea is to enjoy it while you can, don't get too emotionally attached, avoid giving more than what is / was earned ( BIG problem for many of us ) , let it go it's course until it comes to an end. Isn't that how all of our relationships and arangements have evolved? Beginning, middle and end. All we have to do is, be conscious enough to follow the flow, and calculate wisely what mode you are in with a female. Some situations end abruptly the moment the woman sees no benefit coming their way.

I don't know if you recall us having this convo, but also bear in mind, that guys that don't live in the country these women are, are treated or handled somewhat differently than guys that live there. A vacationing guy is probably 30 to 50% more likely to be hit with requests for shit, than a guy that lives there. Guys that don't live there, are more vulnerable because while away they are trying to maintain a connection with these women. A woman recognizes that interest and vulnerability. That connection, that mans interest in that woman, is the type of thing that a woman will tax you on. "oh you like me, huh?" "Oh shit, that's going to cost ya" You recall ever expressing liking a girl? The moment she saw you liked her, she started acting like you owed her or was entitled to benefits because of your like. . She feels free to come at you with her problems to solve.

When men reciprocate that syrupy shit that these women deluge us with, all of that is designed to weaken your NO power. Turn it into a yes. A maybe is acceptable, cause it at least pumps up her ego of the power she has over us. . At the very least, us thinking we have control by telling her, we'll see after we get back down there. The womans goal is to get you emotionally attached to her as soon as possible. If she can get you to assumje she is your GF or you her BF, she can attempt to manipulate you better.

The truth is, we are never responsible for their lives or problems, especially when we aren't there. For the most part, aint no Dominican or Haitian man approached with any of the BS that we get. And the women arent likely to try, except with one that may be weak. When any of these chicks claim they need 50 pesos or 200 pesos to get in a club, have you ever observed any ask any local guys standing around? Nope, but they'll march right up to us with no hesitation.. And quickly call us cheapy cheapy or any other known derogatory. The local man will look at that chick like she is fucking crazy. Meanwhile these local men may get more juice from these women than we do, for less money and effort or for barter and exchange.