Hong Kong Club Reports

[SeaBeeJoe]

I do know how to talk to women. I do not enjoy the way traditional dating works where I am at, and I get much more satisfaction from mongering or an accelerated form of dating that involves pay to play.

Maybe you don't like prostitutes, that's up to you.

Me personally, I don't care if they are "prostitutes". I've had terrific experiences from mongering and I would like to continue that.

My career is already established so I'm not too worried about that.

Even if I got bored of Tijuana I would be in the same situation I'm in now, so it wouldn't really matter to me.

Thank you all for the input, I appreciate it.

I will most likely end up doing this, already figuring out how to make it happen.

Reasons why if anyone cares: personal decision, not much else I'm working on or towards in life right now, and I know that if I were to move my options for sex will only increase which is a worthwhile improvement to me.

Then buddy you should do what you want and not ask anyone for their advice. You obviously don't like what people have told you so go do you. Let us know how it all works out for you on these forums, I am sure many are interested in reading what you decide and will do.

[Turgid]

This gal in a booth in inside a club invited me to come in for private time. I thought we need negotiated 30 min of fun for 60 francs.

After I paid and entered the booth. She screamed when I tried to touch her. Apparently touching was not allowed.

I was pissed but had no recourse. Even though I had paid via credit card there was no recourse.

I went back to the hotel with Rosie Palmer.

Ha ha, this very thing happened to me in my first ever visit to Hollywood, Ca. 50 years ago. $20. She got naked and all I was allowed to do was watch. It was really for photographers, I did not know that and did not have a camera, LOL LOL LOL!

[Turgid]

I went on a weekday night and didn't get asked once if I wanted a drink. I sat on the balcony upstairs just watching and no one asked if I wanted something to eat or drink. I would have bought something, but just finished dinner and felt full. I'm thinking the guy that keeps getting pestered must have had chicas hanging off him near the center stage and everyone thought they better get their money and propinas before he spends it upstairs. 🤣 I left after 1-2 hours without buying a drink or food and no chica came by asking for a tip. I usually only experience that in TB. Also didn't see the person selling flowers so maybe the poster went on the weekend. Either way, always good to say no gracias or wave them off.

This is good to know.

[Zenduka1]

I totally agree. Nothing but monetary greed and jaded putas has overtaken La Coahuila.

The more the US dating scene continues to rot the more men will March away to places like Tijuana, Bkk and Ptya.

[Dogers69]

Above all, you are your own man and IMO should do as you please (within legal and morally appropriate boundaries). First thought though is a message board focused on the discussion of mongering and hookers is probably NOT where you should be seeking out long-term advice on life.

I also live on the East Coast and visit the San Diego-Tijuana area on average 3 times or so a year. I personally think it's short-sighted and beyond ridicuolous to move to San Diego for the primary purpose of pursuing mongering activities in Tijuana. But then again I don't know the particulars of your life situation (other than what you're written above) so I can only speak for myself.

With that said, there are plenty of solid reasons to move to San Diego that you could consider that have nothing to do with Zona Norte. Awesome weather, beaches, generally laid-back atmosphere, proximity to LA and Las Vegas, etc. I also enjoy plenty of things in Tijuana outside of Zona Norte, like the tacos and relatively low-cost restaurants, breweries, and alcohol.

I've never lived in San Diego and don't even know where you're at on the East Coast so can't speak to job prospects, cost-of-living, and other considerations like that relative to where you live currently. But I do think that whatever key decisions you make in life, you want to be sure you're doing them for the right reasons. Not so sure moving to San Diego for the sole purpose of being close to Tijuana and the Zona Norte chicas is the "right reason" (IMO it's a quite poor reason actually) but again I don't know you or the particulars of your life. You can do as you please and, who knows, moving to San Diego could turn out to be the best decision you ever made. Good luck!

I moved to sd for 6 months year, for 9 yrs now. Hanging in hk 4 x week some years, minimally 2 x week. If I was sick for a week od go 5 x week to make up for lost time. I wpuld never tell a guy not to move to sd because if he's like me, he wants pussy everyday. Not 10 days a year. Some guys won't pay woman outside of mexixo forlegal reasons or they don't ha e asain sex houses in every shopping center. Or are worried to be seen. But if you got $900 a week to blow in Tijuana, you can go 3 x week to bang 2 bar girls each night you go. $3,600 month is nothing to some dudes watching their home and real estate go up in value 40 k a year. The problem with moving to sd is the sd dating scene is extremely difficult if you don't look good with muscles. Because tje girls are all muscled up, at least the non fat ones. For instance a ugly guy, not saying this guys ugly, but a ugly guy, let's say he's a 3, on a 1 to 10 for his age. A ugly dude can nail woman every week in nyc on online aps as long as he knows how to talk to woman, is confident, and has a job. So by moving to sd you are making that decision to probably ly not have a normal life. Although you cpuld date in Tijuana at a similar success rate as nyc if willing to be in Tijuana all the time. Having sex 3 nights a week for $3,600 month does not sound so bad to me, and this is commi g from a guy who ran out of $ for putas 3 yrs ago.

[Zenduka1]

I worked in San Diego after I retired from the military form 2018 to 2021. I had a decent job with the government and was making in the mid 100 k a year and I was single too. The problem is that HK and the Zona Norte being so close for me destroyed my life and my finances as I got addicted. Unless you can be 100% certain you won't get addicted to the lifestyle of mongering and put yourself on a strict budget you will eventually fail like I did. People can bullshit on these forums and tell you they would never fall for a hooker bla bla bla, they all spent a lot of money over the years that they could have used for other things like investments. I think it is better to live away from Tijuana and just visit a couple times a year for fun, but that's only my opinion. San Diego is also super expensive and the rent is sky high. You don't want to live in Tijuana as crossing the border sucks unless you have Global entry or Sentri card. The wait list for this is over a year. Then the lifestyle in Tijuana is completely third world, trust me I tried it for several months, I could not wait to go back to the USA. But like it said it is only my opinion and in the end you will do what you want. Good luck on whatever you decide.

I got a friend who lives in SD and is down in Tijuana every week Mon and Tue. He point blank told me he is addicted. So addicted that he quit his 9-5 computers job years ago and started driving Uber so he has the freedom to move in and out of Tijuana during the low tide days. Not only his finances but his health is now affected because of the drinking. He tried and tried and tried to make the trips every Month instead of every week. He failed every time. This shit is real. If you live in SD be ware.

[Zenduka1]

I went on a weekday night and didn't get asked once if I wanted a drink. I sat on the balcony upstairs just watching and no one asked if I wanted something to eat or drink. I would have bought something, but just finished dinner and felt full. I'm thinking the guy that keeps getting pestered must have had chicas hanging off him near the center stage and everyone thought they better get their money and propinas before he spends it upstairs. 🤣 I left after 1-2 hours without buying a drink or food and no chica came by asking for a tip. I usually only experience that in TB. Also didn't see the person selling flowers so maybe the poster went on the weekend. Either way, always good to say no gracias or wave them off.

You try that in Chicago and see what happens.

[RikyMichaels7]

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[KBToys]

I went on a weekday night and didn't get asked once if I wanted a drink. I sat on the balcony upstairs just watching and no one asked if I wanted something to eat or drink. I would have bought something, but just finished dinner and felt full. I'm thinking the guy that keeps getting pestered must have had chicas hanging off him near the center stage and everyone thought they better get their money and propinas before he spends it upstairs. 🤣 I left after 1-2 hours without buying a drink or food and no chica came by asking for a tip. I usually only experience that in TB. Also didn't see the person selling flowers so maybe the poster went on the weekend. Either way, always good to say no gracias or wave them off.

[Zenduka1]

No mas, no mas.

You read like one of them innocent schmucks who do it all wrong. You sleepwalked into their weave of trap and now you complain, despite all the info put down in these forums.

[Sol12]

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[RikyMichaels7]

You will get bored with Tijuana if you move to San Diego. This isn't the Tijuana of 20 years ago where you had a lot of fun places to go, college kids everywhere on the weekends. The place is full of sharks now. They charge too much for horrible service, and they will rip you off any chance they get. Read all the negative posts now of how horrible the girls are.

I totally agree. Nothing but monetary greed and jaded putas has overtaken La Coahuila.

[RikyMichaels7]

Many of you will recall these infamous words of Roberto Duran as he faced off with Sugar Ray Leonard years ago. Well, I am going to plagiarize these words as I vow to never return to La Coahuila bars again. You ask why? Here we go (all over a 3 day period at Hong Kong and Tropical Bar):

- Forced to buy a beer upon entry into Hong Kong (do they think I won't buy a drink of my choice upon entry?

- Charged $11.00 for a ficha beer and $6. 00 for my own beer (not including tip) (total greed).

- Consistently hounded to buy another drink (even when mine and hers were only half full).

- Scammed to pay $30.00 for an effing Riunite glass of wine.

- Short changed or no changed 4 times (all involving me ordering a beer each time).

- Repeated hounding by dancers and their jockies for propinas when I didn't even see them dance (I was on the other side of the bar).

- Repeated hounding by the chips and nuts guy.

- Harrassed by the waiters who turn their serving trays over to reveal a food menu (and when I say no, they say well your girl is hungry).

- Constant hounding by the flower guy (when I said no 4 times he said, but the girl wants one).

- Hounded to tip the ahole that puts the robe on the girl prior to us going upstairs.

- Hounded to tip the cum guys about to clean the room.

- Hounded by the prick that I paid for the room with the girl for a tip on my way down.

- Short timed by two putas when I was paying for a half hour (I'm talking 20 minutes tops).

- Oh, let's not forget that old bastard that clicks the shocking device in front of your face (who the Hell wants to pay to get shocked?

And my friend and I went down to Rosarito and ordered a drink on the beach and were literally surrounded and hounded by vendors pushing massages, henna tattoos, sunglasses, blankets, etc. Etc.

Getting fleeced like this may be your idea of a good time but for me. No mas, no mas.

[TerOnlyOnce]

Your moving for prostitutes? Yea that's silly kid smh.

Focus on vauble goals in life and learn how to talk to women. Your puting too much value on prostitutes and it's extremely ridiculous.

Hope this helps!

I do know how to talk to women. I do not enjoy the way traditional dating works where I am at, and I get much more satisfaction from mongering or an accelerated form of dating that involves pay to play.

Maybe you don't like prostitutes, that's up to you.

Me personally, I don't care if they are "prostitutes". I've had terrific experiences from mongering and I would like to continue that.

At TerOnlyOnce,

Great advice above from Zenduka1.

But, you can do both. You can live in San Diego area, access Zona on weekends and spend your weekdays focused on building a good life / career.

Zona can only take so much of your time (excitement fades if you go too often) - one night a week is probably a good balance.

My career is already established so I'm not too worried about that.

You will get bored with Tijuana if you move to San Diego. This isn't the Tijuana of 20 years ago where you had a lot of fun places to go, college kids everywhere on the weekends. The place is full of sharks now. They charge too much for horrible service, and they will rip you off any chance they get. Read all the negative posts now of how horrible the girls are.

Even if I got bored of Tijuana I would be in the same situation I'm in now, so it wouldn't really matter to me.

Thank you all for the input, I appreciate it.

I will most likely end up doing this, already figuring out how to make it happen.

Reasons why if anyone cares: personal decision, not much else I'm working on or towards in life right now, and I know that if I were to move my options for sex will only increase which is a worthwhile improvement to me.

[Expat American]

Thanks, good article. I watched this movie Hustlers. This movie Hustlers was in the cinema in Tijuana in the Spanish version and I think all the chicas from the Hong Kong club watched this movie because I read their discussions somewhere on Facebook. I also had such an adventure. A long time ago, when I was younger, I was in Paris, France, and near Place Pigalle there was a bar with a sign saying entry was 5 francs (before the euro). I was given a glass of champagne at the table, a half-naked girl talked to me for maybe 5 minutes, there was a striptease on stage. After a while, the waiter brought a bill for 375 francs (USD 75). For me, a young tourist, it was a fortune back then and I wanted to escape, but a huge security guard caught me at the door and I had no choice but to pay or they would beat me. I think it was some bar operated by the Balkan or North African mafia. So guys don't complain Hong Kong club is not that bad.

That brought back memories. I had the same experience back in the 80's when I was just a teenager bumming through Europe. Some clip joint in Pigalle. Except I had no credit card and not nearly enough cash. They had to let me walk out. Lesson learned early.