Hong Kong Club Reports

[Sol12]

I think that it's okay to settle down with a Mexican woman if you are willing to move to Mexico and assimilate into their culture. But if you are planning to bring her back to the USA then I should warn you that she will start to assimilate into the American culture. She will become Americanized. She will start to want a career. She will start to become independent. She will start becoming equal to you if not dominant. If she makes more money than you, she is going to be dominant. I am uncertain how long it takes for her to make the transition. But she will for certain because we are humans. We assimilate to our environment. It's wired in our survival instincts.

Most girls especially if they are bar girls have about a 7th grade education. So when they come to the US they are just trying to be housewives. The hardest part for those coming to the US is just being isolated from friends and family I know a few guys that married bar girls and the woman wanting to get out and compete in the job market was the last thing they wanted. They expect the man to do that while they stay home with the kids.

[Dg8787]

It might depend on the chica if the meseros know that some do not like to drink a lot. Or if they are known to get too drunk so they water down their shots. But it was definitely mostly water.

Doesn't really matter. You are paying for the chica's time to feel her up. Let's not kid ourselves!

[AmorPorFavor]

Not sure if that is true, but will try their shot next time. I ordered 3 shots and 2 ladies had their shots as well. My shot felt smooth and didn't burn, but the ladies made an expression like their throat was on fire. This was at Chicago club and it cost $60 for the 3 shots. Not sure what brand they were providing, but wasn't bad. Also buy a regular in HK shots and they are priced differently. Some are $9 while others were in the $20-$30 range. She seems to enjoy them more than beer, but if she is tapped out, then declines additional drinks. Fun times. 🤩 10 shots would imagine the lady is dead fish status upstairs. Just 2 shots and I'm buzzed pretty good, but I don't drink so tolerance is probably low.

It might depend on the chica if the meseros know that some do not like to drink a lot. Or if they are known to get too drunk so they water down their shots. But it was definitely mostly water.

[Member #4722]

Not sure if that is true, but will try their shot next time. I ordered 3 shots and 2 ladies had their shots as well. My shot felt smooth and didn't burn, but the ladies made an expression like their throat was on fire. This was at Chicago club and it cost $60 for the 3 shots. Not sure what brand they were providing, but wasn't bad. Also buy a regular in HK shots and they are priced differently. Some are $9 while others were in the $20-$30 range. She seems to enjoy them more than beer, but if she is tapped out, then declines additional drinks. Fun times. 🤩 10 shots would imagine the lady is dead fish status upstairs. Just 2 shots and I'm buzzed pretty good, but I don't drink so tolerance is probably low.

Chicago is the worst with fake shots. Take a sip and you will see. I don't buy tequila for fichas anymore at the bars.

[Member #4730]

Those tequila shots are 90% or more water. I tasted one.

Not sure if that is true, but will try their shot next time. I ordered 3 shots and 2 ladies had their shots as well. My shot felt smooth and didn't burn, but the ladies made an expression like their throat was on fire. This was at Chicago club and it cost $60 for the 3 shots. Not sure what brand they were providing, but wasn't bad. Also buy a regular in HK shots and they are priced differently. Some are $9 while others were in the $20-$30 range. She seems to enjoy them more than beer, but if she is tapped out, then declines additional drinks. Fun times. 🤩 10 shots would imagine the lady is dead fish status upstairs. Just 2 shots and I'm buzzed pretty good, but I don't drink so tolerance is probably low.

[Jackie888]

If I can give you some advice. It sounds like you're not ready to settle down. For me personally sex isn't everything and new pussy is always exciting but I been there done that. I went through a party phase, a pussy phase and now I'm ready for my money / marriage phase.

I have the same trust issues, I mean we met them in a brothel. Its hard to tell if they really like us or if its money / visa they want. Thing is are other women much different? American women won't look at you if you don't have a good income either. At least Mexican women seem to be more honest about it. The culture in Mexico is the man takes care of the girl but at least you get a nice feminine woman who is devoted to you, not like these egotistical manly American women.

If you really are addicted to new pussy then that's fine. Get it out of your system, if not you will always regret it. And some guys never get out of the new pussy phase, that's also fine. We can spend our lives however we see fit.

For me personally the intimacy of just being with a girl beats sex. Sounds weird but that's just me.

Last thing you should upgrade your membership so we can private message. I play poker too. It actually bankrolls a lot of the spending I do in the zona norte. Remember that quote from Rounders? "In the poker game of life, women are the rake".

I think that it's okay to settle down with a Mexican woman if you are willing to move to Mexico and assimilate into their culture. But if you are planning to bring her back to the USA then I should warn you that she will start to assimilate into the American culture. She will become Americanized. She will start to want a career. She will start to become independent. She will start becoming equal to you if not dominant. If she makes more money than you, she is going to be dominant. I am uncertain how long it takes for her to make the transition. But she will for certain because we are humans. We assimilate to our environment. It's wired in our survival instincts.

[AmorPorFavor]

I am not seasoned or a pro, but like to help the bros whenever I can.

IMHO, all relationships in life anywhere in this world involve exchanges of what people have for what they want. Relationships are good and satisfying if people exchange their mutual needs fairly. In most cases women offer their companies, meals, love, sex, children for men's material support, also love and sex. As long as the parties reach agreements, explicit or implicit, on ongoing basis what are being fairly exchanged, relationships are satisfying and can last long. Relationships turn nasty when the parties feel they are manipulated or abused and taken advantage of.

A few of my wingmen had long and sweet relationships with a few bar girls. Sometimes they loaned / granted emergency money to the girls and got multiple GFE sessions back. A few spent all their cash and credit on their favorite bar girls who quickly forgot who they were without money.

In your case, this girl offers you her personal relationship, probably hoping for long term personal commitment and material support, that can be very difficult and expensive to get from US women If I were you, I would go ahead and enjoy her relationship, trying to be open and honest with her as much as possible, and see where it leads. Do milestone checks along the way when she asks for money or time commitments exceeding about $200 or 2 weeks. Get second opinions from someone objective and independent from the relationship.

But one of my young wingmen asked me to stop him from buying repeat fichas for his favorite HK girl. The little girl was knocking down 10 tequila shots in about one hour. I tried, but he overruled my advice and kept buying until he completely ran out of money.

Those tequila shots are 90% or more water. I tasted one.

[Captain Solo]

I am not seasoned or a pro, but like to help the bros whenever I can.

IMHO, all relationships in life anywhere in this world involve exchanges of what people have for what they want. Relationships are good and satisfying if people exchange their mutual needs fairly. In most cases women offer their companies, meals, love, sex, children for men's material support, also love and sex. As long as the parties reach agreements, explicit or implicit, on ongoing basis what are being fairly exchanged, relationships are satisfying and can last long. Relationships turn nasty when the parties feel they are manipulated or abused and taken advantage of.

A few of my wingmen had long and sweet relationships with a few bar girls. Sometimes they loaned / granted emergency money to the girls and got multiple GFE sessions back. A few spent all their cash and credit on their favorite bar girls who quickly forgot who they were without money.

In your case, this girl offers you her personal relationship, probably hoping for long term personal commitment and material support, that can be very difficult and expensive to get from US women If I were you, I would go ahead and enjoy her relationship, trying to be open and honest with her as much as possible, and see where it leads. Do milestone checks along the way when she asks for money or time commitments exceeding about $200 or 2 weeks. Get second opinions from someone objective and independent from the relationship.

But one of my young wingmen asked me to stop him from buying repeat fichas for his favorite HK girl. The little girl was knocking down 10 tequila shots in about one hour. I tried, but he overruled my advice and kept buying until he completely ran out of money.

[Member #4730]

I don't trust women because all my experiences with them in America have been bad but I also know its at least partly my fault. I have my own issues and I tend to pick women poorly. Sure I had fun times with American women but they always end up showing their crazy side or they leave me to go working girl around, or because I'm not attractive, rich, famous etc enough.

Good advice though KB. I can't live my life scared of being screwed over by women, life's about taking risks. But they should be calculated risks. I'm going to pursue this girl, I want to see where it goes.

I just find it odd mongers are so judgemental about working ladies, but don't look in the mirror. Yes they accept money in exchange for sex, but isn't that what we are doing? They all have dreams and aspirations just like you and me, but made the decision for whatever reason to go down this route. Sex is so taboo in the USA That they setup stings on John's and then plaster your name on the internet and newspapers to embarrass you. I feel bad for those that have been caught. They legalized weed at the state level, but past few decades incarcerated people just for possession. When will they legalize the oldest profession? I'm sure it will drive prices down and hopefully reduce human trafficking. I've been screwed over more by other bros in personal and professional dealings. Some deals were 5-6 figure deals and lost a substantial bit of money, but I chalk it up to a cheap lesson so I don't do future deals with them.

I guess I've been lucky as the women I've met in life have taken care of me, been confidants, and provided great advice in my personal and professional life. I do agree that some people find love in all the wrong places, but you never know who you will meet in life.

Like Les Brown said, "The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never sung, the inventions that were never shared, the cures that were never discovered, all because someone was too afraid to take that first step, keep with the problem, or determined to carry out their dream. " You get one life, so make the most of it. Time is a finite resource and we could be gone tomorrow.

[Big Magick]

Why do you have a mistrust of women? I would enjoy spending time with someone that I vibe with and could show me their hometown. I'm not you and don't have a read on the lady, but I love traveling with a local. I would say go for it. Most international tour guides I've had were female and I prefer someone that is easy on the eyes and can vibe with both intellectually and if available sexually.

I don't trust women because all my experiences with them in America have been bad but I also know its at least partly my fault. I have my own issues and I tend to pick women poorly. Sure I had fun times with American women but they always end up showing their crazy side or they leave me to go working girl around, or because I'm not attractive, rich, famous etc enough.

Good advice though KB. I can't live my life scared of being screwed over by women, life's about taking risks. But they should be calculated risks. I'm going to pursue this girl, I want to see where it goes.

[Big Magick]

I have been seeing a girl who only worked at the club for 1 week we are about 2 months in, spend 1 or 2 days a week with her, she wants us to get our own place she doesn't want to work at the club but I am having trust issues being long distance and I am conflicted because I want to see other women. I honestly feel trapped but she is a great girl treats me like I am everything. I am addicted to sex with new girls and I like to return to my favorites but I also feel like I missed a great one before the pandemic who got married, it is stressful and ultimately more expensive. Then there is compatibility because of this pandemic I will not be with certain girls and that includes some of my former favorites, she and 2 of my favorites are on the same page my choices are more narrow than before, so maybe it is time to do the right thing, I need a shrink, does that help?

If I can give you some advice. It sounds like you're not ready to settle down. For me personally sex isn't everything and new pussy is always exciting but I been there done that. I went through a party phase, a pussy phase and now I'm ready for my money / marriage phase.

I have the same trust issues, I mean we met them in a brothel. Its hard to tell if they really like us or if its money / visa they want. Thing is are other women much different? American women won't look at you if you don't have a good income either. At least Mexican women seem to be more honest about it. The culture in Mexico is the man takes care of the girl but at least you get a nice feminine woman who is devoted to you, not like these egotistical manly American women.

If you really are addicted to new pussy then that's fine. Get it out of your system, if not you will always regret it. And some guys never get out of the new pussy phase, that's also fine. We can spend our lives however we see fit.

For me personally the intimacy of just being with a girl beats sex. Sounds weird but that's just me.

Last thing you should upgrade your membership so we can private message. I play poker too. It actually bankrolls a lot of the spending I do in the zona norte. Remember that quote from Rounders? "In the poker game of life, women are the rake".

[Gregyyr]

Cheaper to rent, but not my life. Enjoy the ride.

Open up and tell her. There are poly relationships that do work. Maybe she would be ok with it knowing it's just physical with the other gals once in a while. And it opens her up for some other stuff as well. They are complicated BUT. Some can work I believe for specific times in each of the persons lives and if they are not the jealous type. If she know you have a strong emotional connection with her that makes her feel very special. Maybe this will be enough at this point.

Yea. Its a long shot but I would just come clean.

G.

[WombatEd2]

From my own personal experience, looks have no correlation with GFE experience. I've had GFE experience from some of the hottest chicas. And have had some of the ugliest and fat chicas fall asleep on me or pop open their fucking phone. And I've had duds that for some weird reason half way through the session, decide to turn on the GFE. Women are still a mystery to me.

I lean towards experienced 30-year-olds. They quite often know that the best way to compete with the 20-year-olds is to offer really good service.

[LuvMexicanas]

Sorry to hear about your experiences.

No need to be sorry because thinking with my big head has saved me from experiences worth being sorry about.

[FunMan13]

Well, I will be in Tijuana around noon today (Monday), leaving on Wednesday. PM me if anyone wants to meet up.

Funman13.