James D 2004's Opinions

[James D 2004]

[Not about Maria]

I agree that Brandon Lee's question and replies should be in 'opinions / what countries ... for STR' section. The last thing you want is American Women! Watch that space. CBoy - I would drop the exchange rate thing, it's just a number. Price is price. And it's more like 1/10 that of California for the same looks.

JAD, I was going to comment about something but I decided not to. Wouldn't that operation be useful when in some parts of the world where they still kill for a women's honor, sometimes killing their own family? But then it's the part of the world where they don't have the money for it.

[James D 2004]

I didn't think or hear too much about the conditions for operation. But that sound right. It is for those who determine to remain virgin until marriage, but done something very regrettable in the heat of the moment. The operation give them a second chance.

[James D 2004]

Another positive side of Texas. In another state, over a couple of years I earned about $174 K in the form of home equity. That's very modest over here. I blew a lot of it in cars and girls - that's the WSG relevancy. Now I just can't afford to move anywhere - unless I somehow repay the equity or live in a much smaller house or move to Texas.

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There's hope in Texas. I thought no-fault means that you can walk out anytime without any reason, AND then your wife enjoy shopping for the rest of her life. Unfortunately for those folks elsewhere, say CA, Texas is probably not the state your wife will agree to relocate, even if you're unemployed.

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Indigo, I wish you hadn't tell me that you have a Japanese wife, because I was going to guess that you married a Japanese 'virgin'. That's why you took my comment so badly. Of the several reasons to become a virgin again is to marry a westerner, who wants a virgin and believes so.

No, no, that American stuff wasn't what I was talking about. The Japanese procedure was around before Laser was routine. The one I am talking about is really sewing up the broken membrane again so when the 'virgin' has first sex, say during honeymoon, you can see red on the bedsheets. That's I'll call a virgin's buff because if she is tight, few people can tell or rebuff, unless the guy is experienced in virgins or learn ways to detect a virgin or not. The American procedure users laser to make the virgina tighter, which is more sophisticated. The scary bit is that if the two things combine, it's hard to tell for ordinary Joe.

[James D 2004]

I think the american law on divorce will lead to her downfall! A few married guy just wouldn't come here, even though in that country they already have that sort of 1st wife club. The HR team first ask if your answer is definitely not, so as not to waste their time. If you have children, your wife is guarantee to do shopping for life and nothing else. In many state, the no fault states?, she can just call it a day and start shopping first, maybe a boy friend to carry the merchandise.

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Indigo, of course you don't understand. LIVING there for a year or so is NOTHING compared to living enough to get a citizenship or permanent resident. Most of all, you need a lifetime to understand the culture. If you ask in the forum, most are the same as you who don't understand the culture, the blind leading the blind.

Japan is the pioneer, or the only country, that 'invented' the surgery to allow girls to pretend to be a virgin again. Some girls in some other asian countries went there to do it. Yes there are still virgins around. I personally know a pretty girl who is born and educated in Europe, married several years ago. Of course a lot of girls are not virgins when they marry nowadays. Asians still value female virgins but not enough to do the surgery. It's not a common thing in Japan, but for some culture reasons I don't understand, they have that kind of surgery. Don't ask travelers in the forum. Ask Japanese or some nationals in nearby developed countries. Not so long ago, some guy in WSG thought he got Chinese virgins for several thousand dollars in Australia. But another guy in the know say he probably got ripped-off. If you sew back a young tight girl, you wouldn't know. The surgery isn't complicated so the return on money is very good. You can also check the news, but its very old news now.

" In Czech and Slovak, the girls don't want to marry at all as nobody has money..." -Again nonsense. Nice sentence, anyway.

What's the problem with that? This is the comment from a Czech girl herself. It's not something to be proved or debate. If you have problem with that, don't try to do conversation with any girl, or any sex for that matter. American girls are that bad, the theme of this topic, because they want commitment, they want to marry, and they can have half of what you have. Imagine - if there's no reason they are after your money, and that everyone else don't have not much more money than you have, what a wonderful world! Czech girls just want to have a good time.

"Spain is small but the taller darker people in the south had been treated badly and wanted to separate." -Lie. It's the Basque people who wants to separate. They are not darker. They are not from the south.

The point is discrimination. Does that prove the point that there are enough discrimination that they want to separate? I think there is recent news about a bomb or something. Those people, who care what their name is, are on the Barcelona side, rather than the Madrid side. Not really the south but that's what I mean saving a few words. And the Mediterranean is in the south-ish side of most european countries. People closer to the Med are darker and taller. Say Italy. Same for Spain.

You are welcome to go on. But stick to the point. I'm trying to show that girls in the rest of the world are not that better than American girls, could be worse. The facts are relevant and sufficient to back up to my points but not necessary BBC accurate.

[James D 2004]

Now I know why the gal fell! Long live the King!

[James D 2004]

CBGB, you must looked very American. The same all over in many countries with close western culture, and that they don't need to hide their pro-american feeling, and they don't feel inferior too much, say Italy.

[James D 2004]

Originally posted by Indigo Blue
TallnHandsome:

Have you ever been in any of those countries? Because I did, and all you wrote there is just a chain of the old nonsense legends. It is not that discrimination?

Here you people go again. BEEN there is nothing compared to being BORN somewhere and earned a CITIZENSHIP elsewhere and being a PERMANENT RESIDENT elseelsewhere. Which fact you don't understand?

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I also agree with all the adjectives used against American women. But who isn't like that all over the world? Some Japanese women may be the worst of both worlds. Had a good time like western girls, then surgically sew the pussy back and get ready for marriage.

Asian girls are openly materialistic, while the American girls at least try to be PC about it. In dirt poor Asian countries, they want successful men for survival. In rich countries, they just want a better flat, car or just handbag. In Czech and Slovak, the girls don't want to marry at all as nobody has money.

The chinese discrimination each other not only by race, but by place of birth. The English are very friendly to the Irish and Scott's and Wales, for screwing them for centuries, but will they hire a non-english escort? No. Spain is small but the taller darker people in the south had been treated badly and wanted to separate. In South america, the white ones always waiting someday for someone to take them all home to europe. A Pakistani friend of mine complained that his father, white skinned in the north, married a very beautiful dark women in the south, and he inherited her mother's skin. With all that American had gone through, it's the best bet that an American girl can overlook the race factor.

[James D 2004]

I just posted in LA and think that someone may be interested in these. American Women have tools that most other women don't have.

Where you live - some small cities in the suburbs have unbelievable statistics, say in south california. Well over 90 percentile of tax paying. That's not beach cities with big yachts, but new places most haven't heard about. You don't need to be a real estate agent. The info is available with a click of the mouse.

Address - with the address or post code, they know how much your house worth.

Occupation - of course lots of statistics on this. But insiders are much better than this info. They know which type of, say, engineers and marketing to hit, and who will hit 6 figures much faster than the others. So you get very different treatment if you come from different parts of the company building.

Health coverage - if it comes out of your pocket, a very decent coverage is up to $9000 a year. You can lease a very flashy car for that.

So if you get what catches their eyes, they will throw themselves at you. Any leather shoes and long pants help a lot. Some don't throw themselves at you, not because that they are not interested, but they know that you may not be interested in typical American Women.

[James D 2004]

I have one more comment. The characteristics of women we are talking about isn't limited to America. It's globalized. It's hard for 20 something to understand genuine love and affection when there are so much distraction. From very young, American women noticed how large one's birthday party is, how fast one's car is, how large the house etc etc.

In asia, if they think about marrying at that age, they will be thinking about the material gain. Say in Hong Kong, before the property price collapsed, they think about the combined salary and how large the flat they can buy together. In Singapore, it's an advantage to marry someone with a PhD, M, or B. You get decreasing government money to encourage you to produce more children.

The Asian tradition is that the guy have to pay for a large feast. Nowadays instead of fading, the trendy in the Asian tigers hold the feast at 5 star hotels. At least 30 tables 12 person each. Above $100 each person. That's a deadly combination of tradition and modern materialism. If the guy's family can barely afford it, they will. The gal will not spare any expenses. Of course the ceremony is well documented by professionals, so any friends can see the replay for years to come.

In the old world the pace is slow for ordinary people. They really make love and nothing much else. Britain is fairly conservative but the teen pregnancy rate is among the highest there. If a girl survives all that, she may understand love and affection at 20 something. In Eastern Europe like Czech, girls aren't interested in marrying as everyone is dirt poor (in comparison). You don't gain anything in marrying the ordinary joe.

[James D 2004]

DH, you should think about being a writer. What a sad story you put together with very ordinary ingredients. You have the life experience to share and you can write. I'm out of here.

Well, not yet. I remembered the ending of Breakfast at Tiffany's (?), the movie meant for Monroe but she refused(?) I remembered that the cat have something to do with the end scene. The message is, 'try to have some faith in people again'. Really out of here.

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Just stopped by. Can't notice that two guys here acted like the "Two Dutch Admirals". I don't know you need that in WSG?

For those not into Dutch cultures or corporate cultures, the story is about two friends who teamed up to talk up each other, that is, use any chance to say good things about the other guy. As a result, they became the two youngest Admiral in Dutch history.