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[Engine Driver]

G,

We are both undertaking this rather futile exercise of collecting hundreds of names and numbers of doable LBFMs around the Philippines, by driving the dating apps hard. I have been ruthless in setting my selection criteria. 18- 26 yo, and no heavier than 52 kg. (yes, I know that everyone lies about their age and weight). Like you, I have enough contacts for years to come. We could easily go Manila. Clark - Cebu. Davao - Manila and fuck 30 or 40 chicks in 2-3 weeks. This would be from a mixture of hard core hookers, sweet college girls needing help with fees, single moms looking to be rescued, innocent 18-year old country bumpkins and ordinary women seeking a little extra cash. Very easy to do, but what would be the point? The momentary pleasure obtained from unloading BB into a sweet LBFM's warm pussy is fleeting. It is a totally unfulfilling, and ultimately unsatisfying exercise. There is no 'happiness' to be pursued here. It would also not be drama free. The opportunity cost of spending weeks in the Philippines is also enormous (as opposed to engaging in commerce in RWML).

I think Monkey Paw or FL Hawk on the other board wrote about depression setting in after a banging marathon with Thai LBFMs. But he was quickly shot down by mongers who knew better. Hahaha. Being addicted to brown pussy is no different to any other addiction and the depression and illness from withdrawal is real.

https://www.healthline.com/health/addiction/sex

[Engine Driver]

ED,

I found one of your psycho good girls:

Alternates telling me she will be showing me a great time when I arrive with she is devastated that John from Nebraska is sheading deadweight and no longer interested. He's never been to the PI but she will wait, cross legged, until he arrives / continues sending support. She really does love him.

5 minutes later, photos of a monster meal at the local K-resto with her Chinese "friend" to say goodbye before he goes back to HK. I don't kow if he knows he's in shots being sent to other mongers. Happy snaps continue up until back in his condo where they are "relaxing". I seriously thought I was going to get photos of the 3:3:3 as well. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

Thanks G,

Yes I know that psycho good girl very well. I am totally stupid. Hahahaha. Had I known that Kenny Chong from Hong Kong was going to feed her a monster meal at the local K-resto, I would not have sent her a bunch of money to feed her and her family before hand. Hahaha. She complained that she was "so worried to her foods" because of the typhoon. What was a man to do? Let the barangay starve? Now I'm waiting for the dreaded anti-money laundering squad to bust my door down.

Do you think Kenny Chong or John from Nebraska were listening in while she did a cam show with me? Hahahaha. Those girls are so sneaky. We must ask her for those photos of her "relaxing" hahahaha.

[PedroMorales]

"From" foreigners? What about towards foreigners? You don't think grown men that spend serious cash to fly around the world to fuck cast offs that locals wouldn't touch with a barge pole isn't the subject of ridicule in Manila, Bangkok or Jakarta? 😁.

Enjoy. G.

I have been the subject of ridicule in Manila, Bangkok, KL and elsewhere because I was bonking local cast offs. If I had my time again, I'd do it all again, Fernando.

[Goferring]

ED,

I found one of your psycho good girls:

Alternates telling me she will be showing me a great time when I arrive with she is devastated that John from Nebraska is sheading deadweight and no longer interested. He's never been to the PI but she will wait, cross legged, until he arrives / continues sending support. She really does love him.

5 minutes later, photos of a monster meal at the local K-resto with her Chinese "friend" to say goodbye before he goes back to HK. I don't kow if he knows he's in shots being sent to other mongers. Happy snaps continue up until back in his condo where they are "relaxing". I seriously thought I was going to get photos of the 3:3:3 as well. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

Disagree. Poking fun of the culture on occasion is bound to happen from foreigners.

"From" foreigners? What about towards foreigners? You don't think grown men that spend serious cash to fly around the world to fuck cast offs that locals wouldn't touch with a barge pole isn't the subject of ridicule in Manila, Bangkok or Jakarta? 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Engine Driver]

I've given up on Filipinas at the moment. <snip>

My current efforts are on local (home town) opportunity.

Briz.

There is no shortage of Korean, Chinese or Thai pussy in your country. Guaranteed, drama free conversion as long as you pays your money. Hahaha. Keep us informed of your J girl adventures.

[WestCoast1]

RK, I agree. People find paymates at their own level.

Concur. Almost all of my playmates here live in homes that have only dirt for a floor (currently, one does not). For years I have integrated with their families, boodled with them, drank with them, played basketball with them, traveled further into the twigs to visit more family with them. Few of them have finished high school. There are entire groups of people out there whom I don't feel a need to integrate with or study.

I don't find posts like this very amusing but instead I find them rather insulting.

Sorry you saw it that way. It was meant as amusing, and others saw it that way.

My guess is that ANY ONE of WC's bedmates speak much better English than he speaks Tagalog or Filipino or any other dialect.

I think you already know better than that.

wife speaks Tagalog, Ilokano, Bisayan and English very fluently, and switches seamlessly between the dialects as required.

She's great for it, as are many others who speak multiple dialects or languages.

Interesting side note regarding such. A few months ago walking down a busy street with my girl and her sister, there were some people in the street near a traffic light where traffic was stopped. They were begging money from the motorists. My girl and her sister expressed disgust, saying that they dislike the begging, they didn't understand what beggars said, and its impossible for the drivers and pedestrians to get away from them. The girls called them Bajiao. A few days later I passed the same area again and the family that was previously begging coins from motorists was resting under a shady tree, a mom / dad and two kids. They were chattering away -- almost completely in Spanish. Surprising. I inquired as to the Spanish (not the local tongue). They said they are from Zamboanga and Spanish is widely spoken among them, and they called themselves Badiao (bah-dee-yow. As in Yao Ming). They were there a few weeks and then gone.

Collecting trivial examples like this of how Pinays might get some statements wrong is demeaning and insulting.

Public apology.

If compiling lists like this represents the only intellectual challenge for guys living here and taking advantage of Pinay favors, then maybe it's time they went home.

Disagree. Poking fun of the culture on occasion is bound to happen from foreigners. Lord knows how foreigners must view my own culture (like our election system; likewise, Lord knows how the Brits must view my English). Living here is not a 'love it or leave it' situation.

It's also probably time I took an extended holiday from reading this board

Don't do that. You are a voice of reason here. Sorry if I pissed you off.

Why is it not OK for me to poke fun at the language here? Jeff Foxworthy does it regarding rednecks: "Mayonnaise a lot of people here tonight". Mikey Bustos does it regarding pinoy: "My phone its bivrate". Of course I have conversations with other pinoy here on a higher English level.

[Beavis]

I never understood collecting (or posting) nude pics. Seems perverted to me. Also, why do a lot of women on dating sites have to ask guys not to send dick pics? How can so many guys be so stupid and ignorant? Is it a class issue or what?

I think your questions will be answered if you just turn on the news or go to Facebook and see how most people can't even spell their own name. Intelligent thinking is a thing of the past and like most history it will probably be erased too.

[Engine Driver]

I never understood collecting (or posting) nude pics. Seems perverted to me. Also, why do a lot of women on dating sites have to ask guys not to send dick pics? How can so many guys be so stupid and ignorant? Is it a class issue or what?

It's a power thing. They would dare not ask for nude pics or send dick pics to women in the west. But with Filipinas, they think it's okay to humiliate them. The excitement for them seems to be in shocking their victims with their marshmallows. As for obtaining nudes, it's to prove their ability to conquer. None of these time wasters will ever make it to the Philippines.

If you are polite and courteous, you can easily collect a 100 phone numbers of rootable women each week. As has been mentioned before, there will still be a low probability of root conversion though.

[PedroMorales]

95% of the lustful Johns cruising the dating sites are already married to nasty, fat white bitches in RWML. They only want to collect free nude photos of LBFMs to prove their virility and self-worth. They need confirmation of their masculinity and attractiveness.

I never understood collecting (or posting) nude pics. Seems perverted to me. Also, why do a lot of women on dating sites have to ask guys not to send dick pics? How can so many guys be so stupid and ignorant? Is it a class issue or what?

[BrizLad]

The level of desperation amongst LBFMs on dating sites is unbelievable. There is nothing but total misery there.

I've given up on Filipinas at the moment. For me they have no interest if I cannot get into the country. I know it will be a pussy paradise when we can return.

If my various ex contacts that message me are only being polite to get money.

My current efforts are on local (home town) opportunity.

Briz.

[Engine Driver]

So my field experiment in social sciences continues. The level of desperation amongst LBFMs on dating sites is unbelievable. The situation it seems is quite diabolical actually. About 25% of the girls on PL straight out beg for money after the cursory "Hi Mr ED.

You are very handsome. " If they can't get free money, they then offer me a cam show. Even educated, respectable woman who previously had good employment have been reduced to camming. A further 25% of them on PL are hard core hookers looking to bang a marooned foreigner for 1,000 peso or local Pinoy for 200 peso. The remaining 50% are looking for some relationship with a white or black dick so that he can take them out of their shit hole next year. Some will also sell their pussy if anyone is around their town. All will kindly accept donations. 95% of the lustful Johns cruising the dating sites are already married to nasty, fat white bitches in RWML. They only want to collect free nude photos of LBFMs to prove their virility and self-worth. They need confirmation of their masculinity and attractiveness. Some will get ensnared in the cam show deal. About 5% of the Johns will actually get to the Philippines when the WuFlu finishes to bang 20 chicks in 10 days. How many will actually marry a 30-year old Pinay with two children from two different fathers? There is no happiness to be found on dating sites. There is nothing but total misery there.

[Red Kilt]

Are you the self appointed moral and ethical custodian on this board?

Nope. Just a board member with an opinion that I am free to express (same as you).

What most people find insulting is NGOs fucking the very girls they've been sent to save. Imagine what the private donors and governments would think?

Totally irrelevant. I agree with you but it's got nothing to do with pinays' use of English.

[Soapy Smith]

Filipinos amaze me with their language -speaking ability. My wife speaks Tagalog, Ilokano, Bisayan and English very fluently, and switches seamlessly between the dialects as required.

There's a fine line between laughing at and laughing with. My squeeze lived her first 14 years in Southern Leyte, speaking Bisayan. Then she moved to Manila and has spoken primarily Tagalog since. She sometimes tries to school me--in English, of course--on differences in the two languages, but at my age my memory is like a sieve. Not much sticks.

A couple years ago we visited a couple I know in Digos, south of Davao. She was right at home again speaking Bisayan with them. They got to conversing for a bit and I could pick out a few English words intermingled with native language. At some point I sensed that some of the native words did not sound like Tagalog, so I asked whether they were speaking Tagalog or Bisayan mixed in with English. They stopped for a moment, and suddenly my friend laughed and said, "we're speaking all three. We don't even think about it, whatever word comes to mind when we want to communicate an idea, that's the language we use at that point. " We all laughed.

I suppose I could have been offended that they didn't speak English so that I could follow along, but I realize I'm in their country, not the other way around. I can think of few interactions in the states in which three Americans could suddenly start speaking German, French, or Spanish in order to accommodate a foreign visitor.

I don't make fun of my squeeze's occasional English stumbles, since I speak such limited Filipino, but occasionally some humorous English malapropisms flow from her mouth. When I point them out we usually both have a good laugh. But yeah, making fun of Filipinos' sometimes broken English is a little like allowing yourself to utter racial slurs when nobody of color is within earshot. Humor of this type in the forum is a little like being in an all-white group in which somebody thinks it's okay to start talking some racist shit.

Sometimes it's amazing to me that Filipinos hold things together at all, given that they were once a mass of 7,000 islands and people of diverse cultures who spoke various different languages--until the Spanish colonized them, declared them to be a unified country, named the islands after the Spanish king, and imposed Catholicism on them.
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[Engine Driver]

I don't find posts like this very amusing but instead I find them rather insulting.

Are you the self appointed moral and ethical custodian on this board? This is a site for tales of prostitution where old men get together and have a laugh. Most of us don't care what you find insulting or not insulting.

What most people find insulting is NGOs fucking the very girls they've been sent to save. Imagine what the private donors and governments would think?