Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[AussieGaigin]

Over the last day PL has had free chatting. No this member is popular please buy a subscription.

It has had "free chatting" for a long time. But you are allowed one message every 10 minutes.

Some of those "popular members" can't be accessed free off the website, but are freely available on phone apps (or v / v). Have had similar experience with girls who "no longer exist" or who have "blocked me".

[GDreams]

Over the last day PL has had free chatting. No this member is popular please buy a subscription.

[Goferring]

Not sure what forum to post this. In regards to gents paying girls for cam time, this article. Its possible to take it too far.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/man-admit...072941939.html

From the article:

A man misappropriated 17 laptops from his workplace and bought 40 others in his companys name to sell in order to gift the monies to female online live streamers, according to his lawyer.

A tad misdirected by Mr Chen. I think it was Mr E who first pointed out the insanity of expressing one's love for the girls by buying them phones etc that they can use to contact more John's. . 🤦.

[WestCoast1]

Not sure what forum to post this. In regards to gents paying girls for cam time, this article. Its possible to take it too far.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/man-admit...072941939.html

From the article:

A man misappropriated 17 laptops from his workplace and bought 40 others in his companys name to sell in order to gift the monies to female online live streamers, according to his lawyer.

Chen Weizhou, 34, pleaded guilty to one count of criminal breach of trust as an employee and two counts of cheating. One count of accessing a database without authority, in order to continue his ruse of buying the laptops, will be considered for his sentencing. The affected laptops are worth more than $122,000.

[BrizLad]

I'm surprised no one has mentioned tagged in the recent discussions. Though not officially a dating site it de facto operates as one.

Compared to Pinalove though, Tagged has faded for me.

I would mention it. It has served me so well for so long since 2010 I think. Have had good hookups in Zurich, HK, AC, Cebu, Manila, Dubai, Bahrain, Singapore and even here in Brisbane.

I haven't mentioned it because it is so patchy here in Brisbane. I also found it was becoming less reliable in Philippines. But I would certainly include it in my app portfolio.

Also, I notice Tagged has made it hard to contact the hot girls. More often I was getting "this user is super popular" or something. Even on profiles that had been inactive for months when I was testing what that message meant.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm surprised no one has mentioned tagged in the recent discussions. Though not officially a dating site it de facto operates as one.

[BrizLad]

It's such a waste that we have all of our Filipina dating tips on standby waiting to unleash as soon as those borders open to horny sex tourists.

As well as the standard dating sites, which I don't currently have profiles as I start on those 1 week prior to arrival.

I've been building an instagram profile with a growing selection of filipina. I don't bother to post anything at the moment, a few randoms pics. My strategy will be to start posting local Manila / Cebu / Locanto adventures as soon as I'm on the ground.

[Nolz7]

This is very good advice. About 10 years ago, I first visited Manila and used DIA....

I got kicked out of DIA about 10 years ago. I have since used facebook and now Facebook groups as my hunting ground.

[Goferring]

Although I have no similar experiment with pinalove, it is clearly more difficult to get expelled if one is a paid member (perhaps it is impossible).

Correct. Whether you indeed to do the acts or not, one way to quickly sort the willing is to ask very explicit questions. I quite often do this towards the end of a trip, already have numerous numbers and don't have time or willingness to play mind games. Asking the price of bareback anal will not have any repercussions from PinaLove.

[MamaGuevos]

I have been in Dateinasia ever since they opened. I have met and enjoyed many girls and in fact that and her sister site oyoy were the only I use. Both are free.

I got booted out twice. Once because I was extra nasty to a ladyboy who pretended to be a real girl after many messages. Second one was because I was explicit about sexual matters to a young girl.

Opened new e mail accounts, altered my picture and got back in.

1. Be nice to transgenders. Just politely say you are not into it and wish them good luck.

2. If somebody annoys you block them immediately. Also file complaint if they beg for money. Do not ignore. This way you get points if someone complains about you. Pre-empt.

3. If you like someone ask them for their messenger, Skype, WhatsApp etc so that you can chat with them and there you can discuss anything. Do not talk about sex in dateinasia. For a while a warning used to come saying people have bad intentions if they ask for other forms of communication. Not anymore. Once you chat there you can ask about sex, remuneration etc. If they do not like dump them.

This is very good advice. About 10 years ago, I first visited Manila and used DIA. I found that 1/10 girls would agree to spend the night with me before our first meet up (I was uninterested in any first dates that resulted in coffee, chit-chat and a promise of a second date because of time constraints). However, I got kicked off of DIA my last day in Manila when I was in a rush to find a girl before my plane left. I simply asked her to come to my hotel for "naughty fun" and the next thing I knew, I was expelled. I had to get a new phone number and new email address to get back in. I did it again in almost the same way the next year, and again I had to get a new phone number and email account to get back in.

But now, I can use Viber or WhatsApp (in truth, I never learned how to use Viber correctly so I mostly use WhatsApp) and on my last trip to Makati in January 2020, I would quickly divert all conversations there.

I did an "experiment" back in 2011 or so that I reported on here (before I got kicked off the first time). I asked about a large number of girls to spend the night with me and make love. I basically introduced myself to them, and on the second message came out and stated my intentions. It took about an hour to do this and I had about 10% say yes immediately, and another 10% showed enough interest that they continued the conversation without committing to sex. About 25% never responded to my first query and the rest either never responded to the request for sex or told me to get lost. Then, as I mentioned above, DIA expelled me that trip. One of the female members probably complained. My experience in 2020 convinced me that the odds of finding a willing sex partner using DIA have not changed appreciably.

Although I have no similar experiment with pinalove, it is clearly more difficult to get expelled if one is a paid member (perhaps it is impossible). I used the sister site Thaifriendly in Bangkok in 2020 (as a paid member) and, while it was not nearly as easy to find a date as DIA, I could be explicit and suffered no consequences. I never offered money on Thaifriendly, but only stated that I am "a generous man". Moving onto LineID was still a strategy that I used very effectively. I also used Tinder in Bangkok, but was rapidly expelled because I thought it was permitted to be explicit. Live and learn!

I have concluded that non pros, semi pros and pros are easy to find on these dating web sites. A date that includes explicit plans can be arranged within 15 minutes (and at most an hour). Moving quickly to WhatsApp or another phone App gets around all of the problems of authoritarian website moderators.

[WestCoast1]

I have been in Dateinasia ever since they opened. I have met and enjoyed many girls and in fact that and her sister site oyoy were the only I use. Both are free.

Sammon, clear out your Inbox.

[Sammon]

Once upon a time, DIA was the go to dating app for the Phil s. That changed a few years ago when they introduced draconian tules to constrain messaging and boot off anyone they dislike. Does anyone know any tips on how to avoid this? If not what in your opinion are the best dating sites for Pinays?

I have been in Dateinasia ever since they opened. I have met and enjoyed many girls and in fact that and her sister site oyoy were the only I use. Both are free.

I got booted out twice. Once because I was extra nasty to a ladyboy who pretended to be a real girl after many messages. Second one was because I was explicit about sexual matters to a young girl.

Opened new e mail accounts, altered my picture and got back in.

1. Be nice to transgenders. Just politely say you are not into it and wish them good luck.

2. If somebody annoys you block them immediately. Also file complaint if they beg for money. Do not ignore. This way you get points if someone complains about you. Pre-empt.

3. If you like someone ask them for their messenger, Skype, WhatsApp etc so that you can chat with them and there you can discuss anything. Do not talk about sex in dateinasia. For a while a warning used to come saying people have bad intentions if they ask for other forms of communication. Not anymore. Once you chat there you can ask about sex, remuneration etc. If they do not like dump them.

4. Do not mention, age, ask about their family, work etc. Do not offer money.

Have fun. There are plenty of good looking young girls there who I prefer. Success rate about getting into their pants is about 20 percent.

I have had some real beautiful girls, very GFE types etc.

[Goferring]

If not what in your opinion are the best dating sites for Pinays?

In increasing order of quality and price:

Pinalove; Filipine Cupid; Tinder; Instagram; Seeking Arrangement.

Facebook is still widely used but it takes time and is not point and shoot.

You will need a WhatsApp account to chat away from the apps.

[Free2]

Filipinocupid.

Once upon a time, DIA was the go to dating app for the Phil s. That changed a few years ago when they introduced draconian tules to constrain messaging and boot off anyone they dislike. Does anyone know any tips on how to avoid this? If not what in your opinion are the best dating sites for Pinays?

[OlderAndWiser]

Once upon a time, DIA was the go to dating app for the Phil s. That changed a few years ago when they introduced draconian tules to constrain messaging and boot off anyone they dislike. Does anyone know any tips on how to avoid this? If not what in your opinion are the best dating sites for Pinays?