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[Matius]

mathius,

i agree that any guy with a few dollars can fly to the philippines and line up hundreds of women.

but these are *****s, bargirls, from brothels, street walkers. they can also be lined up via dating sites, and i agree that this can be wasteful. but also, meeting semi pros over the internet gives an opportunity to screen them first, rather than take pot luck, and also creates an atmosphere of anticipation in both parties, and generally turns up low mileage, sincere, gfe type women.

what you can not find easily on the streets is regular, educated filipinas, which you can find on dating sites.

it takes time and effort, but for the guys who are looking for the real filipina, the true girlfriend, the dating site enables him to speed up the meeting process. i have no doubt that the women that i have found by dating site, i could never have found in a short stay of a few days.

to each his own.

g

it is clear i am not a fan of the dating sites. i used them and had no end to offers, but awoke one day to realize just how much of my personal time i was wasting, sitting in front of the computer in mindless chatter. but some are addicted to electronic games and in a similar vain if it is entertainment value then by all means.

but this is a monger's site, by definition we are for the most part womanizers and fishing analogies are most appropriate. even in response, referring to yourself you use the plural women, not finding the one woman. and if a person is coming to ph to be a monger, then the dating sites (in my opinion), limit options and consume a great deal of time (admittedly back home), that just is not required to get volume and quality.

i agree it might be complicated cruising the lawyer's offices to pick the right secretary or paralegal, but do know guys that cruise the hospitals picking up nurses. the mall/shop girls are easy pickings and even the bars have a fair amount of virgins if one likes a challenge. i know a guy who has picked up more than one bank teller and if you are game to go to some of the more popular filipino hangouts, even the good girls go out with their friends to videoke and dance bars (non-freelance type establishments).

i do get your point though, and for some they need the comfort of a couple of familiar relationships to justify their visit. won't deny it works to a degree, just not really the most effective method by my experience. i do not agree that the screening aspect works, so many of the "bar girls" are roping in guy after guy who thinks they are semi virgins. and in many cases the guys are paying far more for that relationship than if they just paid the bf and took the girl out for the evening.

[GregLondon]

Had a sad text from one of my girls in Cebu this morning. She said she was in a funeral parlour. Apparently she went island hoping/diving with a 57 yr old Singaporean guy before being scheduled to go to Boracay for a week today. sadly the guy drowned - related to a heart problem.

So guys, if especially if you have some medical condition, don't overdo it.

Quite a traumatic experience for a 20 year old girl too, fortunately he was travelling with colleagues so she's not having to deal with the situation alone.

[DriveAllNight]

.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?

Pretty much.

I establish contact about 4-6 weeks prior to my trip with a couple dozen girls from DIA and FH. Then I trade a few messages with each until a couple weeks before my flight, and having now broken the ice a bit, I start gathering cell numbers of the ones who seem like good possibilities.

Once I hit Manila, I buy a cheapie Nokia and some load. Then I lay on my bed in the hotel and fire off a volley of texts to the, um, "winners" of the DIA/FH fishing expedition.

I usually meet the girls for lunch, a drink, etc. somewhere in the Greenbelt malls, often at Hard Rock or Cafe Havana. It's a bit of a crapshoot, but I'd estimate that the girls agree to accompany me back to the hotel on the first date about 50% of the time.

If nothing works out on a given day, I'll usually then just roll to EDSA or else call a girl I met on a previous trip that I *know* will be good to go.

[Wicked Roger]

F%@$!^& cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.
Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.
I know this isnt the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.

Cricket is fine if a Pom and about time the Aussies got it in the neck :D

As for your work/shagging trip..you are showing your age :) Pump is fine for young men like me....and also the peach destroyed your libido for a while but she did enjoy the time :D

[FreebieFan]

I have a question for you guys who chat with 10+ girls and manage to arrange a meeting with all of them.. where do you find the time to keep in touch with them all?

Having a full time job I find it hard to keep a regular chat with 2 or 3.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?

The secret is to chat to lots of them (during work breaks etc, text them a bit as many don't receive many overseas texts and the charmer is to call them, once or twice (both so that you are sure that she's a girl, and that she can converse with you) and also so she thinks she's "special)

Then when you are in country you play juggling games and see how many you can fit in., You make wild and wonderful excuses for not being able to see one (a leaking pipe in my condo has been successfully used often as it sounds quite probable)

[Fast Buck Artist]

The girls C. D. E. F. G. H. I...Z

I have a question for you guys who chat with 10+ girls and manage to arrange a meeting with all of them.. where do you find the time to keep in touch with them all?

Having a full time job I find it hard to keep a regular chat with 2 or 3.. what do you do, just tell them "I am coming 2 weeks from now, leave me your phone number I'll txt you when I am there" ?

[FreebieFan]

F%at$! & cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.

Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.

I know this isn't the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.

Its called Karma, mate! I hear England are thinking of declaring at 1000 for 3. Massive LOL.

FYI just broke my Freebiecherry here in Taipei with a cute Indonesian. Dropped her off at a subway station, and now going to scout out next weeks target amongst the helpers and care providers who are nicely gathered in target groups, of Filipinas to the left and Indonesians to the right.

Congrats on surviving the over indulgence. Its one thing we have in common and one that even Aussies are good at. Because they sure can't bat nor bowl at the moment. Extra loud LOL.

[Red Kilt]

LOL

FF RK knows am a Pom for cricket.....and yes am enjoying watching it..not as much as lovely slim shaved pinay pussy but still a lovely time to be a Pom

RK...has been very quiet for a few days but am sure he is plotting his next trip to Cebu for more peaches....he sort of over indulged last time ;)

F%@$!^& cricket. I am dismayed. After 20 years of pouring shit on all the Pommies I can find with the Aussie dominance of world cricket I now have to sit back and cop it coming back on me.
Life isn't fair LOL.

On more important matters more pertinent to the target population of this board: WR is correct. I over-indulged in Cebu last week. After a rather hectic week of fitting shagging in between work (which quickly became fitting work in between shagging), I poured myself back onto the plane and returned to my sedate position in society here in Manila.
I know this isnt the Cebu thread but as an aside I found Ayala Mall a bit quiet for trawling this trip, and Lone Star bar still far and away the best light entertainment venue. Pump disco destroyed my hearing.

[Wicked Roger]

So Mr Kilt, how are your chaps doing in the cricket. LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.

I'm not sure if WR is one of us or one of you. Got a foot in both camps (no WR I'm not calling you camp!)

LOL

FF RK knows am a Pom for cricket.....and yes am enjoying watching it..not as much as lovely slim shaved pinay pussy but still a lovely time to be a Pom

RK...has been very quiet for a few days but am sure he is plotting his next trip to Cebu for more peaches....he sort of over indulged last time ;)

[Tally Wacker]

Ah ok thats cool. Its kinda like a recoverd alcoholic hanging out in a bar sipping Iced Tea because they like the atmosphere. Thats good you have a cool wife. Do you two expieriment outside your marriage with others? Its an interesting subject.

There's a warm spot in my heart for the "good ol' days." I participate purely for entertainment. My wife enjoys reading the posts also, as she finds the whole subject area amazing, especially Dragon Slayer's forum. Sometimes we read them together.

[Radical Guy]

Not making any judgement or anything but just curious what a happily married "former monger" would be doing on a mongering sex site? Just curious.

There's a warm spot in my heart for the "good ol' days." I participate purely for entertainment. My wife enjoys reading the posts also, as she finds the whole subject area amazing, especially Dragon Slayer's forum. Sometimes we read them together.

[GermanBoy 2]

Hello, all together

Some weeks ago I was writing some words about dia-girls I met in manila (manila threat, number 6136). Now I am back and will tell you some more stories.

Lets say by the words from forest gump: dia girls are a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get. Thats so true. Keep in mind: not every filipina is a stunner, not every girl wants to have sex after 5 minutes, but also you can find some wonderful surprises. One thing seems to me important: often you need some time, more then maybe only one day, a lot of chatting or texting before. I will give you some examples and start with the most strange one: A.

The A story

Met A. Maybe 4 weeks before my departure, a lot of chatting in dia and yahoo by cam (thats important, some girls are really different in reality then they are in the dia-picture). A. Is from Cagayan de Oro and told me about the island camiguin. I checked it in the web and thought its a nice place to go to. I asked A. If she wants to join me, and she said yes. While chatting she told me that she never had a boyfriend before, that she never kissed and that she is 18 but virgin. I thought: wow, can become some nice days with her.coming to Cagayan we met immediately, she showed up with her mother and one sister. We went for a little dinner, talked a lot and she agreed to go with me next morning to the island, which is 2 hours by boat from cagayan. She refused spending the last night with me in the hotel, said she will be there 7. 30 am next morning. And showed up 7. 15, with a suitcase more or less as big as mine. She had 7 jeans for a 3 day trip)))

Everything she said before was right. She was still a innocent girl. No experience in kissing or sex, and. She did not want to make it. Wow. She told me that she feels not matured. Was very nice, friendly, great to talk with. But asked me not too touch her. This was a shock in the first moment, then I decided that it is okay, and that I will see more my little sister in her. Okay, after 2 days there was something like a shy kiss (like a kiss you give your mom at Christmas), thats all. Anway, it was a nice and relaxed time, I did a lot of reading, and she did as well. Her book was about "beautiness of purity", why girls should not dress too sexy and keep themselfes pure till marriage. It was strange, but it was okay. And from the time I was leaving her, she did not stopp texting to me how wonderful the trip has been, and that she will see me again.

The B story

As A I was texting with B some weeks before my departure, she is from Cebu and told me that she has strict parents, have to be at home at 8pm but free time in the afternoon. We met in ayala, had a coffee at starbucks and went straight to the hotel after that. B told me that she is so curious in having sex with foreigners, that she has had 2 american guys before, one was okay, one not soo much. So I tried to tell this 18 yo lady to show how germans can do, and it seems she was not unsatisfied. Good kissing, sweet small boobs, a bit unexperienced in giving full satisfaction, but vey willing to learn. After some hours she had to go home, I gave her 700 "taxi money", and she seems to agree absoltely with that. Gave me a lot of textings the next days, that she wants to continue. Even if she was nice, I tried to make other experiences and answered always polite, but never met her again.

The C, the and E girls

The three girls C. D. And E. Are all from Cebu, seems to be very willing to meet and did a lot of texting. I made appointements with them, but they never showed up. 2 never contacted me again, one came with strange excuses. I decided not to contact her any more.

A girl named F.

Met F. At dia on Wednesday morning and told her that I am in cebu right now, she asked if we can meet early afternoon. F. Was far away from good looking, but she was nice. Active in a opposition group at her university, smart, clever. We had a one hour coffee-meeting at ayala, then she had to go. Which was totaly ok in my eyes, I had a appointement with G. As well, and was not interested in closer contact. Anyway F. Was nice, and continued some light texting in the following days.

The G..Girl

Its a bit strange to have appointements with girls in a 2-hour-rythm, but I did so, because these dia-girls have a lot of no-shows. G. Came. She is 20, a bit chubby and shy. Nice, but not my type. So I decided to stay at ayala for one more coffee with her, then going back alone. Seemed to me, that she agrees as well in doing that. We did. Starting one day later G. Became very enthusiastic in texting, telling me she wants to meet again. But I have been on my way to manila.

H. From Manila

Asked 3 girls in manila for a meeting, two did never show up, H. Came. We met in front of my hotel. Guys, thats something I learned: ask the girls to come to a place which is convenient for you. If they want, they can manage to go to every direction. And if it is a no-show it is much better for you if you wait on your hotel bed then running through the half city to a place where you have nothing to do.

Well, H. Came in the evening. We went for a small dinner, then going back to the room. She came with me, but was not enthusiastic in closer contact. So we have been only sitting arround and talking, anyway it was a nice time. Obligatory texting when she went home after some hours, she wanted to meet again the next day, I agreed. H. Has such sweet eyes

H. Suggested me to go to a disco next evening (paddies place), asking if she can bring 2 friends with her, I agreed and she showed up with 3 friends (2 guys, one girl). First I have been a bit angry, then I thought: why not. The whole beer and food damage for all 5 of us was arround 2000 peso, and if this is a way how to make some young falks happy, why not. I left disco with her arround 2am, the others stayed, we went to hotel. There was nothing more to see from the shy girl. Had some wild more hours. After breakfast she had to go home, but came back in the evening. I went back to home next day, so she did not stay overnight. I gave her 1300 pesos which I had left, and she seemed to be really deep happy about it.

The I. Girl

I. Is one of the biggest surprises. I met her in dia after my arrival at Philippines 3 weeks ago. She wanted to meet, but had no time at this day. After that contact there was a long time of silence, then her texting came suddenly. I told her to come to my hotel 1 hour after H. Went home, and was sure for 100 % that she is a typical now show. But she came. And wow, she was the only girl I met who looked much better in reality then on her dia-picture. We went for a coffee in starbucks, then back to the hotel. After 2 minutes of talking, she started a wonderful, deep and unforgetable kissing. Cloths went of, and we had a wonderful time. When she went home after some hours, I wanted to give her 1000 taxi money. She looked at me, seems like with some tears in her eyes and said that she will not accept something. I told her thousand sorries. She went home, and texted "100 thanks for being so nice to me". I will try to stay in contact with her even from my home.

[Gangles]

mathius,

i agree that any guy with a few dollars can fly to the philippines and line up hundreds of women.

but these are *****s, bargirls, from brothels, street walkers. they can also be lined up via dating sites, and i agree that this can be wasteful. but also, meeting semi pros over the internet gives an opportunity to screen them first, rather than take pot luck, and also creates an atmosphere of anticipation in both parties, and generally turns up low mileage, sincere, gfe type women.

what you can not find easily on the streets is regular, educated filipinas, which you can find on dating sites.

it takes time and effort, but for the guys who are looking for the real filipina, the true girlfriend, the dating site enables him to speed up the meeting process. i have no doubt that the women that i have found by dating site, i could never have found in a short stay of a few days.

to each his own.

g

[Rampana]

Well if you didn't realise already then it's certainly something to be aware of that when you send a message to a girl, she has not signed a confidentiality agreement and may chose to show that message to whoever she likes. That's just the way the internet works and if you are not comfortable with it, you had better stop using it. I would agree with one of the earlier comments that if the situation is a guy deliberately trying to make fun of sincere guys it's pretty shallow and unethical behaviour. There are situations as described by FBA when guys are being idiots so maybe pulling something like FBA describes is reasonable. As for myself, when i have found a new potential female contact that I may have doubts about then i will often call over my GF if she is in the room and ask her opinion for example is this girl a ladyboy, does her claim to be a nursing student stack up etc? Of course Filipinas find it much easier to identify such things than we do and might say, Ok ask her which campus of the college does she go to.

Similarly if my GF is hunting for a Western husband she might say come and read this, is this guy for real? Is what he is saying plausible? It's very difficult for a Filipina to separate the wheat from the chaf because they have never been abroad met just a handful of guys etc, whereas I can generally tell very quickly what type of guy he is, or suggest some question she may ask to better judge his true intentions.

Hi GL,

this I can agree now. It is somehow understandable for a naive guy like me. lol.

ram

[Matius]

I would not be quite so scornful of those who prefer interaction via the internet Matius. Different people are in different positions. You may be a in a position where you can wander out to a mall any time you feel like it and flirt with a cute Filipina, get her mobile no and arrange a date, but the majority of guys on this list are not in this position. If you are sitting in Akron, Ohio you can turn on your TV and get 100 channels or signup to netflix and watch any movie you wish to whenever you want. But movies and porn are not "interactive", they are passive you just sit their and receive info without any two way flow. What people yearn for is this interactivity. That's why guys will spend hours in front of a computer trying to get some Filipina to reveal a shot of her probably not very impressive boobs in blurry web cam footage when he could just flick channels on his 52 inch LCD TV and watch hi def porn in gynecological detail with exceptionally endowed porno sluts.

You are certainly right that there is something strange and illogical about internet dating. I have felt that for example if I make a date to meet an internet contact at some mall and I'm waiting 45 mins for her to show up. What am I doing waiting for this particular girl who is probably no more or less attractive than hundreds of other girls in this mall wandering around several of whom may smile at me? I know next to nothing about her, it's not as if I'm waiting for a buddy I knew 20 years ago, infact these other girls I know better than her because at least I can see them in the flesh, know they are real can speak to them right then and there if I wish. And if that's weird, when all I have done is taken a 10 mins jeep ride to Ayala how much more weird to fly all across the Pacific and maybe get to some distant and remote Province just to see a particular girl who in reality is only fractionally less of a stranger to me than 20 million others.

So well written, had to read it a couple of times and still not sure if it was sarcasim. Never the less enjoyed it. I think your first point is that an interactive wank is much more enjoyable than watching a porn movie. I think with the comments from previous members, the interactive portion is all the more enjoyable as the girl, her friends, family, strangers gathered around the internet cafe watch some slob choke his chicken. They then can record it to their phone to show those who missed the live action.

Then your second point about flying half way around the world to meet up with that special someone who told her Filipino boyfriend she hooked one, or her mamasan she has fever and can't come to work.

My point remains for those who can actually come to the Philippines, your time spent on the dating sites is wasted. Any one can line up girls by the hundreds of equal to or better quality than the couple you are wasting time with on the internet. Don't care how old you are, how much you weigh or whether you have hair. If you shower daily, have a basic amount of charm, you will not have a problem here. I feel for guys who have the financial means, want to, but for whatever reason just won't board the plane to come here.

One thing I do miss, wish we had that many movie channels here. ha ha