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[Fizzman1970]

But don't tell her about the intended holiday otherwise she will be on her best behaviour for the trial then revert to form when you can't send her back home.

Enjoy. G.

I think I've already open My Big Mouth and told her too much. My trip is a little under two months away. Maybe I can get control back. I could always go back into FC and get her to flip out again. Yes she knew about AC and asked what are you looking for prostitutes. That's when I brought up the beach party.

She is fun to talk to and very nice to look at when you're doing a video call. She even calls me in the morning before work for phone sex. I guess the whole instant girlfriend thing got me freaked out. I see now where she has an end game insight. Where's I'm the typical guy looking for an open relationship based on money and fun. I saw our conversations as a flirtatious game and didn't see her end game.

It's funny I know she's probably talking to other guys. It would be great if I could talk her into an open relationship but now I'm dreaming.

[GDreams]

Since this is your first there are some pointers I want to give.

It is true SIM cards costs less if you know where to buy. But you are not saving much. Do not send any money before meeting. If you do there will be endless demands for this and that. Do not get involved with her family and kids. Do not discuss your plans visiting places in Philippines. All girls know about Angeles and why you go there. I doubt if she has a regular job since she readily wants to go wherever with you.

It is okay for her to meet you at the airport. Make sure she is okay with sex if she is going to stay with you. In my case I do discuss compensation amount so that there is no misunderstanding later. After you meet and have fun and if you think she will be a good companion for you then only make plans and discuss. There is nothing worse than forced to tolerate company because of promises made. Long time ago I had flown a pretty Ozamis girl to Cebu to spend four days with me. Within a day she had her period and ruined all the fun. I was forced to keep her for three days with no fun and all she did was rest. Meanwhile I wanted to enjoy my vacation with her.

While it is nice to have GFE relationship and companion it is very difficult to know about the chemistry. Do not get stuck with someone because of previous promises.

Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.

I carry a dark towel for such occasions. I have said before to a girl either fuck or I will book you into the cheapest place I can find and you look after yourself.

[Goferring]

Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.

But don't tell her about the intended holiday otherwise she will be on her best behaviour for the trial then revert to form when you can't send her back home.

Just hang out and if you want to take her / them, just say you're going tomorrow, go home and get some clothes. 99% of those without a job will say OK.

Enjoy. G.

[Sammon]

Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. Nowhere during this time was money brought up.

The only bad thing that happened was she saw that I was still going on FC and went off on me. Asking why I was still looking for more girls. Then she went dark on me for about a day. It was almost a relief she was texting me a lot. Well she came back and at least now she's not texting me in the middle of the night or when I'm at work. Still sends me a lot of photos which is okay because I like them. She still talks about traveling with me. I told her I want to go to the bikini contest in AC and seems OK with it as long as she gets to wear her bikini. I hope she doesn't go off on me again if she does. Then she's been in Subic with the Red Cross and wants to show me around.

I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.

Since this is your first there are some pointers I want to give.

It is true SIM cards costs less if you know where to buy. But you are not saving much. Do not send any money before meeting. If you do there will be endless demands for this and that. Do not get involved with her family and kids. Do not discuss your plans visiting places in Philippines. All girls know about Angeles and why you go there. I doubt if she has a regular job since she readily wants to go wherever with you.

It is okay for her to meet you at the airport. Make sure she is okay with sex if she is going to stay with you. In my case I do discuss compensation amount so that there is no misunderstanding later. After you meet and have fun and if you think she will be a good companion for you then only make plans and discuss. There is nothing worse than forced to tolerate company because of promises made. Long time ago I had flown a pretty Ozamis girl to Cebu to spend four days with me. Within a day she had her period and ruined all the fun. I was forced to keep her for three days with no fun and all she did was rest. Meanwhile I wanted to enjoy my vacation with her.

While it is nice to have GFE relationship and companion it is very difficult to know about the chemistry. Do not get stuck with someone because of previous promises.

Nowadays I always say let us meet and see. I have taken girls on vacations if I liked them after meeting.

[Sxxxx]

Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

We started doing video calls and she is the same girl that's in the pictures of her FC add. She started telling me pretty much everything about herself. Even that she works for the Red Cross that sit in the train stations. She even sent me a photo of her ID. Then without me even asking started sending me sexy photo leading up to her in the shower. Believe me when I say she's no ladyboy. Then she even starting to talk Dirty to Me. At no point has she asked me for money. Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. The next day I'll be going to the mall to have some dental work done and she wants to go with me. Next she wants to go with me to AC and on to Subic. Nowhere during this time was money brought up..

My thoughts are, do not meet her. There's about 10 million other girls wanting to meet you too. This one will 'smother' you.

Tell her you have cancelled the trip and do not answer her communications anymore, and go to Phils and have fun!

No fun with her, I assure you, only heaaches.

[Wicked Roger]

You're new so I'll explain the various points:

She wants to meet you at the airport so that you will have no opportunity to go out and meet other girls.

She wants to get your SIM card, do your shopping etc so that you become dependant on her to navigate the new city.

She wants to party with you to be seen at nice places and ensure that you don't stray.

She will get insanely jealous if you so much as look at another girl. Expect fierce arguements.

Her long game is working because you are already considering sending her money as a 'Christmas gift' before even meeting her..

Friend of mine after saying he would never see this pinay again as she is a jealous ***** type as you describe to he extent she hassles and stalks his other ladies on Facebook and send boasting time messages about how she is with him, other ladies are not etc is spending Christmas with the psycho LOL.

He has been warned but has lots of excuses as his small head is doing much of the thinking sadly. Once he has less cash in bank he may realize. Added to this he is staying in the girls provincial town so as the token foreigner he is buying the full pig etc plus am sure all the beer for the village.

She lied to him and there is proof and she said she would tell me she has never done what we know she did (I have proof she did so she would be lying to me also) yet still he is now in provincial Philippines with a gold digger.

Fizzaman. You have 11 questions lots of information still not on the country so get a PM facility and pay the $25. This helps. Don't send Christmas cash, don't chat to her further tell her to wait until you are there and see her and assess how she behaves. If you don't you will like my good friend who will for sure have his bank balance lighten by large amount in the next 10 days.

[Goferring]

I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.

You're new so I'll explain the various points:

She wants to meet you at the airport so that you will have no opportunity to go out and meet other girls.

She wants to get your SIM card, do your shopping etc so that you become dependant on her to navigate the new city.

She wants to party with you to be seen at nice places and ensure that you don't stray.

She will get insanely jealous if you so much as look at another girl. Expect fierce arguements.

Her long game is working because you are already considering sending her money as a 'Christmas gift' before even meeting her.

On the plus side, she will give you incredible sex to ensure you don't seek out other women. However, this will likely lead to you develop feelings for her and possibly consider a longer relationship. That when the emotional and monetary costs will really mount up.

My advice for a first trip is to enjoy the opportunities and not fall in love. Many would even say don't even go back for seconds. If you do want to see her, fine. But do it on your terms. Definitely not her telling you when and where she will meet you and then she will be with you every where every day.

Taking a possessive psycho to a AC bikini party is a sure no no.

Enjoy. G.

[Fizzman1970]

Well I think I got on FC a Little Too Soon. I'm not coming to mid February. I was really got hammered with messages, but have been talking to this one pretty girl for a little over 3 weeks now. She was the one that suggested getting off of FC moving to whatsup.

We started doing video calls and she is the same girl that's in the pictures of her FC add. She started telling me pretty much everything about herself. Even that she works for the Red Cross that sit in the train stations. She even sent me a photo of her ID. Then without me even asking started sending me sexy photo leading up to her in the shower. Believe me when I say she's no ladyboy. Then she even starting to talk Dirty to Me. At no point has she asked me for money. Even though I've been thinking about sending her some to pay for a gift for her and her daughter for Christmas.

She's excited about me coming and says we'll meet me at the airport and stay with me and my motel in Manila. She seems really helpful and tells me not to buy SIM card in Airport and she will help me buy a cheaper one. The next day I'll be going to the mall to have some dental work done and she wants to go with me. Next she wants to go with me to AC and on to Subic. Nowhere during this time was money brought up.

The only bad thing that happened was she saw that I was still going on FC and went off on me. Asking why I was still looking for more girls. Then she went dark on me for about a day. It was almost a relief she was texting me a lot. Well she came back and at least now she's not texting me in the middle of the night or when I'm at work. Still sends me a lot of photos which is okay because I like them. She still talks about traveling with me. I told her I want to go to the bikini contest in AC and seems OK with it as long as she gets to wear her bikini. I hope she doesn't go off on me again if she does. Then she's been in Subic with the Red Cross and wants to show me around.

I find myself keep trying to figure out the situation. This is my first trip to the Philippines and might be nice to have someone around. But on the second hand this will be the only girl I get. Then I keep asking myself is this some kind of flirtatious game? Maybe I should just go along with it because there's always a plan be. Well tell me your thoughts.

[Goferring]

I use Skype with a specific ID, no email or phone number, and I never sync contacts as all contacts in my phone are my normal contacts. Skype maintains its3 own list of contacts and there is no mix.

Ok so I guess I fucked up by typing my skype numbers into my android contacts first. Sype has recognized these and added them to it's own contact list but without my location and 'skills' identifiers in the contact names.

I haven't got too many skype only contact so is it best if I just go back and re add these directly into the Skype contact list adding my own identifiers?

Skype has also recognized many of my existing android contacts and added them but, as I said, without my identifiers. How can I find out who these are in my contact list? I use the messaging apps a lot to cross reference photos etc and would like to be able to match android vs WA vs Sype photos etc.

In short, how can I find out who in my existing android contact list is in the photo below? Her Skype username does not appear in it.

Thanks again. G.

[Albert9989]

Ok, so I've relented and installed Skype to contact girls without WhatsApp etc.

When I synced contacts, Skype recognized all my existing contacts and added those with Skype accounts to its contact list. My problem is it added them under their own Skype contact name and photo. So now my contact 'Suzi BJ Queen' in a black negligee is Smiling Susanne in an office uniform on Skype. I've got several hundred of these across multiple cities.

Is there an easy way to reconcile the two contact lists so that they have the same (preferably my) name, description and photo? I note WhatsApp draws from my contact list and retains the details that I gave the girl. Skype seems to retain it's own format, showing it's own username etc after matching the phone number.

What am I missing?

Thanks. G.

I use Skype with a specific ID, no email or phone number, and I never sync contacts as all contacts in my phone are my normal contacts. Skype maintains its3 own list of contacts and there is no mix.

[Goferring]

Ok, so I've relented and installed Skype to contact girls without WhatsApp etc.

When I synced contacts, Skype recognized all my existing contacts and added those with Skype accounts to its contact list. My problem is it added them under their own Skype contact name and photo. So now my contact 'Suzi BJ Queen' in a black negligee is Smiling Susanne in an office uniform on Skype. I've got several hundred of these across multiple cities.

Is there an easy way to reconcile the two contact lists so that they have the same (preferably my) name, description and photo? I note WhatsApp draws from my contact list and retains the details that I gave the girl. Skype seems to retain it's own format, showing it's own username etc after matching the phone number.

What am I missing?

Thanks. G.

[Mr Enternational]

Can anyone confirm when FilipinoCupid auto deletes old messages? FAQs say 60 days but can anyone confirm their real world practice?

I know PinaLive let's you keep them forever.

I am on LatinAmericanCupid and it is 60 days. Same owner. I had a message from October 13 that was deleted yesterday.

[Goferring]

Can anyone confirm when FilipinoCupid auto deletes old messages? FAQs say 60 days but can anyone confirm their real world practice?

I know PinaLive let's you keep them forever.

Thanks. G.

[Wicked Roger]

Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?

See Goferring FR but for the girls I have contacts but can't share. Please PM me so I can give you contacts as this is a nice one but we can't share openly on the forum Ki. Look forward to the PM.

[Goferring]

Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?

Do you want the girls to come from a bar or from a phone app?

With bars: Subic and Sabang.

Not so long ago every other scuba area was regarded as byo. The apps have changed that now. Many girls online all around the Visayas, Palawan etc.

Enjoy. G.