Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Fatboy 1980]

Talking to a chick on DIA. Within the space of a few messages, she's already hinted that she will fuck me. Got talking on cam and she told me she is up for sex, showed me a sexy topless pic, told me about her vibrator and her sexual fantasies etc. I decided to push it a little and test her by getting more explicit and she didn't baulk once. She told me she will come to my hotel and get jiggy etc. This is all within a few hours of initial contact. It sounds great, but I was suspicious for some reason. I asked her straight if she wanted something in return and she said 'just be nice to me'.

There is no such thing as a free lunch, surely, so I wonder if this is some kind of game or scam? I'm sure she used the same photo (albeit cropped) on another DIA profile, so maybe some guys here will recognize her.

[Frenzy3]

Gangles makes an interesting point about looking for someone who wants to study a technical field. The gap between the courses most students here take and the needs of the labor market is the subject of a paper that I'm preparing now.

Nationwide, approximatetly 15% of Filipinos earn four year degrees, and most of the degrees are in "softer" subjects: HRM, Education, etc. However the higher growth sectors of the economy require engineers, IT specialists, accountants and, to a certain degree, pure science majors. One (of many) problems with the education system here is that graduating high school students receive little to no labor market information, and the choice of curricula is often driven by economic concerns. Thus, if Education is the cheapest course, and that's all the parents can afford, that's where the child will enroll. Remember too, that these kids are graduating from high school at age 16, and many go directly to college, and are thus not really mature enough to make any sort of informed career choice. As Gangles said, longer-range planning skills (how do I prepare myself for a job once I finish?) are not in the repertoire of most people, which further handicaps the decision-making process.

The education / labor market gap is wide and growing. Most graduating college students don't even speak English well enough to land jobs in call centers, and those jobs are abundant. However, the colleges cannot even provide adequate English language education, which explains why approximately 95% of all students taking the call center exams fail.

It's sad and getting sadder all the time.

GE

Companies are addressing the education problem. I seen done if the big bpo setup schools and offer training wages. I also do this in my company.

I like the way the country works even if it may look broke to others the level of the peso gives companies a chance to pay for training. The levels of payments means only companies with good budgets of good revenue will come here so the labour will not bubble. And I like the people here.

Guys who setup buisness and complain I often hear latter that they not pay their bills which shows they did not budget then they say bad stuff about the place rather than admidt fault.

[Frenzy3]

This thread, Chat Rooms & Pen Pals, has increasingly been used to discuss the issues related to government corruption, the sad state of the economy in the Philippines and other interesting issues that are entirely UNRELATED to having sex with pinays. The new thread is the place to discuss politics and economics. The absence of these types of discussions here should make this thread more focused and, for those of us who really do not care about these larger (and obviously more important) issues, more fun.

You see, I am a shallow person, and I am here to read and learn about how to best maximize my sex with women in the Phils!

I already replied to you thread. Now I read this. Are you really that thick. To get pussy in PI just come here you get more pussy than you could ever need. PI needed Viagra so those who have money can fly here will have a good time.

I said before these forums are different as it so easy to get pussy the guys who visit here and live here can talk about anything as we do not need help to get pussy but help to understand the people more. None of us grew up in PI so the more we relate our experiances the more we learn.

So just turn up and see why we discuss what we do. As getting pussy is not a problem we face in PI

[Cunning Stunt]

This thread, Chat Rooms & Pen Pals, has increasingly been used to discuss the issues related to government corruption, the sad state of the economy in the Philippines and other interesting issues that are entirely UNRELATED to having sex with pinays. The new thread is the place to discuss politics and economics. The absence of these types of discussions here should make this thread more focused and, for those of us who really do not care about these larger (and obviously more important) issues, more fun.

You see, I am a shallow person, and I am here to read and learn about how to best maximize my sex with women in the Phils!

I fear that you will have wasted your time and effort, mate. The Philippine forum is full of belly button gazers, some like GE and one or two others who have vast experience of the country and whose non-mongering views and opinions will always make interesting reading. Apart from these, the majority of thread hijackers are made up of semi-trolls, like CM who offers no mongering insights and a totally negative view of the place but whose hilariously misogynist opinions are always worth a laugh. The rest are opinion mooners, meaning they have an opinion like they have an arse and like to display it. Nothing wrong with that but it does tend to detract and distract from the true purpose of the forum.

Besides, there already is a Philippines Politics & History thread.

[X Man]

A good report by Gangles earlier. Unfortunately it is buried among a lot of "expert" opinions regarding issues mostly unrelated to online Pinay pursuits.

Some of the kinkier members have shown interest in pregnant women. On Dia, this one claims to be 36 weeks:

Jona_lyn1234.

X

[FreebieFan]

been having some fun and interesting chats with a lady from san pedro, laguna. 19 years old, not a ten but maybe a 6, but happy and willing to get her kit off at the slightest encouragement which helped a boring day at work go faster yesterday.

lost her virginity to her boss in cebu who basically raped her at 16 on the pretext on conducting her probation appraisal.

the slimeball basically said he would not make her a permanent hire unless she gave it up to him.

anyways she seems to have recovered well. she's sees a 70 year old guy who flie in from europe every few months who gives her money. she says he can't get it up, but she sucks him for a long long time till he comes.

theres some interesting people out there in chatland. and this post had nothing to do with politics or economies or the migration habits of australians. lol

[Member #4643]

This thread, Chat Rooms & Pen Pals, has increasingly been used to discuss the issues related to government corruption, the sad state of the economy in the Philippines and other interesting issues that are entirely UNRELATED to having sex with pinays. The new thread is the place to discuss politics and economics. The absence of these types of discussions here should make this thread more focused and, for those of us who really do not care about these larger (and obviously more important) issues, more fun.

You see, I am a shallow person, and I am here to read and learn about how to best maximize my sex with women in the Phils!

[Chocha Monger]

In the third world 15% of the best people leave, and as a replacement they get sex tourists and missionaries.

In one sentence you explained why the Philippines faces an insurmountable challenge in advancing beyond Third World status. It also explains the girls' seemingly irrational behavior. On one hand you have the sex tourists enticing girls into prostitution with money and on the other hand you have missionaries collecting money at their lectures while telling the girls birth control is evil. It's a scary thought when you consider that the number of sex tourists and missionaries is likely to grow robustly in the future. When you take this into consideration a lot more patience is warranted when dealing with Filipinos. It probably should not be a surprise that some of them want to fuck foreigners when the two groups mentioned arrive with the intention to fuck them in mind and body.

[Wolvenvacht]

In the third world 15% of the best people leave, and as a replacement they get sex tourists and missionaries.

One category fucks your body, the other one fucks with your mind.

[Fast Buck Artist]

FBS's comment about qualified filipinos going overseas to work is pretty well a reflection of what happens here in Australia.

It is called a brain drain.

Almost all of our top artists, sports men and women, singers, dancers, biologists, engineers, physicists etc leave Australia and work overseas. Much more interesting, much better money.

So then, if there is a shortage, we import replacements from the Philippines, or Africa, or South America. Or Ireland. More recently.

What is the difference?

G

The difference is that 4 replacements enter australia for every 1 that leaves. Australian universities are 40% foreign students, in technical courses.

In the third world 15% of the best people leave, and as a replacement they get sex tourists and missionaries.

[Gangles]

FBS's comment about qualified filipinos going overseas to work is pretty well a reflection of what happens here in Australia.

It is called a brain drain.

Almost all of our top artists, sports men and women, singers, dancers, biologists, engineers, physicists etc leave Australia and work overseas. Much more interesting, much better money.

So then, if there is a shortage, we import replacements from the Philippines, or Africa, or South America. Or Ireland. More recently.

What is the difference?

G

Most Filipino engineers I know work either in Dubai, Saudi or a ship at sea, and when they are back home in Phils they got no gainful employment. Accountants are prized in a country with a functioning tax system, which Philippines isn't. Again the competent usually go overseas in search of work. Info tech is my field and I employ IT engineers, see no shortage of qualified workers, and they are available at a lower price than their colleagues in india.

Actually I see an oversupply of people in every field of activity. If there was a shortage you'd see higher wages in that area, and I don't see that.

The root of all problems is that the country is obscenely overpopulated. There are just too many people. There are not enough jobs for them, industry is too small to accomodate them, there is not enough food, infrastructure or natural resources to give them all middle class lifestyle. This population overgrowth is like a tumor choking the country.

Until that issue is addressed, we'll see rising unemployment, in every field, falling income / capita, rising misery / capita, and the efforts you guys are making in improving education here remind me of a Titanic sailor using a teacup to throw water out of the sinking ship.

[Gangles]

lamok, like you, i find dia to be very time consumiing, given that i have a very clear idea of the kind of woman that i am looking for.

so i use cherry blossoms. it costs a bit of money, which is trivial compared with your sunk costs of travel and accommodation.

cb pays foritself very quickly in terms of speed in finding what you are looking for.

you can search against a number or characteristics, and th system will return to you all members that meet your specification.

you can specify age range, height range, weight range, location, education, children, smokers, drinkers etc.

so if you want to be able to have a conversation with her, specify college degree for education.

keep in mind that girls have little constraints to travel by bus, so when you specify a city, say cebu, also look for the larger cities in the near vicinity, say 3 hours by bus. because she may say that she lives in carcar, or in cebu, for example. or in mandaue or lapu lapu, which are suburbs of cebu.

also, for manila. there is a suburb called manila, which she may specify, also ermita, makati, pasay, paranuake, cavite, bacoor etc.

you also have the option of setting up what are called matches. you specify the kind of woman that you are looking for, and the system will give you a daily list of all women meeting your specification. very quick to scan them now, and you save buickets of time weeding out the ones that do not interest you.

for example, i just did a search as follows. filipino, age 19 to 24, height 4'11" to 5'2", weight below 40 kg to 100 lb, college degree, single, no kids, non smoker, located in cebu.

i got 32 responses. that height range and weight range will throw up the spinners of which so may mongers are enamoured. degree means she will speak some english, will be able to hold a convrsatopn, and may well have a job. a quick scan shows that most of them are real honeys. much quicker than scanning hundreds of dia profiles for the same result.

had i then changed the location to mandaue, or lapu lapu, i would get more. so there is a fair range to choose from.

go for it.

g.

i've been wasting a lot of time on dia before my next trip over, as i would like a change from the bar scene and was wondering if any of you more experienced guys out there would care to share a few tips about cruising dia and making the most of your time, as i have discovered that there are a lot of time wasters out there.

most of the girls say in their profiles that they are 'simple' and that's an understatement to say the least. seems that there are lots of bored little girls that just want to chat and i try to redirect them to an email conversation in the hopes that if they can complete a sentence, they may have half a brain.

another question is are there any teltale signs that they are pros? not that i mind that kind of arrangement, but nice to know in advance if i can afford them.

also it seems that most of the beauties are from cebu. or is it just my taste for visayan beauty? but most or a lot of them ar single mothers looking for a sugardaddy and generally it seems that they are the most hungry [scammers]. is that true?

so, any advise to connect with an under 25 yr old that is game to try a guy before comitting?

and what areas would be best. mnl / cebu / or others that are easy access for both of us?

thanks in advance.

[Fast Buck Artist]

Nationwide, approximatetly 15% of Filipinos earn four year degrees, and most of the degrees are in "softer" subjects: HRM, Education, etc. However the higher growth sectors of the economy require engineers, IT specialists, accountants and, to a certain degree, pure science majors.

Most Filipino engineers I know work either in Dubai, Saudi or a ship at sea, and when they are back home in Phils they got no gainful employment. Accountants are prized in a country with a functioning tax system, which Philippines isn't. Again the competent usually go overseas in search of work. Info tech is my field and I employ IT engineers, see no shortage of qualified workers, and they are available at a lower price than their colleagues in india.

Actually I see an oversupply of people in every field of activity. If there was a shortage you'd see higher wages in that area, and I don't see that.

The root of all problems is that the country is obscenely overpopulated. There are just too many people. There are not enough jobs for them, industry is too small to accomodate them, there is not enough food, infrastructure or natural resources to give them all middle class lifestyle. This population overgrowth is like a tumor choking the country.

Until that issue is addressed, we'll see rising unemployment, in every field, falling income / capita, rising misery / capita, and the efforts you guys are making in improving education here remind me of a Titanic sailor using a teacup to throw water out of the sinking ship.

[GoodEnough]

Gangles makes an interesting point about looking for someone who wants to study a technical field. The gap between the courses most students here take and the needs of the labor market is the subject of a paper that I'm preparing now.

Nationwide, approximatetly 15% of Filipinos earn four year degrees, and most of the degrees are in "softer" subjects: HRM, Education, etc. However the higher growth sectors of the economy require engineers, IT specialists, accountants and, to a certain degree, pure science majors. One (of many) problems with the education system here is that graduating high school students receive little to no labor market information, and the choice of curricula is often driven by economic concerns. Thus, if Education is the cheapest course, and that's all the parents can afford, that's where the child will enroll. Remember too, that these kids are graduating from high school at age 16, and many go directly to college, and are thus not really mature enough to make any sort of informed career choice. As Gangles said, longer-range planning skills (how do I prepare myself for a job once I finish?) are not in the repertoire of most people, which further handicaps the decision-making process.

The education / labor market gap is wide and growing. Most graduating college students don't even speak English well enough to land jobs in call centers, and those jobs are abundant. However, the colleges cannot even provide adequate English language education, which explains why approximately 95% of all students taking the call center exams fail.

It's sad and getting sadder all the time.

GE

[Sid70]

Hey guys I've been chatting this super hot little 27 year old Blonde Fillie. Penelope_scarlet. She is feisty and ready. I won't be back for a few months. She said she is Bi and can be the Devil. If anybody has their boots on the ground in Manila and wants to give it a shot it should be interesting. Keep us posted.

Hahaha she contacted me aswell. Very interesting to read her heartbreaking lifestory. I guess there is no single word who's genuine. Hahaha. But anyway she is hot and lets see whats wll happen if I stay in contact with her.