Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[George03]

That was my intention if we had progressed that far. Knowing that I have 12-18 months before I would likely to actually confront her emboldened me a bit. Maybe the dog ran away and she is still chasing it?

Hello,

What is the best time of year to visit Australia? On my list of places to visit if Covid ever ends.

[PedroMorales]

After a couple of days of chat, I got an early morning "good morning" message. I asked what she intended doing that day and the best she could come up wit was "water the plants and let the dog out". That was the last I heard from her, maybe a good thing?

This experience seems to iterate what others have said here.

You raise an interesting point here. What would you expect her to be doing besides walking the dog and watering plants? It is early morning here and some old boiler has just walked past in the awful weather with two dogs who ponce a life of sorts out of her. I am of farming stock and believe dogs should either work or be chopped up for food. I do, of course, see their utility as companions to kids and old boilers. I am thinking of going back to growing my own fruit bushes and bee friendly plants but I would have to water them and be around to tend them.

Say you took her to Sydney, What would you expect her to do? Rock your world or water the plants and walk your dog? Here are the Rolling Stones walking the dog in Kangaroo Land https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xtCJhQ6P3w.

Of course, I get you were only monkeying around on PinayLove as we all do. These are simple, low income people. What do you think they do with their time? Do they squander it any differently than we do? Isn't it telling most guys here can't get a white hottie and some of the others are seriously psychologically disturbed? I remember once meeting a nice woman an internet cafe in Isaan. Turns out she had been a low class hooker in Soi 6, Pattaya, famous for cut price, short time bonks. She and her village and family were nice. She had her eyes on a tattooed English alcoholic. As we drove back past locals out hunting frogs for food, she was scare of the ghosts. We were but tourists.

[AussieGaigin]

You should have told her that you promise to meet up with her whenever her sister invites her.

That was my intention if we had progressed that far. Knowing that I have 12-18 months before I would likely to actually confront her emboldened me a bit. Maybe the dog ran away and she is still chasing it?

[Mr Enternational]

One that might have had "prospects" was a 50 yo, widow of a "white American". The backgrounds of her photos suggested she was reasonably well off from the union. A bit of chat elicited that she had a sister living in Switzerland, and another in Australia. So it seems the family was doing quite well at milking RWMs. She suggested that she would consider coming here to visit me "if I invited her". Presumably that meant paying her airfares, as she could easily get a family visit visa from her sister (COVID notwithstanding).

You should have told her that you promise to meet up with her whenever her sister invites her.

[AussieGaigin]

I am not a Philippines monger, and my only experience there was from a two day transit stopover in Manila in the 1990's. I did get myself a bar girl, just for the thrill of it, but the details are lost in time. I have certainly enjoyed reading your experiences here, nonetheless.

I have a couple of friends here in Sydney who have successfully married Pinays (same age range matches), who tried to induct me to sisters / cousins, but I resisted the temptation.

I am now in my late 60's, and still not interested, but after reading comments here I decided to waste some of my COVID induced free time to sign up to PinaLove for a month to see what was around. My target was 40-60 year olds.

Not unexpectedly, within seconds of my profile appearing, I was inundated with "likes" and messages from 19-25 year olds, and a few "old boilers" in my age range. These continued for about a week, then faded away.

One that might have had "prospects" was a 50 yo, widow of a "white American". The backgrounds of her photos suggested she was reasonably well off from the union. A bit of chat elicited that she had a sister living in Switzerland, and another in Australia. So it seems the family was doing quite well at milking RWMs. She suggested that she would consider coming here to visit me "if I invited her". Presumably that meant paying her airfares, as she could easily get a family visit visa from her sister (COVID notwithstanding).

After a couple of days of chat, I got an early morning "good morning" message. I asked what she intended doing that day and the best she could come up wit was "water the plants and let the dog out". That was the last I heard from her, maybe a good thing?

This experience seems to iterate what others have said here.

[BrizLad]

I will quickly send load, I use gcash and 50 p is a cheap way to test the waters. -snip-

I have 2 regulars that I have not been able to see for a while, they get a thousand or so a month, one got 5 k when she had to move. 2 K on the months of their birthdays. One got a old cell phone that cost me less than 300 p to send to her..

I think it's reasonable to send load when you are in country or close to arriving.

IME Filipinas do not carry 'credit' in their mind for very long. Being outside the country and not knowing when we might get into Ph it's too open ended unless getting an immediate return.

[Drbombay]

Everyone has their different preferences, and that's ok, so I'm wondering what are experienced mongers getting for the TT'ed load or cash? Cam sessions? Bonus points for helping the girls out during times of need? Prepaid future services?

No judgement or hazing for sending the money. I'm just wondering what guys get in return?

Thanks. G.

I get private shows and sometimes good conversation. The thing is that with my current job, I will get a chance to travel to the PI once COVID is over so I look at it as "seed money" to my investment in them. I'm getting up in years and frankly once we are allowed to venture out again I suspect the game may change a bit and it's sometimes nice to have a stand-by on call instead of me having to go out to large public places.

I do draw the line though. Every little oops that they may have isn't my problem and it's not my duty to get their sister's kid tuition paid. Nor is is my duty to come online to every night to help them meet their gift goal so that they can cash out and spend big money on high point gifts. I look at it like how guys could sit up in a Buy me Drink bar all night and do nothing but pay for $20 drinks for the lady's and get only them sitting their with them and going home by themselves. There are a lot of those in my area where I live (in Japan) so I am familiar with how that works and somewhat understand so I don't see it as too much of a stretch on my part as long as I don't go overboard.

[GDreams]

Thanks GD. The reason I don't know how the system works is that I never send cash, load or anything to girls regardless of if they are new or long time acquaintances. All of mine are well trained that I am generous while in town but there will be no random FB messages, chit chat or dying uncles while I'm back home.

I've posted a couple of times that while I normally don't even contact girls until I'm in town, these are exceptional circumstances so I am contacting new girls on the off chance that their numbers will still be valid when I can arrive. To date no funds have been sent and I'm not expecting too. A few girls have sent me nudes but as I don't cam, I haven't pushed for more. I see it (maybe foolishly) as ground work for a future visit.

Everyone has their different preferences, and that's ok, so I'm wondering what are experienced mongers getting for the TT'ed load or cash? Cam sessions? Bonus points for helping the girls out during times of need? Prepaid future services?

No judgement or hazing for sending the money. I'm just wondering what guys get in return?

Thanks. G.

I've sent load to about 4 girls to chat. All less than 100 p. I have sent a few girls less than 1000 for travel expenses when they are remote. I've sent a couple a few thousand that I was dating but in the end worked out that it was easier just to come pay and have no obligations.

I have been there both as a visitor and working so have tried a few different approaches.

[PedroMorales]

Here is a good report of Pinays and transsexuals extorting guys to sand cash. I know of several suicides in this area.

https://www.scamsurvivors.com/forum/...75303&p=186147

One has to admire their entrepreneurship. Real Gangs of New York trash.

This morning I watched a video of an impala escape from a crocodile. Only (spoiler alert) for a leopard to immediately pounce. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKwRBMIDCSs.

There are a lot of lonely / horny guys out there on Team Impala.

1) If one of you fellas will send me $15 k USD, I will see how far I can get on that, with how many different ladies. Will post up a bunch of pics. Have cash (yours), will dally. And will post reports.

[WestCoast1]

SNIP but for more than 2 years, some $15,000 worth? For that he could have come over once a year and fucked her and several others for a month.

1) If one of you fellas will send me $15 k USD, I will see how far I can get on that, with how many different ladies. Will post up a bunch of pics. Have cash (yours), will dally. And will post reports.

2) An abbreviated story, previously posted, from years past. A Manila regular (at the time, I referred to her as "The Dynamo", due to her un-assuage-able nawty energy). Mid-30's, tiny. Deeply horny and she became a provider. Was with her on / off for some years. She had two daughters, and for the first 2-3 years she rarely spoke about them. After a few years, one night after the ditty, while the other new gal that she'd brought for my 3-some joy had drifted off to sleep, she shared some insights as to her daughters. She said they each had an American boyfriend.

A few months later on a return trip to NCR, we met at a bar for a drink. She had indicated she would bring a new girl for 3-some, but here was no extra girl. "Ya Westy she's home. She come later". The Dynamo had forgotten something at home, so we taxied to an apartment building where she lived, and she had me walk upstairs with her to her place. Its in a crappy area, and its a crappy building inside and out. Both elevators were dead. We walked up the stairs, and from the lobby to the stairwell to the hallway (many apartment doors were wide open), there were mostly women and children, and hotties left and right (no wonder she seemed to have an endless supply of ladies). We reached her apartment, walked in, she grabbed whatever she had forgotten and put it in her purse. We left and taxied to my hotel, and the new gal showed up. Once again after dinner, drinks, and adult fun, the new gal slept while Dynamo and I talked.

Sweetie, tell me more about your daughters foreign BF's please. And she did: Both daughters had much older American boyfriends from different cities. Both boyfies were elderly and could not travel. The mother had used DIA to carefully cultivate older gents who were fairly invalid to have chat-only relationships with her daughters. One gent was sending about $350 USD monthly to one daughter (the mother collects all the money), and the other gent I think was sending about $400 per month to the other daughter. The Dynamo routinely sat in on chat sessions between daughters and the Cano, and reviewed conversations from the old YM chat transcripts, so there was no hint of hanky panky. GENIUS!

Mom was raking in about p35-40 k per month on the two older gents. I would guess that's why she never asked me for anything, telling me only how much she thought I should give each new gal that she brought me, and of course to pay for food / drink and such. She said she was using the foreigners money to live on and save for each daughter's college. Each older gent later passed away, but that didn't end the gravy train, as mom just carefully enticed more elder-gents into the same relationship. Both girls went to college (one stopped, bad grades). Just guessing that the Dynamo made easily $20-$30 K USD off this thing (or much more) over the years.

Guess we should not be surprised that during Covid-times, overseas gents are willing to cough up large dollars for a few nude photos of some pinay hottie, given that previous-Covid gents were willing to send hundreds of $ monthly to girls they knew they would never meet, never touch, and never get to say anything nawty to, for the rest of their lives.

3) Seriously, refer to #1 above.

[Kabul Guy]

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No judgement or hazing for sending the money. I'm just wondering what guys get in return?

Thanks. G.

I will quickly send load, I use gcash and 50 p is a cheap way to test the waters. If she thanks me and chats for 3 days that the load lasts then OK, I will send more so we can keep chatting to see where it goes. If she gets upset and demands 500 p load so she can chat,. Goodbye.

I have 2 regulars that I have not been able to see for a while, they get a thousand or so a month, one got 5 k when she had to move. 2 K on the months of their birthdays. One got a old cell phone that cost me less than 300 p to send to her.

These are girls I actually care about, both would marry me in a heartbeat but I have convinced me I am not going to remarry and that that topic is of limits. I look at it as an investment in future fun as well as something for the past memories.

Otherwise I do not send money at all. I am a 200 p bus ride outside of Cebu city and will send 500 just before they come. Small enough that if I lose it no big worries, they get 1000 or 1500 for two or three days here and hat has to cover bus home.

I have been chatting with one, she is on Negros so not able to get here easily and she has not asked me for money. She is smoking hot, 35 no kids, bikini model quality (I have seen bikini pictures.).

Bikini model has at least one guy in USA that has been sending her 30 k for over 2 years. She has not said whet he gets for that but they have never met. I am sure he is not getting cam shows as she lives in an area with bad coverage, only cell phone data and it is spotty at best.

All I can think he will be getting is either short videos or still pictures, but for more than 2 years, some $15,000 worth? For that he could have come over once a year and fucked her and several others for a month.

[Goferring]

One advantage of sending load is you can do it off the providers website using a credit card from anywhere. No hassle of money transfers. The only reason I like a money transfer is to get them to send me their photo ID, not that I have a long list of girls I send money to but it does help in finding all their social media accounts when you have their full name. It helped me track that one girl had just gotten married to another guy the week before!

Thanks GD. The reason I don't know how the system works is that I never send cash, load or anything to girls regardless of if they are new or long time acquaintances. All of mine are well trained that I am generous while in town but there will be no random FB messages, chit chat or dying uncles while I'm back home.

I've posted a couple of times that while I normally don't even contact girls until I'm in town, these are exceptional circumstances so I am contacting new girls on the off chance that their numbers will still be valid when I can arrive. To date no funds have been sent and I'm not expecting too. A few girls have sent me nudes but as I don't cam, I haven't pushed for more. I see it (maybe foolishly) as ground work for a future visit.

Everyone has their different preferences, and that's ok, so I'm wondering what are experienced mongers getting for the TT'ed load or cash? Cam sessions? Bonus points for helping the girls out during times of need? Prepaid future services?

No judgement or hazing for sending the money. I'm just wondering what guys get in return?

Thanks. G.

[Mr Enternational]

The only reason I like a money transfer is to get them to send me their photo ID, not that I have a long list of girls I send money to but it does help in finding all their social media accounts when you have their full name.

Taking a moment out to be Captain Obvious, couldn't you just ask them their full name?... or even ask them to let you see their ID without sending money? I have tons of chicks' IDs in my phone, yet have not done one money transfer.

[BrizLad]

One girl I was chatting a year ago now, 24 yo no kids, ostensibly said she was single. She had an amazing rack and unblemished body. She was the daughter of a barangay captain. After a while revealed that she was in fact married but that the husband had married her even though he was married to another Filipina. I was a bit skeptical but over the moth of chatting other the story did stack up. She sent me her real detail as well as that of the husband us foreigner national. She was going through the process of getting the marriage cancelled.

What would motivate a foreigner to bother fucking up so many lives?

Briz.

[GDreams]

Thanks Roger. I think it was Globe that was talking about having their Sims store credit like a debit card and facilitate physical purchases and Seven 11 etc. Not sure if that progressed but it may be an option for them too.

One advantage of sending load is you can do it off the providers website using a credit card from anywhere. No hassle of money transfers. The only reason I like a money transfer is to get them to send me their photo ID, not that I have a long list of girls I send money to but it does help in finding all their social media accounts when you have their full name. It helped me track that one girl had just gotten married to another guy the week before!