Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Mr Enternational]

Hey,

Thank you these are really good suggestions, I never realized that my phone no. Could be linked to my FB account till these two women send me friend requests. I agree I have been naive and to an extent lazy. Also I really did not have a choice since I am still in my home country and to had add and chat on viber / WhatsApp with the same number. The smart thing to do would be to remove the phone number from FB till I get a mongering number once I step into Manila.

I never realized that was why people who did not know my name were able to add me. I just tried to remove my phone number and got this message: Are you sure you want to remove this phone?

You will no longer be able to use this phone to receive notifications or upload any photos and videos to Facebook.

[Drukyul2000]

Oh, why so skeptical?

Out . X.

Well Mr. X I am not sure what to make of your story but I do appreciate what you did as it requires a big heart to do what you did. Whether it was a smart thing to do, now that is something we can debate on but each one to his own, you gut said it was a genuine case and you helped out, good for you.

Well in my case I just did not feel that it was a genuine cry for help, I was confident that she was just trying to scam the way the whole thing went.

I do see her regular on Pinalove, maybe I should share her handle with you and see how it goes, just for fun let's see what happens. Also next time if I need help I am surely messaging you. LOL.

[Dg8787]

I know several guys (including myself) who have helped any number of bona fide hard luck cases but no where near my life savings..

It may have been the same amount.

[D Cups]

I know several guys (including myself) who have helped any number of bona fide hard luck cases but no where near my life savings.

Oh, why so skeptical? I had a gal who asked for help immediately after the big Leyte / Samar / North Cebu disaster typhoon. Her house was completely destroyed. They needed food.

She is a very industrious gal since she was able to find the one Internet cafe with a connection despite the power being out in that area.

Out of the pity of my heart, I sent her my life savings. I hope she's in much better condition now, but I haven't heard from her since. X.

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[Dg8787]

As usurious as pawning and 5/6 is, it is the last financing available for the common Filipino. It can make the difference whether there is something to eat or not.

As you look around there are many pawn shops in Phil. I remember a girl that would pawn her "gold" necklace every other month for P500. That 2 k necklace probably ended up costing her 5 k over a short life time of pawning.

I remember a taxi driver in Davao telling me his wife ran a sari sari store out of their house. The BIR caught up with him and he borrowed 5/6 each month to pay the monthly fee. He didn't have enough for the yearly fee which would have been much cheaper.

Sadly when you are low / no income pawning is a way of life.

[Simmer]

People who have "emergency" at home do not log in Pinalove and scout for guys.

Not sure if you're joking but. Yes. Yes, they do! And I don't blame them. Sometimes they really are genuine. But it's up to you (and your little head) whether you accept the possible rewards. For me, a recent US $100 "sexy massage" reduced to US $50 with guaranteed no FS was a definite non acceptance. Last year the Angeles Php3,000 barfine with a beauty who *afterwards* said she only did it to support her family was definitely worth it. Damn, she got my heartstrings. But after rather than before. Cost vs reward. Business.

[X Man]

Oh, why so skeptical? I had a gal who asked for help immediately after the big Leyte / Samar / North Cebu disaster typhoon. Her house was completely destroyed. They needed food.

She is a very industrious gal since she was able to find the one Internet cafe with a connection despite the power being out in that area.

Out of the pity of my heart, I sent her my life savings. I hope she's in much better condition now, but I haven't heard from her since. X.

Well the pawning story sounds OK. Wait till you listen to my story. So there is this 25 year old hottie. I mean she is pretty. As usual the girl gave me her number to chat on viber and after chatting with for a short while, she asked me for money. She apparently has some emergency at home and wanted me to send her money immediately and she would meet me in Manila and give the money back, also spend time with me. I said no and told her honey I pay only after boom boom.

I mean it could be some guy sitting on the other side and scamming people for money. People who have "emergency" at home do not log in Pinalove and scout for guys.

[FreebieFan]

I said no and told her honey I pay only after boom boom.
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And that is a fine guiding principle that many guys would do well to follow. Theres an endless stream of emergencies for these girls.

Another guiding principle, is they they did fine before you met you, and they will do fine long after you are gone. Don't be " guilted " into parting with money.

There's a who army of princesses in Angeles who all get WU support from guys who they bonked once, and who feel a need to send them money every month. Thats just plain weird to me.

[Drukyul2000]

Pawned her phone? A girl just told me the only way I can contact her is via dating site messages because she pawned her phone. Of all her worldly possessions, surely her phone is the last thing she would pawn. Or borrow a friend's phone love, how are we supposed to arrange to meet so you can collect your pay check if you don't have access to a phone?

Well the pawning story sounds OK. Wait till you listen to my story. So there is this 25 year old hottie. I mean she is pretty. As usual the girl gave me her number to chat on viber and after chatting with for a short while, she asked me for money. She apparently has some emergency at home and wanted me to send her money immediately and she would meet me in Manila and give the money back, also spend time with me. I said no and told her honey I pay only after boom boom.

I mean it could be some guy sitting on the other side and scamming people for money. People who have "emergency" at home do not log in Pinalove and scout for guys.

[Drukyul2000]

Firstly I hope for Gods sake you have created yourself with a fake FB account? If you use an account of origin aka one with your personal real info and real friends / family on, well, I don't know about blackmailing, but you could at least get some trouble explaining why a naughty pinay is posting shit about you (if you from some reasons don't come to one agreement of sorts). Been there done that many years ago. I am wiser now. With my new fake FB I didn't have any issues at all. But the account can not in anyway be connected with your original account. Even having the same pic in the two or more accounts will tip the ladies off in there "friends suggestion" you might have more than one account and depending on your safety level / privacy settings they could maybe do some shit to you. But if you behave and don't get yourself enemies you will most likely be fine. Anyway a fake FB is the way to go as at least I don't want my real world colliding with my monger world.

So create yourself a second new life, fill it up with pinays (just search for "pinay dating" in FB). If you have a pic of yourself use it and preferably from you in Phils somewhere to actually prove you have been here before. It tends to help with girls accepting your request. Good luck.

Hey,

Thank you these are really good suggestions, I never realized that my phone no. Could be linked to my FB account till these two women send me friend requests. I agree I have been naive and to an extent lazy. Also I really did not have a choice since I am still in my home country and to had add and chat on viber / WhatsApp with the same number. The smart thing to do would be to remove the phone number from FB till I get a mongering number once I step into Manila.

[Simmer]

Which part of Manila are you in? I think you are over engineering something.

I think you are right to turn down the $100 massage.

Install WeChat and use a Philippines number. Use Nearby to find females in your local area.

Suggest less pressure on the sure thing commitment prior to meeting. Even if you get a massage only, meet the girl, ask her if she has friends that are looking for a cash. They will know what you mean. More fun than spending the night in manila alone and frustrated. Few pinay will confirm sex on the chat, but give them a bedroom, low light, a nice attitude and a naked cock and they seem to work it out.

By the way, which area of Manila are you in?

BD.

You're probably right, being TOO honest. Well, not that I'm asking for a fuck, just saying that I'm here only for 2 weeks. Actually I've said I want a dinner date and whatever might happen next. That much is actually true: it's kinda boring working during the day and then having little to do in the evenings.

Thanks for the suggestions: will give them a go.

I'm in Bonifacio, south of Makati. Clearly not the best place by far for this kind of thing, but my main purpose here is business. Once or twice a week "a bit on the side" is enough for me, so business locality more important than shag locality.

[Ceegee]

Are you brand new? They pawn phones all the time. I had a real girlfriend that I never gave any money to do the same. You can arrange a meet up on the dating site just as she told you. Communication is communication.

Not new at all. In fact, since I know how woeful Phils girls are at time keeping, the last thing I want is a girl that I cannot communicate with while she is in transit. She could be an hour drive away and just starting on her hair and makeup at the arranged meeting time. No thanks.

[Mr Enternational]

Pawned her phone? A girl just told me the only way I can contact her is via dating site messages because she pawned her phone. Of all her worldly possessions, surely her phone is the last thing she would pawn. Or borrow a friend's phone love, how are we supposed to arrange to meet so you can collect your pay check if you don't have access to a phone?

Are you brand new? They pawn phones all the time. I had a real girlfriend that I never gave any money to do the same. You can arrange a meet up on the dating site just as she told you. Communication is communication.

[Ceegee]

Pawned her phone? A girl just told me the only way I can contact her is via dating site messages because she pawned her phone. Of all her worldly possessions, surely her phone is the last thing she would pawn. Or borrow a friend's phone love, how are we supposed to arrange to meet so you can collect your pay check if you don't have access to a phone?

Figured it out. It's a scam, what a surprise. A different girl told me the same thing, but called me via Skype and showed me her tits on cam. Great tits. Of course she needed me to send her 1000 pesos now so she could get her phone back so we could meet.

So now any girl that doesn't have a phone gets instantly blocked. I got to see a great pair of tits for free though LOL.

[Ceegee]

Pawned her phone? A girl just told me the only way I can contact her is via dating site messages because she pawned her phone. Of all her worldly possessions, surely her phone is the last thing she would pawn. Or borrow a friend's phone love, how are we supposed to arrange to meet so you can collect your pay check if you don't have access to a phone?