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[WestCoast1]

One story that I hear, is that even bringing a pinay / thai over to the usa, is not that good, they change once they are here.

So, better just to date in their country? What does fellow mongers think?

Mixed results. Have known pinay to marry and move to my home country, and live both the pinay and American dream. The pinay dream accomplished when she worked and sent money home. The American dream when she was happy with her hubby. Had the following situation happen with two different married pinay: Sitting in a restaurant with her, waiting for her considerably older American husband to join us, she turns to see him walk in the door, smiles, and says to me: "Oh my handsome husband is here!" That's after a decade of marriage, and a tribute to traditional marriage.

OTOH, because there is always another hand. Have seen such women within a year are sleeping with another guy, and within another year she's gone, living with someone else. Overactive sex drive, and / or abusive husband are possibilities.

When she first arrived she would greet him every day at the door when he came home from work with slippers and a cold beer. A couple of years later and she would not even buy him beer when she went to the market.

The honeymoon is officially OVER!

[Dg8787]

One story that I hear, is that even bringing a pinay / thai over to the usa, is not that good, they change once they are here.

So, better just to date in their country? What does fellow mongers think?

Depends on who is telling the story. Most success relationships aren't reported here.

[Dg8787]

This is not just a Thai / Pinay thing. If you take any Asian woman out of her home country back to the USA you can expect issues. There are exceptions. If it is a woman that is fluent in English and has traveled or studied outside her home country than you have a better chance of success. A friend worked in Korea and married a Korean girl and brought her back to the US. When she first arrived she would greet him every day at the door when he came home from work with slippers and a cold beer. A couple of years later and she would not even buy him beer when she went to the market.

Was the guy an alcoholic?

[Mr Enternational]

The cam business seems to be huge. I guess it is like online gambling, addictive. But stuff like that is a big turnoff for me. Plus the women look so bored tough,

How excited would you be if you had to play with yourself in front of the camera all day everyday? The cam business is huge for the folks that own the websites, not so much for the people sitting in front of the cameras playing with themselves.

[AggieDad1]

One story that I hear, is that even bringing a pinay / thai over to the usa, is not that good, they change once they are here.

So, better just to date in their country? What does fellow mongers think?

This is not just a Thai / Pinay thing. If you take any Asian woman out of her home country back to the USA you can expect issues. There are exceptions. If it is a woman that is fluent in English and has traveled or studied outside her home country than you have a better chance of success. A friend worked in Korea and married a Korean girl and brought her back to the US. When she first arrived she would greet him every day at the door when he came home from work with slippers and a cold beer. A couple of years later and she would not even buy him beer when she went to the market.

[Member #1088]

https://twitter.com/WR4NYGov/status/...fUrjaHqbQ&s=09

The reasons why to go to Pinayland.

One story that I hear, is that even bringing a pinay / thai over to the usa, is not that good, they change once they are here.

So, better just to date in their country? What does fellow mongers think?

[Member #1088]

https://twitter.com/WR4NYGov/status/...fUrjaHqbQ&s=09

The reasons why to go to Pinayland.

[Jarango]

As part of my research into my visit next month to the Phils, I checked out a cam site. Though I have bonked cam girls over the years and got their side of the tale, last night was different as the cam girl was fifty three (53) years old and looked it. Now I have never paid a cam girl or a cam granny for that matter, and I know folk need $$ but who would pay for a glamourous granny who is not all that glam. I am not attacking her, as she has to do what she has to do. But it just took me by surprise. That said, some of the requests by others were way off the charts, even for this site, maybe just College students acting the monkey.

The cam business seems to be huge. I guess it is like online gambling, addictive. But stuff like that is a big turnoff for me. Plus the women look so bored tough, as some have told me, if they play their cards right, they can make good buck. The sites are good in that t hey allows the girls quickly know who the tippers are and who the tyre kickers like me are. Kinda like dating where each finds their own level.

I have met nice hookers over the years (numbers game) but 99% prove the maxim of paying them to leave. Headaches. Maybe next month I will go for sticky seconds from women I meet at the early breakfast joints. There is something van Gogh ish about hookers at that time, when their shift is done. Used to drink with them a long long time ago when I never needed their services as I was hot to trot.

[RegsyReg]

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Take amino acid supplements, specifically L-Arginine, L-Lysine or L-Carnitine.

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That's the most disgusting concoction I've ever drunk, it smells like a sock you've nutted at least two days ago and tastes like a chalk, but fucking hell mate, alongside other advices it works like the Holy Grail.

[Goferring]

G: There is a well tested formula for the correct age of a girlfriend for a mongerer. Take you own age and divide by 2. 35. Take that result and multiply by 1. 15. Add 7 and then ignore the result. That leaves you with 20 +/- 2 years old.

I am guessing your definition of mature is probably 27-30; mine is 37-40.

Your math is surprisingly accurate. My sweet spot is 24 to 27 (picked up a few tricks and not too ditzy). Occasionally I'll stray to very early 30's if we click and she's still in good condition.

Enjoy. G.

[D Cups]

I did not realize I was being repetitive, but the nuances of online dating are somewhat non intuitive. First let me answer your question: no I am not in Manila. I will be there in a few months, and I do not have conversations with online girls at the present time, as I see this as pointless. I like to start about 10 days prior to my date of arrival. In retrospect, even 10 days is probably too much time.

When I first started coming to Makati City on a regular basis, I was only interested in 18-22 yo girls. But now, I want to start dating women who are more mature but still have their beauty. That is the purpose of my question.

The last time I was in Makati, I did exactly what you are suggesting: I told the girls I was not interested in a long term relationship but wanted to date for fun. I had more girls who still wanted to see me than I was capable of accommodating. On my life, only certain Africa Cities compare to Manila in the ease with which one can get laid (Santo Domingo and the closest cities is a close third to Manila, but Kampala and Nairobi were the best.

OK, so if I understand you correctly, its not too different to date an older woman than a younger woman in the Philippines. But, what is your experience with the older ones- are they more or less likely (or the same) to have sex on the first date? Telling the girl that I am not interested in an LTR is not the same as saying that I am only interested in getting together if we will have sex.

The older (30+) Filipina broads love to have sex. I been with several MILFs here.

[Jarango]

I did not realize I was being repetitive,

You are worse than repetitive.

G: There is a well tested formula for the correct age of a girlfriend for a mongerer. Take you own age and divide by 2. 35. Take that result and multiply by 1. 15..

I googled that and got no hits. If you divide by 2. 35 and then multiply by 1.15, you are effectively multiplying by. 49.

[MamaGuevos]

/////My definition of mature is about 10 years younger than yours but essentially yes, it makes no difference. If anything a mature lady may be more interested in meeting and fun than a hot 19 year old.////Enjoy. G.

G: There is a well tested formula for the correct age of a girlfriend for a mongerer. Take you own age and divide by 2. 35. Take that result and multiply by 1. 15. Add 7 and then ignore the result. That leaves you with 20 +/- 2 years old.

I am guessing your definition of mature is probably 27-30; mine is 37-40.

[Goferring]

First let me answer your question: no I am not in Manila. I will be there in a few months, and I do not have conversations with online girls at the present time, as I see this as pointless. I like to start about 10 days prior to my date of arrival. In retrospect, even 10 days is probably too much time.

When I first started coming to Makati City on a regular basis, I was only interested in 18-22 yo girls. But now, I want to start dating women who are more mature but still have their beauty. That is the purpose of my question.

The last time I was in Makati, I did exactly what you are suggesting: I told the girls I was not interested in a long term relationship but wanted to date for fun. I had more girls who still wanted to see me than I was capable of accommodating.

OK, so if I understand you correctly, its not too different to date an older woman than a younger woman in the Philippines. But, what is your experience with the older ones- are they more or less likely (or the same) to have sex on the first date? Telling the girl that I am not interested in an LTR is not the same as saying that I am only interested in getting together if we will have sex.

Personally, I don't contact anyone until I'm sitting in a Philippine hotel. However, your plan sounds ok. I'd agree that the less lead up time the better. Less opportunities for sick buffaloes and other monetary demands. Guys making contact months out makes no sense to me as there are no guarantees that she will actually show when you ask to physically meet. Asking to meet now or after work is far more reliable. I guess you know that Pinas of all ages are notorious for no shows and false promises.

That's fine. Everyone has different tastes and there are girls of every type available.

It's normal to run out of time before choices.

My definition of mature is about 10 years younger than yours but essentially yes, it makes no difference. If anything a mature lady may be more interested in meeting and fun than a hot 19 year old.

If you make meeting conditional upon sex being included than you are going to get a hooker. If you make your circumstances clear she will understand what you want but will not be turned away by being accused of being a hoe. While I have had girls need a platonic first date it's a minority and they always say thanks the second time we meet. Anyway, is it the end of the world? There are always options for an infill (we just said there are more options than time) and playing the game can definitely pay dividends later.

I don't see you having any issues.

Enjoy. G.

[MamaGuevos]

The answer to this, and your previous questions, is simple: ask her. You don't have to be rude and offensive, asking if she's a slutt or hooker. Just be honest and if she says she's looking for a relationship and marriage, reply that's nice but you aren't here for very long and is she open to something less serious while you are in town? Most young and old will say yes, knowing that worst case is that they earn a few bucks and there is also a small chance that it will lead to happily ever after.

Are you in town now? These conversations are far more productive when asking if she wants to meet today, not next month / year.

Good luck. G.

I did not realize I was being repetitive, but the nuances of online dating are somewhat non intuitive. First let me answer your question: no I am not in Manila. I will be there in a few months, and I do not have conversations with online girls at the present time, as I see this as pointless. I like to start about 10 days prior to my date of arrival. In retrospect, even 10 days is probably too much time.

When I first started coming to Makati City on a regular basis, I was only interested in 18-22 yo girls. But now, I want to start dating women who are more mature but still have their beauty. That is the purpose of my question.

The last time I was in Makati, I did exactly what you are suggesting: I told the girls I was not interested in a long term relationship but wanted to date for fun. I had more girls who still wanted to see me than I was capable of accommodating. On my life, only certain Africa Cities compare to Manila in the ease with which one can get laid (Santo Domingo and the closest cities is a close third to Manila, but Kampala and Nairobi were the best.

OK, so if I understand you correctly, its not too different to date an older woman than a younger woman in the Philippines. But, what is your experience with the older ones- are they more or less likely (or the same) to have sex on the first date? Telling the girl that I am not interested in an LTR is not the same as saying that I am only interested in getting together if we will have sex.