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10-13-19 23:34 #10452
Posts: 487Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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10-13-19 22:03 #10451
Posts: 3393Originally Posted by Pwrmnd [View Original Post]
I've given up on making contact ahead of time. Now I don't even message a girl unless I'm in town and ready to meet her today or tomorrow. This gives a much greater success rate as they know I am serious and cuts down on the BS as there is less time for distractions and calamities requiring my urgent financial help.
I'd also caution anyone on putting any effort into meeting a girl or diverting plans in any way. It's a certainty she will be hours late and give you misinformation about her location and how far away she is. Just tell her to call when she has arrived at a nearby location, get on with what you are doing and only go down to meet her when and if she arrives. Stories abound of guys sitting waiting in their hotel rooms for hours, messaging her repeatedly to confirm if she is on the way and her location, only to have wasted half a day when she doesn't show.
Enjoy. G.
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10-13-19 19:53 #10450
Posts: 2656If you want fast fucks, why waste time shifting through the huge pile of shit tailings in search of diamonds online when you can point-and-fuck at the bars?
Originally Posted by Pwrmnd [View Original Post]
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10-13-19 15:54 #10449
Posts: 76Online dating here still feels like digging through a huge pile of sh $t for a diamond. It's very time consuming. I think I'm getting a little better, though, at identifying the problems earlier and improving my list of "best practices. " The goal is not to maximize every opportunity, but to decrease the time spent per happy encounter.
First, there are the virgins, or wannabee virgins. They want to meet you outside, sometimes with a cousin. I always reject the cousin, but I've been willing to meet outside. Those have turned out to be hard to get, though. From talking with others here, I'm coming around to the idea that it's better to just invite them to the hotel right away, or to "stay overnight", and use that as a filter. I'll miss out on a few, but my hit rate will go way up.
Second, there are the scammers and leaches. Obviously, asking for money before meeting earns an immediate block. I will pay taxi on arrival or book a grab though. I'm also thinking that any implication that they will need an allowance is a bad sign. My sample size is only one, but the urgent need for money was never ending. Maybe a good test is to ask her the price of something, implying you'll give her the money. But you already know the real price (for example, something like 1000+ taxi for a passport).
Third, there are the flakes. Many say they will meet but then just disappear. Maybe they chickened out, or maybe they have a lot of other bfs lined up. Whatever the reason, they are much quicker to agree to meet than to actually meet.
Fourth, some turn out to be semi-pros at the last minute. Maybe they just didn't want to admit it up front. It's not bad to have a list of back-up plan contacts, but they should at least be really hot and, preferably, low mileage.
Other "best practices": They must use whatsapp, must send clear pictures (face and body), and must video chat in advance.
Some of the stories and behaviors are really amusing, at least to me. One complained of how difficult it is being on the edge of bankruptcy, while playing on her 10 k Peso phone. English problems and thinking problems can be a huge hassle. One said "I'm arriving", causing me to run downstairs, when she actually meant "I'm departing. " Another arranged to meet with me at MOA, but then took me on a prolonged game of hide-and-seek. I lost.
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10-04-19 00:52 #10448
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by GoodEnough [View Original Post]
The Urban Dictionary defines damsel in distress as “a usually beautiful, virginal, virtuous, and hopelessly passive young woman constantly in need of rescue by the dashing hero”. Sums it up perfectly
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10-04-19 00:37 #10447
Posts: 15918Originally Posted by GoodEnough [View Original Post]
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10-04-19 00:02 #10446
Posts: 3393Originally Posted by GoodEnough [View Original Post]
Cheers. G.
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10-03-19 23:50 #10445
Posts: 4050Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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10-03-19 08:50 #10444
Posts: 1056Release your Inner Romeo
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Is Rottencrotch a common name in the Philippines?
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10-03-19 05:39 #10443
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by MangoKing [View Original Post]
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10-03-19 02:01 #10442
Posts: 6831Test post, test post.
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10-02-19 23:08 #10441
Posts: 3393Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Reserve a position in line upon return? Become a higher priority customer? Guarantee a GFE or PSE? These are all going to be available when the monger arrives in country and is there, cash in hand, standing in front of the girl. No security deposit or prepayment is required:
Keep Annalyn out of the bar? Save her from an unjust world? Heal incredibly illness prone family members? Ain't going to happen. They are complete fabrications and the monger is never going to receive what he thinks he is paying for.
The only exception I have seen is where guys are very frequent / resident visitors and direct pay utility bills / school fees etc. They know that what they are paying for is legit and often receive discounted and ongoing services as the repayment plan.
Enjoy. G.
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10-02-19 18:05 #10440
Posts: 15918Originally Posted by Sammon [View Original Post]
That whole thing of sending money to chicks has always been way over my head. Don't we raise our kids to grow up and take care of themselves? So why take care of some grown ass person living on the other side of the world that you hardly see? I work to have money to spend on myself; I don't get my ass out the bed at 3:30am some days and work all night some days to have money for someone else to spend on themselves.
And it is not just us guys sending it to females. Gay guys from western countries do the same shit for the guys they see in all the countries that we go monger in. So it is more of a give me some of what you have since you have more than me thing.
I have a nurse chick in Colombia. At first she didn't ask me for money, then she said she was behind on a bill and I said no. After that she said she had to pay something for her son's school and I said no. Two months ago she had surgery on her wrist and needed some medicine and I said no. Two days ago she was robbed when she went to get her salary out of the ATM. This time she didn't even ask, because she already knows the answer would be NO. And no many how many times I tell her no, she just will not die, or get sick, or get put out of the house, or get her cell phone reposesed, or no other shit that could happen to a chick because she did not receive money from you.
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10-02-19 15:05 #10439
Posts: 3393Originally Posted by BrainDrain [View Original Post]
G.
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10-02-19 15:02 #10438
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by DCups [View Original Post]
In other countries the pressure on life is enormous for them. Especially in Philippines I always had demands for money the moment I make ones GF. In beginning I am guilty of helping. But now I have wised up. Having said that I have helped girls to get education. That is my own decision.
Right now my usual excuse has been my bank has forbidden and blacklisted me sending money overseas. Do not know how much they believe it but I am sticking to it.