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06-24-19 16:58 #10242
Posts: 3052Originally Posted by ForkTruck [View Original Post]
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06-24-19 16:15 #10241
Posts: 193Blank screen
For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.
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06-24-19 13:20 #10240
Posts: 15924Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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06-24-19 12:41 #10239
Posts: 3394Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Simply using the most flattering photos and camera angles is just human nature and should be expected. Even Cindy Crawford doesn't look like Cindy Crawford in the flesh.
Photos from 10 years or 20 pounds ago is deception. Obviously 'forgetting' to mention your gender is the same.
For the first it's just thanks but no thanks. For the second there's no need for compassion. Just get up and walk away.
It should also be said that sometimes the guy wants to bail even though there has be no misrepresentation at all. I've met girls who have been as advertised but over coffee there has been absolutely no chemistry and I don't want to take it any further. In these cases I'm happy to refund her cost to get to Starbucks.
Enjoy. G.
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06-24-19 10:32 #10238
Posts: 15924Originally Posted by Sammon [View Original Post]
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06-24-19 07:49 #10237
Posts: 2204Originally Posted by Forest [View Original Post]
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06-23-19 15:12 #10236
Posts: 690Bailing.
The only time I bailed is I had organised to meet a chick, then another chick that was super hot agreed to come over that I had invited earlier but hadn't committed The first one turned up, she was a bit older than I expected though still reasonable. Fortunately she was off wechat and hadn't come far so I just made an excuse in the lobby, gave her 200 peso to cover travel when she probably walked and said goodbye. Two days later I was with another chick who became a problem and I asked her to leave. I saw the older chick on Wechat again, invited her over and banged her. Turns out she was quite a good root!
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06-23-19 14:18 #10235
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
Personally I have met girls at a mall on their insistence and I have bailed out. Most often I expect them to come to my room. In the room it is kind of awkward to get rid of her right away. I do some chit chat and tell her I have a meeting to go to and do not have time. I lie and tell her I will call her later. Ofcourse I do compensate.
There is no point in hiding from her if the meeting place is public. Also you cannot fault her for doling out to look her best even if are cam chatting.
If the girl is reasonably okay I fuck her. Then let her go with some money. Only thing I hate is unhygienic pussy and body and mouth. Cannot get a hard on even with viagra.
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06-23-19 14:17 #10234
Posts: 782Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
This is a really hypothetical situation, because photos can be manipulated only to a certain extent. I have never met a girl who looked really pretty on the web, but was actually "a pig" in real life. Not as attractive- yes, but "a pig", never.
On the other hand, occasionally the girl that shows up is a different person than the one on the web. If that is the case, you have every right to just walk away.
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06-23-19 09:32 #10233
Posts: 5451Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
I used to worry about hurting the girl's feelings by bailing out as soon as possible. But then I came to realize she LIED to me in order to manipulate me into this awkward position. She LIED to me about the stats on her profile and all those doctored, shopped or long outdated photos and videos. Worse, the girls most likely to have LIED to me in order to bamboozle me into this position were almost always the ones who stated over and over again how important "honesty" is in a relationship. LOL. That's a con job.
Left unpunished by my bailing as soon as humanly possible, these fugly LIARS are always the ones who want to cling to me wherever we met in the mall, at a restaurant or on my soi, hold my hand, hook my arm in theirs, hug me in public so everyone thinks she is my girlfriend or some such shit.
Therefore, if the lady you encounter is really wildly different than the way she came across in her photos and profile, you have permission from the Gods of Honesty to bail as quickly as possible. Listen closely and you will hear those Gods demanding that you do so. It will only get worse for you the longer you linger in this awkward position. She will take greater advantage of your politeness. Pretend to take a call on your phone requiring your immediate attention elsewhere for the rest of the day or night, excuse yourself and leave. Maybe hand her enough money to cover the cost of her travel to and from the meeting place.
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06-23-19 07:58 #10232
Posts: 6781Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
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06-23-19 07:43 #10231
Posts: 2204Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
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06-23-19 06:09 #10230
Posts: 70Hypothetical Scenario
You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.
When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.
What do you do?
You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.
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06-16-19 13:58 #10229
Posts: 288Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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06-16-19 01:38 #10228
Posts: 3394Originally Posted by Member#1088 [View Original Post]
To confirm KGs earlier comments, she was certainly receptive to hear that I had been to her province before and will be in her town on my next visit (both true).
Cheers. G.