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[PilotPaul]

What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan.

Well when I get that line I hthnk it goes something like:

Great idea, I have Netflix on my laptop. We can watch in the room. And the only place to sit is on the bed. And it goes to plan after that.

I liked Surigao girls and would go there again.

PP.

[Engine Driver]

What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.

Another monger PMd me and said I should self report to the 'Stupid Mongers in the Philippines' thread. Don't worry. When I arrive in Flipsville tomorrow, I shall be regularly reporting on my own stupidity. Hahahaha.

Im still laughing my head off. Strict catholic girl wants to gorge on seafood, get a 5,000 peso spa treatment, watch a movie in Greenbelt, accept my gifts and wants to skip town without dropping her panties. Hahaha. So that you all dont think Im a complete idiot, Ive ghosted that chick with no explanation. Hahahaha

[PilotPaul]

go shopping for flux capacitors
Cheers. G.

Is this a crazy new sexual innuendo that needs to get added to the ISG Glossary? Or do you actually mean flux capacitor that helps the girls to arrive on-time even when they leave home 30 minutes after the agreed meeting time?

There seems to be two clear realistic punter approaches:

Newbie / planner approach: Make contact, qualify a shortlist and execute upon arrival.

Winging it with confidence: Make and collect contacts, execute with exit options.

They are probably mutually exclusive approaches. What works for one may not work for the other style of punter.

PP.

[Goferring]

This is why you need back up plan. I usually have at least 5 girls lined up.

Sam,

You are welcome to your MO and I'm glad it works for you. For me, more time, contingency plans and back up girls just allows more time and opportunities for the girls to develop sick grandmas, unexpected rent bills and medical emergencies.

I've continued to chat with some of the girls from my posts about making online work with unpaid subscriptions. They are rapidly confirming that my original MO was the best one for me: "I'm near Ayala, would you like to meet for a coffee after class?" Its a yes or no answer, not months of discussion then a no show. If she's fugly, I'm down a Jollie Bee. Who cares?

Even the many numbers I have gathered, I've told them that it's nice to meet them but I'm only going to chat again when I'm in country. All, especially the Most Popular lookers appreciate this rather than "I'm coming next year".

Enjoy. G.

[Sammon]

What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.

This is why you need back up plan. I usually have at least 5 girls lined up. At least 3 favorite ones with cam talk, money discussed, overnight stay discussed and agreed.

It is me after meeting do not like some and fuck once and ask them to leave. They have a surprise look. Mainly because smelly pussy or ugly body, sex poor and any number reasons. Why waste time with a girl I am least bit interested in fucking again.

Generally if you discuss on cam and talk about sex girls will say yes or no. Those who say no, no reason to continue. So far only one girl who just found out she is pregnant was hesitant. I felt sorry for her and we just hugged each other and slept. She did say she will make it up to me after she has the baby. But I knew where it is going with demands for money. I just ignored her afterwards.

You need to watch out for girls asking money for this and that and promising yo be with you. They will never come. So do not send money. I always say borrow and I will reimburse you. Some girls have done that. Those I keep.

Girls are always available but may not be the beauty we want.

[Goferring]

. I did not expect her to be so conservative and devout. If I'm going to drop serious coin on seafood, Hi so hotel massages and movie tickets, then I expect to fuck. Please tell me if this is an unreasonable expectation in the Philippines hahaha.

What is it with this hotel rooms with 2 beds BS.

I had the same thing with a girl from Surigao. She wants to go to the movies. Fine. But there is no cinema in Surigao, the closest is 4 hrs away in Butuan. Reading between the lines that she wants to get out of hometown I suggest we go there for a couple of days. She's happy but wants a twin share room. Sorry but we are sleeping together and yes, I'm going to fuck you. Oh, the shock and surprise. Bye.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

One of the reasons I take fewer and fewer new girls. Its possible for me to spend 3-4 weeks in the city and see one or two regulars.

Westie, go for girls with a job. Have fun by night and when they disappear during the day grab an infill, do your own stuff, go shopping for flux capacitors. Whatever, just no need to entertain or be pestered by them. Rinse and repeat that night when she returns after work.

Cheers. G.

[Goferring]

11. Don't forget Low-batt.

#12. Being flirty was a fun game online but now this white guy is actually here. What do I do now? (Very common in provinces).

[WestCoast1]

9. No load. Very common.

10. Or does turn up, but is three fuckin' hours late.

11. Don't forget Low-batt.

I find that repeat girls have a 100% reliability factor because there's already trust.

One of the reasons I take fewer and fewer new girls. Its possible for me to spend 3-4 weeks in the city and see one or two regulars. Mine are well-trained into *my* 'foreigner' ways (system), and cater to my needs. The trust is there usually for both sides, so everyone knows the routine before wheels-down. Imagine you arrive in town and lady #1 spends Sunday evening thru Tuesday morning with you. Lady #2 spends Wednesday evening thru Saturday morning with you. Each girl knows of the other. You have Wednesday and Saturday nights to yourself. Your condo is spotless because they clean it that way (read: My Way) daily. Your fav foods and drinks are stocked as you like because she runs off to do your shopping for you. Your laundry is taken care of by the girl. Lady #1 is returning on Sunday late afternoon.

Its not 100% reliable, but its pretty good. I can take fresh meet not only Wednesday and Saturday (the girls know), but I can also tell the girls to see if they can bring a friend / cousin for a 3-some (they do). This is not the 1-week monger schedule of multiple girls daily, but there is something to be said for it.

[Engine Driver]

I've been chatting with a very pretty 28-year old girl from Rizal (just outside Manila), for the past month. So we agreed to meet at my hotel in Makati next week and she had planned a full day of activities for us. Seafood lunch, couples spa session and then a romance movie. I have no problem with any of that freeloading on my account because that's the stuff I like to do with pretty girls anyway. Hahaha. She also asked for some cosmetics from my country. Certainly, happy to oblige. Anything for a pretty girl.

So come crunch time, I approached the most important subject. Here's how she reprimanded me (below). Hahahaha. I did not expect her to be so conservative and devout. If I'm going to drop serious coin on seafood, Hi so hotel massages and movie tickets, then I expect to fuck. Please tell me if this is an unreasonable expectation in the Philippines hahaha. Too bad there's only another 20 chicks to take her place. Bye bye Miss Rizal.

The best advice on this thread is from G-man. He advocates that mongers only turn on their dating apps when they arrive at NAIA and then send them photos of the hotel room, door number and keys. The conversion rate is just too low if you line up girls beforehand. Here's what go can and will go wrong if you plan too far ahead:

1. Oh I forgot. I thought it was next week. (Hookers don't have secretaries to manage their diaries like all you fat, rich, executive mongers).

2. Menstruation duty. Might be true, but might also be a made up excuse to cover a number of things.

3. Better offer from another monger. This is very, very common. One chick I was going to meet is jetting off to BKK (she sent me a copy of ther ticket) to fuck another monger (as if there's no hookers in Thailand).

4. Oh, I'm working that day.

5. Can't be bothered getting out of bed. This occurs when she has already seen a couple of mongers that week and doesn't need the money.

6. Hangover from previous night.

7. Sick kids / mom / tita or can't find a baby sitter.

8. Changed phone number. Very common.

9. No load. Very common.

10. Or does turn up, but is three fuckin' hours late.

The girls have no appreciation that we travel a long way to see them. I find that repeat girls have a 100% reliability factor because there's already trust.

[BrainDrain]

What has been your experiences in this?

Money is money and everyone pays in peso anyway but.

One difference can be found if the filipina has previously had an extremely good or extremely bad relationship with one of your fellow compatriots.

Had one girl in AC that stayed with me for a few days. Her Aussie ex-BF was from Cairns. She seemed to genuinely care for him. She looked after me very well also. Last I heard she had gotten back with him.

My ex-GF of a year has a new non-Aussie BF. She swears she will not ever touch another aussie sausage. Guess she wasn't happy with me.

As a Brainddrain update I haven't spent much time on the forum this year. Been busy retraining my work skills.

Cheers.

[Mr Enternational]

Does your nationality really matter in getting the ladies?

No. Because I tell chicks I am from all over the place (USA, Brazil, South Africa, India, UAE, Thailand, Egypt - when in fact I am just a Black dude from the ghetto) and it has not made a difference yet. One thing you seem to be forgetting is that a foreigner is a foreigner to them. These hoes don't know Cameroon from Canada.

Even here in the USA, to the average American you are either White, Black, Chinese, or Mexican. All that other shit nobody has a clue about.

Believing it made a difference would just be your own ethnocentrism along with some lies those hoes told you. Just tell them you are from somewhere else and report back with the difference you experience.

[Goferring]

What has been your experiences in this?

Remove the negative bias for Indians, Arabs and EurAsians and the holy grail of the opportunity for US Resident Visa and we are told what we want to hear. Even Indians and Arabs have no issues if they know where to hunt.

I too have seen Asian American / Australian / Canadians unable to get laid with a fist of fifties. Girls just don't believe any of their pleading about their nationality.

Remember that we all take second place to wealthy Pinoys but they generally wouldn't touch any of the girls Western mongers brag about.

Enjoy. G.

[Kabul Guy]

What do you guys think? Does your nationality really matter in getting the ladies? I am not talking about the point and shoot bar girls, all that matters is now many pesos. I am talking about the non-pro's either looking for a good time, a little help on the rent this week or something longer term.

I know that ethnicity can be a huge deal for some of the ladies here. I know a Vietnamese American guy, early 50's, who left Viet Nam as a boat people when he was about 10 years old. The ladies would not believe that he was American many refused to see him and almost no one believed that he was American until he showed hos passport or a US ID card.

Does your nationality matter that much to them? I am assuming that the vast majority of us here are from a western developed country, Canada, USA, Europe, Australia an New Zealand for the most part.

From my discussions with the ladies, I think that being Aussie or American can be a bit of a negative. Simply because these appear to be the majority of the mongers and all girls have had or at least know of someone who had a bad experience with someone from there. Canucks, Kiwi and European are fewer and many girls have no first or close second hand experience with these nationalities.

The ladies tell me that being Canadian is interesting, and therefore a positive, but here you never know, are they being truthful or telling you what they think you want to hear? I know we generally have a good reputation and there are not that many of us here so it could be that simple. (Lots of Filipino's in Canada, in my home city the most common language after English is believe it or not Tagalog.).

What has been your experiences in this?

[Engine Driver]

I just got back to DIA.

I had to close my browser, I was getting lots of likes and msg.

LOL,

Wow, just wow.

Relax, that's normal. Fresh meat always gets a lot of hits in the first few days. It doesn't mean those hookers like you, it just means they want your money now. Hahaha.