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06-23-19 14:17 #10245
Posts: 782Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
This is a really hypothetical situation, because photos can be manipulated only to a certain extent. I have never met a girl who looked really pretty on the web, but was actually "a pig" in real life. Not as attractive- yes, but "a pig", never.
On the other hand, occasionally the girl that shows up is a different person than the one on the web. If that is the case, you have every right to just walk away.
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06-23-19 09:32 #10244
Posts: 5385Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
I used to worry about hurting the girl's feelings by bailing out as soon as possible. But then I came to realize she LIED to me in order to manipulate me into this awkward position. She LIED to me about the stats on her profile and all those doctored, shopped or long outdated photos and videos. Worse, the girls most likely to have LIED to me in order to bamboozle me into this position were almost always the ones who stated over and over again how important "honesty" is in a relationship. LOL. That's a con job.
Left unpunished by my bailing as soon as humanly possible, these fugly LIARS are always the ones who want to cling to me wherever we met in the mall, at a restaurant or on my soi, hold my hand, hook my arm in theirs, hug me in public so everyone thinks she is my girlfriend or some such shit.
Therefore, if the lady you encounter is really wildly different than the way she came across in her photos and profile, you have permission from the Gods of Honesty to bail as quickly as possible. Listen closely and you will hear those Gods demanding that you do so. It will only get worse for you the longer you linger in this awkward position. She will take greater advantage of your politeness. Pretend to take a call on your phone requiring your immediate attention elsewhere for the rest of the day or night, excuse yourself and leave. Maybe hand her enough money to cover the cost of her travel to and from the meeting place.
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06-23-19 07:58 #10243
Posts: 6781Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
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06-23-19 07:43 #10242
Posts: 2201Originally Posted by Dave_Far [View Original Post]
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06-23-19 06:09 #10241
Posts: 70Hypothetical Scenario
You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.
When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.
What do you do?
You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.
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06-16-19 13:58 #10240
Posts: 282Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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06-16-19 01:38 #10239
Posts: 3376Originally Posted by Member#1088 [View Original Post]
To confirm KGs earlier comments, she was certainly receptive to hear that I had been to her province before and will be in her town on my next visit (both true).
Cheers. G.
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06-15-19 15:05 #10238
Posts: 282Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
If you can get her priv pics, I would like to see them LOL LOL (the one that got away). here is the capture from her skype
Good luck with her.Last edited by Member #1088; 06-15-19 at 15:11. Reason: Adding pic
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06-15-19 12:00 #10237
Posts: 3376Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
https://brainstats.com/average-iq-by-country.html
Queque the outraged PC brigade. 🤓.
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06-15-19 10:45 #10236
Posts: 1056Simple Pinay Love hack.
Its owners flag a lot of women as premium meat only, ie you must buy a package to chat with them. Often if you click on a woman's pictures, when you go back to her profile, she is Premium only. To circumvent this.
1. Open in new tab all women you are interested. Call these women A, B, C. You now have four tabs open: PL, A, B, C.
2. To view A's pictures, right click A into a new tab. You now have five tabs open: PL, A, B, C, A's pictures.
3. View A's pictures under the the fifth tab. Then return that tab to A's profile to contact A.
4. If A is now marked as premium (or if A was originally marked as premium), return the fifth tab to PL and contact someone else you may or may not be interested in. Proceed until you can send a message, let's say to the.
5. Now refresh the A tab. It will start counting down the 10 minutes to your next free message.
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06-15-19 10:13 #10235
Posts: 3376Originally Posted by Amadeuss [View Original Post]
My post represents searches done over the last 7 days.
My Search age range was 18 to 28. I didn't consider or even view anyone older.
I found about 50% of those that I found attractive unblocked and got the contacts for the vast majority of these. The remainder were indeed blocked as 'Popular' but I've just kept their details for use later when I have a paid membership.
I'm sure that we find different girls attractive but I disagree that ALL the young and attractive girls are blocked. I certainly found it very easy to get the details of a good number with an unpaid membership. That's why I wrote the post.
One thing that I didn't emphasize in the post was that girls are both blocked and unblocked as popularity wanes. That's why it's important to record separately the contact details of an unblocked girl before your chats and her details become hidden. Conversely I Favorited several blocked Popular girls who could later be contacted as they became unblocked.
Best of luck with your Searches. G.
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06-15-19 06:18 #10234
Posts: 979Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
Date in Asia remains the only full free dating site -- although it can be annoying with their kick-off policy.
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06-15-19 03:42 #10233
Posts: 15815Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
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06-15-19 02:23 #10232
Posts: 6781Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
1. can't go to school (don't ask why!
2. Typhoon has destroyed roof (check if she lives in the rea of the typhoon please, check it was a typhoon only very heavy rain.
3. I can't chat much with you as my mobile is broken. The screen needs replacing / battery won't charge fast / I am only borrowing to chat to.
Plenty more.
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06-15-19 00:03 #10231
Posts: 983A couple comments on Goferring's long and very informative post.
I follow this plan usually in my contacts, no matter what the site. First message asks for contact info and I also get about a 90% response rate. (Several just saying yes with no number. These go down the list as actual companions vs just a fuck.).
Pictures with identifiable Manila or Philippine backgrounds helps. Think the Globe at MoA, the airport showing some Cebu Pacific or other uniquely Philippine signs, a major mall entrance etc.
Also have a Philippine number for your WhatsApp and Viber.
Show that you have been here before, show that you know the lay of the land, when you ask where she is from, never say where is that, google it and make a comment on something there or near by.
The girls are sick of guys logging in from overseas, with no intention of actually meeting and just wanting naked video chats and pictures.
Finally, my rule is to immediately drop any girl who asks for money, just about unlimited time on this up until we have met but we all have had the following conversations.
You: Hi, This is Kabul Guy from <Tinder, PL, SA How are you today?
Her: I have trouble.
You: What kinds of troubles?
Her: Granny sick, nephew needs school, fees, I cannot pay my electric.
You: <block .