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12-10-17 00:57 #9057
Posts: 3398A Virgin's introduction to PinaLove
Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
For various reasons, I'm not prepared to have my true photo, name and personal details visible for all to see. Initially my profile, with no photo, received essentially no attention nor replies to my approaches. I then placed a disguised photo on my profile and emphasised in my description that I was in-country, nearby and arriving in Cebu in two days. My search criteria were 18 to 28 females from Cebu City and it was typically me that sent the opening message. The rate of responses to my messages increased substantially.
Early on chatting with the girls I confessed that I used a false profile ("because a friend had a girl black mail him and cause a lot of trouble so I'm don't want to have all my personal details visible to all to see. " my marital status and that I was not looking for a LTR nor a wife. One target replied that she "did not have time to waste" with me. The others that did reply didn't care.
While in Dumaguete, most responders gave me their text or Viber numbers within two or three messages and a confirmation that we could meet - "just text me when you get to Cebu". All were very forthcoming because they were reassured that I was a real possibility and not just wasting their time looking for Camsex or naked photos. I never asked for photos (naked or otherwise), video chatted or had deep and meaningful conversations with anyone. I left the responses after a couple of chats, usually immediately after getting numbers and confirming that they would be happy to meet.
When I arrived in Cebu the response rate to a text to come over was close to 100%. The first night was the only glitch. I arrived late and the intended target made endless promises so I just moved on to another who came over at short notice. Another threesome fell apart when one member literally fell asleep upon entering my room after a long day at work, apologised profusely and they both caught a taxi home. Again they were quickly replaced after one text.
Over the next week I would text and meet candidates at the 7/11 or JollieBee nearest to my hotel. When they arrived I would go down and if all was well, we would go straight up to the room. I never needed to send anyone back home due to misrepresentation. Profile pictures were certainly selected to flatter but none were photoshopped nor another person. On a typical day I would get three to five texts requesting to drop around. I typically rationed myself to two or three shots a day. However, many more could have easily been achieved. I did have one night off to recharge the batteries. Sessions were typically 1 on 1 with a selection of threesomes. A+ was available but not widely promoted.
All up, I found the process very simple and effective. I was looking for, and found, purely commercial commitments. No one was under the impression that an ongoing relationship was forming and I don't expect any unwanted surprise emails or Facebook invites when I return home. The only negative was that the quality of the girls was probably not quite as high as a good bar. The truely attractive girls were certainly holding out for the right offer rather than a night's romp with someone on holiday. Any effort required was in sorting good from bad and tracking multiple text numbers, names, faces etc. Timeliness was a lot better than I thought it would be and I had no security concerns. Costs were standardised at 1500/3000 P ST / LT plus about 200 p taxi fare. I also bought a couple of JollieBees and lunches but those costs were trivial when compared to a night of LDs.
The numbers:
69 initial messages sent.
53 replies received.
35 text numbers and ok to meet received.
3 adhoc messages from "friends" or "cousins" received.
4 permanently outside Cebu.
2 returning in a couple of days.
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12-09-17 22:04 #9056
Posts: 3262Originally Posted by Flyboy2000 [View Original Post]
I doubt if you taught her a lesson in your teachable learnable moment.
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12-09-17 13:13 #9055
Posts: 399Originally Posted by Mogwai [View Original Post]
You could have asked her to just give you a blowjob this time, and give her 500-1000 Peso, and then return after a couple of days when her period was over to give FS.
Or you could have given her some money for transportation and ask to return when her period was over. Now she probably lost money, even despite the free lunch.
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12-09-17 12:47 #9054
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
The sexual shoplifting comment got me to thinking about the reverse of that. The main chick that I deal with in Manila I met her probably 5 or so years ago on Date In Asia if I recall correctly. Probably the only reason that I still deal with her is because she has a huge ass that I love. When I first met her on there she told me up front that I would have to give her money to fuck. No problem. So the first time we met we actually took a trip to Coron because I was doing some scuba diving. When we got back I gave her 4000 pesos. We have also gone to Bohol together and it seems like somewhere else. Also give her 4000 then. When she comes to spend the night with me whenever I am in Manila I give her 2000. I will mention that she does have a regular call center job as well.
For me the money for the big ass and the convenience of having someone that I know is not going to flake out come on my scuba diving trips works great. The thing is that I get weirded out because she tries to "relationship shoplift" by always calling me babe and telling me how much she misses me and asking when she is going to see me again; sending me all kinds of naked pictures and wating me to bring her more sex toys. She likes to travel and always asks where we are going to next. She actually brought up the idea and honestly thought that I would take her to Maldives. Shit like that leads me to believe she wants to be in a real relationship, but she never says anything about it nor has ever mentioned anything about other girls. So I guess it could actually just be considered an ultimate GFE.
This is why I had to distance myself from her at the beginning of the year. It just felt awkward to me. So when she would send me messages I would not answer. So finally she met some guy (don't know if it is another foreigner from online or what) and gets pregnant from a one night stand. She does not even know anything about this guy. Saw him that one time and he is gone in the wind. And you know what she said? That she never got pregnant when I came inside of her. Nevermind she does not realize that I am not stupid enough to do that shit without a vasectomy. She attributed her meeting the guy to me ignoring her messages for a month or 2. Not that I would have given a fuck one way or the other, but that makes it seem like I was the only person she was dealing with. May be true, may not be true.
So I started back dealing with her because I love pregnant pussy and will enjoy the milky tits now that she had the baby this past week. I guess the long term GFE from a chick that I am trading money for sex with creeps me out. It is probably because I have not been known to do too many repeats with chicks that I pay.
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12-09-17 11:46 #9053
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by Mogwai [View Original Post]
Guys like KG can afford to throw their line in the water and just wait for the proper bite. For guys that have limited time or that are not frequent visitors it leaves too much to chance. That is why whenever I go to a new place I check ISG to see what the pickup spots and cathouses are in case I need a backup for shit happening as it did with Flyboy.
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12-09-17 09:51 #9052
Posts: 2204Originally Posted by Flyboy2000 [View Original Post]
You could have asked her to just give you a blowjob this time, and give her 500-1000 Peso, and then return after a couple of days when her period was over to give FS.
Or you could have given her some money for transportation and ask to return when her period was over. Now she probably lost money, even despite the free lunch.
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12-09-17 08:09 #9051
Posts: 983Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
Good girls.
Hard to find because they will not usually date foreigners because of the stigma associated with that in Phil society. They are typically religious, social conservative types. Most likely sexually inexperienced. To get anywhere you will need to meet the family and pass their approval as well. Looking for a commitment before sex. They would be very insulted of the offer of money for sex, that is most likely the best way to not get laid is to offer money for sex.
I think that the best long-term relationship comes out of this pool but the odds of actually meeting one and getting to a long-term status is slight. Especially since my target age range is 25 to 35 and I am in my 60's). You might have more luck with provincial good girls than big city good girls.
Regular Girls.
They will date, you really need to get them comfortable with you before sex. It often takes the second date at least, sometimes longer. I will go 3 dates before sex only unless she has something special going for her. (Hot, educated, good company etc.).
You may or may not need to meet family; they often ask to bring a friend, sister, cousin etc. along on the first date. They will also be insulted by an offer of money for sex but may accept some 'help with expenses'.
Some good times had in this group. The best possibility for a long-term relationship IMHO. They are willing to meet and not as likely to cheat on you the second your back is turned.
Semi pro's.
They are sex workers but usually only to supplement their salaries or for special needs. They don't like being offered money for sex but will accept a gift. They may not even ask for money leading people who don't understand the scene to think that they got free sex. That is akin to "sexual shoplifting".
They need to get comfortable with you but will have sex first date.
Pro's.
Only interested in the cash, as much as possible for as little work as possible. Will fuck anything anytime anywhere for money and do so just about every night.
Happy Humping
KG
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12-09-17 08:05 #9050
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by GenXBaer [View Original Post]
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12-09-17 07:15 #9049
Posts: 219Moving in to Borracay
Hey there gents.
I will be moving into Borracay within two months and am reaching out to get some wisdom on how the playing field is there if anyone has anything to share. Info on how / where to search for an accomodation (apartment / studio would be nice), and of course, how the mongering scene is and pull girls. You can refer to my past posts and will note I tend to RTF and input what I can.
Looking forward to hearing from all.
Regards,
GenX.
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12-09-17 02:45 #9048
Posts: 3398Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
Is it common in Manila to also keep a small stable of "very good" girls simply for their conversation and companionship skills?
When I lived elsewhere in Asia, copious great sex was so redily available that getting laid was sometimes not the primary aim of a date. We foreign residents would have a couple of contacts that we would date just for their companionship. These girls were generally stunningly beautiful, very well educated, had good jobs and their own money. They could hold conversation with anyone who entered the room on pretty much any topic. No money ever changed hands and it was always clear that the night was not going to end with a quicky back at the hotel.
Put simply they were fabulous company and that was why went out with them.
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12-09-17 02:13 #9047
Posts: 3398Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
You will always have the extremes of the beautiful Hi-so girls who are not going to sleep with anyone unless there is a long term commitment and the guy is socially acceptable vs the freelancers who will sleep with anyone who calls and has the cost of admission.
In between there are many girls who will be "good" to guys that will perhaps see them over a longer period of time, be in contact with their work mates, friends or family or have the ability to affect their status or replutation. These same girls may also be "bad" when the suitor does not impact these and simply offers a short term night of fun and / or temporary source of funding and then will be gone.
The same can be said when it is the girls who are on tour. A pack of two or three girls on holiday, who were mild mannered account clerks at home can be absolutely ravenous when away from prying eyes and sharp tongues.
Being a resident can open up access to the "better"girls where as being a short term tourist or business visitor can lead to good girls dropping their guard quicker.
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12-09-17 01:26 #9046
Posts: 983Originally Posted by Flyboy2000 [View Original Post]
My strategy is a little more long-term. I am resident here and can invest the time. This will not work for someone here on a short visit.
I have found that the ones that want a second initially are usually more to the "good girl" end of the spectrum than the "bar girl" end. The "good girl" is my target hunting pool. What it means is that I make an investment of a couple of hours and a meal or a coffee for the second to make the target comfortable.
Once you make these girls comfortable in your presence the sex is almost automatic. This makes the initial investment usually pay off quite well as you get a "good girl" which is usually less costly financially than a "bar girl" but you may pay other ways. That is where being cold-blooded comes in handy, you can resist the 100's of texts saying "I love you, I miss you, Please see me again. ".
No absolute rights or wrongs, just different tastes and hunting strategies.
Happy humping.
KG.
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12-08-17 14:45 #9045
Posts: 399Originally Posted by BaddHabbit [View Original Post]
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12-08-17 14:36 #9044
Posts: 399Originally Posted by Sammon [View Original Post]
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12-08-17 10:28 #9043
Posts: 413Originally Posted by DCups [View Original Post]
The more ages the less money or none. Even a land lord girl of 40+ from Negros Occi, offered me she would pay my travel cost, if I extend my tour from Cebu to her city (slipped out the city name). Amazing.