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[Naked Gunz]

I actually did the whole visa thing and brought a Filipina over to the US along with her daughter. I think most marriage failures come from the older middle aged divorced foreigner who tries to bring back a young hot uneducated Filipina and then attempts to dictate how she lives her life with him.

She does not have to be Pinay. Most so-called May-December relationships will end up costing the MAN in the USA much scrilla, no matter where the woman is from. Many a man has seen his retirement go down the drain with that move. Good luck pal. No fucking way would I risk what your doing.

[Tally Wacker]

Thanks Mr. E! If I was living in the Philippines full time then the bachelor route would be very tempting. In fact I think it would be impossible to be faithful in PI with the abundance of young beautiful girls there. Here in the USA that's not the case haha!

Btw the pics I attached are of a province girl I knew who ran me around for a little while. I had a good time screwing her brains in the mean time along with here cousin who pics are attached here.

Congratulations TW and good luck in the future with your family. Even with me being an eternal bachelor, it is great to hear the story of someone who used their head and did things the smart way. If by chance hell shall freeze over, I will end up following your example with a chick from a country other than my own.

[Mr Enternational]

I ended up marrying a more educated woman that I could have a real conversation with and that could challenge me instead of me dictating things. Her and her daughter transitioned to the us very well and I think it was a combination of me adjusting my expectations over the course of visits to the Philippines along with picking a girl that was more educated and had a good understanding of things outside the Philippines.

I think most marriage failures come from the older middle aged divorced foreigner who tries to bring back a young hot uneducated Filipina and then attempts to dictate how she lives her life with him.

Congratulations TW and good luck in the future with your family. Even with me being an eternal bachelor, it is great to hear the story of someone who used their head and did things the smart way. If by chance hell shall freeze over, I will end up following your example with a chick from a country other than my own.

[Tally Wacker]

Hello RK,

I thought I would chime in here since I haven't posted in a couple years. I actually did the whole visa thing and brought a Filipina over to the US along with her daughter. It took me a number of lengthy trips to find the right gal and I had way too much fun doing it! I got the run around a couple of times by some province girls that had BF's on the side and were basically looking for security $ but I had fun at the same time and learned. I became very good at detecting these types of girls but they are very good as well. I ended up marrying a more educated woman that I could have a real conversation with and that could challenge me instead of me dictating things. Her and her daughter transitioned to the us very well and I think it was a combination of me adjusting my expectations over the course of visits to the Philippines along with picking a girl that was more educated and had a good understanding of things outside the Philippines.

I don't think it really matters what internet site you meet the girl on but more about educating yourself on what to look for and not to make quick decisions. Take many trips and meet many different types of girls and have fun. Once you think you found the right girl then go back a couple more times and meet her family and friends. Its still a whole crap shoot but the more time you spend educating yourself and your future girl the better.

I think most marriage failures come from the older middle aged divorced foreigner who tries to bring back a young hot uneducated Filipina and then attempts to dictate how she lives her life with him. The Filipina will go along with his program until she finds out there are other options. It just won't work for long term and its not a recipe for success.

I had to make many adjustments myself to make it work. I screwed up a couple times by chatting around on DIA previous to our yearly trips back to PI. It was soo tempting!! Luckily my gal is somewhat naughty as well and we worked out a deal that we can have some threesome activity when we visit PI but she dictates it all. Not a bad deal I found out.

There are some real wonderful women in the Philippines and I found one of them!

I still check in to this site once and a while and read the stories and miss the wild fun times visiting the Philippines as a single guy.

Have a happy new year ISG!

P.S. Chocha Monger you big pussy LOL.

Mostly positive stories, and some tales will ring some bells for some guys.

Lots of filipina stories, but a few other races thrown in too.

http://www.knowable.com/a/stories-of...rder-bride/p-1

[FictionalSpace]

I've posted previously about my experiences using Pinalove. I just returned from another few days spent in Makati and figured I'd plug for using apps again.

I spent three nights and had four different girls at my place. One was a repeat from a previous trip who I found on Pinalove. She met me at my place shortly after I arrived in the afternoon and stayed until the next morning. No money exchanged other than the cab fare that I covered and dinner, which I purchased (though she didn't ask for it).

#2 was a Pinalove girl who I had been chatting with for a while and she agreed to come directly to my place. Good times.

#3 and #4 were both Tinder pickups. Tinder takes a lot of work and is hit or miss, but I think it attracts a slightly higher class user base than Pinalove or other dating sites. The first was a student who was very flirty and agreed to come over during one afternoon. She turned out to be chubbier than advertised and not very fun, but you can't win 'em all.

The other Tinder date was a huge success. I matched with this girl about a year ago, got her number, but didn't have time to meet. We haven't talked since then, but I sent her a message about a week before my arrival telling her of my travel plans. She works in Makati but lives in Bulacan and agreed to make the long trip to see me late one evening. She arrived and was a stunner. Average height, petite (but with some chest), well dressed, and well spoken. We hung out at my place before a while and more than a couple of drinks later, clothes were off and she turned out to be very open-minded. She stayed the night and then went to work as I left for my flight.

All in all, dating apps are absolutely worth the time and effort if you like freebies. Treat the girls well and they'll do the same to you. Don't clear out your Tinder matches because you never know when one might come through a year or more later! I had several other girls scheduled to come over (or asking to come over/meet), but time and energy didn't allow. They'll remain on the list for another time.

[Jack Burton]

Sometimes I'm surprised by the number of online gals who post pictures of themselves in the bedroom or even on the bed. I suppose there are a lot of reasons for this.

Just found on this morning that certainly looks frisky. Profile says Manila, but I recognize the swimming pool as AC territory. SHe has a nice bikini pic and of course the bedroom pic.

When I was with one pinay, all her female friends wanted to be in the hotel room for photo opportunity. Maybe it was the aircon.

[Member #4558]

Thanks for posting this. It's chilling to see how things play out. The money shot is at 39:25.

One thing that I have heard in business negotiations over the past two weeks is how shortsighted the filipinos will be in life. they will shaft you one week but then happily ask for more business the following week. Also interesting to note how when the money stopped the girls family just dropped her.

It's a tragic video. Good on the british mother for seeing it through.

Yeah some time back a pinay nicked my IPAD from TGI Robinson Malate. I guess temptations ran to high when I visited the restroom. Girl and IPAd gone when I returned. Long story short, I met her at a pawnshop in Aufura Wing / Robinson Malate the next day, and I had to pay 10 k php to release my IPAD from the pawnshop grip. She was there with a bunch of people. Everyone knowing me knows when I am pissed / angry and I probably looked as I felt paying ransom for my IPAD. I thought it was best to just keep some kind of calm since my odds if I created a scene would have been slim to none. Grabbed my IPAD and walked the fuck out there. Wouldn't you think, and now I almost snapped, the girl came running after me and offered me a sex session "only 3 k me and you go now, okay? What a nerve. Not often do I decline upon sex offers but this was the day.

[BrainDrain]

And this one is a very bad one that was highlighted on UK TV. The only surprise in this IMHO is the fact it only took 2-3 years to convict the suspects.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vABOFleXLJQ

It is 40+ minutes long so if interested but can't / don't want to see the entire video read this.

Thanks for posting this. It's chilling to see how things play out. The money shot is at 39:25.

One thing that I have heard in business negotiations over the past two weeks is how shortsighted the filipinos will be in life. they will shaft you one week but then happily ask for more business the following week. Also interesting to note how when the money stopped the girls family just dropped her.

It's a tragic video. Good on the british mother for seeing it through.

[Chocha Monger]

I don't think there is any agency keeping track of how many Filipina woman / foreign man marriages that end on a good or bad note. However, there are enough stories out there to warrant caution in entering these marriages. What is known about Filipino culture and habits should give anyone pause when it comes to entering a legally enforceable marriage contract with assets on the line. It is reasonable to assume the same characteristics that make them easily accessible short-term sex partners also make them terrible risks as long-term partners in marriage.

I personally know of at least three cases where foreigners married Filipina women and it went bad. In the first case, the girl was from an upper middle class family. She admits that the divorce was her fault because once she got to America she started cheating on her husband. What is young Kampapanga spinner supposed to do when she suddenly finds a buffet of young hard American cock? She gave into her weaknesses as a pinay of course. The marriage did not last two years so she did not get permanent residency, but she did get alimony and half her husband's assets. After her deportation back to the Philippines she became the proud owner of a profitable bed & breakfast catering to foreigners.

In the second case, the pinay was a bar girl. She also could not resist the sausage buffet in America and gave in to adulterous desires. She also failed to make the two year requirement for USA Permanent residency. She now works as a mamasan in a bar after being deported back to the Philippines.

In the third case, the girl married on her 18th birthday to an elderly American who had been grooming her under her aunt's supervision over a few years. She was caught cheating by her husband and beaten. The marriage did not last two years but she was able to use the beating to qualify for the domestic violence loophole that allowed her to self-petition for USA Permanent residence. She now works as a housekeeper in various hotels and she still trolls online dating sites.

None of these women expressed any shame in their actions but they all said they regretted the end of their marriages, even the one who was beaten for cheating.

I also know of marriages where Filipina women have cheated and their American husbands are unaware of this. I am not sure I would call those happy marriages although many say that ignorance is bliss.

[Mr Enternational]

When you are choosing a mate it is smart to choose one who will be an asset. The problem is that most of the people who are picking a foreign mate are taking on a liabililty. When they wake up and realize that, that is when the train wreck starts.

I am not much for TV, but the show 90-day Fiance is hilarious to me. Ugly fat old chicks who import young handsome guys. Older square thrice-divorced guys who import young sexy chicks who refuse to lie by telling them that they love them. A young chick without a pot to whizz in importing a guy and trying to get him to sign a prenuptial agreement. What is she afraid they are going to break up and he is going to want her clock radio in the divorce? You can't make that shit up.

[Wicked Roger]

Probably cherry-picked for the article Dg but a few failures in there too.

I know several very sad tales (for the guy) and some equally sad tales (for the girl) from my previous life. When these things go belly-up it is usually a train-wreck, but as this article shows, there are some happy endings too.

And this one is a very bad one that was highlighted on UK TV. The only surprise in this IMHO is the fact it only took 2-3 years to convict the suspects.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vABOFleXLJQ

It is 40+ minutes long so if interested but can't / don't want to see the entire video read this.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...urder-son.html

But equally I know many who are happy and contented being married to pinays (and / or visiting Sogos with cuties from time to time LOL. Well we are normal guys?

[Dg8787]

Probably cherry-picked for the article Dg but a few failures in there too.

I know several very sad tales (for the guy) and some equally sad tales (for the girl) from my previous life. When these things go belly-up it is usually a train-wreck, but as this article shows, there are some happy endings too.

Yes sad tales and train wrecks everywhere. I just don't see evidence that it happens more or worse in PH than in the homeland with home grown. We hear about it more here but it is only one sided. If we could only hear the other side to form a better objective opinion on this.

[Red Kilt]

A very high success rate here. Certainly not like the stories and warnings posted here.

Probably cherry-picked for the article Dg but a few failures in there too.

I know several very sad tales (for the guy) and some equally sad tales (for the girl) from my previous life. When these things go belly-up it is usually a train-wreck, but as this article shows, there are some happy endings too.

[Dg8787]

Mostly positive stories, and some tales will ring some bells for some guys.

Lots of filipina stories, but a few other races thrown in too.

http://www.knowable.com/a/stories-of...rder-bride/p-1

A very high success rate here. Certainly not like the stories and warnings posted here.

[Red Kilt]

Mostly positive stories, and some tales will ring some bells for some guys.

Lots of filipina stories, but a few other races thrown in too.

http://www.knowable.com/a/stories-of...rder-bride/p-1