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[Member #4643]

I just red the DIA terms. This part impressed me: "you will not engage in adultery, and you will not seek polygamous or polyamorous relationships. You will not seek friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationships, no-strings-attached (NSA) relationships, casual relationships, casual dating, or anything else that involves casual sex. ".

Even "casual dating" is forbidden. No wonder I was banned. If you tell a DIA girl that you are "not serious" but want to meet, you could be banned.

[GDreams]

Date in Asia has not been such a rich hunting ground my last trip. I don't search for anything over 23. Didn't see too many that I wanted and those that I did were not keen on dealing. I did have two meetings. Both actually sent me likes. One was 24 and one was 22. Both were slim, not beauties but not ugly.

The 24 yo had her own shop and it seems she needed extra cash. As she was older and not a stunner I offered her 2500. The first time we met she was late, she agreed for 10 pm and tuned up about midnight. I wasnt feeling great and was almost going to cancel but she was on her way. Had the first shot and it was just an average starfish performance. Once finished she wanted to leave. I said we agreed 2 shots. She then wanted a beer, was whining and complaining and I was feeling even worse so just kicked her out. 15 min later I was simultaneously vomiting and experiencing diarrhea so not memorable for a great night.

She messaged me a few time more. Eventually I had a gap in my schedule and she agreed to meet in the morning. I gave her a good pounding even though she was not that responsive. It doesn't bother me all that much just means it takes longer to finish which is not necessarily a bad thing.

The 22 yo lived in Imus. She agreed to spend a couple of nights and I would give her a phone of not more than 5000. She did not have money for a fare and she asked for me to send some to come. She detailed the fares and it came to 350 peso so I dint see a problem with that. I sent her the money using Smart Padala which has a 30 p fee. She turned up and we had sex three times on the first night, 3 times the second day and twice the next morning before she left. She was willing but a bit shy. Apart from a Jollibee and pizza she didn't require maintenance and was happy to play on her new phone when not having sex.

Did a repeat but she only stayed one night as one of her family members had to go to hospital. Paid her 3500 for the night including travel money.

[Kabul Guy]

Can the ID cards the girls use to get into hotels in the Philippines now be trusted?

....

But are fake IDs easy to come by in Manila?

They cannot be trusted, fake ID's are as easy to get as it is to get laid here.

[Sammon]

DIA has been good to me over the years, but the web site is incredibly annoying (I have been banned twice). Many people here have complained about being banned for no reason (at least, I was banned for a reason) and it is difficult if not impossible to get an explanation for being banned.

Who owns DIA? Does anyone know?

And do the small number of ads on this free site really pay for its maintenance? Or is the owner simply collecting data on us, which he sells to advertisers?

DIA is very popular in Philippine and now lot more I do, Thai and other nationalities are in there. Do not know who owns it. I have plenty if girls in there and I only use DIA. There are many pimpettes who will recommend done other girls.

I was banned only once because I was nasty to a LB.

I think they are better now in banning people. I have openly talked about sex with those who do not have account in other social media and not banned yet.

Like any dating site many are looking for long term relationship but sone come around with money for sex. Many have never been with foreigners. There are many LB there too. Some openly say it others pretend to be real girls.

[SaltyPete]

Can the ID cards the girls use to get into hotels in the Philippines now be trusted?

Last year, a young girl who appeared of age wanted to take me to a place in Makati where IDs were not necessary. I said no, having read about many scams in such places (and knowing that appearances can be deceptive). She then produced her "birth certificate" for me. That did not work for me either. I wanted a real ID.

I have read that even with ID cards, one is not entirely safe. I am not certain how easy a fake ID is obtained in the Philippines, but I would feel better knowing that an official ID is good enough to assume the young lady is actually 18 years of age. Of course, girls who look alike will loan their cards to friends, so it is best to look at the ID yourself and quiz the girl on her birthdate, etc.

But are fake IDs easy to come by in Manila?

Never trust an Identification card in the Philippines. Never send money for transportation if the girl is in taxi range. Get a pick-up point from her and send a Grab her way, paying for it yourself. If she isn't game for that, than you weren't going to get her anyway and you saved yourself some time and money.

[Chocha Monger]

Hi GD,

I had learnt my lesson about ID.

A while back I was cornered by the girl who recommended her cousin. (I thought no worries since they were from a random small uneducated village far from complex civilization.

I ended up paying A LOT in order to be able to take the first flight home.

My moto now is. No ID no interest.

Don't learn the hard way like me.

Vic.

Even remote jungle villages know that catching a wily old hymen buster means a big payday and fiesta. It does not matter whether or not the girl has ID if they really want to put the squeeze on an old foreign horn dog. When the friendly policeman shows up, he will claim that the ID is invalid and the girl will go along with it and claim that she borrowed it from an older cousin or some such nonsense. In remote villages far from complex civilization, word goes out quickly when a wily old hymen buster rolls into town. The villagers bait their traps and set their nets. They make sure he will pay dearly to get away. With the internet and smartphones even remote jungle dwellers learn how lucrative it is to set honey traps for wily old hymen busters trolling the backwaters for farm fresh hymens.

[Member #4643]

DIA has been good to me over the years, but the web site is incredibly annoying (I have been banned twice). Many people here have complained about being banned for no reason (at least, I was banned for a reason) and it is difficult if not impossible to get an explanation for being banned.

Who owns DIA? Does anyone know?

And do the small number of ads on this free site really pay for its maintenance? Or is the owner simply collecting data on us, which he sells to advertisers?

[Member #4643]

Can the ID cards the girls use to get into hotels in the Philippines now be trusted?

Last year, a young girl who appeared of age wanted to take me to a place in Makati where IDs were not necessary. I said no, having read about many scams in such places (and knowing that appearances can be deceptive). She then produced her "birth certificate" for me. That did not work for me either. I wanted a real ID.

I have read that even with ID cards, one is not entirely safe. I am not certain how easy a fake ID is obtained in the Philippines, but I would feel better knowing that an official ID is good enough to assume the young lady is actually 18 years of age. Of course, girls who look alike will loan their cards to friends, so it is best to look at the ID yourself and quiz the girl on her birthdate, etc.

But are fake IDs easy to come by in Manila?

Hi GD,

I had learnt my lesson about ID.

A while back I was cornered by the girl who recommended her cousin. (I thought no worries since they were from a random small uneducated village far from complex civilization.

I ended up paying A LOT in order to be able to take the first flight home.

My moto now is. No ID no interest.

Don't learn the hard way like me.

Vic.

[VictorHugo99]

Hi GD,

I had learnt my lesson about ID.

A while back I was cornered by the girl who recommended her cousin. (I thought no worries since they were from a random small uneducated village far from complex civilization.

I ended up paying A LOT in order to be able to take the first flight home.

My moto now is. No ID no interest.

Don't learn the hard way like me.

Vic.

On Pinalove contacted a 19 yo. She admitted to being 16. Wanted to meet for money. Said no can do. She was located around Bacoor. Said she had an 18 yo friend and did I want to meet both. I said I would be interested in the friend if she had ID. She didn't but suggested I go there and there was a hotel they use where you didn't need ID. I declined.

They don't seem to have any qualms about pimping their friends!

Met a couple of girls on Tan Tan that were on the outer rim of Manila. They were amenable to come and stay a few days but wanted money up front for travel expenses. Amounts ranged from 1000 to 7000. Most of the bus fares into Manila would be 200 - 300 p from what I could find on google so I just declined. If they spelled out how they would get to me with realistic costs I may have been tempted.

Had one 18 yo off Tan Tan. She was in Pasig I was in Malate. Sent me some naked semi naked photos, really nice tits. However she did not have ID and wanted taxi money for a round trip so asked for 1300 peso to cover this. I was tempted but her phone number gave both Line and IMO hits so before I considered an advance I wanted a video chat. She said the apps were not on her phone even though on the sites it showed she was on line so I declined..

[GDreams]

On Pinalove contacted a 19 yo. She admitted to being 16. Wanted to meet for money. Said no can do. She was located around Bacoor. Said she had an 18 yo friend and did I want to meet both. I said I would be interested in the friend if she had ID. She didn't but suggested I go there and there was a hotel they use where you didn't need ID. I declined.

They don't seem to have any qualms about pimping their friends!

Met a couple of girls on Tan Tan that were on the outer rim of Manila. They were amenable to come and stay a few days but wanted money up front for travel expenses. Amounts ranged from 1000 to 7000. Most of the bus fares into Manila would be 200 - 300 p from what I could find on google so I just declined. If they spelled out how they would get to me with realistic costs I may have been tempted.

Had one 18 yo off Tan Tan. She was in Pasig I was in Malate. Sent me some naked semi naked photos, really nice tits. However she did not have ID and wanted taxi money for a round trip so asked for 1300 peso to cover this. I was tempted but her phone number gave both Line and IMO hits so before I considered an advance I wanted a video chat. She said the apps were not on her phone even though on the sites it showed she was on line so I declined.

I had a couple of girls turn up with no ID and the hotels refused entry and they needed to go home and get ID. You pretty much need a checklist for them spelling out all things to remember to bring.

Lastly I had 1 Tan Tan girl who agreed to come over. I had listed the conditions. I don't use a condom as being old and for some time with health issues I don't get a strong erection unless I use an injection which I try to avoid as the result is inconsistent. Viagra or Cialis can assist but only partially. I find with a condom I quickly lose the erection because of the restricted blood flow and the condom comes off or I don't get hard enough to complete the deed. Well we get naked and want to do the deed and she comes out with a condom. I said that wasnt the agreement. She said I was talking to an agent and she wasn't going to have sex without. I said that's fine you can leave. She insisted on full payment. I said here is the conversation this is the deal if you don't want to perform that's OK, just leave. Well I got threatened with sending some agency heavy over, being accused of rape etc. I called security so she stripped off naked and opened the door. The Security didn't want to manhandle a naked girl for obvious reasons but eventually I said I will give 500 peso for taxi and that was it. The security guy I think basically said to her that was going to be the best offer and either she leave or he would call the police. She left. I gave the security guy a tip.

[Sammon]

Not had sex for 2 years?

That automatically disqualifies her.

1. A liar.

2. no one wants to fuck her.

3. she doesn't want to fuck with anyone.

20,000. Centavos I presume.

Check her in to the local Mental Hospital LOL.

1. Liar- I believe so. If she would have said 3 months I might have believed it.

2. Very good looking girl. I am sure everyone wants to fuck her.

3. She agreed to fuck me for money. That means she will fuck for the right amount.

4. She claims she was trying to go to Japan and was offered a marriage proposal by a Japanese customer. She did not take it.

Now she agreed to stay with me 2 days for 6000 . I told her we try one day first and see. Do not want a starfish. She does want to go to a restaurant and disco and dance.

She also mentioned going to her KTV. I politely declined. She said she will introduce me to other pretty girls there. Although it was tempting it could be a plan to empty my wallet.

Had a plan to go to Bkk and Pattaya. Ticket already booked. Hotels already booked. Watching Corona Virus episode closely.

Going to Cebu first to be with three girls. While there will decide whether to keep the trip to Thailand.

Otherwise three girls including this KTV girl wants to stay with me in Manila . Other one claims to be a virgin. Chubby girl so maybe? Just wants 6000.

Third one is pretty 20 year old bubbly girl with big stand up boobs. Not fat. But missing some top front teeth. Maybe my dick will go through the gap LOL.

[Member #1088]

Nothing wrong with letting the LB be the broker and paying her a commission. Evidently it is working for you. She finds cousins and friends and friends of friends as the word gets out discreetly.

Nice report.

In fact, that LB is a good contact. I bet if you ask her to get you an untoch pussy it can still be found.

LOL.

[Dg8787]

Had a few girls from Pinalove. One was pretty, 18 with a nice figure. The first time we met she asked to bring her cousin but I said no. Turns out the cousin is a ladyboy, about the same age. She also asked if I wanted a threesome with her friend. Showed me a picture and she looked nice. I asked if she had ID. She said no then admitted the girl was 17. When finished she said the cousin had come with her and was waiting for her which was a little strange. A few days later I decided to repeat. Contacted her on Viber and the cousin responded. No big deal she organised the repeat.

After a few days I get a message and it is the cousin again. Asked if I wanted a girl. Sent through a few pictures. I had a girl organised but it fell through so decided to take one of the new girls. She was also 18, hot body nice tits but a little shy. I'm guessing new as she didn't was after first round or second round after which she went home. Again she was accompanied by the cousin. Did ask for other girls but they either did not have ID or did not meet my conditions. After another week she came up with another girl. She looked good and was 19. She insisted we meet outside and I give her 1000 out of the 3000 p fee without letting the girl know. It didn't bother me so I did. This girl was cute and had nice body but saggy tits. I prefer small and firm over saggy.

Just yesterday after I had left I get another message with another new girl. None of the girls had good English, the first was passable, the others poor. The LB had good English skills. I'm not sure what the dynamic here is whether the LB was building up a stable or was a useful conduit because of the communication skills. The girls were all fit and pretty. I think there were more available but I had specific criteria and the LB did the sorting for me.

Nothing wrong with letting the LB be the broker and paying her a commission. Evidently it is working for you. She finds cousins and friends and friends of friends as the word gets out discreetly.

Nice report.

[VictorHugo99]

Thanks Master G.

Short and clear.

Vic.

There is: be in town and "I'm in Greenbelt 3. Want to meet this afternoon for coffee?" None of this chatting 3 weeks before departure. That just gives time for buffalo to get sick and for the girls to groom a Western Union sponsor. The con artists won't even worry about talking to some one in town as they know they will be exposed straight away.

YMMV but works for me.

Enjoy. G.

[GDreams]

Had a few girls from Pinalove. One was pretty, 18 with a nice figure. The first time we met she asked to bring her cousin but I said no. Turns out the cousin is a ladyboy, about the same age. She also asked if I wanted a threesome with her friend. Showed me a picture and she looked nice. I asked if she had ID. She said no then admitted the girl was 17. When finished she said the cousin had come with her and was waiting for her which was a little strange. A few days later I decided to repeat. Contacted her on Viber and the cousin responded. No big deal she organised the repeat.

After a few days I get a message and it is the cousin again. Asked if I wanted a girl. Sent through a few pictures. I had a girl organised but it fell through so decided to take one of the new girls. She was also 18, hot body nice tits but a little shy. I'm guessing new as she didn't was after first round or second round after which she went home. Again she was accompanied by the cousin. Did ask for other girls but they either did not have ID or did not meet my conditions. After another week she came up with another girl. She looked good and was 19. She insisted we meet outside and I give her 1000 out of the 3000 p fee without letting the girl know. It didn't bother me so I did. This girl was cute and had nice body but saggy tits. I prefer small and firm over saggy.

Just yesterday after I had left I get another message with another new girl. None of the girls had good English, the first was passable, the others poor. The LB had good English skills. I'm not sure what the dynamic here is whether the LB was building up a stable or was a useful conduit because of the communication skills. The girls were all fit and pretty. I think there were more available but I had specific criteria and the LB did the sorting for me.