Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Ki2402]

Apologies for the double post.

Did not think the 1st one got through.

Anyways, any recommended locations for a combination of Scuba (morning)/ girl (evening) diving?

[Goferring]

And put it in a power point presentation?

For a contract as big and as difficult as getting laid in the Philippines, some here will need MS Project. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Kabul Guy]

KG, you should make a flow chart for the rest of us.

And put it in a power point presentation?

[Dg8787]

I have had a few, only a few girls who refused money. True amateurs. True gems. I found them in nightclubs with live music. They were out to have a good time with their friends and per chance meet a nice guy, not looking for a customer.

I always pay even when they refuse. I want to make sure they all understand the relationship.

[Mr Enternational]

Once they like you they will keep in touch with you not necessarily because of money.

Even chicks that hate my guts still keep in touch the same way.

[Member #4698]

Money makes the world go around they say. It is no different in Philippines. None of my girls ever refused offered money.

I have had a few, only a few girls who refused money. True amateurs. True gems. I found them in nightclubs with live music. They were out to have a good time with their friends and per chance meet a nice guy, not looking for a customer.

[SaltyPete]

Good point, I always ask for number first communication and switch to WhatsApp as soon as possible. The apps designed for chatting on are easier to chat on than a dating site plus the site cannot know what you are chatting about.

It forms part of my screening process. If she replies with the number then good. If she comes back with a number but says Viber only then actually even better. (shows at least a minimal amount of brains.).

If she ignores the request for the number and tries to start a chat, I will look at her profile and if she looks worth it will chat a couple exchanges before requesting switch to WhatsApp, because "its easier" or "I don't use Tinder much". If she was not considered a high value target then I'll ignore her and move on.

If she responds no WhatsApp then I'll ask for Viber, Messenger or Skype. If no to those perhaps regular SMS. If not one of these then I will ignore and move on, except for REALLY HOT ones, then I will put them in the fuck and forget category and try to chat them, in the dating app, into coming over and giving me a blow job. (Only use PL and Tinder so not a lot of oversite by the app developers).

KG, you should make a flow chart for the rest of us.

[Sammon]

Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?

I really don't care, I like fucking them, the 1000 p 2000 p or more that I give them means a lot more to them than to me and it means that they are more likely to return so I'll give it.

To answer the original question, I usually put it in the hip pocket of their jeans, slip it in their purse and say it is taxi money. That allows then to maintain the illusion in their minds that it is just a BF helping them out and not that they are hookers fucking for money. It allows them to save face which is very important here.

Money makes the world go around they say. It is no different in Philippines. None of my girls ever refused offered money. No need to surreptitiously slip it into their purse or jean pocket. Hand it to them straight. Some count in front of you and some just put it in their purse.

As to discussing financial arrangements before meeting I always do. Mainly because I do not want surprises although I often pay more than agreed amount. They are pleasantly surprised like the English teacher in Cebu with large boobs. We went back and forth many times on chatting. Finally agreed on 1500 for 4 hours since she cannot stay overnight because of very strict mother. Ended up giving 2500 plus 100 for taxi. She really gave me very good service. With a strict mother and full time job no freedom to hook up casually. Right now she says she is waiting for me.

Consequences of not discussing money is two fold. First is there are mercenary girls who demand 5000 for ST. I let them be. Next is up to you which can be a minefield. These dating girls do not know the market price. All they heard is someone telling them foreigners are very generous. I tend to be a softie but at the same time do not want to act like money is no object. It is a pleasure in itself when both parties separate happy. Once they like you they will keep in touch with you not necessarily because of money. They feel trusted dick in hand is better than many dicks out there. If you keep in touch there will be demands for money like my trusted buffalo is dick etc. I tell them I never send money, only give money on meet. Although long time ago I used to fall for the trap. My thinking was a beautiful girl is worth keeping. Then realized there is plenty of mermaids on land.

Nobody is fooling anybody. They know they do it for money and so do you.

[Ki2402]

Thank you guys for the great tips.

Really appreciated.

Now all I have to do is decide whether to go to Manila or Cebu.

Will probably look for an Airbnb unit in a central location.

Suggestions are always welcome.

[Goferring]

I will be looking to spend New years eve around Manila. (or maybe Cebu).

Interested mainly in girl Non-pro / GFE experience.

Just opened a PL account, will add DIA and Tinder soon closer to the travel date.

As this would be my 1st time in the PHI would appreciate some experts advise.

Is online dating app a waste of time like ED wrote?

Is it possible to just meet a girl, half your age (non-pro) from the local shop and get her to your room without getting "you perv!" looks.

How do you approach the monetary arrangement without offending the girl?

(They all seem to be "God fearing" girls on PL) HaHa.

Any other tips you consider to be helpful are very welcome.

Manila has everything in greater numbers and often with less preparation or get to know you time. However, the logistics can be much worse. It's very possible your target lives in 'Manila' but is 3 or 4 hours drive away in peak hour traffic, multiple jeepneys etc. This also means that no show rates can be much higher

Cebu can take a day or two to work out how things work but the girls can be fresher and less hardened. Multiple options to find someone to stay the night (s) then go to school or work during the day. It's very possible to bus a star struck cutie in from the province or take a favoured girl to nearby beaches or islands. Both can be just a couple of hours car or bus ride and many are prepared to do that, if that's what you want.

Don't forget FilipinoCupid. Slightly better quality girls that PL and better search features.

Ask 3 guys about the value of online apps and get 7 replies. The main disagreements are over make contact early vs only after you are in town and the associated time and effort involved. I lean heavily towards call when you arrive as it avoids so many of the other pitfalls. Generally, I'd find 90% of my contacts online now and am very happy with these.

You can meet girls absolutely anywhere. In fact my best times have always been unplanned and unexpected. Obviously, if it's a civilian setting be polite and respectful and you will be surprised what can eventuate.

Money may be asked for outright or you can offer or 'hide' it in her purse. Some will pretend not to notice. A few will outright reject to take it. Again, be polite and reasonably generous but don't assume every girl will need to be paid.

I'd agree that profiles are just for keeping up appearances. I don't even read them.

Enjoy. G.

[Kabul Guy]

Everything KG wrote plus:

Just a caution about chatting on dating sites. DIA censures closely, any bad language will get you kicked off. No warning you're just gone. (happened to me twice, they actually give recognition awards to girls who report bad guys. Look out for a lightning bolt thingy on their profile page, that means that girl has fried a bunch of guys). PCupid not as bad DIA but still keep it plain vanilla. (also kicked me off). PL is most liberal of all. But don't go nuts with the language. (only one I am on now) On all the sites it is best to just get girls cell P, what's app, Skype, etc. Number and move conversation there as soon as you have exchanged pleasantries, like what you are hearing, and want to move to more explicit conversation.

Good point, I always ask for number first communication and switch to WhatsApp as soon as possible. The apps designed for chatting on are easier to chat on than a dating site plus the site cannot know what you are chatting about.

It forms part of my screening process. If she replies with the number then good. If she comes back with a number but says Viber only then actually even better. (shows at least a minimal amount of brains.).

If she ignores the request for the number and tries to start a chat, I will look at her profile and if she looks worth it will chat a couple exchanges before requesting switch to WhatsApp, because "its easier" or "I don't use Tinder much". If she was not considered a high value target then I'll ignore her and move on.

If she responds no WhatsApp then I'll ask for Viber, Messenger or Skype. If no to those perhaps regular SMS. If not one of these then I will ignore and move on, except for REALLY HOT ones, then I will put them in the fuck and forget category and try to chat them, in the dating app, into coming over and giving me a blow job. (Only use PL and Tinder so not a lot of oversite by the app developers).

[ForkTruck]

Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?

A regular good girl told me once "All girls need money". Since then I give to all, just make up a reason other than payment for services. They don't like to hear that.

[ForkTruck]

Just opened a PL account, will add DIA and Tinder soon closer to the travel date.

Everything KG wrote plus:

Just a caution about chatting on dating sites. DIA censures closely, any bad language will get you kicked off. No warning you're just gone. (happened to me twice, they actually give recognition awards to girls who report bad guys. Look out for a lightning bolt thingy on their profile page, that means that girl has fried a bunch of guys). PCupid not as bad DIA but still keep it plain vanilla. (also kicked me off). PL is most liberal of all. But don't go nuts with the language. (only one I am on now) On all the sites it is best to just get girls cell P, what's app, Skype, etc. Number and move conversation there as soon as you have exchanged pleasantries, like what you are hearing, and want to move to more explicit conversation.

[Kabul Guy]

I never understand when guys make this contradiction. You want a chick that is not a hooker, but you are not sure how you are supposed to pay them. So you also want your ground beef to be vegetarian?

Lots or regular, good girls out there who really appreciate a little help in making ends meet.

Does it make them hookers or pros? Or does it just make them human with financial needs?

I really don't care, I like fucking them, the 1000 p 2000 p or more that I give them means a lot more to them than to me and it means that they are more likely to return so I'll give it.

To answer the original question, I usually put it in the hip pocket of their jeans, slip it in their purse and say it is taxi money. That allows then to maintain the illusion in their minds that it is just a BF helping them out and not that they are hookers fucking for money. It allows them to save face which is very important here.

[Mr Enternational]

Interested mainly in girl Non-pro / GFE experience. Is it possible to just meet a girl, half your age (non-pro) from the local shop and get her to your room without getting "you perv!" looks. How do you approach the monetary arrangement without offending the girl?

I never understand when guys make this contradiction. You want a chick that is not a hooker, but you are not sure how you are supposed to pay them. So you also want your ground beef to be vegetarian?