Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Member #4387]

Hello folks!

I started to work towards my possible Phil trip and toil over Date In Asia and FB. I have been told by some girls that my frank pronouncement on DIA profile that I'm looking for adult relationship was a turnoff. So, I changed it to say that I want to explore chemistry first, then maybe more. I see a problem with both approaches, as being too forward may scare nice girls off, while not saying what this is all about may waste time by bringing girls that won't do it on the first date. Do the esteemed members of this forum have an opinion or advice on this matter?

Also, is there another free site, like DIA, where I don't have to have a credit card to participate? If the only other such option is FB, then I wonder what the best strategy is for getting traction on FB.

Thank you all in advance for the advice!

Aibolit.

The most important thing to remember dealing with datingsites and hunting for girls is that you have to stand out from the crowd. The reason is obvious as many of the hotties around these sites gets lets say hundreds if not thousands of msgs. I have been, with girls permission, browsing their accounts a few times and some have hundreds of unread msgs. Dealing with the group of normal pinays hanging around the datingsites making a catchy and tempting profile is all it takes. I have sometimes even told in my profile I don't like prostitutes and I want educated girl. Sometimes that have been a success. As for the later years I moved more and more over to having direct but non rude profiles. I have also made it a rule (minor exception happens though) girls have to make initial contact. Not that it leaves me the "all in" upper hand but I feel the balance in our communication makes it easier to navigate the girls at my own pace. I make it crystal clear, in a nice way, how I want our "date" to be played out as in a "take it or leave it" kind of thing (money never discussed ofcourse).

Having made the use of various datingsites for quite sometime now things works out smoothly and with very little effort / timewaste too I might add. But you as a datingsitenewbee (according to yourself) have to figure out your own style operating them sites. What works for me might not work for you and vica versa. You will for sure loose some gems along the way trying but as there are a large large large pool of girls out there loosing some is no problem. New gems will pop up before you know it. When a girl accepts to meet at your location the work, in my book, is accomplished. Fucking will happen. Inviting them on a date are in the same book just a waste of time as I am under no circumstances interested in relationshipping the girls. It is "wam bam thank you mam" and a gift in the end kind of happening. Some will have repeatworthiness for sure and that's fine. Then you will after a while have some sure gems to call when you feel lonely / horny.

FB biz is blooming but in my short fake FB history it all started out from a few datingsitegirls / regulars wanted my FB account. Since I back then only did have a genuine one I created a very fake one and put a lot of phil photos with me in it (so the girls know I actually have been to phils and in my case quite a frequent visitor as well). Started with only a few I have now a good 600 FB prospects or so. Some have allready been fucked but I feast from the girls I have fucked and their friends. And so it goes. Just be adviced to be more clever in your security settings than I was in the beginning. After you have fucked a few pinays from FB they will pay close attention to who is commenting your pics or photos. They will throw out "I love you" and "I miss you badly" comments and before I adjusted my settings this played out bad and I was about to skip the hole thing and move back to datingsites. It all calmed itself down with some minor white ones. One girl even managed to write "i miss our bed". Me beeing stupid or whatever i did not catch the meaning of this frase when it first hit my fake FB but i learned fast it means i miss the sex. The worst girls were either blocked or got very little access to my account. First rule: never have your friend list public (600+ all in girls will not look good to anyone from the opposite sex). Meeting girls through the FB is all about having the jungle telegraph working for you. Treating one girl nice 4 of her friends also want to meet you and so it goes almost like in MLM. Many girls also make it quite descrete as they don't want their friend I initially fucked to find out "don't tell my friend about us" are a common frase. By all means fine by me, hehe. Atleast I don't have to say it. What a great world. Good luck.

[FreebieFan]

Hello folks!

I started to work towards my possible Phil trip and toil over Date In Asia and FB. I have been told by some girls that my frank pronouncement on DIA profile that I'm looking for adult relationship was a turnoff. So, I changed it to say that I want to explore chemistry first, then maybe more. I see a problem with both approaches, as being too forward may scare nice girls off, while not saying what this is all about may waste time by bringing girls that won't do it on the first date. Do the esteemed members of this forum have an opinion or advice on this matter?

Also, is there another free site, like DIA, where I don't have to have a credit card to participate? If the only other such option is FB, then I wonder what the best strategy is for getting traction on FB.

Thank you all in advance for the advice!

Aibolit.

Plenty. Phone apps, wechat whatsapp line kakao bee etc. . DIA Pinalove Filipina Cupid badoo tagged hi5 ok cupid and a whole host more, plus fb. New ones pop up every week. Similar to Skogis, I've never had a first date fail (ok, once in ten years is almost never LOL.) got to know your market and set out your strategy appropriately.

[George03]

I use Tagged.com for the past four or so years. It's free. Being free it does have quite a few scammers etc. Just follow the rules that have been mentioned here.

1. Ignore / Delete any money rest up front, no prepay of bus fares etc.

2. Be prepared to hold conversational messages over a two week period before you go. Don't start too early.

3. Setup a Skype call prior to meeting to check authenticity.

4. Enjoy.

BD

I made two trips to the Philippines, and reading this and other boards helped. I got on Filipino Cupid several weeks before. I enjoyed the chatting with various girls, and never talked about sex. I spent time in Manila, Cebu, and Davao, then worked my way back so I could tell them I was leaving in a couple of days. I would have been OK with a regular date, but I was able to by chosen in all three cities. I mixed this in with visiting the local bar girls, so I knew I wouldn't be disappointed. I really liked one of my Manila girls, so I met her again before flying home.

I made another trip to Manila, and spent a couple of days hanging around the LA cafe, before meeting my Manila girl again to travel around. Maybe I was lucky but all the girls spent the night with me after a few hours of hanging out. If not, then working girls are not hard to find, kind of a win win!

Of course, I did Skype, etc. Several times with each before meeting them. My Manila girl never asked for money, nor did the others. I kept in touch with her often between the first two trips. Her phone was having problems. I offered to buy her a new one, she wouldn't accept. Haven't heard from her in over a month, no activity shown on Skype, Yahoo. , but anyway, there are girls a plenty. Hoping to make another trip there this summer.

[BrainDrain]

Hello folks!

Also, is there another free site, like DIA, where I don't have to have a credit card to participate? If the only other such option is FB, then I wonder what the best strategy is for getting traction on FB.

Aibolit.

I use Tagged.com for the past four or so years. It's free. Being free it does have quite a few scammers etc. Just follow the rules that have been mentioned here.

1. Ignore / Delete any money rest up front, no prepay of bus fares etc.

2. Be prepared to hold conversational messages over a two week period before you go. Don't start too early.

3. Setup a Skype call prior to meeting to check authenticity.

4. Enjoy.

BD.

[Aibolit]

Hello folks!

I started to work towards my possible Phil trip and toil over Date In Asia and FB. I have been told by some girls that my frank pronouncement on DIA profile that I'm looking for adult relationship was a turnoff. So, I changed it to say that I want to explore chemistry first, then maybe more. I see a problem with both approaches, as being too forward may scare nice girls off, while not saying what this is all about may waste time by bringing girls that won't do it on the first date. Do the esteemed members of this forum have an opinion or advice on this matter?

Also, is there another free site, like DIA, where I don't have to have a credit card to participate? If the only other such option is FB, then I wonder what the best strategy is for getting traction on FB.

Thank you all in advance for the advice!

Aibolit

[Bamboo Pete]

Send an sms "mega250" (without quotes) to 2477. This buys you 300 days of unlimited texts to all networks.

Well, 300 days would be supercool, but 30 days is still a good deal. I use it since two years and it works well, even I never use the free internet and the free calls, which seem to me a bit complicated. And, be careful, they don't notify you when the 30 days are over.

Globe has some offers too, but double price. Just if someone doesn't want to throw the SIM card away. ALLNET300 for 15 days, and ALLNET500 for 30 days to 8888. Also includes several hours of calls and internet.

[Member #4351]

best deal going is Smart's mega250. Load 250 pesos in your mobile. Send an sms "mega250" (without quotes) to 2477.

Before Andre (the DNA guy in Cebu) told me about this deal, I was spending thousands for sms loads on Globe. I threw that sim away, changed to Smart and the mega 250 promotion has saved me a lot of money and is definitely the way to go. I always sent MEGA250 message in capitals. Maybe it doesn't matter.

[Hutsori]

On the subject of load, I assume everyone signs up for a daily or weekly plan as soon as they arrive. Like UNLI etc to get cheap texts.

Learn from my stupidity. When first arrived (or for months and months after) I would load 50 or 100 pesos that I'd burn through in two or three days. Subscribe to a plan. If you are in town for more than a few days I think the best deal going is Smart's mega250. Load 250 pesos in your mobile. Send an sms "mega250" (without quotes) to 2477. This buys you 300 days of unlimited texts to all networks. This is the best part of the plan. You also get 3 hours of voice to Smart subscribers. You also can call Sun and TNT, but there is only one of them, and he's a member here, so you can just PM instead. Also included is 100 mb of Internet.

[BrainDrain]

3. use 3rd party companies who would do the load transfer for me, even when I was not in PI.

I recall seeing at least one bus driver whom would transfer load. I think they buy it in bulk for a discount, then sell in smaller amounts at full price. I've also had staff offer to load my phone for me, presumably they are also somehow getting cheaper load than I do.

On the subject of load, I assume everyone signs up for a daily or weekly plan as soon as they arrive. Like UNLI etc to get cheap texts.

[MrHombre]

I also see these girls without any prior discussion of compensation. When they are ready to leave, I tell them I want to give them a small gift so that they will eat well and not get skinny. (as f they are not already). 500=1,000 pesos shyly accepted. If they try to go without, I nicely but firmly insist, and put it in their pocket or purse.

My girls mostly come from the segment we probably can call normal girls / party girls. By normal girls I mean students, girls with normal jobs (SM mall, call center, banks etc) or a bit classy girls enjoying the Hi so nightlife. What they all have in common is that no money is discussed and even if I allways compensate them on a generous side they don't know this when they arrive my designated meetingpoint (e few meters from my hotel entrance). Lately working mostly FB and feasting on friends from girls I fuck ofcourse these friends know I compensate. Thats why I allways to each and one of the FB girls say something like "this is a rare exceptions but you gave me so good time so I just wanted to give you a gift". Atleast I hope the jungletelegraph is running like hell in their group of friends so their performance will keep going on the high side as they atleast can hope for a gift. So far so good. Next please.

[Amavida]

Are any of you guys following this story? I wonder if the marine did "Jennifer" in the hotel room only to find out that she used to be "Jeffrey"? And then in a rage he committed murder! Apparently this transgender Filipino had a German fiancee named Mark Sueselbeck. Some wild stuff!

http://www.aol.com/article/2014/12/1...6pLid%3D582176

http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/15/world/...ender-slaying/

Thats the case against him, except lacking specific whether he 'did' he / she / it before commiting murder or after. The salacious tidbit about the German fiancé is nice but wouldn't it be even better with necrophilia thrown in to spice the mix? I'm feeling a very sick puppy today LOL!

AV.

[Spidy]

...put out a few heads up in what is important to avoid no show girls, avoid money requests, avoid girls who won't fuck first date, avoid scammers, avoid LB's, avoid BG's etc etc. Many punters find it confusing and that the information are hard to find (been debated in another thread lately as well). So instead of answering you all one by one (or as in a copy paste operation) I hope you folks find it ok if I post atleast my Modus Operandi(MO)here. I don't say this is the perfect recipe but atleast this is how I have done it the last years and it still continues. I have directed my "work" more or less over to the FB by now. I have been using them datingsites the past 11 years so I believe I can say I am atleast somewhat skilled even if I don't know it all.

Awesome work Skogis. Thank you for your efforts, it is very much appreciated. Haven't yet tried the asian dating sites or FB, but your comprehensive 'manual' (LOL!) gives me hope, when I do decide to navigate and sail in some pretty choppy waters.

Many thanks again sailor!

[The Cane]

Are any of you guys following this story? I wonder if the marine did "Jennifer" in the hotel room only to find out that she used to be "Jeffrey"? And then in a rage he committed murder! Apparently this transgender Filipino had a German fiancee named Mark Sueselbeck. Some wild stuff!

http://www.aol.com/article/2014/12/1...6pLid%3D582176

http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/15/world/...ender-slaying/

[X Man]

THanks for the info. At what point did a gal not realize that sx is the name of the game? In the hotel room? Were they expecting to watch tv? What would you have done differently?

It's truly amazing how many variations that we've seen here on the "chat" forum. I've never used either of the connections you suggested.

Just back from my visit with only online dating on FC, Badoo and OkCupid.

Mixed results, but an overall very positive result.

The bad side: You have to invest a lot time and need to have some experience in identify scams.

Best results on FC, some on OkCupid nothing on Badoo.

Be aware that some of innocents have some mileage.

But there is a real chance to find real first timer.

For one of the girls (19), it was the second time.

The size probably matters. Her Pinoy boyfriend has probably failed to deflower her.

To avoid misunderstandings, I have always said directly that it is about a visit to my hotel room and not a serious relationship. Nevertheless, there are girls who do not understand that sex is the name of the game.

[OldJedi]

Just back from my visit with only online dating on FC, Badoo and OkCupid.

Mixed results, but an overall very positive result.

The bad side: You have to invest a lot time and need to have some experience in identify scams.

Best results on FC, some on OkCupid nothing on Badoo.

Be aware that some of innocents have some mileage.

But there is a real chance to find real first timer.

For one of the girls (19), it was the second time.

The size probably matters. Her Pinoy boyfriend has probably failed to deflower her.

To avoid misunderstandings, I have always said directly that it is about a visit to my hotel room and not a serious relationship. Nevertheless, there are girls who do not understand that sex is the name of the game.