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07-12-11 18:39 #4182
Posts: 288Originally Posted by Fast Buck Artist [View Original Post]
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07-09-11 09:04 #4181
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by Fast Buck Artist [View Original Post]
Some women spend hours and hours online too so they have the time to scroll endlessly through profiles.
I also believe that many of the no-picture profiles are those of professional and well-connected women who, like me, do not wish to be recognised and want some discretion, like me. Many of these women turn out to be absolute stunners.
I guess they think that guys without pics might be like them, and are wanting to be discreet and also with a high-profile job. So they deliberately target profiles without pics.
I must add that many of the women who do write to me are actually those without pics too. If ever we get to sharing pics on email, I can then filter out those for whom I feel no attraction.
As I said before, DIA is just a sideline for me. I live and work in Manila with a very intensive work schedule so I just check DIA when I need a break or a diversion. I can understand guys and gals wanting to take short-cuts by hitting on the sexy pictures on the "last active" and not worrying about the other profiles. I rarely bother with the "last active" section. I know that the real stunning girls who are showing 3/4s of their boobs will have been hit on by every monger from all over the world so it is a low percentage shot for me.
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07-09-11 05:28 #4180
Posts: 251Originally Posted by Red Kilt [View Original Post]
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07-09-11 05:14 #4179
Posts: 302Thanks for the Mammaries
Originally Posted by Hairy Wonder [View Original Post]
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07-09-11 04:38 #4178
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by Fast Buck Artist [View Original Post]
I think we all agree that it is necessary to ask girls on DIA several questions:
Did you read my profile carefully and do you understand it?
Did you write your own profile or did you just copy it, and is it accurate?
I mention this because in the past week I have had 2 girls who had the "No pic No reply" in their profile who actually SENT ME AN UNSOLICITED MESSAGE to a profile which has NO PIC. When I called them on this both said (paraphrasing) that it's OK because they never wrote their profile anyway so just ignore that.
I have also had responses from other girls with the "no pic no reply" who read my profile after I had visited theirs. They might think they mean it but then when an interesting sounding guy without a pic hits on them they cannot stick to their "ideals".
Another example:
My profile says "I don't wish to meet smokers". Last night a "social smoker" messaged me. I replied "Not interested. Read my profile. I don't want to meet smokers".
She came back with "I gave up 6 months ago. I never realised it was on my profile".
I told her to change her profile then. She said"I don't know how. I will ask my friend to do it for me because she is the one who put my profile on here".
My main point! Don't believe anything you read on profiles, even down to the God-fearing and must be Christian bits. Some of my most memorable meetings have been those whose profiles seemed directly opposite to what I was looking for. To use a random statistic. I would say 10% maximum of girls have carefully constructed their own profile so that it represents exactly who they are and what they want. These women are usually slightly older, well-educated, and won't take any shit from anyone.
They are usually off-base for most mongers LOL
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07-09-11 00:51 #4177
Posts: 368One more for DoubleD
I just saw this profile on DIA:
http://www.dateinasia.com/eunhice.html
I'm sure DoubleD will be interested.
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07-08-11 17:32 #4176
Posts: 3281Originally Posted by Fast Buck Artist [View Original Post]
But in Phi as tourists we do not have time or patience for this.
IMHO none of my girls who came to my hotel refused sex. Some required little more foreplay. Yes, sometimes they acted insulted when I gave them money. I insisted it is not for sex but a token of
Friendship so that she can buy something for her. None refused money flat out. Only problem is once you get into their pants hard to get away from the texts and calls.
How to say she stunk in love making? I really do not want to insult them. Always got my diplomatic way out saying I am busy or something. How to answer her calls when I am with another girl?
Worst thing is meeting these non-pros and not getting the kind of sex you imagined or expected.
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07-08-11 17:25 #4175
Posts: 251Originally Posted by Red Kilt [View Original Post]
If there are others who act differently, I haven't met them. Perhaps they exist and our paths don't cross.
If I only met girls who messaged ME first. Thats a scary thought. What an ugly bunch! BUT on the other hand, it's certainly a lot easier to score with a girl who messaged you first. In fact you might have a hard time getting rid of her afterwards (I had a stalker case once). The best ladies I met from DIA not only I messaged them first, they don't message ANY man first as a matter of personal pride.
Half of the girls clearly say in their profile "No Pic No Reply" and they mean it.
But yes, if you are patient, and have a ton of time to wait, the scoring chances on a woman who is willing to message you first and you don't have a pic and a have profile that says you only want sex, yes the chances of closing the deal would be very high for that lady.
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07-08-11 17:05 #4174
Posts: 251Originally Posted by Gangles [View Original Post]
However passing the 30 second test does not guarantee that she will sleep with you immediately. It could be in an hour, a day, a week or after marriage.
Getting one into your hotel is by no means a guarantee of success. I had more than one instance of the girl going to my place, then sleeping with her clothes on there. Or, even worse, sleeping there naked but refusing any kind of sexual advances cause she wants to stay celebate for her future husband. There are also those who will willingly jump on you as soon as the door is closed. I had all types of outcomes (including an instance of a ladyboy who was so incredibly female looking and acting that he fooled me to the last moment)
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07-08-11 16:41 #4173
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by Gangles [View Original Post]
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07-08-11 16:40 #4172
Posts: 672Originally Posted by gangles [View Original Post]
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07-08-11 16:29 #4171
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by Fast Buck Artist [View Original Post]
You need a catchy name, and the profile heading should also be catchy. They see that even if there is no picture.
FBA. You are assuming that "most girls will go to the 'Last Active' page and click on a photo there" but just today I had 6 different women send me a message to my blank picture profile so that proves that certainly not all girls do it. I assure you I am not embellishing the truth.
As I said in my earlier post, I never message women. I just read profiles and wait for them to follow up on me. I also read profiles without pictures.
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07-08-11 15:48 #4170
Posts: 704Wining and Dining
I can't remember if I have ever wined and dined a lady on our first meeting. But one evening I did take a woman and her friend on a night sail around Manila bay to watch the fireworks off the Mall of Asia.
Usually we meet in a neutral place so that either of us can bail out. We might have a coffee and a chat. On a couple of occasions I have bailed out. Then when the conversation goes into that pregnant pause stage, I ask her what she would like to do. Sometimes she just takes my hand and we head off to the hotel, sometimes she gets that expression on her face and I ask her if she wants to come with me, or sometimes I give her a face-saver and ask if she wants to watch some TV.
I don't think that one has ever bailed out at this stage, and usually she starts to strip off as we walk into the room. On a few occasions, we just lie on the bed and smooch for a while till she settles in, and then the dance begins.
It is my impression that when a pinay agree to meet with a foreigner, she has basically made up her mind that she is going to mate with him. A meeting before they begin gives her the option to opt out if she finds him repulsive. Otherwise, it is just a matter of steering things along, not aggravating her, and making sure that she saves face at alltimes.
Does anyone else think the same way?
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07-08-11 14:46 #4169
Posts: 251Originally Posted by Red Kilt [View Original Post]
While waiting for my pic to be approved on DIA I was getting exactly zero messages and just a few replies to my intro message. The moment the pic got approved, the messages start flooding in by the dozen. Most girls will go to "Last Active" page and click on a photo there and start messaging. having no pic means you arent in that list and therefore invisible.
Not accusing you fellas of "embellishing" the truth, just curious whats going on.
Also a question to you - Do you message girls profiles that have a blank picture?
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07-07-11 18:21 #4168
Posts: 1233Originally Posted by Frenzy3 [View Original Post]
Any chance you can PM me your number again?
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