Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Goferring]

Why don't you do all of your relaxing things, then when they arrive at the mall, you go to the mall? So just switch things around. When they tell you they are there, you tell them you are almost there and to wait.

Yes, that is one way to handle it. Thanks for the suggestion.

Mr E is correct. Waiting for girls to turn up (or not) on time (or hours late) makes no sense at all.

I assume you are talking about Ayala Mall in Cebu. There are many hotels within easy walking distance where you can just lounge by the pool or just do your daily activities until they show up and then walk over to meet them. For new meetings, the no / late show percentage is so high that I don't even alter my daily plans until they are physically present. Just do what you want to do during the day and if they show, go meet them. If not, just continue with your day. Don't sit idly by waiting for them.

Enjoy. G.

[Cuba Tourist]

Now I found one who writes on her profile about true love.

She writes meme "Baby I am not free roght now I have a work, I have my friend whos going to meet you if that's okay" I say ok and she writes "If you fuck here how much you give here money?

[Cuba Tourist]

Yet another one refuses to meet at the hotel. Only Ayala Mall!

[Cuba Tourist]

Why don't you do all of your relaxing things, then when they arrive at the mall, you go to the mall? So just switch things around. When they tell you they are there, you tell them you are almost there and to wait.

Yes, that is one way to handle it. Thanks for the suggestion.

[Mr Enternational]

I would love to meet as many of these women as possible but it is so hard to get them to come visit me. This is a bit of a rant so sorry. I would prefer for them to take taxi to my Hotel and I will pay for transport. I have gone to malls and waited HOURS for women who never showed up or showed up so late it was terrible. If they would come to my hotel I can wait by pool and I will pay for taxi up to 500 pesos which should cover it. Then we can swim and drink shakes by the pool so it is relaxing. If I have to wait in a mall, I get very tense. Why do all the women insist on meeting in malls? How can I arrange things so they are comfortable and not out of pocket without having to go traveling and wait forever for someone who may never show?

Why don't you do all of your relaxing things, then when they arrive at the mall, you go to the mall? So just switch things around. When they tell you they are there, you tell them you are almost there and to wait.

[Cuba Tourist]

I would love to meet as many of these women as possible but it is so hard to get them to come visit me. This is a bit of a rant so sorry. I would prefer for them to take taxi to my Hotel and I will pay for transport. I have gone to malls and waited HOURS for women who never showed up or showed up so late it was terrible. If they would come to my hotel I can wait by pool and I will pay for taxi up to 500 pesos which should cover it. Then we can swim and drink shakes by the pool so it is relaxing. If I have to wait in a mall, I get very tense. Why do all the women insist on meeting in malls? How can I arrange things so they are comfortable and not out of pocket without having to go traveling and wait forever for someone who may never show?

[PedroMorales]

I usually open several profiles at a time to decide who to respond to. Now, when I open profiles A, B, C, before I can choose A, it switches to say A is premium only. I would love to know how many pay up to get a hooker's digits. At this rate, they'll be the only ones left. I guess it must make business sense.

I have also randomly used kik but no great results yet.

[PedroMorales]

I delve into their site occasionally but they are now killing the goose that lays no eggs by saying you must buy a subscription to talk to perhaps 30% of their base. The minimum subscription is $25 or so for a month. This would only make sense if you were working within a month's window and were determined to get bang for your buck. But most guys are like me and casual browsers who might follow a diamond in the rough, if such exist.

I am not interested in following up 99% of those I chat with. I am looking for women who are "very open minded" IE have minds like sewers or who are educated and cultured (ha ha). Though I admit I am not their target audience, who is? Who would pay good money to give their wattsapp number to a hooker? I am sure Pinaylove know what they are doing but I don't.

One more thing. The hookers can fire off messages as often as they like and there is no way they paid for a subscription. What gives there?

[VictorHugo99]

Great advice big G as usual.

I normally present a clear "now separated", so no need to explain ring, or no ring, forgotten ring or suffer-ring!

Guess I did not expect to bring someone back home with me to fill my emotional emptiness, just someone to fill during my stay, that's all!

Vic.

This is also providing any malicious Pina with ample bargaining / blackmail tools. If the girls know you are scared of your real situation becoming known, this can be used against you. If you wear a wedding ring, say your married but interested in meeting new people and see what happens then nothing can be used against you.

I'm not suggesting giving out the wife's direct phone number but the more you kid yourself that you are hiding, the more that can be used against you in a SHTF moment.

Enjoy. G.

[D Cups]

I have commented before about how filipinas generally seem clueless about their height and weight and there are all sorts of anomalies on the dating sites (like pinalove)..

Howdy RK, indeed, but most of the pinays with bigger boobs seem to know their cup size maybe a Bee or Cee if you are lucky. Many chicas in Dominican Republic, however, don't. I swear the average cup size of the Dominicanas is Dee despite their profiles saying A, B or C. And many are D D or Triple D. This is the main reason I go there! Many of of them fudge their height and weight, too, or just don't know. I always travel with a bag of quality brassieres and lingerie in various sizes to give to the girls as a prelude to modeling, photography and lovemaking. Cheers, mate. Hope to see you in September in Makati if you are available.

[Mr Enternational]

Of course there are some scammers, most lb identify themselves, most fools can distinguish the fakes and I like chatting to the Scammers to learn about how many men are so stupid as to send them money.

Some years ago I was on a site, probably a latin something or other and was talking to what I thought was a chick. I don't know what kind of vibes I was giving off, but all of a sudden they asked me if I was a scammer. I said yes. They replied, "I am a scammer too. Sorry about that. ".

[Goferring]

So much effort made to hide identities, why? Are you married? If you are married that is fine I won't judge but if you are building fake accounts and hiding your identity then you have zero right to complain about the pinay being deceiving, who do you think taught them their tricks 99% of them are not smart enough to learn on their own.

This is also providing any malicious Pina with ample bargaining / blackmail tools. If the girls know you are scared of your real situation becoming known, this can be used against you. If you wear a wedding ring, say your married but interested in meeting new people and see what happens then nothing can be used against you.

I'm not suggesting giving out the wife's direct phone number but the more you kid yourself that you are hiding, the more that can be used against you in a SHTF moment.

Enjoy. G.

[Pinaypounder]

So much effort made to hide identities, why? Are you married? If you are married that is fine I won't judge but if you are building fake accounts and hiding your identity then you have zero right to complain about the pinay being deceiving, who do you think taught them their tricks 99% of them are not smart enough to learn on their own.

I use my real fb account, I treat them like humans and with respect and I expect the same in return. Of course there are some scammers, most lb identify themselves, most fools can distinguish the fakes and I like chatting to the Scammers to learn about how many men are so stupid as to send them money.

I have met some high standard and high value women on DIA!

PP.

[Member #1088]

I have commented before about how filipinas generally seem clueless about their height and weight and there are all sorts of anomalies on the dating sites (like pinalove).

There are also clever ones who think that increasing the height and lowering their weight (as well as putting Manila as residence even if its somewhere else) will hook guys into contacting them.

One woman: 5 ft 8 ins and 110 lbs.

I asked her was she really 5 ft 8 ins as that is into possible ladyboy territory and I got the predictable "hahaha no I am only 5 ft 1 in".

I told her she was a time-waster and no sensible guy would be interested in her if her profile is bullshit, then blocked her.

Several others with silly postings like "120 kgs" (obviously confusing kgs with lbs) and 2 others with ages of 92 yo and 85 yo.

Very annoying time wasters.

I saw this profile today. A sweet picture and her caption was looking for fun:

162 cm / 5 ft 3 in; 85 kg / 187 lbs.

I wrote to her asking was she really 85 kg as that's heavier than me by a long way and I assumed she had just guessed it.

Her reply was "Hi. Nice to meet you. Yes. I am big for my height".

Has to be understatement of the year.

Someone who is 5 ft 3 ins and 85 kg is definitely in "beached whale" territory.

I ssk to see them in cam or current pic.

[Member #1088]

"Walke" refers to the Filipino colloquial term for a girl who will take a walk with a man for money IE go for sex.

Oh I thought you mean an internet website likr pl or DIA.