Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Sammon]

How good is this website?

Should we check there before starting a conversation with a night candidate?

https://romancescamsnow.com/dating-s...ines-scammers/

1. Start sending messages to your preferred girl Make sure she lives at the location you are visiting.

2. Never ever send any money before meeting even if she is on her death bed or her Buffalo is dying along with her family.

3. Never send any money for travel. It is as good as gone.

4. Always meet the girl if she is coming alone. Never entertain with friend or family. Discuss all this before meeting on chat off dating site.

5. You can always check age on meeting.

6. Discuss money issue before meeting. I always do.

7. Once you get to know her and get good service be generous.

No need to check her before. All situations have to be personally handled.

If you are afraid stick to bargirls. Not many people can handle dating site girls.

[Member #1088]

How good is this website?

Should we check there before starting a conversation with a night candidate?

https://romancescamsnow.com/dating-s...ines-scammers/

[AussieGaigin]

Hi there guys, does anyone knows how to get around this limit? See pic.

This is not friendly to monger :(

A common response on many bulletin boards to prevent spammers and automated bots.

[Goferring]

It is three new messages to new people in one hour. Unless someone replies. Then it is unlimited to that person.

Or if they like you first.

I think I've been getting 5 messages but not 100% sure as the clock counts from the first message not the last in the allowed block. Blast out 5 messages in quick succession and you will be waiting 60 minutes to be able to continue. Browse for 5 or 10 minutes between each message, and you will only wait a few minutes before being able to send one or two more.

Moral of the story is to be more selective. Response rates are high so no need to cast a wide net.

Enjoy. G.

[Sammon]

Hi there guys, does anyone knows how to get around this limit? See pic.

This is not friendly to monger :(

It is three new messages to new people in one hour. Unless someone replies. Then it is unlimited to that person. I believe this done to deter people to continually send Hi to everyone. I am guilty of doing that.

There is no way around it. Better accept because DIA is finicky. Any wrong move from you and you will be banned.

[Member #1088]

Hi there guys, does anyone knows how to get around this limit? See pic.

This is not friendly to monger :(

[GDreams]

I have no idea why but, after being banned several times, DIA has sprung back into life for me. We'll sort of. I can access it via Chrome and the website on my phone. But if I install the App I get a wrong username / password error and can't log in. I'm using the same phone, username and password in both instances but no VPN, IP blocking etc.

Any ideas??

Thanks. G.

Go with what works?

[Albert9989]

I have no idea why but, after being banned several times, DIA has sprung back into life for me. We'll sort of. I can access it via Chrome and the website on my phone. But if I install the App I get a wrong username / password error and can't log in. I'm using the same phone, username and password in both instances but no VPN, IP blocking etc.

Any ideas??

Thanks. G.

I use it on both mobile and desktop but both via Chrome, so no issues on both. Sorry but no idea why the app don't work, maybe via Chrome on mobile will be a bypass.

[Goferring]

I have no idea why but, after being banned several times, DIA has sprung back into life for me. We'll sort of. I can access it via Chrome and the website on my phone. But if I install the App I get a wrong username / password error and can't log in. I'm using the same phone, username and password in both instances but no VPN, IP blocking etc.

Any ideas??

Thanks. G.

[Sammon]

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.

To answer I do not read what the girls write. I am not interested in what they like or not like or what their goal is. I am not dwelling into their life. I read their statistics like how tall, shape, kid or no kid and ofcourse age and location. All the other bullshit like looking for marriage, never had a BF etc I ignore. After saying Hi and if she replies next message is I am coming there and would she like to stay with me. If yes take the conversation to WhatsApp or messenger etc.

Once there I show my true intentions. If agreed chat on cam to make sure the girl is attractive and tickles my fancy. I go for 19 to 25 year olds. Granted many girls drop out when I show my intentions. I wish them good luck. Some do come back later and want to be me.

Reason I plan early is I do not have time to waste. My schedule is already set with regard to where I stay and how long. I want to maximize my fun in limited time. After meeting and having sex I have booted some out for various reasons. At this point I lie saying something came up or I have a meetings etc. If we connect and sex is good I keep her. If she is quite pretty I take her out for dinner. Some young girls do not want to be seen with an older foreigner. I respect that and I usually bring her take out food. All get breakfast in the mornings. If I am really happy with her I tend to keep her longer. There are many willing girls I have failed to meet because of this. No regrets like they say bird in hand!

[Mr Enternational]

The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines.

That is absurd. I want to hurry up and meet so I know I am not wasting my time. Whenever a chick comes with some BS like this I say are you here to meet someone or not? If I came up to you in a grocery store or mall and you gave me your number, we would have to go our separate ways and chat for 2 months before we could go out? That would be as ridiculous as them telling you you have to wait 2 months to meet simply because you first said Hello, to each other online.

I do not know why people have a different notion of meeting people online than they do meeting someone in person. If someone is a scumbag then they can wait 2 months to be the same scumbag that they are going to be by waiting 1 day. The only difference is that you wasted a bunch of your time waiting to find out.

[Goferring]

The girls are ready to meet in short notice as I experienced are all of COMMERCIAL gilrs (in your terms). The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines..

I wrote out a long reply, then it got dost to the internet demons 🤬.

Suffice to say there are all manner of girls: virgins who will never meet a foreigner, thru girls who will only fuck a guy as part of a long term relationship down to those who will go with whomever pays the price of admission.

I've never seen anyone that needs months of chatting before meeting. I've always got a timely yes or no. I'd be concerned that anyone taking months would be setting up a long con. I would have given up or gotten bored by this time and moved on anyway.

Be careful, I've seen many guys get burned by putting girls on a pedestal.

Enjoy. G.

[Mua Tur]

The only area that I differ from Sam is that he makes contact early about meeting upon arrival next week or month where as I wait until I'm in country and ask about meeting after work or school. I've found that this dramatically improves the girls' interest and reduces no-show rates. It also weeds out some of the scammers who never want to meet but just want cash sent for whatever calamity has befallen them.

It would be fair to say, however, that Sam targets a better quality of girl than me: he chases good girls interested in some fun; I'm generally looking for purely commercial girls that will drop around at short notice.

The girls are ready to meet in short notice as I experienced are all of COMMERCIAL gilrs (in your terms). The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines.

I don't even read profiles past age and location. Comments of LTR or serious only mean nothing and are only there to protect the girls reputation should friends or family read the profile.

LTR or not for fun or serious relationship etc good words are only for use. In the end they are ready to meet even for a day, knowing they might be ignored or forgotten next. They just taken chance if there any profitable things happen. Some are super stingy but in the end they give up.

I'd agree that any girl who comes to your room alone isn't there to measure for new curtains. Even security blanket friends will soon disappear once it's clear the guy isn't a psycho.

The word they use "they need to know us first". It's only meant they need to be confirmed, they would not be harmed if they going to stay with a stranger they met in dating site. There are old news, some girls got killed by the foreigners they went to meet.

I found lying to girls counter productive. I've been told many times that they have heard all the BS stories before and know instinctively when the guy is lying and it's a turn off rather than cover story. As long as the girls know that nothing is going to impact them in the next hour or two (eg a crazy wife bursting through the door) then they don't care. I've actually been thanked for being honest upfront: "we can still be friends". It's also a subtle was of confirming that the guy only wants casual fun and not a real serious relationship. A wedding ring displays those intentions very clearly. Generally, I only chat with two or three girls per trip who refuse to meet me on moral grounds.

Perfectly correct.

[Goferring]

This is a very useful primer on how to meet a DIA girl. The main rules: 1) never mention money using DIA messaging. Save that for WhatsApp. 2) never mention a desire to have sex. Invite the girls to spend time with you, but never mention sex. That can be explicitly discussed on WhatsApp as well. 3) never complain to Ladyboys no matter how rude they are.

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.

The only area that I differ from Sam is that he makes contact early about meeting upon arrival next week or month where as I wait until I'm in country and ask about meeting after work or school. I've found that this dramatically improves the girls' interest and reduces no-show rates. It also weeds out some of the scammers who never want to meet but just want cash sent for whatever calamity has befallen them.

It would be fair to say, however, that Sam targets a better quality of girl than me: he chases good girls interested in some fun; I'm generally looking for purely commercial girls that will drop around at short notice.

I don't even read profiles past age and location. Comments of LTR or serious only mean nothing and are only there to protect the girls reputation should friends or family read the profile.

I'd agree that any girl who comes to your room alone isn't there to measure for new curtains. Even security blanket friends will soon disappear once it's clear the guy isn't a psycho.

I found lying to girls counter productive. I've been told many times that they have heard all the BS stories before and know instinctively when the guy is lying and it's a turn off rather than cover story. As long as the girls know that nothing is going to impact them in the next hour or two (eg a crazy wife bursting through the door) then they don't care. I've actually been thanked for being honest upfront: "we can still be friends". It's also a subtle was of confirming that the guy only wants casual fun and not a real serious relationship. A wedding ring displays those intentions very clearly. Generally, I only chat with two or three girls per trip who refuse to meet me on moral grounds.

Enjoy. G.

[MamaGuevos]

My first message is Hi to whoever I am interested in. If they reply next is How are you followed by where exactly do you live. This is mainly because for any number of reasons where they live currently does not match location mentioned on profiles. Also they may live far away from the location.

Next I say I am coming to their location and if they want to stay with me. If they say yes I ask for WhatsApp number and continue conversation there.

Having lined up many prospective girls does not mean everything will pan out. But I like to line up many in that location so that I can pick and choose.

I never mention money on DIA. Never mention sex in any form. If they ask why I want them to stay with ne I just say for companionship.

One thing DIA is very strict is not to be mean to ladyboys. Cannot even ask if they are. Keep your cool even if someone annoys you and just ignore.

I have been banned only once and that is because I used some choice words to a ladyboy who carried on messaging me even after I said I am not interested. After I changed my I phone and SIM card I opened new account. So far working good. Meanwhile I have managed to gather a harem on demand although looking for new conquests. My harem girls refer me others. I do take care of the girls nicely.

I have blocked many girls for various reasons. I believe they keep track of how many times I have been blocked and also how many times I blocked others. If you are blocked by many girls you are likely to be kicked out. They do not look at the reasons. So my advice is if someone is mean to you block the immediately.
All my negotiations about time, price, webcam interviews done on WhatsApp. There are no restrictions on WhatsApp.
I only use DIA exclusively. No other dating app.

This is a very useful primer on how to meet a DIA girl. The main rules: 1) never mention money using DIA messaging. Save that for WhatsApp. 2) never mention a desire to have sex. Invite the girls to spend time with you, but never mention sex. That can be explicitly discussed on WhatsApp as well. 3) never complain to Ladyboys no matter how rude they are.

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.