Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Sammon]

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.

To answer I do not read what the girls write. I am not interested in what they like or not like or what their goal is. I am not dwelling into their life. I read their statistics like how tall, shape, kid or no kid and ofcourse age and location. All the other bullshit like looking for marriage, never had a BF etc I ignore. After saying Hi and if she replies next message is I am coming there and would she like to stay with me. If yes take the conversation to WhatsApp or messenger etc.

Once there I show my true intentions. If agreed chat on cam to make sure the girl is attractive and tickles my fancy. I go for 19 to 25 year olds. Granted many girls drop out when I show my intentions. I wish them good luck. Some do come back later and want to be me.

Reason I plan early is I do not have time to waste. My schedule is already set with regard to where I stay and how long. I want to maximize my fun in limited time. After meeting and having sex I have booted some out for various reasons. At this point I lie saying something came up or I have a meetings etc. If we connect and sex is good I keep her. If she is quite pretty I take her out for dinner. Some young girls do not want to be seen with an older foreigner. I respect that and I usually bring her take out food. All get breakfast in the mornings. If I am really happy with her I tend to keep her longer. There are many willing girls I have failed to meet because of this. No regrets like they say bird in hand!

[Mr Enternational]

The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines.

That is absurd. I want to hurry up and meet so I know I am not wasting my time. Whenever a chick comes with some BS like this I say are you here to meet someone or not? If I came up to you in a grocery store or mall and you gave me your number, we would have to go our separate ways and chat for 2 months before we could go out? That would be as ridiculous as them telling you you have to wait 2 months to meet simply because you first said Hello, to each other online.

I do not know why people have a different notion of meeting people online than they do meeting someone in person. If someone is a scumbag then they can wait 2 months to be the same scumbag that they are going to be by waiting 1 day. The only difference is that you wasted a bunch of your time waiting to find out.

[Goferring]

The girls are ready to meet in short notice as I experienced are all of COMMERCIAL gilrs (in your terms). The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines..

I wrote out a long reply, then it got dost to the internet demons 🤬.

Suffice to say there are all manner of girls: virgins who will never meet a foreigner, thru girls who will only fuck a guy as part of a long term relationship down to those who will go with whomever pays the price of admission.

I've never seen anyone that needs months of chatting before meeting. I've always got a timely yes or no. I'd be concerned that anyone taking months would be setting up a long con. I would have given up or gotten bored by this time and moved on anyway.

Be careful, I've seen many guys get burned by putting girls on a pedestal.

Enjoy. G.

[Mua Tur]

The only area that I differ from Sam is that he makes contact early about meeting upon arrival next week or month where as I wait until I'm in country and ask about meeting after work or school. I've found that this dramatically improves the girls' interest and reduces no-show rates. It also weeds out some of the scammers who never want to meet but just want cash sent for whatever calamity has befallen them.

It would be fair to say, however, that Sam targets a better quality of girl than me: he chases good girls interested in some fun; I'm generally looking for purely commercial girls that will drop around at short notice.

The girls are ready to meet in short notice as I experienced are all of COMMERCIAL gilrs (in your terms). The girls are in my interest generally I need at least 2 months time of chatting. These girls always refused to meet even for one week notice or already I am in Philippines.

I don't even read profiles past age and location. Comments of LTR or serious only mean nothing and are only there to protect the girls reputation should friends or family read the profile.

LTR or not for fun or serious relationship etc good words are only for use. In the end they are ready to meet even for a day, knowing they might be ignored or forgotten next. They just taken chance if there any profitable things happen. Some are super stingy but in the end they give up.

I'd agree that any girl who comes to your room alone isn't there to measure for new curtains. Even security blanket friends will soon disappear once it's clear the guy isn't a psycho.

The word they use "they need to know us first". It's only meant they need to be confirmed, they would not be harmed if they going to stay with a stranger they met in dating site. There are old news, some girls got killed by the foreigners they went to meet.

I found lying to girls counter productive. I've been told many times that they have heard all the BS stories before and know instinctively when the guy is lying and it's a turn off rather than cover story. As long as the girls know that nothing is going to impact them in the next hour or two (eg a crazy wife bursting through the door) then they don't care. I've actually been thanked for being honest upfront: "we can still be friends". It's also a subtle was of confirming that the guy only wants casual fun and not a real serious relationship. A wedding ring displays those intentions very clearly. Generally, I only chat with two or three girls per trip who refuse to meet me on moral grounds.

Perfectly correct.

[Goferring]

This is a very useful primer on how to meet a DIA girl. The main rules: 1) never mention money using DIA messaging. Save that for WhatsApp. 2) never mention a desire to have sex. Invite the girls to spend time with you, but never mention sex. That can be explicitly discussed on WhatsApp as well. 3) never complain to Ladyboys no matter how rude they are.

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.

The only area that I differ from Sam is that he makes contact early about meeting upon arrival next week or month where as I wait until I'm in country and ask about meeting after work or school. I've found that this dramatically improves the girls' interest and reduces no-show rates. It also weeds out some of the scammers who never want to meet but just want cash sent for whatever calamity has befallen them.

It would be fair to say, however, that Sam targets a better quality of girl than me: he chases good girls interested in some fun; I'm generally looking for purely commercial girls that will drop around at short notice.

I don't even read profiles past age and location. Comments of LTR or serious only mean nothing and are only there to protect the girls reputation should friends or family read the profile.

I'd agree that any girl who comes to your room alone isn't there to measure for new curtains. Even security blanket friends will soon disappear once it's clear the guy isn't a psycho.

I found lying to girls counter productive. I've been told many times that they have heard all the BS stories before and know instinctively when the guy is lying and it's a turn off rather than cover story. As long as the girls know that nothing is going to impact them in the next hour or two (eg a crazy wife bursting through the door) then they don't care. I've actually been thanked for being honest upfront: "we can still be friends". It's also a subtle was of confirming that the guy only wants casual fun and not a real serious relationship. A wedding ring displays those intentions very clearly. Generally, I only chat with two or three girls per trip who refuse to meet me on moral grounds.

Enjoy. G.

[MamaGuevos]

My first message is Hi to whoever I am interested in. If they reply next is How are you followed by where exactly do you live. This is mainly because for any number of reasons where they live currently does not match location mentioned on profiles. Also they may live far away from the location.

Next I say I am coming to their location and if they want to stay with me. If they say yes I ask for WhatsApp number and continue conversation there.

Having lined up many prospective girls does not mean everything will pan out. But I like to line up many in that location so that I can pick and choose.

I never mention money on DIA. Never mention sex in any form. If they ask why I want them to stay with ne I just say for companionship.

One thing DIA is very strict is not to be mean to ladyboys. Cannot even ask if they are. Keep your cool even if someone annoys you and just ignore.

I have been banned only once and that is because I used some choice words to a ladyboy who carried on messaging me even after I said I am not interested. After I changed my I phone and SIM card I opened new account. So far working good. Meanwhile I have managed to gather a harem on demand although looking for new conquests. My harem girls refer me others. I do take care of the girls nicely.

I have blocked many girls for various reasons. I believe they keep track of how many times I have been blocked and also how many times I blocked others. If you are blocked by many girls you are likely to be kicked out. They do not look at the reasons. So my advice is if someone is mean to you block the immediately.
All my negotiations about time, price, webcam interviews done on WhatsApp. There are no restrictions on WhatsApp.
I only use DIA exclusively. No other dating app.

This is a very useful primer on how to meet a DIA girl. The main rules: 1) never mention money using DIA messaging. Save that for WhatsApp. 2) never mention a desire to have sex. Invite the girls to spend time with you, but never mention sex. That can be explicitly discussed on WhatsApp as well. 3) never complain to Ladyboys no matter how rude they are.

I am curious about a few more things. Sammon, do you avoid the girls whose profiles say "Not for Fun", "looking for LTR only" , "no married men" and similar stuff. A few years ago, I discovered that many girls said this, but were willing to meet me nevertheless. I also discovered that once they were at my hotel, the chances of having sex with them were greater than 95%. But that was a decade ago. There are so many girls on DIA that it is not necessary to constantly lie to them, but I am wondering if the girls are still quite as forgiving as they were in the past.

[GDreams]

Do DIA messages expire or get auto deleted after a set time?

Thanks. G.

I have messages still in my inbox back to 2018. Many disappear if the profile is removed the old messages associated are deleted.

[Mua Tur]

Do DIA messages expire or get auto deleted after a set time?

Thanks. G.

Messages don't but the pics dose.

Happy Hunting.

[Goferring]

Do DIA messages expire or get auto deleted after a set time?

Thanks. G.

[Mua Tur]

Is DIA hunting that good that it's worth jumping through all the hoops? Everyone seems to have issues with what they can and can't say, getting banned, having to get new phones etc. I'm wondering why people bother when there are so many more productive apps out there?

For the record, I'm also banned, spent about 10 minutes trying to get back in, then just moved on to other apps. FilCupid, PinaLive and Tinder supply far more than I can handle. Each focusses on different qualities of girls soni pick which app according to what type of girl I'm long for.

Enjoy. G.

Totally agreeable.

To be noted that the banning things DIA applying on girls handle too same as happening on boys for similar reasons. For me DIA have different taste that other apps don't have. Little more digging with patience I used to found new gems in the game, those relatively very less in other apps. Tinder is full of hardcore pros. Pinalove have msg sending issues, and now days it became full of hard cores too. Filcupid also the same, for me not enough worthy to be a paid member. But it's just me. For Others may have different eligibility of every other apps.

Happy Hunting.

[AggieDad1]

Girls misrepresenting where they are gives me the shits big time. Almost as bad a them forgetting they have a dick.

Enjoy. G.

I laughed so hard I think I hurt something.

[Goferring]

My first message is Hi to whoever I am interested in. If they reply next is How are you followed by where exactly do you live. This is mainly because for any number of reasons where they live currently does not match location mentioned on profiles. Also they may live far away from the location..

Girls misrepresenting where they are gives me the shits big time. Almost as bad a them forgetting they have a dick.

Pina Love has a good set up where they display how far she is away from your search area (either 'Near Me' or a city eg Makati). And that's regardless of her declared location. If her profile says Makati but she comes up as 900 miles away, then she's likely in the province or even Saudi.

This also helps those newbies not familiar with the different areas close to the major cities. Eg one might over look a Quiapo girl not realising she is only 2 miles away.

Enjoy. G.

[Sammon]

DIA has banned me twice for what they consider to be sexually inappropriate comments. I admit that on one occasion, I crossed their boundary (I told a pregnant girl who was looking for "support" that I had never fucked a pregnant woman other than my wife and asked her if she would come to my hotel within the next hour and have sex for money. I was packed and waiting to leave for the airport, and a long conversation was not possible so I came straight to the point. Ironically, my plane was canceled, as was my DIA account). The other time, like many guys here, I was simply expelled for no obvious reason.

So my question to Sammon is how you line up his girls? You seem to have agreed on service and a price before you gets to town. Does that mean you immediately go to WhatsApp or another similar App? Or do you spend some time letting them get to know you before going to another app? Or does DIA now let you be honest with the data and negotiate a price?

This is why I prefer PinaLove. I can say anything I want to the girl, and I have never been expelled (although sometimes I get blocked, like yesterday when I told a girl I was looking for a who defined the Shakespearean concept of "a lady in public and a working girl in the privacy of the bedroom" In any case, pardon the the diversion and tell me what your usual modus operandi is.

Thanks! MG.

My first message is Hi to whoever I am interested in. If they reply next is How are you followed by where exactly do you live. This is mainly because for any number of reasons where they live currently does not match location mentioned on profiles. Also they may live far away from the location.

Next I say I am coming to their location and if they want to stay with me. If they say yes I ask for WhatsApp number and continue conversation there.

Having lined up many prospective girls does not mean everything will pan out. But I like to line up many in that location so that I can pick and choose.

I never mention money on DIA. Never mention sex in any form. If they ask why I want them to stay with ne I just say for companionship.

One thing DIA is very strict is not to be mean to ladyboys. Cannot even ask if they are. Keep your cool even if someone annoys you and just ignore.

I have been banned only once and that is because I used some choice words to a ladyboy who carried on messaging me even after I said I am not interested. After I changed my I phone and SIM card I opened new account. So far working good. Meanwhile I have managed to gather a harem on demand although looking for new conquests. My harem girls refer me others. I do take care of the girls nicely.

I have blocked many girls for various reasons. I believe they keep track of how many times I have been blocked and also how many times I blocked others. If you are blocked by many girls you are likely to be kicked out. They do not look at the reasons. So my advice is if someone is mean to you block the immediately.
All my negotiations about time, price, webcam interviews done on WhatsApp. There are no restrictions on WhatsApp.
I only use DIA exclusively. No other dating app.

[Goferring]

I have been also kicked out couple of times and now m playing safe and practicing following steps.

Is DIA hunting that good that it's worth jumping through all the hoops? Everyone seems to have issues with what they can and can't say, getting banned, having to get new phones etc. I'm wondering why people bother when there are so many more productive apps out there?

For the record, I'm also banned, spent about 10 minutes trying to get back in, then just moved on to other apps. FilCupid, PinaLive and Tinder supply far more than I can handle. Each focusses on different qualities of girls soni pick which app according to what type of girl I'm long for.

Enjoy. G.

[Mua Tur]

DIA has banned me twice for what they consider to be sexually inappropriate comments. I admit that on one occasion, I crossed their boundary (I told a pregnant girl .......
Thanks! MG.

I have been also kicked out couple of times and now m playing safe and practicing following steps:

1. Changed IP address.

2. Changed phone and device once I'd been kicked out and dedicated new one only for DIA.

3. Made genuine profile and picture.

4. Gentle and polite with girls, never doing argument or making angry any girl. If some one report against the handle, the demerits would be counted against the profile and there possibilities to be kicked out again with out notice. Never use words expressing intercourse. Totally stopped talking about financial exchange for service. If necessary bringing the potential girls in other chat apps.

Happy hunting.