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[Mr Enternational]

I never laugh so hard, lo LOL LOL, how about the grandmom curse /.

I would have said that is fine because I already put one on you.

[Member #1088]

Well, you should not feel guilty about taking her virginity. The finger that broke her cherry was actually a Pinoy cock, belonging to her trike driver boyfriend. All she got from him in return was a pussy full of sperms. LOL!

Her finger takes her virginity several times a day on behalf of dozens of internet boyfriends who wire her cash to help with her studies. She makes good money online getting horny suckers to pay her to finger herself and take her virginity. Just imagine how nice it would be to have people paying you to jerk off, and take your virginity a few times a day. She has a nice business model selling fantasies to perverts dreaming of fucking virgins from all over the world, and the only fella she actually fucks is her Pinoy trike driver boyfriend. LOL!

Online scammer Filipinas are not experts at extracting cash, their victims are just soft delusional walking penises and very gullible. LOL! First, when a Flip says that she does not want money only love, it means that she wants money desperately and is willing to lie and steal to get it. The expert scammers know never to bring up the topic of money. They let the monger's penis do that for them, after he is infatuated and jerking off thinking about getting that little brown pussy. He will believe that it was all his idea to send the money. LOL!

Online scammer girls are all religious and attending mass, praying at least three times a day. Yet, no problems to promise fornication and finger their pussies for horny strangers on the internet. LOL! I share my sins and temptations with them too, as I am a good and religious fella too. Why is my cock in her pussy, ass, and mouth? Lucifer made us do it of course! We are not to blame. LOL!

I never laugh so hard, lo LOL LOL, how about the grandmom curse /.

[Chocha Monger]

I think if we go with our eyes WIDE open, we won't be surprised.

I think by 20 they are really to in the know in how to control their foreigner guy.

I started to talk to this lady in manila, she wants only love in our first chat, she said she is not interested in support or financial help with her school which she brought up right away when we chatted.

She claimed to be virgin.

I told her I was not interested, because I wanted an open minded friend, she changed and said if I treat her right, she can give me all I want even so she is virgin, she will learn from me how to make me happy every day many times per day..

Well, you should not feel guilty about taking her virginity. The finger that broke her cherry was actually a Pinoy cock, belonging to her trike driver boyfriend. All she got from him in return was a pussy full of sperms. LOL!

Her finger takes her virginity several times a day on behalf of dozens of internet boyfriends who wire her cash to help with her studies. She makes good money online getting horny suckers to pay her to finger herself and take her virginity. Just imagine how nice it would be to have people paying you to jerk off, and take your virginity a few times a day. She has a nice business model selling fantasies to perverts dreaming of fucking virgins from all over the world, and the only fella she actually fucks is her Pinoy trike driver boyfriend. LOL!

Online scammer Filipinas are not experts at extracting cash, their victims are just soft delusional walking penises and very gullible. LOL! First, when a Flip says that she does not want money only love, it means that she wants money desperately and is willing to lie and steal to get it. The expert scammers know never to bring up the topic of money. They let the monger's penis do that for them, after he is infatuated and jerking off thinking about getting that little brown pussy. He will believe that it was all his idea to send the money. LOL!

Online scammer girls are all religious and attending mass, praying at least three times a day. Yet, no problems to promise fornication and finger their pussies for horny strangers on the internet. LOL! I share my sins and temptations with them too, as I am a good and religious fella too. Why is my cock in her pussy, ass, and mouth? Lucifer made us do it of course! We are not to blame. LOL!

[D Cups]

No you wouldn't D. You would just go find another one same place that one came from that might be a little more appreciative for shit and understands what you are saying about helping themselves.

One thing is just as sure as shit. As they age they become less marketable. .

Well, not exactly the same place because I'm no longer allowed on DIA but I get your drift, Mr. E. No worries, I always have a number of back-ups. Yes, all broads have an "expiration date" of sorts. I rarely do women over 35; and prefer the 22 - 32 bracket. 18 - 22 don't always know what they're doing sexually although they are cute; and the older ones (mid-thirties plus), well, most have become jaded, motherhood or plugged by so many dicks that their pussy is no longer tight. Obviously YMMV fellow mongers. Cheers, buddy.

[Member #1088]

If the Filipina tells the foreign husband / boyfriend to pick up the bill for her relatives expenses, and she decides to end the relationship because he did not do as she told him, that tells him the relationship was purely financial with him playing the role of a vassal for pussy access. It was never a romantic relationship on her part, as she clearly saw it as a financial arrangement that ended when the money was not forthcoming.

When Filipinas depart because their walking ATM refused to dispense cash to her family, it is a good thing because the relationship was not real. It was one of financial convenience, and the sooner the foreigner figures it out the better. Filipino men say that foreign men give too much to Filipinas without getting anything in return, and they choose Filipinas whose primary concern is the economic survival of their family.

As Mr. E. said, once the precedence is set that the guy pays on demand, the relationship will last only as long as he keeps paying for her relative's misfortunes, wants, and needs. When he stops paying, she will stop playing. A parasitic relationship with a Pinay ends when the foreigner goes broke, becomes unwilling to continue feeding the growing appetite of the parasite, or a more rewarding host comes along.

In any case, it does not make sense for the guy to collapse under her financial demands, as he is clearly attempting to retain the sexual services and loyalty of an economic mercenary with a pussy. Any love lost is purely an illusion on his part.

I think if we go with our eyes WIDE open, we won't be surprised.

I think by 20 they are really to in the know in how to control their foreigner guy.

I started to talk to this lady in manila, she wants only love in our first chat, she said she is not interested in support or financial help with her school which she brought up right away when we chatted.

She claimed to be virgin.

I told her I was not interested, because I wanted an open minded friend, she changed and said if I treat her right, she can give me all I want even so she is virgin, she will learn from me how to make me happy every day many times per day.

Hum. I said, ok, lets talk, I call her in the phone, and one thing let to other, and she I teach her how to learn self joy, (which she said, she never done), doing a few more times, she got very excited and claimed she push too deep and took her virginity for me. She even claimed she had blood on her fingers (maybe her red time?

Anyway, I said ok, next time she found a way not to be online, the following day she talk that she will accept any help with her school and she wanted to cam with me.

Again, she did all and show all.

Today, she is angry becuase I can send her help until wed and refuses to cam again.

Well one thing lead to another, then she broke it off, talking about bad karma and how she lost her virg and got nothing. Hum.

At the very end, she said she will get her grandmom to curse me, this is after telling me that she goes to church every Sunday and is very religious in the begining of our first conversation.

So I think by 18 or 19, they are the experts, in how to extract money and use intimate things as a way to control the man.

Hope everyone has better luck.

[Chocha Monger]

Not true at all. Well maybe true for someone that is with you for your financial resources. There are many women that I have close relationships with. Mind you these are normal women that I don't OFFER money to. But when the time has come that they really needed and I said no, guess where they went? Nowhere. Still good friends and have good relationships with them and could pop up at their house anytime and they will roll out the red carpet.

Contrast that to a call center chick that I was boinking in AC or even a married Pinay that I was dealing with in Thailand. Both chicks asked me to buy them a phone. I told both chicks no. Never heard from either again. Maybe it's just a Filipino thing for the relationship to be contingent on whether your money goes in the direction of them or their family..

If the Filipina tells the foreign husband / boyfriend to pick up the bill for her relatives expenses, and she decides to end the relationship because he did not do as she told him, that tells him the relationship was purely financial with him playing the role of a vassal for pussy access. It was never a romantic relationship on her part, as she clearly saw it as a financial arrangement that ended when the money was not forthcoming.

When Filipinas depart because their walking ATM refused to dispense cash to her family, it is a good thing because the relationship was not real. It was one of financial convenience, and the sooner the foreigner figures it out the better. Filipino men say that foreign men give too much to Filipinas without getting anything in return, and they choose Filipinas whose primary concern is the economic survival of their family.

As Mr. E. said, once the precedence is set that the guy pays on demand, the relationship will last only as long as he keeps paying for her relative's misfortunes, wants, and needs. When he stops paying, she will stop playing. A parasitic relationship with a Pinay ends when the foreigner goes broke, becomes unwilling to continue feeding the growing appetite of the parasite, or a more rewarding host comes along.

In any case, it does not make sense for the guy to collapse under her financial demands, as he is clearly attempting to retain the sexual services and loyalty of an economic mercenary with a pussy. Any love lost is purely an illusion on his part.

[Mr Enternational]

If I was there and she was fucking me regularly I might feel differently.

No you wouldn't D. You would just go find another one same place that one came from that might be a little more appreciative for shit and understands what you are saying about helping themselves.

One thing is just as sure as shit. As they age they become less marketable. So they better try to cash in on it while they have youth. Seen too many chicks in Thailand that thought they were hot shit in the clubs a few years ago, and now they are in the streets pushing food carts.

For us, life gets better because we have more money. A guy asked on facebook the other day, if you knew then what you know now, where would you be? I said broke. Because back then I wouldn't have been able to handle shit like I do now. I would have gone broke messing around with all these hoes. Now I have vision and want position myself to be able to mess with these hoes forever instead of the short-sightedness I would have had when I was younger.

[Wicked Roger]

I was supporting many girls over the years. Maybe stupidity on my part but some girls benefitted from that. Only one girl got out of AC with me help who was 18 and a virgin. I was giving her 10000 pesos per month for her to go to college. I checked with the college all the time. After she finished school and found a job I stopped.

My outlay was 10000 to 20000 per month with many girls in different places. This way I could avoid AC altogether on my trips. And no bargirls. I would still go to LA cafe but tell the girls I am there to chill and my GF in my room. Advantages are they were squeaky clean and I did not need to worry. I made sure they were taking pills so that I do not get them pregnant. They need to start a month before I come and stop a month after I leave. 2 girls in middle east having jobs.

Irrespective of where the money went I am glad that I tried to change some girls lives and it was not a lifelong support. Enjoyed the girls well too. Nowadays a trip to Angeles I believe will cost more than 40000 pesos for a week.

One other way Sammon is to deposit the fees into the university bank account which is what I did. No way I would send the cash unless the bank itself made some issues etc. That way I knew the semester costs (always get the official assessment gents) and could control. Once they have graduated and found a job it all disappeared as yours did. Thought the jobs paid way less than your contributions.

Am sure any spare cash goes to the family. This is in the DNA sadly. They prefer to starve so mom / dad / cousins have cash. All tell me they want a job to support their parents no thought (mostly) to their need or long term plans. One OFW is supporting the entire larger family group (IE the greedy relative) from her sales job in Dubai. Is not possible given their greedy demands, her needs pay the school fees an the cost of living in the UAE. Guess what she does in her off days and when she is on early shift? Hint. Gives a mean BBBJ LOL.

[D Cups]

DC, I don't think 2500 pesos a month goes very far in sustaining a single Filipina, let alone a family. Unless, as you suggest, she has other sources of support.

Aren't your tactics for seeking out D-cup susos and sex on demand sort of at odds with your goal of a doctor, nurse, or flight attendant to settle down with? Those women have their choice of high status Filipinos, and they don't hang out in the same places as the sex on tap women. Why would they marry an American in his sixties?

If you are worried about impregnation, have you considered a vasectomy? If you were to find your true love tomorrow and impregnate her the next day, you'd be 81 by the time the kid is ready to go off to college. What kind of father will you be to the kid at that point in her / his life when the father is perhaps most important? My point is that at your age, maybe your baby-making days are over, and you and your partners would all breathe easier if you were to get snipped. There are nay-sayers who are sure that vasectomies somehow diminish pleasure, but a number of us have weighed in to report that it's just the opposite.

Hi Soapy,

You're right on several counts: 2500 P / month is not enough; marriage vs. Single screwing around and of course a vasectomy but call me a hopeful romantic who hates the knife haha. Surely the Philippines and many third worlds are full of the exceptions I seek. Time will tell. As far as being an old dad with a professional wife, the world is full of them. Cheers.

[Sammon]

I was supporting many girls over the years. Maybe stupidity on my part but some girls benefitted from that. Only one girl got out of AC with me help who was 18 and a virgin. I was giving her 10000 pesos per month for her to go to college. I checked with the college all the time. After she finished school and found a job I stopped. By that time she was older and I was after younger girls. But the sob stories still came which I ignored. Now she is married with a kid. She wants to meet me one last time but I resisted the temptation.

There were other girls from provinces who I supported without asking any questions. 3 of them are now living abroad. 2 married to uk guys and one in Norway. 2 of them were virgins when I met them.

My outlay was 10000 to 20000 per month with many girls in different places. This way I could avoid AC altogether on my trips. And no bargirls. I would still go to LA cafe but tell the girls I am there to chill and my GF in my room. Advantages are they were squeaky clean and I did not need to worry. I made sure they were taking pills so that I do not get them pregnant. They need to start a month before I come and stop a month after I leave. 2 girls in middle east having jobs.

There is no way of knowing how much of the money is going to their family.

On stopping payments I always blamed it on my bank saying they are watching my transactions and USA government is very strict. It is a good excuse because demands stopped quickly instead of dragging on and causing ill will. I always say maybe I can send them money while in Philippines but never let them know I am there.

Irrespective of where the money went I am glad that I tried to change some girls lives and it was not a lifelong support. Enjoyed the girls well too. Nowadays a trip to Angeles I believe will cost more than 40000 pesos for a week.

[Soapy Smith]

DC, I don't think 2500 pesos a month goes very far in sustaining a single Filipina, let alone a family. Unless, as you suggest, she has other sources of support.

Aren't your tactics for seeking out D-cup susos and sex on demand sort of at odds with your goal of a doctor, nurse, or flight attendant to settle down with? Those women have their choice of high status Filipinos, and they don't hang out in the same places as the sex on tap women. Why would they marry an American in his sixties?

If you are worried about impregnation, have you considered a vasectomy? If you were to find your true love tomorrow and impregnate her the next day, you'd be 81 by the time the kid is ready to go off to college. What kind of father will you be to the kid at that point in her / his life when the father is perhaps most important? My point is that at your age, maybe your baby-making days are over, and you and your partners would all breathe easier if you were to get snipped. There are nay-sayers who are sure that vasectomies somehow diminish pleasure, but a number of us have weighed in to report that it's just the opposite.

[D Cups]

Maybe it's just a Filipino thing for the relationship to be contingent on whether your money goes in the direction of them or their family.

I have been dating a beautiful 22 year old Cebuana for several years now. When I say dating I mean I see her once or twice when I go to Cebu once or twice a year. The poor thing lost her father about two years ago and has three or four little sisters and one little brother neither of whom work. The mother also does not work. I don't know how they survive. So I would send her maybe $50/ month sometimes more out of pity and told her to get a job a gazillion times. She gets a job and promptly quits always with a stupid excuse. So I guess I am one of those stupid internet sugar daddies you read about here. For all I know I am just one of several guys she is playing.

Recently I told her I can't send any more money because she refuses to get a job. I tell her when I was 22 I was already working for seven years while paying for college which I graduated from. So she bombards me with emails and skype messages begging, pleading, crying, etc. All of which I have been ignoring for the past week. So now she tells me she hates me all because I stopped sending her money. I don't mind helping someone but they have to help themselves. If I was there and she was fucking me regularly I might feel differently. My friends tell me she doesn't work because I am her job, her source of money and certainly I have been too generous for far too long. Enough is enough. The whole situation is a recipe for disaster which I am now glad to be out of.

When I move to PI in 2022 (probably Dumaguete area) I want to find an educated (college graduate) from a family of some means, preferably a nurse or a doctor or even a flight attendant to settle down with in my golden years. I'm old (62) but not ugly and a helluva nice guy, a romantic indeed but I'm tired of being played but this particular pretty young thing with no ambition other than to bleed me dry. I guess I'm one of of the guys Choca Monger writes about but I finally wised up. Thank God I didn't impregnate her. Be careful guys. There are a lot of really sweet but poor Filipinas who are trying to make the best of their situation but this one is not trying hard enough. Arrmchair "shrinks" feel free to sound off if you've been through similar scenario.

[Mr Enternational]

It is another thing entirely if you have formed a close relationship with the woman and this happens within her family. In this latter case, if one turns one's back and walks away, then there is likely no chance of going back and the relationship will be over.

Not true at all. Well maybe true for someone that is with you for your financial resources. There are many women that I have close relationships with. Mind you these are normal women that I don't OFFER money to. But when the time has come that they really needed and I said no, guess where they went? Nowhere. Still good friends and have good relationships with them and could pop up at their house anytime and they will roll out the red carpet.

Contrast that to a call center chick that I was boinking in AC or even a married Pinay that I was dealing with in Thailand. Both chicks asked me to buy them a phone. I told both chicks no. Never heard from either again. Maybe it's just a Filipino thing for the relationship to be contingent on whether your money goes in the direction of them or their family.

This is a chick that I have been dealing with in Manila for years. You think she is going anywhere? And even if she was, I would just wish her good luck. A couple of months later she would be back to sending messages and naked pictures and asking me to bring her a new vibrator next time I come.

This is why I don't share the same attitude about women that guys who say they have gotten screwed over in marriages and shit have. When I was married, me and my wife kept our money separate. Like I said, we decided who would be responsible for shit we had together and after that you could do want you wanted with your hard earned money. When we split up there was no bitterness and we remained friends for years after.

What you are describing sounds less about whether someone turns their back and walks away and more like if they don't fork over their hard earned money when they are told/expected to. I never set a precedent to get myself caught up in such situations.

[Mogwai]

I know it was a true story, but Mogwai that is not my responsibility. If I was out here trying to help everyone that needed it, then I would be the one needing it!

I agree if it is just a random acquaintance. However RK was asking what you would do if you were the brother-in-law in his example.

[Red Kilt]

I know it was a true story, but Mogwai that is not my responsibility. If I was out here trying to help everyone that needed it, then I would be the one needing it!

I can see why Mr E might walk away or say No if it was some random acquaintance he had met or even a close friend.

It is another thing entirely if you have formed a close relationship with the woman and this happens within her family. In this latter case, if one turns one's back and walks away, then there is likely no chance of going back and the relationship will be over.