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**Goferring** · 04-29-18 05:41

Originally Posted by Forest [View Original Post]

I certainly like the idea that the girls who say they are freelancers are, in fact, FL. I wish there were other ways to determine ahead of time which girls are likely to have sex before one invites them out.

Ummm, have you thought about asking them?

It doesn't have to be "Are you a hooker?" But asking if they need to return home or can spend the night works. When confronted with she's looking for a long term relationship, I just ask if she's happy with something less serious until Mr Right arrives.

There are only two possible replies. Silence means she wasn't the type of girl you wanted in the first place. Any reply, even professing shock and disgust, generally indicates she wants to continue the discussion. Obviously if her reply is a Viber number, it's a no brainer.

**Mr Enternational** · 04-29-18 01:49

Originally Posted by Forest [View Original Post]

I certainly like the idea that the girls who say they are freelancers are, in fact, FL. I wish there were other ways to determine ahead of time which girls are likely to have sex before one invites them out. I would be interested if any of the rest of you have a strategy you could share.

You might want to switch to WeChat then brother. They give you prices before you even tell them Hello,.

**Member #4643** · 04-28-18 22:56

Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]

Yes that is what it means. How does DIA know it means freelance hooker though? It could mean freelance photographer, freelance gym instructor, freelance carpenter, or freelance anything.

DIA kicks people out for a lot less than that, so it is a surprise. Most guys think that every girl on DIA is available for cash. I think most girls on DIA will have sex with you on the first date, but I do not think most girls are straight forward prostitutes or even semi pros. I weed out the "good" girls by inviting them to my hotel room. Many girls will not accept this invitation, and I immediately drop them from my list. Of the dozen or so DIA girls I have dated, all of them agreed to have a glass of wine in my hotel room prior to coming over and all of them ended up in bed on the first date. That is how I separate the proverbial wheat from the chaff.

I certainly like the idea that the girls who say they are freelancers are, in fact, FL. I wish there were other ways to determine ahead of time which girls are likely to have sex before one invites them out. I would be interested if any of the rest of you have a strategy you could share.

**ForkTruck** · 04-28-18 18:07

Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]

LOL. Where did you get your meaning from? It used to mean peace or. Hang loose, but now it really don't mean shit. People just take pictures that way. I do it myself.

Funny, when a girls picture is of her 2 Finger V salute with her tongue stuck out in the V it means piece, not peace.

**George03** · 04-28-18 10:37

Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]

Why would you need to change locations? Did you think your cupid girl was coming from Beverly Hills and would not approve of Ermita? Damn near every time I have been to Manila I have stayed at CityState 2 blocks from LA Cafe and have never had problems with chicks online coming there. Only once have I stayed at Makati and that was only for a few hours at the Hop Inn.

Probably because at the time, as in all three of my trips, I tire or that area quickly.

**Mogwai** · 04-28-18 07:35

Originally Posted by George03 [View Original Post]

I would like to go to Barocay again when I can make it back, I may just wait and spend a few days in Manila or Cebu and find someone while there that I enjoy being with. What do you think?

Boracay is closed for tourists for 6 months:

https://edition.cnn.com/2018/04/04/a...ntl/index.html

**Mr Enternational** · 04-28-18 01:37

Originally Posted by George03 [View Original Post]

After getting to the hotel, I had a good time at the LA cafe, plenty of girls to my liking. But I decided that I need to change locations to meet my cupid girl, probably a good move.

Why would you need to change locations? Did you think your cupid girl was coming from Beverly Hills and would not approve of Ermita? Damn near every time I have been to Manila I have stayed at CityState 2 blocks from LA Cafe and have never had problems with chicks online coming there. Only once have I stayed at Makati and that was only for a few hours at the Hop Inn.

**Mr Enternational** · 04-28-18 01:29

Originally Posted by ForkTruck [View Original Post]

I have noticed a fair number of girls photos on dating sites using a variety of two finger salutes. I always thought this to mean take me for Sex however a saw one picture of a group of school kids several who were holding up a two finger V salute to the camera. They couldn't possible know what that means so what is the meaning to pinoys of this signal? When adult girls use it does it always mean Take me for sex, or has it changed into some other kind of meaning?

LOL. Where did you get your meaning from? It used to mean peace or. Hang loose, but now it really don't mean shit. People just take pictures that way. I do it myself.

**George03** · 04-27-18 17:37

Cont,

Ly.

I went back to Makati for one night before returning home. Met up with the girl from the first few days. We had another great time, back to the room, then she rode with me to the airport. I had given both girls (see part one) a little cash as a gift, probably about $50. I explained that I wanted to buy them something, but no time. I don't believe either of these were pros or semi pros. The Makati girl told me a few weeks later that she gave the money I gave her to an orphanage, or something like that. Before the next trip, I had offered to buy her a new phone, but she said no. I didn't know what may happen with the Makati girl, but we skyped, etc. Several times a week for the next six months. I decided I would try to meet her again, So I schedule another trip. I decided to fly in, take her to Boracay for a week. I of course, was going to stop in Japan for a few days, then stay around LA cafe, before meeting up, which I did. A couple of weeks before the trip, things seemed a little strange when skyping, etc. But not too bad. I really wasn't looking for a relationship anyway, but who knows. When in Japan, she wasn't return texts as often, etc. Anyway, finally made it to Manila, I told her what time I would be at the hotel. She text that some friends showed up at the house. I wasn't sure if she was going to show up, but finally came to the room about 4 in the morning. I was kind of pissed, but we got up early to head to Boracay. She was pretty hung over so wasted most of that day, but it was ok. She wasn't really talkative on this trip but we still had a good time, and as much sex as I wanted. She again came with me to the airport. . A I didn't offer anything on the Boracay trip, but I had left some cash in her bag that she acknowledged when skyping a few days after I got home. (I stopped in Japan again). Anyway, it was kind of strange on this trip, and after chatting several times a week, we texted or used whatsapp a couple of times, and she disappeared. I tracked down a profile on FB a couple of months ago, not much activity. I set up a fake FB and asked some of her friends where she might me, no luck. Even though I would be happy to travel with her again, it was still a good trip from my point of view.

The Makati girl didn't seem like the typical hustler that I read about, not from a wealthy family, but at least lived in a house, had a computer etc. But she did seem very flaky right before, and during the second trip. I would welcome any comments, observations, etc. I was probably lucky on the first trip, not any no shows from cupid, but limited sample size. I would welcome any comments, observations, etc.

My next trip, I just went to LA cafe, Subic, then back to Makati. I had to cut this trip short, so didn't really have time to spend on cupid girls. I met a girl that I really enjoyed spending time with from Havanna, great in the sack and good conversation. I would have been happy to travel with her.

I would like to go to Barocay again when I can make it back, I may just wait and spend a few days in Manila or Cebu and find someone while there that I enjoy being with. What do you think?

**George03** · 04-27-18 17:04

Greetings,

3 trips to Phil, I believe that I posted reports at the time. After reading the forum, after the first and second trips, I am a little more enlightened about the mind of the pinay, but not completely. I am mainly referred to the cupid, etc. Girls.

My first trip was a few years ago. I joined cupid and chatted with a bunches of women. I decided to land in Manila, spend a few days, go to Cebu, then Davao, back to Cebu, then back to Manila.

The thinking was that If I spend some time with a cupid girl and didn't want to see her again, I didn't have to tell her I was coming back. There was one girl in particular that I skyped with daily about two or three weeks before arrival. She looked exactly like I want to see in Phil, short, petite, long hair. She was in early thirties, seemed intelligent.

The first couple of days, I picked a hotel near LA cafe. It might have been by chance, but I knew about the cafe from reading. This was the third week of a vacation, when I got to Manila, I almost wanted to turn around. It looked like a shithole. After getting to the hotel, I had a good time at the LA cafe, plenty of girls to my liking. But I decided that I need to change locations to meet my cupid girl, probably a good move. So, moved to a hotel in Makati, met the cupid girl later that afternoon. We went out, hit a few bars, had dinner, never when skyping did I talk about sex, nor during dinner etc. Late in the evening, I asked her if she wanted to stay with me, and she said yes. I had a great time!. The next morning we went to breakfast, the she went home, but we planned on getting together later in the afternoon. We met up, went to Mall of Asia, some other bars, back to the room. I enjoyed being with her, I was leaving for Cebu the next day. I made plans to meet her when I came back to Manila before going home. When I got to Cebu, I didn't try to make connections with cupid girls I chatted with, except for one. But she said she lived way out in the province and couldn't make it. No other connection with her, but I saw her on FB a couple of years later, one of you old farts knocked her up. I was too tired after Manila, so just went to Mango to pick up dancers.

One to Davao, I picked one up that I chatted with, took her to Samal Island. Not as intelligent as the one in Makati, but good body. She was divorced with one kid. Thought at first no sex. I only had plans to stay here two days. We went to sleep, hadn't even kissed. But she woke me up in the middle of the night ready to go. Sometime during the trip, she told me she hadn't had sex in a few years. It kind of seemed that way at first, BJ was awkward, a little stiff. After the first day, it was much wilder, much better BJ. I left Davao, she seemed to really be looking for a relationship, but I really wasn't that interested in her to fly to Davao again. I went back to Cebu, only visited Mango clubs. I am going to break this up into two reports.

**ForkTruck** · 04-27-18 16:49

I have noticed a fair number of girls photos on dating sites using a variety of two finger salutes. I always thought this to mean take me for Sex however a saw one picture of a group of [CodeWord906] school kids several who were holding up a two finger V salute to the camera. They couldn't possible know what that means so what is the meaning to pinoys of this signal? When adult girls use it does it always mean Take me for sex, or has it changed into some other kind of meaning?

**Mr Enternational** · 04-27-18 16:15

Originally Posted by Forest [View Original Post]

I have noticed a fair number of women who list their jobs as FREELANCE.

What does this mean? I know what I think a FL girl does (she exchanges money for sex). Is this what they mean? Derscribing one self as a pro would be totally against DIA rules!

Yes that is what it means. How does DIA know it means freelance hooker though? It could mean freelance photographer, freelance gym instructor, freelance carpenter, or freelance anything.

**BobLou** · 04-27-18 15:21

P4P.

I have noticed a fair number of women who list their jobs as freelance.

What does this mean? I know what I think a FL girl does (she exchanges money for sex). Is this what they mean? Describing one self as a pro would be totally against DIA rules.

**Member #4643** · 04-27-18 11:48

I have noticed a fair number of women who list their jobs as FREELANCE.

What does this mean? I know what I think a FL girl does (she exchanges money for sex). Is this what they mean? Derscribing one self as a pro would be totally against DIA rules!

**AussieGaigin** · 04-24-18 10:03

Originally Posted by Tagalog2016 [View Original Post]

Yes, that is truth! Unlike the popular myth about superiority of Westerners in the eyes of Filipinos, which some mongers believe in, many Pinays consider foreigners losers and rejects in their home country. In their logic, mongers come to Philippines because they are not in demand at motherland.

I am saying all of this to make it more clear, that Filipinas don't consider themselves superstars. That is why foreigners chasing them sometimes are associated with losers who are simply incapable to attract a decent western woman.

A lot of westerners have the same feelings about men who have to resort to "mail order brides".