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[Member #1088]

I normally don't like to be too offensive when making contact. However, towards the end of one trip, I already had my fill, had numerous numbers and candidates for repeat performances etc so decided to see how far I could push the first messages. I turned out that incredibly crude messages actually served two purposes. Those that replied agreeing to my suggestion were clearly on the game and up for anything. Strangely enough, those that replied saying that they were terribly offended, not that type of girl etc were also soon happy to drop around as well. Obviously those that never replied or outright blocked me were never contenders anyway.

Moral of the story is that I soon learnt that ANY reply to a crude first message is a quasi acceptance.

It sure was a quick way to get to the point and sort the time wasters from those happy to party.

Enjoy. G.

P.S. I'd agree that fun is a euphemism for sex and that profiles are meaningless. I don't even read them, except for location.

A friend of mine did an experiment and put the word "gcash" only in the profile, no pic, put his age to be 85. He had his acct blocked but he got so many messages, hahahahah.

[Goferring]

I am curious how you guys structure your first correspondence (or two) with a PinaLove or DIA girl. It seems to me that a lot of them have no profile ...

I start with "would you like to spend a night with me" not offensive but to the point....

Just put in your profile that you are looking for fun and that will usually solve that problem.

I normally don't like to be too offensive when making contact. However, towards the end of one trip, I already had my fill, had numerous numbers and candidates for repeat performances etc so decided to see how far I could push the first messages. I turned out that incredibly crude messages actually served two purposes. Those that replied agreeing to my suggestion were clearly on the game and up for anything. Strangely enough, those that replied saying that they were terribly offended, not that type of girl etc were also soon happy to drop around as well. Obviously those that never replied or outright blocked me were never contenders anyway.

Moral of the story is that I soon learnt that ANY reply to a crude first message is a quasi acceptance.

It sure was a quick way to get to the point and sort the time wasters from those happy to party.

Enjoy. G.

P.S. I'd agree that fun is a euphemism for sex and that profiles are meaningless. I don't even read them, except for location.

[Aml3740]

I am curious how you guys structure your first correspondence (or two) with a PinaLove or DIA girl. It seems to me that a lot of them have no profile or a few words. I never know whether to bring up the idea of compensation with them at the beginning and exactly how to do this. I am aware that many of them will say "serious only" and then come around almost immediately when the conversation is moved to WhatsApp or Telegram.

Do you start by saying simply that you would like to meet in Manila or Makati or wherever you are located and once she agrees move onto asking her if she is up for "fun" (which appears to be code for sex)?

In Thailand, I always started by asking if the girl was Freelance (ie, are you available for paid sex), but my thoughts are that this would miss most of the girls in the Philippines.

What I am seeking here is practical advice.

Just put in your profile that you are looking for fun and that will usually solve that problem.

[GDreams]

I am curious how you guys structure your first correspondence (or two) with a PinaLove or DIA girl. It seems to me that a lot of them have no profile or a few words. I never know whether to bring up the idea of compensation with them at the beginning and exactly how to do this. I am aware that many of them will say "serious only" and then come around almost immediately when the conversation is moved to WhatsApp or Telegram.

Do you start by saying simply that you would like to meet in Manila or Makati or wherever you are located and once she agrees move onto asking her if she is up for "fun" (which appears to be code for sex)?

In Thailand, I always started by asking if the girl was Freelance (ie, are you available for paid sex), but my thoughts are that this would miss most of the girls in the Philippines.

What I am seeking here is practical advice.

I start with "would you like to spend a night with me" not offensive but to the point. If yes the I usually offer 4000 a night for young and attractive. Hot ones may counter for more. You can then get into specific details of what you want. Many are not pros so don't expect too much on the porn star front.

[Locamotive]

It can't be that easy. You'll never have any fun. They never bust off their conservative leashes.

Or their feminism and just being a pain in the ass. That don't even include how they look as most are lard asses. I leave this week for my spring visit, thank God, going to be good to get out of here.

[George03]

I wonder sometimes while I am still in the US! I have been four times to Phil, yes, it is that easy, or at least it used to be. I haven't been since Covid, hoping to get there this year. Most recommend waiting until on the ground to make contact. My first trip, I chatted up with a girl from Manila, and one from Davao a week or so before arriving. Both stayed with me for a few days, didn't ask for money, I just gave a small gift. This was about 10 years ago. Or course, I took in the sights at LA Cafe, places in Cebu, etc. I ended up going back to visit the Manila girl, after taking in sights at LA Cafe, then we went to Boracay. Kinda of flaky on this trip, but still fulfilled my needs, I gave a small donation at the end, of course, covered all the expenses in Boracay.

I made another quick trip over from Japan a few years later, just went with the club girls at LA, Havana, and in Subic. The last trip, I paired up with a girl from Manila (after LA, Havanna, etc) then went to Subic for a short hookup, then back to see the girl from Manila. No money asked for, but gave each a small token of my appreciations.

Start packing, it's that easy, but you may have to sift through some BS.

Actually, the last trip, the quick hookup was in Cebu, not Subic.

[MamaGuevos]

I am curious how you guys structure your first correspondence (or two) with a PinaLove or DIA girl. It seems to me that a lot of them have no profile or a few words. I never know whether to bring up the idea of compensation with them at the beginning and exactly how to do this. I am aware that many of them will say "serious only" and then come around almost immediately when the conversation is moved to WhatsApp or Telegram.

Do you start by saying simply that you would like to meet in Manila or Makati or wherever you are located and once she agrees move onto asking her if she is up for "fun" (which appears to be code for sex)?

In Thailand, I always started by asking if the girl was Freelance (ie, are you available for paid sex), but my thoughts are that this would miss most of the girls in the Philippines.

What I am seeking here is practical advice.

[WestCoast1]

I wonder sometimes while I am still in the US! I have been four times to Phil, yes, it is that easy, or at least it used to be. SNIP

I made another quick trip over from Japan a few years later, just went with the club girls at LA, Havana, and in Subic. The last trip, I paired up with a girl from Manila (after LA, Havanna, etc) then went to Subic for a short hookup, then back to see the girl from Manila. No money asked for, but gave each a small token of my appreciations.

Start packing, it's that easy, but you may have to sift through some BS.

It can't be that easy. You'll never have any fun. They never bust off their conservative leashes.

[Toni36]

I wonder sometimes while I am still in the US! I have been four times to Phil, yes, it is that easy, or at least it used to be. I haven't been since Covid, hoping to get there this year. Most recommend waiting until on the ground to make contact. My first trip, I chatted up with a girl from Manila, and one from Davao a week or so before arriving. Both stayed with me for a few days, didn't ask for money, I just gave a small gift. This was about 10 years ago. Or course, I took in the sights at LA Cafe, places in Cebu, etc. I ended up going back to visit the Manila girl, after taking in sights at LA Cafe, then we went to Boracay. Kinda of flaky on this trip, but still fulfilled my needs, I gave a small donation at the end, of course, covered all the expenses in Boracay.

I made another quick trip over from Japan a few years later, just went with the club girls at LA, Havana, and in Subic. The last trip, I paired up with a girl from Manila (after LA, Havanna, etc) then went to Subic for a short hookup, then back to see the girl from Manila. No money asked for, but gave each a small token of my appreciations..

Thanks for sharing your experience. Agreed that it's just too early to make real plans before arriving there. At this point I am just testing the waters and gathering information on how these girls react. Anyone quoting me a number is a pro or semi-pro so I block them right away. I chat with the remaining to see what they want and practice my skills.

I usually turn the subject into whether they are working or not, and how much is their (expected) monthly salary. This would make it clear how much money would be enough to "help" them or "hire" them in one way or another.

From my current conversations, the salary for an entry- to mid-level basic job such as a cashier in Manila is around 610 PHP per 8 hours work day. In the provinces, this number drops to around 450 PHP per 8 hours work day.

Furthermore, these girls need to pay for pre-employment examinations when changing / starting a job which come down to around 2 K PHP, so that is another venue where they need help with.

Considering these numbers, it should be no surprise why a Filipina girl would be happy and appreciative if you offer them 10 K to hang around with them for a coupler of weeks. But I still need to put these theories into real test when I would finally get myself there!

[Toni36]

That's a stolen photo from Miss Tiffany's Universe which is a beauty pageant for Thai transgender women in Pattaya.

Fellow mongers.

Ladyboy or not?

https://www.pinalove.com/Imbrokeaf

Looking for a daddy.

[George03]

Hi guys! I am currently in UK, never been to Philippines, and out of boredom, I messaged this beautiful 21 years old girl in PinaLove who's profile says something in the lines of "Hi are you in manila then let's meet direct message me in my WhatsApp".

I sent her a message, pretended I am in Manila, and asked her to text me on my (UK!) WhatsApp number!

She quickly added me on WhatsApp and asked me where do I live? I said I have a condo near SM Mall of Asia!

She asked how long will I stay in Manila? I said I am here for my work and will be here for at least 6 months with the possibility of an extended stay!

She asked me what I am looking for, I said I am looking for a girlfriend! And when I returned the question she said she is also looking for a long term boyfriend.

She said she lives in Pampanga and lost her job recently and is looking for a job and lives with his siblings.

When I asked her how much was her last monthly salary, she said 7500 PHP or 250 a day.

I wonder sometimes while I am still in the US! I have been four times to Phil, yes, it is that easy, or at least it used to be. I haven't been since Covid, hoping to get there this year. Most recommend waiting until on the ground to make contact. My first trip, I chatted up with a girl from Manila, and one from Davao a week or so before arriving. Both stayed with me for a few days, didn't ask for money, I just gave a small gift. This was about 10 years ago. Or course, I took in the sights at LA Cafe, places in Cebu, etc. I ended up going back to visit the Manila girl, after taking in sights at LA Cafe, then we went to Boracay. Kinda of flaky on this trip, but still fulfilled my needs, I gave a small donation at the end, of course, covered all the expenses in Boracay.

I made another quick trip over from Japan a few years later, just went with the club girls at LA, Havana, and in Subic. The last trip, I paired up with a girl from Manila (after LA, Havanna, etc) then went to Subic for a short hookup, then back to see the girl from Manila. No money asked for, but gave each a small token of my appreciations.

Start packing, it's that easy, but you may have to sift through some BS.

[Member #1088]

Fellow mongers.

Ladyboy or not?

https://www.pinalove.com/Imbrokeaf

Looking for a daddy.

[Member #1088]

You get about 20 popups before the lame video plays.

I have pop up blocker in my chrome.

[Member #1088]

Having some trouble understanding that link. A visit there (pic #1) shows a video you can click on (center arrow), but instead of playing the vid, it takes me to the yahoo news feed. Clicking any of the other links (see red arrows) does the same. Whatddup wid that?

Hum. I don't know, it works well for me, I am using Chrome in a desktop.

The video shows a group of pinays following I guess instrucitons thru a video call.

[GDreams]

Having some trouble understanding that link. A visit there (pic #1) shows a video you can click on (center arrow), but instead of playing the vid, it takes me to the yahoo news feed. Clicking any of the other links (see red arrows) does the same. Whatddup wid that?

You get about 20 popups before the lame video plays.