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[Tally Wacker]

Hey guys,

So I have signed up with DIA and I have mixed feelings about these types of sites. First of all I love the fact that there are 10's of thousands of women around the world if not more, and how quickly they seek you out and reply. For me, I'm a very suspicious person and always take things with a grain of salt. I started a DIA profile in January 2014 but never added a picture in order to communicate back and forth. So I added a pic yesterday and I've had or 15 girls message me already. This makes me very worry as to, how realistic and honest are these girls (BTW there all from the Philippines)? I'm mean. Are their pictures real? Is everything they write in their profiles true? I understand that most or all of these girls are out for money and a better life, but I guess my real question is- Is it worth giving DIA a shot to find a nice and loyal girl?

What are you doing on a SEX site asking if girls on DIA are nice and loyal? If your looking for a good girl you might want to get your own life in line.

PS. Skogis aint the guy to ask about loyal girls haha.

[Member #4387]

Hey guys,

So I have signed up with DIA and I have mixed feelings about these types of sites. First of all I love the fact that there are 10's of thousands of women around the world if not more, and how quickly they seek you out and reply. For me, I'm a very suspicious person and always take things with a grain of salt. I started a DIA profile in January 2014 but never added a picture in order to communicate back and forth. So I added a pic yesterday and I've had or 15 girls message me already. This makes me very worry as to, how realistic and honest are these girls (BTW there all from the Philippines)? I'm mean. Are their pictures real? Is everything they write in their profiles true? I understand that most or all of these girls are out for money and a better life, but I guess my real question is- Is it worth giving DIA a shot to find a nice and loyal girl?

You do good beeing a bit suspicious, that will prevent you from beeing fooled, scammed or tricked. Without a pic I believe only hardend prostitutes and big time scammers (who will tell you they work coinsidentaly in Uganda for one home for child will initiate contact and they will give you an e- mail for further instructions, these are mostly guys and no better than a letter from Nigeria saying you won 15 mill US, hehe). With pic you still get the same responses but obviously as you experienced a pic does matter as more "real girls" contact you. You still have to devide them cheaters described earlier from the girls looking for someone though(your state of profile will have a lot to say, as if you look only prostitutes, good girls, girls want to marry, religious girls etc, hehe, the latter is stupid I know but in phils it makes not so big difference actually. In real words, if you meet a religious girl or not, you can bed both kinds.

Many girls use fake pics so get them soon over in live web cam to sort them out(this is to prevent waste of time). Today everyone in the world has access to a webcam (sherpas in nepal, eskimoes in rural parts of the globe and nomades in the Sahara desert and so on) so after a day or two in denial they don't have access, just block them and move on (most likely fake fake). Fake pics can also be discovered using google image(just copy and paste pics into the search engine and you will see a few pic show up as porn pics or celebreties and most likely that is not who you gonna meet)

Many girl will just write shit in their profile and even if she seems like Mother Theresa, bedding her can still happen(that is if you play your part well). They enjoy writing stuffs simulare to "like to meet god fearing man", "man treasuring family values", "i am no bar girl", "i am no prostitute", "only here for seriois relationship", "have to be willing to meet my family", "marriage before sex" etc etc. There will be tons of variations and a few good girls among those i believe there are ofcourse. Many girls write this so maby relatives/friends looking into profiles do not find out the girls real intention which ofcourse can be a rewarding intercourse. There are ofcourse no exact answers but a few lines of commu you will lead you to her intention. In short we can say girls wants to meet up with chaperone(friend, family etc)can be serious. Most girls you find are well prepared for the life and dont need assistance to travel outside their house premisis. And ofcourse the real prostitutes just saying things as it is(very frank and easy way i guess). But what i have learned from dealing with a few pinays is that whatever background they have nothing is impossible in this country. Just stay alert and act like a nice chap and you will be ok..

Dia worth it, hell yes. I started with Dia maby 10 years ago(give or take a year or so)and believe if I add their weight together I fucked tons of them Dia girls alone(phil, chineese, thai, indo, malay even had a few living in Singapore(beeing phil, thai and chineese as well hehe)). But sadly today it seems Dia has moved into a worse state than a few years back and I will admit I closed down my profile last year or so, as I found other meaningful sites or the combination of such better. In clear language; I believe there are better datingsites around these days for more genuine women but also Dia can serve its purpose if you play your cards right.

Many, if interested, will probably tell you why bother as you can just go to a bar and pay a barfine and play with girls as much as you like. Well I hate the BF system (all incl but I guess we are all diff) and can not stress enough that datingsites can be rewardful and I hardly ever miss when it comes to meeting them girls in real life. It costs some time and a few bucks here and there as guys often have to sign up and pay a small fee but i dont care. Good luck and this was my 5 cents..

[Watnow78]

Hey guys,

So I have signed up with DIA and I have mixed feelings about these types of sites. First of all I love the fact that there are 10's of thousands of women around the world if not more, and how quickly they seek you out and reply. For me, I'm a very suspicious person and always take things with a grain of salt. I started a DIA profile in January 2014 but never added a picture in order to communicate back and forth. So I added a pic yesterday and I've had or 15 girls message me already. This makes me very worry as to, how realistic and honest are these girls (BTW there all from the Philippines)? I'm mean. Are their pictures real? Is everything they write in their profiles true? I understand that most or all of these girls are out for money and a better life, but I guess my real question is- Is it worth giving DIA a shot to find a nice and loyal girl?

[Member #4387]

Maybe Maby is the overly jealous sort of girl?

Ok "maby" I did a typo myself. Then I take everything back and it was actually me beeing stupid. She is home free:-)

[Hutsori]

She: Who the hell is Maby, do I know you?

Maybe Maby is the overly jealous sort of girl?

[Member #4387]

Dealing with pinays makes you sth wonder. Thanks God some of them are real beauties.

Communication from Pinalove:

Me: you look great, I am in Makati now, you want to come my hotel and hang out.

She: wow you here allready, I hope to come see you.

Me: more easy communicating if you give me your digits.

She: "I get her number"

SMS (and only maby 3 minutes later moving from Pinalove to Text)

Me: Maby you come see me in two hours and bla bla bla.

She: Who the hell is Maby, do I know you?

I guess she probably was communicating with a few others or simply plain stupid or combo of both. She later found out who I was but we are talking goldfish memory here, hehe.

[Member #4387]

Any updates? I'm guessing the cute gals aren't getting any messages because most of the guys were freebies like me and will not be able to message her unless they pay up. The fact that she is listed as "blocked" may be a glitch in the revamp. The gal I know who's profile has disappeared to me, is still there. In fact, she sent me a message thru PL and it came to me via email. When I click her pic to go to her profile at PL, it says she's "blocked me and / or profile deleted". She hasn't blocked me at FB. She doesn't like the changes either. But no explanation why X.

It seems the situation is under control. Some girls have re entered and brushed up their profiles to the better I must say. The girls I lost have contacted me through e mail or whatsapp (the girls I wanted to that is). To some extent it was somewhat a reliefe to get rid of some contacts. I am a full paying member by the way, maby this means less competition for the girls, hehe, as many punters run a freebie road and vanishes.

[X Man]

Any updates? I'm guessing the cute gals aren't getting any messages because most of the guys were freebies like me and will not be able to message her unless they pay up. The fact that she is listed as "blocked" may be a glitch in the revamp. The gal I know who's profile has disappeared to me, is still there. In fact, she sent me a message thru PL and it came to me via email. When I click her pic to go to her profile at PL, it says she's "blocked me and / or profile deleted". She hasn't blocked me at FB. She doesn't like the changes either. But no explanation why X.

It seems like that is the idea; to get the Filipinas to upgrade. Someone at PL is hallucinating or wants to go broke.

[Member #4351]

After the rebrushing of Pinalove some of my cuties vanished from my favorite list. I am a paying member ofcourse. When I go through my message history and see them "old" convos and press their profile I get they have blocked or deleted profiles. I can to some extent understand the owners of pinalove preventing freebies to use their services but I hope not the ladies are asked for a paid subcription as we all know the final result of such an angel?

It seems like that is the idea; to get the Filipinas to upgrade. Someone at PL is hallucinating or wants to go broke.

[Member #4387]

After the rebrushing of Pinalove some of my cuties vanished from my favorite list. I am a paying member ofcourse. When I go through my message history and see them "old" convos and press their profile I get they have blocked or deleted profiles. I can to some extent understand the owners of pinalove preventing freebies to use their services but I hope not the ladies are asked for a paid subcription as we all know the final result of such an angel?

[Member #4351]

Very simple explanation X (and David).

PL is seeking to prevent the guys who are not members from contacting women through alternative means.

Most websites do this like CB and Find Love Asia. Some things are not always free for ever.

That is understandable. As a platinum member, I always thought that the FC method of different levels of membership was a great way to do things. But what does hiding the girls' profiles have to do with cheapskate guys?

[Red Kilt]

Update about PL. Some of the ladies that show up blocked for me confirm that their profile is still active. I still have access to many. WTF?

I understand that someone has to make some money here or there, but this is dishonest, and I don't like it.

Very simple explanation X (and David).

PL is seeking to prevent the guys who are not members from contacting women through alternative means.

Most websites do this like CB and Find Love Asia. Some things are not always free for ever.

[Member #4351]

X Man, if you are a PL paid member, I suggest you send them a strong message. The profile of the girl I know is now completely useless, she hasn't received a message since they changed the site. She is extremely cute and was getting about 20 messages minimum a day before. Now zero. Like I said, a great day for those assholes at FC.

[X Man]

Update about PL. Some of the ladies that show up blocked for me confirm that their profile is still active. I still have access to many. WTF?

I understand that someone has to make some money here or there, but this is dishonest, and I don't like it.

[Cbea20]

I believe s / he is a troll. Why does she say she has "aids" (sic). A test would report that she is HIV+ or something even more technical. Her husband at war in Afghanistan? I suspect she copied this from an American web blog. And why report this in public, saying she had many partners? She could contact her past partners personally through her message list. If true, she is part of a tiny (less than 5%) minority of women reported HIV+ in the Philippines. You can google the exact figures.

A woman poster from Manila is confessing that she found out she has AIDS. She says she doesn't know who she got it from because she has been with many partners. You may want to look at her profile and see if she looks familiar. She has been a member since May 2013. Just a public service.

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