Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[BrizLad]

Hi Kabulguy,

Somewhere in the forum I read about you losing contact with a girl around the start of covid season. Something about how you noticed none of her accounts got touched again. Did that girl ever resurface or get in contact?

I'm just interested as to whether girls come and go like that.

[Detwing1]

I generally distrust people who wear religion on their sleeves. A faithful Christian, for example, can simply act charitably towards others without needing to explain it as religion. People who wear their Christianity on clothing or announce their Christianity as part of their "presentation of self" are doing it to manipulate other people's impressions of them (or perhaps trying to convince themselves of it). "Good" Christian is not a thing unless you can show examples of "bad" Christians.

Whenever I'm doing business with someone, and they start telling me how much of a good Christian they are, blah blah blah, I know I'm about to get fucked.

[Pute Nut]

Yes, ED, QED.

i think he actually meant the opposite. He was taking a dig at me hahaha. Sarcasm, wit and humor is lost on many mongers.

[Kabul Guy]

....... "Good" Christian is not a thing unless you can show examples of "bad" Christians.

Lots of examples of bad Christians out there.

[Engine Driver]

Completely disagree. Surprised to read your comment.

PP.

I think he actually meant the opposite. He was taking a dig at me hahaha. Sarcasm, wit and humor is lost on many mongers.

[Soapy Smith]

5. I do like how Maria wears a God t shirt and that she puts her faith in God. God delivered mugs to her.

I generally distrust people who wear religion on their sleeves. A faithful Christian, for example, can simply act charitably towards others without needing to explain it as religion. People who wear their Christianity on clothing or announce their Christianity as part of their "presentation of self" are doing it to manipulate other people's impressions of them (or perhaps trying to convince themselves of it). "Good" Christian is not a thing unless you can show examples of "bad" Christians.

[Pinaypounder]

That's why I don't go for all this 007, secret squirrel, second identity stuff. I don't do stupid shit online and any girl I do see face to face could easily spend 5 minutes or 500 p to hotel staff to find my true identity. Sure I keep a separate monger phone and don't hand out my wife's work email address but that's my limit.

My to do list is:

Don't do stupid shit.

Treat everyone decently, without being a sucker.

Get drunk, party 'till 4 am OR chase dirty hoes. Don't get drunk, party 'till 4 am AND chase dirty hoes.

Don't lie to girls showing them that they have leverage over you.

If it's too good to be true, bail out.

If the SHTF, smile and pay early. Don't escalate to higher authorities expecting a solution.

Enjoy. G.

I act the same as you. These are great rules for the "players" better word is Mongerer of which I am one now and again. I prefer to date normal gals and reward them versus a straight up pro but once in awhile an angry fuck with a straight up pro is on the menu.

We are not participating in a noble act but it is an honest act, one of self pleasure and we have earned that right.

So lets be honest about it!

PP.

[Pinaypounder]

Yeah it's hard not to laugh over the young Brit lad who killed himself when his money ran out. So funny. Hahahaha.

Completely disagree. Surprised to read your comment.

PP.

[Kabul Guy]

Exactly. And filipinas often have much more time than you do to "research" and contact your FB connections for info. Better keep FB settings at absolute minimum disclosure, ideally without pics. Never routinely approve requests as Mr E pointed out. It's amazing how many requesting accounts "vaporize" if you let them linger for a while.

I just cycle my mongering FB account every 6 months or so. I also never friend my mongering account and my regular FB account. I just abandon the old account and set up a new one with only minimal information.

[Pute Nut]

FB is a double edged sword. Girls can use it as a foot in the door to find a huge amount of detailed info about John and FB itself connects the dots from a vast array of sources to recommend him to people and unexplainable faces to his own account. All of which may not be desirable and often without his consent.

Exactly. And filipinas often have much more time than you do to "research" and contact your FB connections for info. Better keep FB settings at absolute minimum disclosure, ideally without pics. Never routinely approve requests as Mr E pointed out. It's amazing how many requesting accounts "vaporize" if you let them linger for a while.

[Goferring]

And the stupid shit would be adding someone I did not know to facebook as the person in the video said that was how the scam was run..

FB is a double edged sword. Girls can use it as a foot in the door to find a huge amount of detailed info about John and FB itself connects the dots from a vast array of sources to recommend him to people and unexplainable faces to his own account. All of which may not be desirable and often without his consent.

Don't even get me started on potential dramas from 'friend of friends' connections.

Enjoy. G.

[Drbombay]

And the stupid shit would be adding someone I did not know to facebook as the person in the video said that was how the scam was run. When someone tries to add me I go over with a fine tooth comb to see who it is and I may not click confirm for months or even years in some cases.

But of course some guys are sitting around horny then all of a sudden a pretty face pops up and their brain turns to mush. I have not even thought about using facebook for that kind of shit. I only use it as a connect to non-hooker people that I have met in my lifetime, e. G. coworkers, classmates, military buddies, family, etc.

I've dealt with the "pretty face" situation this way, I always ask myself why would a nice stunner like that be that interested in me on a cold call? I'm not saying I don't have confidence in my ability or looks, but I'm just being realistic. Someone that cray over me without knowing tells me all I need to know and just stand clear. Not saying that I am only into "ugly" (no one is really ugly at 2 am the night before the ship gets underway) but you get my drift. Just manage your expectations and sometimes it's good not to believe your own hype.

[Mr Enternational]

My to do list is:

Don't do stupid shit.

And the stupid shit would be adding someone I did not know to facebook as the person in the video said that was how the scam was run. When someone tries to add me I go over with a fine tooth comb to see who it is and I may not click confirm for months or even years in some cases.

But of course some guys are sitting around horny then all of a sudden a pretty face pops up and their brain turns to mush. I have not even thought about using facebook for that kind of shit. I only use it as a connect to non-hooker people that I have met in my lifetime, e. G. coworkers, classmates, military buddies, family, etc.

[Goferring]

I tried to send by WU once to a girl and WU refused saying she was "black Balled" or something similiar. I never had that happen before nor since and when I told her what WU said she acted shocked and offered no reason. What are the reasons for this to happen? I'm sure she must have been up to something bcuz WU wouldn't refuse to make a buck without a good reason. Anyone?

Previous guys have reported "her" account for fraudulent activity. As WU is for cash transfer as opposed to payment for services the reports could be for anything but there have been enough of them for WU to cut their losses and walk away from "her" potential business.

Or her account activity smells of laudering.

[ForkTruck]

or they are "black balled" from Western Union.

I tried to send by WU once to a girl and WU refused saying she was "black Balled" or something similiar. I never had that happen before nor since and when I told her what WU said she acted shocked and offered no reason. What are the reasons for this to happen? I'm sure she must have been up to something bcuz WU wouldn't refuse to make a buck without a good reason. Anyone?