Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Chocha Monger]

If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.

Very true! It would be a challenge finding such a woman anywhere but it is fair to say that the Philippines is the last place he should be looking. I recently met a European gentleman who was married to a Filipina and residing there for many years. His conclusion was that while the Philippines makes for a wonderful playground it is a terrible place to look for a life mate. Anyone visiting or living in the Philippines would know that honesty is a rare character trait among the natives, and it becomes increasingly rare when dealing with foreigners. The women are very loyal, just not to you. Their loyalty lies with their family. You are an outsider and always will be, marriage and kids does not change your status. They are quite capable at sex and creating reasons for you to open your wallet but not much else. If they're dependable they're not looking for foreigners online. The whole point of getting a foreigner is having someone they can depend on with an unlimited and steady cash flow to fund shopping for status symbols, support her extensive family, and take care of all those little emergencies that seem to occur with maddening regularity. You cannot depend on them to be any place on time or to stick to any course of action agreed upon. It seems like their minds are constantly changing. When your money is involved the indecisiveness seems to increase. Filipinas also seem to suffer from a periodic flux of emotions, a mysterious period when they're afflicted with mood swings and a sullen nature for no apparent reason. During this period they may not communicate leaving you at a total loss as to what ails your little brown sex bunny. To a Westerner this can be very unsettling and will probably not make for a very happy relationship unless you can ignore it and continue with your own activities.

[FurryFriend]

I don't think it's right either to make fun of a girl's lack of grammar. They're in a [CodeWord140]-poor country and it's unfortunate most of them have low educational attainment.

Besides, why not learn Tagalog and try your hand at writing your DIA profile entirely in Tagalog and see how retarded you sound to them.

[GregLondon]

Here is one from DIA:

"Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

She has probably received an education costing a total of $2, 000-10, 000, whereas yours probably cost $100, 000-500, 000? So maybe we can cut this girl some slack?

[GregLondon]

If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.

After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.

I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.

Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.

If you have been in the game for a few years now you really should have realised that Philippines is simply not the place to find a woman who is "totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying." if you are looking to impress your office mates (other than physically). IN my experience you have a much better chance of meeting such a woman in China but you would probably have to accept a smaller age gap than is possible in the Phils.

[X Man]

Native speakers always say C'mon which is derived from come on. I'm thinking of that Elvis Presely song as I write this. I don't see why you think less of her just because of a minor spelling mistake. The rest of the passage seems very well written.

Here is one from DIA:

"Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

[Gangles]

This kind of post by TC1 comes up every now and then.

I read it through, and what springs to mind is that if the filipinas had a similar forum to this, they would say exactly the same about the men that they chat with.

So TC1:

Do you always speak the absolute truth when chatting?

Do you always answer exactly the question that they ask?

Do you have stories designed to cover up things you don't want them tTo know about or that put you in a bad light?

Do you never talk bullshit to a chat mate?

Do you never tell them that you love them when you don't?

Remember that their native language is tagalog or visayan or cebuana. So you should be chatting with them in their language. Then see how much they laugh at your stumbling, bumbling incompetence. Many of them will speak 3 languages.

I sometimes listen to the bullshit that guys spin to the girls in the bars, and I try to imagine how many lies are told to them every day. It must be thousands.

When I talk with some girls on the chat sites, they universally tell me of the vast proportion of guys who are liars, cheats, just want them to show their tits, totally insincere etc.

As Jesus Christ said "Let he who is without guilt cast the first stone"

If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.

I do not have time to search this now.

Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.

Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have

Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.

1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.

Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.

Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,

Etc. Etc.

2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.

They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want

To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.

They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.

In that respect.

3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.

To know about or that put them in a bad light.

4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.

Your eyes.

5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.

They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.

From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond

Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder

If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from

Stupidvisors.

6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.

7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.

As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.

There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.

After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.

I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.

Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.

[Slippery]

Here is one from DIA:

"Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

And all three times I failed to see what was so funny.

[Jon von Neumann]

Here is one from DIA:

"Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

[Jon von Neumann]

Here is one from DIA:

"Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving."

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

[Jon von Neumann]

Here is one from DIA:

Common and get me.

Intelligent, have sense of humor, beautiful, fun to be with, friendly, kind and loving.

Yep, she probably says that in person "I want you to common and get me." Who wants to go marry that one and take her to your office party? LOL.

[MadisonGuy]

I disagree with some, I mean every girl is different so it's hard to generalize but things like jealousy are pretty normal with all females. I have some girls tell me too much info in my opinion, I'll ask what clubs they go to and when I hear Icon and Havana I'm like damn that'd be like me telling a girl I go to strip clubs all the time. I notice that some of the girls in DIA seems to be on for the fast meet and great which is odd so those girls I delete, or girls that ask no questions, with no effort it's a waste of time to me. I still have yet to have a girl ask me for money though, not even in a round about way. I thought some were going to if they mention someone dying or something I would roll my eyes and be like ok here it comes, but nothing ever followed it. The only thing that irritates me a little is when they have perfect smiles in their photo and then they have braces on cam, huge turn off for me. I was pretty hesitant to waste time with something like DIA, but I'm glad I tried it, they all have cam so it's good to know what they actually look like and it's a more solid plan to have a girl ready to meet you then trying luck at the mall or something. The most solid ones I meet though are not on DIA, they came from other sites. I think with DIA they get so overwhelmed with emails that they can't spend that much time talking to any 1 guy, I could be wrong but that's just a guess.

If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.

I do not have time to search this now.

Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.

Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have

Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.

1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.

Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.

Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,

Etc. Etc.

2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.

They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want

To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.

They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.

In that respect.

3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.

To know about or that put them in a bad light.

4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.

Your eyes.

5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.

They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.

From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond

Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder

If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from

Stupidvisors.

6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.

7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.

As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.

There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.

After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.

I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.

Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.

[Sammon]

There are different categories of men looking.

1. Looking for serious relationship and intending to marry and take her to your country.

2. Looking for serious relationship, marriage and intending to settle in Phi.

3. Looking for long time monogamous relationship for people who go to Phi and stay extended length of time.

4. Looking for company to travel and enjoy for frequent visitors to Phi.

5. Looking to meet up with as many women as you can and try to get into their pants either by promise money, relationship.

6. Explicitely looking for fuck buddies only.

Chatting girls have met all these categories of men.

[D Cups]

Turdycurdyone,

I can relate to all except maybe #5. Some of them are sincere but they may be the exception. I'm running another battery of "tests" in Nov and March so I'll publish my findings then.

Dating websites are repositories for liars regardless of their source. Even eharmony and match dot com. To me, it's all bullshit until you physically meet them and get to know them.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

If this has been covered before, please excuse the repetition.

I do not have time to search this now.

Here are some generalizations I have found from Filipinas on DIA.

Curious to know if you agree, disagree and what generalizations you have

Made independent of mine and your interpretations of what you have found.

1) A large percentage lie in chat. Same for their profiles. When you call.

Them on their lies they make some excuse-I used to live there, someone.

Posted that for me, I had a job, now not, I am single because I am separated now,

Etc. Etc.

2) Most Filipinas have passive aggressive personalities-they fein like.

They don't hear or don't understand your questions because they simply don't want

To answer. If you ask them to do something they say they will then they don't.

They make promises they do not keep. Most are unreliable and untrustworthy.

In that respect.

3) most have stories designed to cover up things they don't want you.

To know about or that put them in a bad light.

4) they are bullshit artists, very good at trying to pull the wool over.

Your eyes.

5) the fein how much they love you, understand you, respect you, etc.

They are attempting to try to establish a bond that you will not walk away.

From. Very manipulative. They are not real. They do not respond

Spontaneously, but almost like from a script. In fact I often wonder

If they are working some boilerplate operation under guidance from

Stupidvisors.

6) they are almost uniformly JEALOUS more so than most American cunts.

7) they take FOREVER to do things, including typing. Their English is usually substandard, sometimes terribly so. Most cannot carry an intelligent conversation.

As you can see, I am not just looking for a f*ck buddy.

There are many more, but this is just a few off the top of my head.

After years of chatting, I have yet to find one Filipina who is totally honest, loyal, capable, dependable, no one I would consider marrying. I guess my expectations are too high. Hard to justify spending all that money if looking for a mate to fly to the RP for the likes of those you find on DIA.

I really don't know what the solution is to finding a good woman. It may.

Not be possible on DIA. Sad because I like the way the site is set up.

[Enchoo]

It took me 30 minutes to get pussy if I wanted on DIA.

Nearly every girl I p4p has a dia profile. I let them use my computers after we sex I see they use fb dia and tagged some stay all day so I get to see what they do. Often if they are good I ask for thier fb. I have had girls texing dia guys saying they are at the mall when they are at my house in no rush to move on some girls will stop replying text while they are in my house (I tell them they can). Dia is just a escort site to most pina. It is a biz to them. The guys who boast they get free casual sex are making it so these girls stop working as they find other ways to make money they ask ne to find a bf for them as they want full time. There are girls working dia who will marry as it better for them to have a full time rather than casual.

Also Pino guys help the wife / gf setup dia I know guys who do. The girls tell you what you want as they just need cash.

I like dia but it takes alot of tine to get pussy. I only use it to find 30 kg. I use fb more as I get better results for my time.