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[Member #1088]

I am puzzled by all you guys who claim to be scoring big with blank picture profiles.

While waiting for my pic to be approved on DIA I was getting exactly zero messages and just a few replies to my intro message. The moment the pic got approved, the mes,. Do you message girls profiles that have a blank picture?

I never put a pic in the profile, and if they ask me, I tell them that I think is better to know the person from inside first. And I offer to show them my cam. Work for me. Also I do target marketing, select age group and location and send them interest. Usually I get a 30% respond of these almost 90% would get me their ym and then we start chatting. Because I am interested only in cam / phone (don't have any reason to travel there but I wish, well not yet, working on a reason) , I make sure that they have a cam in their room OR that they sleep alone (no sis, cous, auntie, etc). Today another virg stop being virg thanks to the power of Google Voice in Cebu. Every virg is different some of them got very tired very quickly some of them just want to keep going. Today she didn't want to stop, she must have cum 2 times pre-defloration and like 10 after. I know you guys think I am just bullshitting but it just amazing. Just be respectful, caring and kind when you talk to them in chat and they will do anything VERY fast, like they don't want to lose you, they tell me all the foreign so rude, but I am different. The girl I got today was 19 and we chatted for 1 hr or so. I got a nurse who is studying outside pinoy 2 days ago age 24, again 1 hr chatting, then phone sex, then she show me in cam quickly. We could not do full cam because she is in a dorm. Capture both in sound and vdo (only the nurse) for my offline enjoyment.

[Red Kilt]

RK, how do they find your profile in the first place? If you don't appear in the Last Active list, then the only way to get to you is going through "Search" and picking your picless profile out of the 40 others that show up on that search list?

I guess so FBA. I assume they just scroll through and look at profiles, pics, headings etc. I use a catchy title so maybe they look at that. I also only ever look in the "Philippines" list - I stand out on that list because I am a foreigner.

Some women spend hours and hours online too so they have the time to scroll endlessly through profiles.

I also believe that many of the no-picture profiles are those of professional and well-connected women who, like me, do not wish to be recognised and want some discretion, like me. Many of these women turn out to be absolute stunners.

I guess they think that guys without pics might be like them, and are wanting to be discreet and also with a high-profile job. So they deliberately target profiles without pics.
I must add that many of the women who do write to me are actually those without pics too. If ever we get to sharing pics on email, I can then filter out those for whom I feel no attraction.

As I said before, DIA is just a sideline for me. I live and work in Manila with a very intensive work schedule so I just check DIA when I need a break or a diversion. I can understand guys and gals wanting to take short-cuts by hitting on the sexy pictures on the "last active" and not worrying about the other profiles. I rarely bother with the "last active" section. I know that the real stunning girls who are showing 3/4s of their boobs will have been hit on by every monger from all over the world so it is a low percentage shot for me.

[Fast Buck Artist]

I mention this because in the past week I have had 2 girls who had the "No pic No reply" in their profile who actually SENT ME AN UNSOLICITED MESSAGE to a profile which has NO PIC. When I called them on this both said (paraphrasing) that it's OK because they never wrote their profile anyway so just ignore that.

RK, how do they find your profile in the first place? If you don't appear in the Last Active list, then the only way to get to you is going through "Search" and picking your picless profile out of the 40 others that show up on that search list?

[KongKing]

I just saw this profile on DIA:

http://www.dateinasia.com/eunhice.html

I'm sure DoubleD will be interested.

She is 72 kg or 159lbs. Mostly in the mammaries I guess. And I see she is "willing to give anything, everything".

KongKing

[Red Kilt]

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Half of the girls clearly say in their profile "No Pic No Reply" and they mean it.

I need to question your random use of "half of the girls" and "they mean it" FBA. (Seems like I am picking on you but I assure you I am not. I am just clarifying things in a robust discussion forum).

I think we all agree that it is necessary to ask girls on DIA several questions:

Did you read my profile carefully and do you understand it?

Did you write your own profile or did you just copy it, and is it accurate?

I mention this because in the past week I have had 2 girls who had the "No pic No reply" in their profile who actually SENT ME AN UNSOLICITED MESSAGE to a profile which has NO PIC. When I called them on this both said (paraphrasing) that it's OK because they never wrote their profile anyway so just ignore that.

I have also had responses from other girls with the "no pic no reply" who read my profile after I had visited theirs. They might think they mean it but then when an interesting sounding guy without a pic hits on them they cannot stick to their "ideals".

Another example:

My profile says "I don't wish to meet smokers". Last night a "social smoker" messaged me. I replied "Not interested. Read my profile. I don't want to meet smokers".

She came back with "I gave up 6 months ago. I never realised it was on my profile".

I told her to change her profile then. She said"I don't know how. I will ask my friend to do it for me because she is the one who put my profile on here".

My main point! Don't believe anything you read on profiles, even down to the God-fearing and must be Christian bits. Some of my most memorable meetings have been those whose profiles seemed directly opposite to what I was looking for. To use a random statistic. I would say 10% maximum of girls have carefully constructed their own profile so that it represents exactly who they are and what they want. These women are usually slightly older, well-educated, and won't take any shit from anyone.

They are usually off-base for most mongers LOL

[Hairy Wonder]

I just saw this profile on DIA:

http://www.dateinasia.com/eunhice.html

I'm sure DoubleD will be interested.

[Sammon]

Well the shrinks say a woman decides within 30 seconds of meeting a man whether she will ever sleep with him or not.

However passing the 30 second test does not guarantee that she will sleep with you immediately. It could be in an hour, a day, a week or after marriage.

Getting one into your hotel is by no means a guarantee of success. I had more than one instance of the girl going to my place, then sleeping with her clothes on there. Or, even worse, sleeping there naked but refusing any kind of sexual advances cause she wants to stay celebate for her future husband. There are also those who will willingly jump on you as soon as the door is closed. I had all types of outcomes (including an instance of a ladyboy who was so incredibly female looking and acting that he fooled me to the last moment)

These kind of girls are playing a day old virgins. They do not want to be percieved as easy girls as we know very well in the western world. Sex only after couple of dates.

But in Phi as tourists we do not have time or patience for this.

IMHO none of my girls who came to my hotel refused sex. Some required little more foreplay. Yes, sometimes they acted insulted when I gave them money. I insisted it is not for sex but a token of

Friendship so that she can buy something for her. None refused money flat out. Only problem is once you get into their pants hard to get away from the texts and calls.

How to say she stunk in love making? I really do not want to insult them. Always got my diplomatic way out saying I am busy or something. How to answer her calls when I am with another girl?

Worst thing is meeting these non-pros and not getting the kind of sex you imagined or expected.

[Fast Buck Artist]

FBA. You are assuming that "most girls will go to the 'Last Active' page and click on a photo there" but just today I had 6 different women send me a message to my blank picture profile so that proves that certainly not all girls do it. I assure you I am not embellishing the truth.

I had several ladies browse DIA on my laptop and I observed what they do. Login. Check Inbox. Reply to Messages. Last Active. Click the most interesting looking photo. Message. Repeat.

If there are others who act differently, I haven't met them. Perhaps they exist and our paths don't cross.

If I only met girls who messaged ME first. Thats a scary thought. What an ugly bunch! BUT on the other hand, it's certainly a lot easier to score with a girl who messaged you first. In fact you might have a hard time getting rid of her afterwards (I had a stalker case once). The best ladies I met from DIA not only I messaged them first, they don't message ANY man first as a matter of personal pride.

Half of the girls clearly say in their profile "No Pic No Reply" and they mean it.

But yes, if you are patient, and have a ton of time to wait, the scoring chances on a woman who is willing to message you first and you don't have a pic and a have profile that says you only want sex, yes the chances of closing the deal would be very high for that lady.

[Fast Buck Artist]

It is my impression that when a pinay agree to meet with a foreigner, she has basically made up her mind that she is going to mate with him. A meeting before they begin gives her the option to opt out if she finds him repulsive. Otherwise, it is just a matter of steering things along, not aggravating her, and making sure that she saves face at alltimes.

Does anyone else think the same way?

Well the shrinks say a woman decides within 30 seconds of meeting a man whether she will ever sleep with him or not.

However passing the 30 second test does not guarantee that she will sleep with you immediately. It could be in an hour, a day, a week or after marriage.

Getting one into your hotel is by no means a guarantee of success. I had more than one instance of the girl going to my place, then sleeping with her clothes on there. Or, even worse, sleeping there naked but refusing any kind of sexual advances cause she wants to stay celebate for her future husband. There are also those who will willingly jump on you as soon as the door is closed. I had all types of outcomes (including an instance of a ladyboy who was so incredibly female looking and acting that he fooled me to the last moment)

[Chocha Monger]

I can't remember if I have ever wined and dined a lady on our first meeting. But one evening I did take a woman and her friend on a night sail around Manila bay to watch the fireworks off the Mall of Asia.

Usually we meet in a neutral place so that either of us can bail out. We might have a coffee and a chat. On a couple of occasions I have bailed out. Then when the conversation goes into that pregnant pause stage, I ask her what she would like to do. Sometimes she just takes my hand and we head off to the hotel, sometimes she gets that expression on her face and I ask her if she wants to come with me, or sometimes I give her a face-saver and ask if she wants to watch some TV.

I don't think that one has ever bailed out at this stage, and usually she starts to strip off as we walk into the room. On a few occasions, we just lie on the bed and smooch for a while till she settles in, and then the dance begins.

It is my impression that when a pinay agree to meet with a foreigner, she has basically made up her mind that she is going to mate with him. A meeting before they begin gives her the option to opt out if she finds him repulsive. Otherwise, it is just a matter of steering things along, not aggravating her, and making sure that she saves face at alltimes.

Does anyone else think the same way?

Once you screen out the time wasters after a free meal the rest pretty much expect you to meat them when you meet them. :D

[Gaijin Gigolo]

it is my impression that when a pinay agree to meet with a foreigner, she has basically made up her mind that she is going to mate with him. a meeting before they begin gives her the option to opt out if she finds him repulsive. otherwise, it is just a matter of steering things along, not aggravating her, and making sure that she saves face at alltimes.

does anyone else think the same way?

yah, pretty much that's been my experience too. except for the handful i've met that turned out to be **** and were just curious to meet a foreign man. even they would have gone with me if i'd asked, i believe.

[Red Kilt]

I am puzzled by all you guys who claim to be scoring big with blank picture profiles.

While waiting for my pic to be approved on DIA I was getting exactly zero messages and just a few replies to my intro message. The moment the pic got approved, the messages start flooding in by the dozen. Most girls will go to "Last Active" page and click on a photo there and start messaging. Having no pic means you arent in that list and therefore invisible.

Not accusing you fellas of "embellishing" the truth, just curious whats going on.

Also a question to you. Do you message girls profiles that have a blank picture?

Remember that I said I live here and so I am not in any hurry. I don't need 100s of hits. 1 or 2 each day is plenty for me, although I get more than that.

You need a catchy name, and the profile heading should also be catchy. They see that even if there is no picture.

FBA. You are assuming that "most girls will go to the 'Last Active' page and click on a photo there" but just today I had 6 different women send me a message to my blank picture profile so that proves that certainly not all girls do it. I assure you I am not embellishing the truth.

As I said in my earlier post, I never message women. I just read profiles and wait for them to follow up on me. I also read profiles without pictures.

[Gangles]

I can't remember if I have ever wined and dined a lady on our first meeting. But one evening I did take a woman and her friend on a night sail around Manila bay to watch the fireworks off the Mall of Asia.

Usually we meet in a neutral place so that either of us can bail out. We might have a coffee and a chat. On a couple of occasions I have bailed out. Then when the conversation goes into that pregnant pause stage, I ask her what she would like to do. Sometimes she just takes my hand and we head off to the hotel, sometimes she gets that expression on her face and I ask her if she wants to come with me, or sometimes I give her a face-saver and ask if she wants to watch some TV.

I don't think that one has ever bailed out at this stage, and usually she starts to strip off as we walk into the room. On a few occasions, we just lie on the bed and smooch for a while till she settles in, and then the dance begins.

It is my impression that when a pinay agree to meet with a foreigner, she has basically made up her mind that she is going to mate with him. A meeting before they begin gives her the option to opt out if she finds him repulsive. Otherwise, it is just a matter of steering things along, not aggravating her, and making sure that she saves face at alltimes.

Does anyone else think the same way?

[Fast Buck Artist]

Quote Originally Posted by Amjeck View Post.

Why don't you have a Pic?

I am puzzled by all you guys who claim to be scoring big with blank picture profiles.

While waiting for my pic to be approved on DIA I was getting exactly zero messages and just a few replies to my intro message. The moment the pic got approved, the messages start flooding in by the dozen. Most girls will go to "Last Active" page and click on a photo there and start messaging. having no pic means you arent in that list and therefore invisible.

Not accusing you fellas of "embellishing" the truth, just curious whats going on.

Also a question to you - Do you message girls profiles that have a blank picture?

[Member #4491]

Ping me next time you are in town, I have to share my some of my FF I have a few lesbians who will do what you are asking.

Now THAT is a sales pitch. I knew it was a mistake to only book one evening in Cebu. I need to choose this evenings activities wisely.

Any chance you can PM me your number again?

B