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02-21-11 13:29 #3555
Posts: 165Originally Posted by Mortman [View Original Post]
My profile is very up front in that I quite clearly indicate that I am not looking for a serious relationship, and I do not put a picture up either. I still manage to harness quite a stable of eager young fillies prepared to sample my wares. If the girl who contacts me in DIA is not directly fuckable in that either she is not up for fun or butt ugly I have still managed to get dates with her friends, cousins, neighbours etc. And these ladies know exactly what the score is.
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02-21-11 09:42 #3554
Posts: 683You Don't Have to Quote the Whole Damn Thing
Originally Posted by Atlas57 [View Original Post]
Slim
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02-21-11 08:42 #3553
Posts: 19Cell phone
Originally Posted by Mortman [View Original Post]
Number 1 need for a monger in the Phillippines is a cell phone Boy did I learn my lesson
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02-20-11 23:45 #3552
Posts: 6840Out! Standing!
Originally Posted by Mortman [View Original Post]
Regarding the part above, about DIA not allowing cut / paste. I have found a trick. Try this. In your word processor, make three (3) short, generic messages, such as these. Save this file. Here are 3 examples:
* Hi my name is Bob. Loved your profile, sweet. Do you have YM I'd? Write back if you want to chat with me.
* My name's Bob. Your profile is very honest and sweet. Drop a message back and lets chat some. Do you YM?
* Your profile seems nice and you seem honest. Write back if you like to talk some with me. Can we YM? I'm thinking of coming to Philippines for a vacation.
Once in DIA, cut / paste the first one to the first girl. Then the second one to the second gal. Then the third one to the third gal. Then start with the first one above to the fourth gal. And so on. Works like a charm! I have found most girls don't bother reading what I write anyway, and most respond with their YM I'd in their first response.
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02-20-11 23:17 #3551
Posts: 391Originally Posted by Mortman [View Original Post]
I have known, and forgotten about the referral potential from the older women. A few have chatted me up in stores and suggested I meet their daughter / neice / whatever.
Also note that I am able to reply and quote your post without re-posting every para of this long report!
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02-20-11 21:20 #3550
Posts: 454Dia guide for newbies
DIA Guide.
Guys I have had a few PMs in the past from guys asking about DIA so I thought I would compile a brief guide to help out newbies. The Date in Asia website (dateinasia. Com) can provide a fertile hunting ground for Filipinas and I have been using it very successfully for the last 5 years. I thought I would write a brief guide about my own experiences, it is probably useful to those guys that have never used DIA and are thinking of coming to the Philippines to meet girls from the site. I guess the principles can be applied to other sites like Cherry Blossom and International Cupid though I use these far less than I use DIA. DIA contains pros, semi pros, part time pros, wanabee pros, scammers, cam girls, ladyboys and loads and loads of ordinary girls who just want a foreigner boyfriend no matter how old the guy is. If you are over the age of 60 and fat and ugly you have as much chance of hooking up with a beautiful 18 year old college student as anyone else if you have dollars in your pocket (or pounds or euros). I have used other websites to find girls but for some reason I have found DIA to be the best and it is also completely free to use.
The one problem with DIA is that it only allows you to post the same message about three times, so you cannot cut and paste the same message multiple times. The way round this is to prepare a generic message and change the beginning and end every few times and it usually works and is much faster than typing out messages each time you find a desirable girl that you want to communicate with.
There is no easy way to say this but using DIA requires lots of time and effort chatting to these girls to find the ones that you are keen on meeting. I first assess girls on looks and age and then send a message to introduce myself. Probably less than 1% will fail to reply at this stage. I then slowly introduce what it is I am looking for, through the exchange of three or four messages. Pros and semi pros will not be fazed with anything you say, but regular girls require a little more effort and patience if you are looking for something outside of their comfort zone, such as a threesome. Just introduce things to them very slowly but only once you have established some kind of rapport or on line relationship with them, patience is the key here. Most girls will not want to risk losing you and can be persuaded to do things they would not normally consider, but only after you have spent a long time cultivating them. I never pass on girls I meet from DIA despite numerous requests from other members. It is simply because I have usually invested hours and hours of on line work with the girls to ascertain who fits the very specific criteria that I am looking for. It is very subjective on my part but I am reluctant to hand these girls over to other members simply because I care about them and don't want them to be treated badly by guys I have never met. I know others don't agree with this principle, but then DIA is open to everyone to find their dream girl.
Always, always see the girl on cam first before meeting, photos can be very deceptive and even cams are not always reliable. 99. 9% of Filipinas use yahoo messenger and most will suggest using messenger within a couple of emails on DIA.
Yahoo is better than DIA as the DIA messaging system is slow and there is no facility to send instant messages. Most of the girls will have access to cams so you can get a better idea what they look like. Be careful if you are looking for cam sex, some girls who will be raging nymphomaniacs when you first meet, will be completely put off meeting you if you start asking them to undress on cam. I know it sounds perverse but that is the mind set you are dealing with here.
Some girls will ask for money, even girls who are genuine and not scammers may try their luck. My advice is DO NOT send money, there will never be a shortage of hard luck, sad and heart wrenching stories. The requests do not just come from scammers, many genuine and honest girls will try their luck to borrow some money from you, due to some domestic calamity that has befallen them.
Don't be put off with what girls state in their profile, the majority of the time it is nonsense. For example 'I am seeking a church going, god fearing, responsible and honest man, who wants to settle down into a loving relationship and who wants a family' still means there is a good chance you will have her panties off as soon as the hotel door is closed. It is all part of playing along with their illusions, just tread carefully don't shatter their dreams and they will often not let you down.
Now I think the biggest mistake guys make on DIA is not talking to the older ugly women of which DIA has its fair share. I have found these women to be a rich source of girls, ranging from their own daughters, to nieces, relatives and neighbours. Just locate women in the area you are visiting through the DIA search function and just drop them a line saying something like 'Hi I am visiting your area next month and I am looking for a nice girl in her early 20s who is looking for a boyfriend' you will be surprised at how many women these older ladies can produce for you. Some might try and insist on making a personal introduction and it will cost you the price of a Jollibees, which not much in my book if she is willing to introduce you to a nice hot 19 year old student (speaking from personal experience).
Many girls will often live in outlying provinces and will show their destination to the nearest big city. This invariably means at least one bus ride and or a couple of long jeepney rides to come and meet you. Most of the girls are dirt poor and do not even have the fare for a jeepney ride and it is not always so easy for them to borrow money to come and visit you. However if you do send money in advance, you must be prepared to risk losing it, as some girls will take the money and run. They fail to see the longer term financial benefits of meeting you and a small proportion will just keep the money. It has happened to me a couple of times, but that is two times out of about 20 times that I have sent money. If you refuse to send money to the girls in advance and the girls live a long way from your base, you must expect that a large percentage will not turn up. If they borrow the money and you fail to show, or reimburse them, they will not only lose face with their friends and family, they will have to suffer the humiliation of owing money they borrowed for their fare and with no means to pay it back. I have said this before and I will say it again, if the girl borrows her fare to meet you, for god's sake do the decent thing and turn up and give her back the money, even if you have changed your mind or found your dream girl elsewhere.
Remember that too many girls is never enough on DIA, so make sure you have dozens of contacts even if you think you have a handful of dead certainties. No matter how many months you spend chatting on line declaring undying love to each other, many girls will let you down at the last minute. It may be because their other foreigner bf has turned up unexpectedly, they have suddenly got cold feet, they are menstruating by the bucketful or any other possible reason under the sun. They will tell you that their auntie, mom, brother, sister is sick and that they are so sorry but they cannot leave to come and meet you. Just accept it as part of the game and don't take it personally.
When you do meet girls you need to be organised. 99. 9% of girls will fail to show up on time so I tend to leave my hotel only when they are actually at the venue that I have arranged to meet them at. They will call you with all sorts of bull shit stories like, sorry the traffic is bad (when they are actually at home still putting on makeup) or the taxi driver is lost. It used to enrage me when I first started coming to the Philippines, now I accept it as part of the culture. I have one regular girl in Cebu that I have known for years and she knows I hate poor timekeeping. I arranged to meet her at SM Mall when I was in Cebu in January and she was over one hour late. Once I knew she had arrived at the mall, I went for lunch and made her sit around for an hour waiting for me, just to see how she liked it.
NEVER NEVER allow the girl to meet you at the airport, no matter how beautiful she is or how much you (think) you love her. Once you do this your fun is over, your freedom is curtailed and you will have more luck trying to remove your head from the mouth of a hungry lion. Girls will often offer to meet you at the airport, but unless you have met the girl IN PERSON before, don't fall into this trap. Don't even tell them the name of your hotel, just tell them you will book somewhere when you arrive and always always meet for the first time at a neutral venue. If you ignore all my other advice, make sure you at least follow this one piece of advice.
No matter how well you know the girl and no matter how many months you have been chatting, the vast majority of girls, especially non pros, will want to bring along some moral support with them to your first meeting. This can range from one family or friend in tow, to the whole family including young babies, I kid you not. They will usually always be hungry and will usually expect a trip to McDonalds or Jollibees. The trick here is to minimize the damage to your wallet by insisting clearly before you meet that one friend or family member is acceptable, any more than that and you walk. Most girls will listen if you make this clear beforehand.
Now when you arrive in the Philippines if you do not get yourself a local sim card within 30 minutes of landing you can equate this to being like a hungry, blind, deaf and dumb man trying to order dinner at a restaurant. Lots has already been written on the merits of different providers, I use Globe but others reckon Sun is cheaper and better. IMHO it does not really matter so long as you make sure you have one. You cannot date girls in the Philippines without texting, so those of you thinking about going for the first time need to get used to this as a fact of life. If you are using DIA and have a few dozen girls lined up, my advice to you is just give your cell number out slowly till you have met up with a few girls first and discarded the ones you are not interested in. I was trying to be selective on my last trip and I was still getting around 3-4 hundred text messages per day at one stage. Just accept that you will spend many hours texting, there is no way to escape this dreary fact, it is the only way you can communicate with the girls. Most of their text messages will be utter rubbish, but they will still be hurt if you don't reply. Don't let it annoy you or it will really drive you crazy, just try to accept it as the Filipina way.
Hopefully this is useful to those not familiar with DIA. I have just started trying to find new girls ready for my next trip in June. I have a regular stable of about half a dozen DIA girls in the Philippines that I always see, but you can't beat new blood!
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02-20-11 18:46 #3549
Posts: 15942Originally Posted by Atlas57 [View Original Post]
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02-20-11 18:23 #3548
Posts: 289Originally Posted by Rampana [View Original Post]
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02-20-11 17:46 #3547
Posts: 13Originally Posted by Member #1088 [View Original Post]
If not, pm me please the YM adress and I do her in real soon, brother. Just to help you.
Thanks
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02-20-11 17:06 #3546
Posts: 108Originally Posted by Member #1088 [View Original Post]
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02-20-11 16:43 #3545
Posts: 289Maybe I just lucky
I been a user in DIA and FLIA for a few months now and something very strange happened to me. I get the regular amount of girls who just want money, some just marriage and so forth. I meet some of them and win some, lose some. Because I can not travel as much as other member I am usually a cam guy guy. Well anyway lately I been having maybe 1 or 2 virgins every week contact me thru my smiles / show interest in FLIA and DIA. Usually when there are virgins I just give them a wide turn, first because I not wish to de-virgin (too much work) and I am looking for someone who has done.
When I talk to them, I talk with respect and I think that is why the like me.
Well a month ago, just to chat, I chatted with this girl, first time I meet her, but we kind of connected in personality, well she was a virgin, I told her I look for a gf who can do more than just kiss and hugs, so I thought that was going to be it. She still wanted to be friends (as always :P ). So I called her. She just turned 19 last week before my call. Any way in the phone even so her English was not perfect, we were able to connect and get closer. I told her even so she was virgin, she can keep virginity and experience the enjoyment of sex, she said how so I told her I can teach over the phone. She said would it be safe? I said of course we have many miles between us, and she alone in her room.
Well anyway, I got her started by first touching her breast / nipples for a while, according to her, this was her first time, and I believed her. She told me she liked it and she never experienced this before. I asked her if her pussy was wet and she checked and said yes, so I asked her to touched her pussy.
Well anyway, she cum like 3 times and every time she said I don't believe it is so good. I was keep cheering her from the phone and get her ready for the next cum.
I told her next we will simulate my cock in her pussy, by inserting 2 fingers deep in her.
But not to do it until I told her to do so, just to touch with pussy again.
Once she got very excited, I told her to push, she scream and wanted to stop, but I keep ordering her to do it, I guess you have to talk with authority in this moment, well anyway, she pushed inside and broke her hymen for me.
Later on, I indicated how to push in and out and rub her clitoris with her small finger when she did, and even so it hurt, she was able to cum 3 more times.
She was so thankful for this. I asked her if she has any blood in her fingers and she said yes, so I then told her that she just gave me her virginity, which was a surprise to her.
When I go there, I want to see her, but also she is not afraid of sex anymore because already she gave me her virginity.
Well anyway one time would not be remarkable, but I am getting maybe one or two virgins per week, with similar stories. Some of them I got them to cam to cam, some only phone.
I think this is better if I get then de-virgin on the phone first before I meet them. Is not 100% but maybe middle 20.
Well anyway after I make them realized that they just gave me their virginity, some of the cried, some were surprised, some just very in pain some in joy, BUT all now feel that they belong to me and told me that they wish to learn everything from me.
I told them in real, I will make them drink my cum, put in ass and also take recording. All are willing to do anything because they wish to experience more.
Just wanted to know if anyone has similar experiences. I already broke with some of them and they found new bf which I guess needs to continue their training.
Well I know it sounds like a tall tale, but is not. Any advice from other members with similar situations would be appreciated.
Thanks
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02-18-11 09:00 #3544
Posts: 19Money
Originally Posted by Red Kilt [View Original Post]
One from the Pateros district in Manila and the other in Angeles. Met both women and visited their "homes" very depressing. I could see the money I was sending wasnt going to parties or clothes but to basic needs.
Although both girls needed my help, I wouldn't do it again until I met them. I will stop helping the Pateros girl It sems as though I have to support sister and father too. No way The Angeles girl was so sweet. She mever asked for anything while I was there but when I went to her home and saw how poor they were I took her to SM mall to buy what she needed. Now that I know a the angles girl well I wil continue to help her until her andher younger brother can get on their feet. These two girls seemed especially appreciative of my efforts but the others no way.
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02-17-11 05:15 #3543
Posts: 691Can I Trust You To Keep A Secrete?
Recieved this message on a filipina dating site today.
Can I Trust You To Keep A Secrete?
I'm Mrs Jessica Paul a widow and cancer patient I have to sell all my properties left by my husband because the doctors say I have less than 2months to live. I have deposited the funds of $five million which I sold from my properties and deposit into a Bank. I want you to help me use the funds to help the charity deaf and the motherless babies home before I die. If you are a good and honest person I shall give you the contact of the Bank and also the Deposit Certificate so as to claim my funds before my death. May the grace of our lord jesus the love of God and the fellowship of God be with you and your family. Do contact me and I will tell you more of what you wish to
Know. Till you reply me at [Email address deleted by Admin]
God bless you.
Yours in Christ,
Mrs. Jessica Paul.
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02-17-11 04:26 #3542
Posts: 130Originally Posted by Cunning Stunt [View Original Post]
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02-17-11 03:44 #3541
Posts: 3003Originally Posted by FreebieFan [View Original Post]