Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[GoodEnough]

No need to panic but valid points given that our targets are often young and fit where as we are quite often firmly in the high risk group.

Enjoy. G.

Plus I've read a few reports recently in the local press about foreigners—somehow feeling that they're above the law—getting arrested and jailed for violating the quarantine directives. In many places, you need a pass from the local government to be allowed out; you may only go out for medicinal visits, to buy medicines or to buy food; you must be prepared to show your pass and a government ID on request from a law enforcement official.

GE.

[Goferring]

Be careful breaking the social distancing and quarantine precautions, even with healthy appearing long term regulars. This is real and it is dangerous.

No need to panic but valid points given that our targets are often young and fit where as we are quite often firmly in the high risk group.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

The best strategy is to not put up with their bullsh*t, set clear rules for them and communicate those are the rules and they must comply if you are going to hand over money..... And often it is they are trying to humiliate you by making you run around in circles to get them.

Agreed. My theory is that there is no need to be a prick but there is no no need to be a soft touch either.

I can understand a girl being 30 minutes late in the chaos that is Manila or Cebu traffic but guys have complained about waiting in a Starbucks for hours for a no show. Best for John not to wait at all and tell her where he will be doing his normal daily chores then if she is late then she is the one that misses out not the guy.

Enjoy. G.

[Kabul Guy]

I had been chatting with a girl from Cebu. She was all ready to come down to where I am to spend the lockdown with me but got stopped and prevented from leaving Cebu City. We kept chatting and soon after that she started to complain of feeling sick. At first it thought that it would be followed by a plea for money to see the doctor, but she never asked for any help, even with the transportation to my place in the first place. I tried talking her into going to the doctor but she refused saying it was not that bad.

Her symptoms were classic coronovirus, fever, body ache and dry rasping cough. It has now been 3 days since she has responded or even opened my WhatsApp messages. I have sent her regular SMS messages and put 100 p on her phone just in case she ran out of load. I tried talking her into going to the doctor, but she refused saying it was not that bad. She also has not been on FC since we started chatting. Unless I hear from her, I am assuming the worst. She is healthy, nonsmoker and young so her odds if it is the virus are pretty good but not 100%.

I have no idea what it is but am strongly suspicious that she does have the virus. It definitely is not a scam as she has never even hinted about me sending money to her. I am hoping that she just has a regular illness or some other reason for being off line but I just don't know right now.

Be careful breaking the social distancing and quarantine precautions, even with healthy appearing long term regulars. This is real and it is dangerous.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

You really think this is the reason they disappear? These chicks are not masterminds. I think it is just because they are retarded. I get all the details worked out with this chick. At the end I say what time will you arrive. She then says sorry you are too far. I say okay and delete her. A few hours later she asks for the hotel name, but I don't know who it is so I asked who is this. She doesn't answer. 3 days later she says Hello, and again I ask who it is. She tells me and I say but you said I was too far. She then says sorry, you are close. Well bich I am busy now. Nobody is going through all this bullshit.

After a few years here you will see a pattern in these Flip machinations. Sometimes they are on the cp trying to feel out the best deal but often it's just they are just undecided or they are in circumstances that might make it questionable for them to arrive. The best strategy is to not put up with their bullsh*t, set clear rules for them and communicate those are the rules and they must comply if you are going to hand over money. Never ever send money ahead 9 times out of ten she will be laughing with her friends how she conned you out of your money. Don't waste your time with their BS. Make them put up or shut up. Sometimes, yes, it's just they are retarded. And often it is they are trying to humiliate you by making you run around in circles to get them.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

You left out the simplest one: If a punter doesn't like it then don't come back. Lots of guys here calling pinas stupid and deceitful and the country a lousy shit hole. But they still come back year after year. Now that's the definition of stupidity to me.

If it doesn't suit, for what ever reason, just go elsewhere. It's not rocket science. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

Believe it or not there area few good reasons to come back to the Philippines and specifically Dumbageteme. But P4P or women is not one of them.

Unlike many destinations in S. E. Asia (Pattaya comes to mind), it's much more friendly and accommodating here than other places and the people TRY to speak English. They are humble polite usually and peaceful.

I have had very few Filipinos get angry at me and that's saying something and sometimes I deserved it. I have had NO approaching violent confrontations with them except for an occasional clearly scamming Filipina in contrast to poriners here who I have almost come to blows with on several occasions.

They are mostly honest, at least when it comes to cut and dried money transactions (unlike Vietnam I have read).

Foreigners keep returning even though they travel all over the globe. This puzzled me at first as it's a one horse town with nothing special and poor mongering opportunities. These are the reasons. It truly is the land of gentle people, but as the current Corona hysteria shows they can be gentle and autocratic at the same time. And also they are not so gentle when you are competing against them for money, so a lot of this gentleness is a facade.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

Will wonders never cease. A totally free, rather new dating site, no gimmicks or catches. Seems geared mostly to older women looking for partners. Moslty women based in Western countries, which is a bummer. Lots of fuglies mixed in with about 10% still attractive women who are not fat, or ugly enough to scare a horse, but plenty of those too. Practically no detectable fake profiles. I have overcome their fake profile firewalls and made an account. But I have not put a photo up yet and if I do, it won't be me. For details see my recently updated blog easily found on usenet newsgroups on the Philippines and on p4 p, as well as on Reddit (corrupt company that censors) and other travel sites that do not censor. Cannot post it here because the mods here love to censor and probably would just delete it. This is the only totally free dating site that, after extensive searching is really free, except for DIA and S. A. (which I do not count since I have yet been able to defeat their blocks, but will eventually).

[TurdyCurdyOne]

I don't mean to be argumentative, but I've done just fine with DIA this month. One gal came over for ST and later suggested I give her sis a ride. Another DIA "date" said she had a friend and the friend turned out to be as cute as a button.

You do need to avoid naughty talk and you shouldn't bash the ladyboys. YMMV. X.

It depends on what you want. If you're just looking for short time or long time and are not kuripot, then, yeah you can find takers on DIA. The site rules however and the attitude of the admins there prohibit frank discussion of P4P, so I would guess you would lose your account frankly discussing it. I usually get them to chat with me on an alternative platform where the chat is truly private and uncensored. I have not had to do that in quite some time as my g / f keeps me supplied. I still would pay for an exceptionally hot Filipina, but Dumaguete those are few and far between unless your willing to stay up to 4 am and breath smoke filled air with deafening noise (please correct me if I am wrong, as I don't know everything) Recently they have closed down most of the strip clubs in Sibulan so that outlet is gone. Forget about the other place they hangout. Shabu using, drunk, fat, bad teeth and ugly, but cheap.

[X Man]

I don't mean to be argumentative, but I've done just fine with DIA this month. One gal came over for ST and later suggested I give her sis a ride. Another DIA "date" said she had a friend and the friend turned out to be as cute as a button.

You do need to avoid naughty talk and you shouldn't bash the ladyboys. YMMV. X.

[Sammon]

Talked to my pretty KTV hostess or in fact she contacted me and wanted to know when I am coming there. I told her I have post phoned my trip. She said hers and many KTV are closed because no more Japanese or Korean customers. She said she cannot go to her home province because lack of funds. This is from the girl who said she makes 5000 pesos every night without sex.

I jokingly asked her how much it will cost me to fuck her. She said whatever I give.

Things might change by the time everything settles down and I go there. Do want to spend time with her because she is very pretty on cam chatting, tall and right curves.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

Definitely. Had it for years an now done with DIA. Anyone have any Idea why some Tinder chicks put on their profile that they will be deleting their profile soon? These chicks are weird. No need to make an announcement, just delete the mf!

This could be a sign of desperation on their part. Same as vendors who falsely claim they have only one item left. Others are not serious and are quitters. Many on DIA think their p**ys are made of gold and you are going to chase all over the P. I. To meet them. The girls are especially narcissistic, especially if they are from towns like Dumaguete where there are tons of foreigners. Others are overly sensitive and cannot handle requests to see them naked or d**k shots.

[Goferring]

Picked up a tip from another ISG member for negotiating. Regardless of what they initially ask for I tell them sorry but my fun budget is 1 K per day plus fare....

Try sending them a photo of 1000 p next to your room key or on the hotel stationary: 'You left this in my room. When will you be back to collect it?

That sorts the wheat from the chaff. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

I love reading the reports of the bitter locales and visitors who can't even get laid in the Phils. I can only imagine your looks and mannerisms.

You left out the simplest one: If a punter doesn't like it then don't come back. Lots of guys here calling pinas stupid and deceitful and the country a lousy shit hole. But they still come back year after year. Now that's the definition of stupidity to me.

If it doesn't suit, for what ever reason, just go elsewhere. It's not rocket science. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

I think it is just because they are retarded. I get all the details worked out with this chick. At the end I say what time will you arrive. She then says sorry you are too far. I say okay and delete her. A few hours later she asks for the hotel name, but I don't know who it is so I asked who is this. She doesn't answer. 3 days later she says Hello, and again I ask who it is. She tells me and I say but you said I was too far. She then says sorry, you are close. Well bich I am busy now. Nobody is going through all this bullshit.

Everyone is welcome to spending their money as they see fit. However, you can't be surprised or annoyed when you make an art form of low balling prices and then a girl takes someone else's higher offer??

How is that retarded?

Cheers. G.

[ForkTruck]

You really think this is the reason they disappear? These chicks are not masterminds. I think it is just because they are retarded. I get all the details worked out with this chick. At the end I say what time will you arrive. She then says sorry you are too far. I say okay and delete her. A few hours later she asks for the hotel name, but I don't know who it is so I asked who is this. She doesn't answer. 3 days later she says Hello, and again I ask who it is. She tells me and I say but you said I was too far. She then says sorry, you are close. Well bich I am busy now. Nobody is going through all this bullshit.

Yep, That's another possibility, Or maybe they are negotiating with me and one or more other guys simultaneously trying to decide who they can get the most php from and deciding who is the most likely to be serious and make her score.