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[Cuba Tourist]

Just looking a friend , , , ";)

Unselfish, thoughtful and kind
Honest, faithful and trustworthy
Patient, sincere and forgiving
Modest, pure and chaste
Compassionate, caring and giving
Understanding, humble and secure.

A Real Woman...
Understands chastity
Values her sexuality
Appreciates her fertility
Controls her passions and desires
Never uses other people.
THAT'S ME!!!

[GoodEnough]

You may be right. The Phil is a good country for exacerbating paranoia as there are so many bad things about the place. It's overpriced, highly corrupt with alot of scamming, hypocrisy and a disregard for poriners whose value only lasts as long as their money. Once you're money is gone, you're just an interloper who they would rather be rid of.

There's a lot of wisdom in this post, and guys who really don't know the country should pay attention to it. As I've said in a prior post, some people (mostly newbies) think, after a few days in country that they "understand" the place, cause most people speak at least a little English, and in some respects in can appear Westernized. The fact is, the Westernization facade is quite shallow, and the country is just as opaque as other SE Asian countries.

It's easy to land in jail here, and it's easy to fall for scams, which is why it's wise never to call any attention to yourself and never to act on pure impulse.

It's not really so much that they "would rather be rid of" us. It's that, at a certain stratum of society, they will seize any opportunity to extort money from anyone...Filipino and foreigner alike. It's a very poor country with lots of desperate people and thoroughly corrupt officials.

GE

[Gangles]

I came across her profile back in May.

At that time she was saying that she was up for everything.

So, people change, maybe she has discovered her true self.

G

[Wicked Roger]

Well she sounds very agressive on DIA, maybe her profile is too well written so read it carefully as some are written by the boyfriend/toerag/a**hole etc depending on the relationship

Maybe a tad chubby for some of you wimps out there (Bopalula springs to mind?) but if you are submissive then I doubt you care :D

hot_openminded_woman is the ID

Let us all know if you sample......;)

[Wicked Roger]

I never go over 22 normally, but I'll be damned if I did not have myself both a 28 year old and a 30 year old this trip. Both upper class with their own car, etc. Nice to have an intellectual exchange, but not to be confused with being better than the defloration of a tight 19 year old. Just different. These older girls in general seem more open to experimenting with getting cum shot up their ass as well as their fanny.

Barba

I just stick witt the first sentence and never have trouble getting the girls to experiment...must be the way I smile at them :D Or the fact I look harmless and conservative when we meet ;) Unlike a few monger I know......

Sorry we missed each other hopefully soon we will have the same schedules

[Member #4491]

I never go over 22 normally, but I'll be damned if I did not have myself both a 28 year old and a 30 year old this trip. Both upper class with their own car, etc. Nice to have an intellectual exchange, but not to be confused with being better than the defloration of a tight 19 year old. Just different. These older girls in general seem more open to experimenting with getting cum shot up their ass as well as their fanny.

[Fast Buck Artist]

Check out miss fem20 on DIA, sounds like one for you pervs

Hug me I'll show you happy on bed

I'm naughty

I want to meet a Male

With age from 20 to 50

And I want to meet for Friendship, Romance, Marriage or Other.

I want hard all time

[Member #4351]

This trip has made me even more convinced that if some guy wants to get married, the PI is the place to find a wife. I have never seen so many girls groomed to get married to anything as long as the utang is sent every month. For someone who doesn't care much about intellectual conversation, but is happy having a cutie who lives to do housework and have kids, this is the place to find the perfect wife. I used to think that Peruvian chicas would make the best wives, but the Pinays have them beat, IMHO.

Not that I'm considering getting married, but I don't live in sex prison U.S.A. either.

[Wicked Roger]

Put your mind at ease Wicked Roger. No competition from me and I will not even impact your Viagra market as I don't need it. I rarely even chat with women under 35 years of age there.

instead of arriving, blowing all my money on tourist pricing, booze, and sex with young girls only to have to return home to make money for my next trip as is the routine of most foreigners coming there.

TC

That is exactly what I do :)....blow my cash but not on booze just cuties and then return home and do it all again as soon as possible :D Good that you go the over 35s as leaves the young cuties to me and others ....yummy

Marrying and finding a wife....lots of chatter on this but take your time, enjoy the variety beofre you chose...try and make sure she is kinky, not jealous, likes to be naughty etc ...well that is my advice :) Many ignore it for some reason :(

[Fast Buck Artist]

i would rather be paranoid and cautious then wind up in a phil. jail, have to pay bribes to pigs, or worse. in fact, those things usually happen to poriners who think they know the country and get too relaxed, usually under the influence of too much drink and their little heads doing all the thinking.

while such occurences are rare, i have known personally several foreigners who ended up in a filipino prison without much trial or due process, so taking some precautions is certainly a good idea.

you need a trustworthy lawyer or a friend familiar with filipino justice system who can come to your rescue if you get locked up. while you are inside your ability to help yourself is very limited so you will really need outside help. you should also have an emergency fund of 50,000 pesos put aside for bail/bribes/getting help.

and most importantly, dont stir up trouble.

- dont get caught with **** women or in a [CodeWord123] type situation
- dont get into fights, concealed weapons are common here, from flick knives to handguns
- dont get involved in politics, land disputes or any of the local squabbles for power
- avoid the police, and bribe them if they pick on you, for minor offenses 200 pesos should do, going up depending on the transgression committed

[TurdyCurdyOne]

You may be right. The Phil is a good country for exacerbating paranoia as there are so many bad things about the place. It's overpriced, highly corrupt with alot of scamming, hypocrisy and a disregard for poriners whose value only lasts as long as their money. Once you're money is gone, you're just an interloper who they would rather be rid of.

I once asked a smart Filipina why it is that Filipinos frequently elect someone with great enthusiasm and then turn around a few years later to riot and try to hang the same guy by his thumbs from the nearest utility pole. Her answer was that Filipinos only are loyal to you as long as your bringing home the bacon. Once that stops your just another bas*tard they need to get rid of.

Put your mind at ease Wicked Roger. No competition from me and I will not even impact your Viagra market as I don't need it. I rarely even chat with women under 35 years of age there. Perhaps I am stupid but I was hoping to find a good woman to marry there instead of arriving, blowing all my money on tourist pricing, booze, and sex with young girls only to have to return home to make money for my next trip as is the routine of most foreigners coming there.

I would rather be paranoid and cautious then wind up in a Phil. jail, have to pay bribes to pigs, or worse. In fact, those things usually happen to poriners who THINK they know the country and get too relaxed, usually under the influence of too much drink and their little heads doing all the thinking.

I will endeavor to put an end to this thread as the main purpose of this forum is trying to get laid without too much regard to long term consequences.

Best you avoid PI like the plague if you are as paranoid as this and lets more seasoned visitors like myself and those who live in PI handle the 'difficult' matter of virgins and pussy.

Get a life and come to PI and have fun, if you worry about all these things even a massive V and C cocktail will not help you rise to the occasion :D

Try Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam but clearly PI is not a place for someone who worries like you do...

[Wicked Roger]

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*i think if a video tape of the lady showing that no promises were made and that any lies made by the family are not true might not be given weight by the authorities unless of course it were made public on the media, which is who i would send it too if false claims of [CodeWord123] arose. i know i am being a bit paranoid, but be prepared is my motto.

best you avoid pi like the plague if you are as paranoid as this and lets more seasoned visitors like myself and those who live in pi handle the 'difficult' matter of virgins and pussy.

get a life and come to pi and have fun, if you worry about all these things even a massive v and c cocktail will not help you rise to the occasion :d

try thailand, cambodia, vietnam but clearly pi is not a place for someone who worries like you do...

[TurdyCurdyOne]

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having you deported is little more than a threat. its hard for locals to get the attention of (corrupt) immigration officials. locals don't have money for bribes. its not so easy to get deported (they have to find you, toss you in a craphole jail, have a hearing, etc). if it were the case of locals in the province having a foreign bf deported every time they got mad, there would be tens of thousands of these yearly, and we'd all stop going there. relax.

*ok, thanks for the info.

its not necessarily exaggerated to them, especially if they are provincial girls. there is a cultural difference here. there is (or can be) a real danger for a young provincial girl to have her first foreign boyfriend show up, spend time, then leave, without talk of marriage or another visit geared towards marriage. even if she doesn't have sex with you, if she goes to your hotel for even a few hours, she will be seen by folks in her town as sleeping with you. if she was known prior to your visit as a virgin, she will have lost that reputation on your departure. this represents a minority of girls. most are glad to spend time with you, and are more than willing to sleep with you. but for some, yes, they see the purpose of your visit as to solidify the relationship with her and her family to marry.

*guess i forgot to state they are all older, not chasing any virgins or similar.

the contract, the recorded chat sessions, none of that will help. the contract may not be legally binding in the first place. even if it was, it won't help. its not that you are a foreigner and don't have rights (you do), but you have as few legal rights as citizens there (their legal rights are ignored also, just like yours will be). a girl having you sign a contract promising to marry her there would have the same legal recourse: not much.

*i think if a video tape of the lady showing that no promises were made and that any lies made by the family are not true might not be given weight by the authorities unless of course it were made public on the media, which is who i would send it too if false claims of [CodeWord123] arose. i know i am being a bit paranoid, but be prepared is my motto.

[FreebieFan]

there is a well publicised case of an american military guy called daniel smith who picked up a drunk girl in subic had sex with her and she filed a [CodeWord123] charge case for which he spent 3 years in jail.. the conniving woman, after she already left philippines and settled her whoring ass with some sugar daddy in usa, has admitted the [CodeWord123] allegations were a fabricated crock. so be careful what you do, deportation may be a blessing compared to that ordeal.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...niel_sm-1.html

there is of course another version of the story, whereby the us government quietly waited 3 months till after the trial then speedily processed her us visa/residency application and thereafter she recanted her story once in possession of her papers as part of the deal.

no one hear knows what really happened. but whatever did, theres no disputing the fact that the sailor had sex in the back of the van with her, whilst his mates all watched then dumped her on the pavement so he wouldn't be late getting back to the ship.

really classy well bought up kid he was.

[Fast Buck Artist]

its not so easy to get deported (they have to find you, toss you in a craphole jail, have a hearing, etc).

there is a well publicised case of an american military guy called daniel smith who picked up a drunk girl in subic had sex with her and she filed a [CodeWord123] charge case for which he spent 3 years in jail.. the conniving woman, after she already left philippines and settled her whoring ass with some sugar daddy in usa, has admitted the [CodeWord123] allegations were a fabricated crock. so be careful what you do, deportation may be a blessing compared to that ordeal.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...niel_sm-1.html