Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[FreebieFan]

I was thinking about a discussion here the other day about the risks faced by married/LTR guys placing their face on dating & social web sites.

Apart from the obvious of just googling, you guys better hope your spouses/GF's dont see this!

http://namechk.com/

Checks 80 of these websites all at once GULP!

AV

Yes. Theres a few of these type sites. Which shows why some of us use fake names all over the place.

[Amavida]

I was thinking about a discussion here the other day about the risks faced by married/LTR guys placing their face on dating & social web sites.

Apart from the obvious of just googling, you guys better hope your spouses/GF's dont see this!

http://namechk.com/

Checks 80 of these websites all at once GULP!
AV

[GregLondon]

I can't remember anyone mentioning person.com as a way of getting Filipina contacts. I met a guy in the hotel I'm in Angeles now who said it was the main thing he used and had had good success.

It does seem to have alot of functionality and is free to search and contact, with plenty of Filipinas . They can load up to 100 pics, lots of cam intregration.

It looks fun.

This guy had lined up several hot dates in various parts of the Phils. However
didn't have anyone in Angeles. Last night my gf had a text from her freeind who said she had seen us walking around town and wondered if she could come for a threesome as she needed some cash for the rent. I said fine for P500 and she turned out to be a little hottie with a lovely body and nice tits. I told him my gf would text her for him and 10mins later she was there at the poolside complete with very sexy swimming costume. They went off to his room and when we met up for dinner a few hours later he said he had done her 4 times and was now scrapping his plan to meet a 19 year old virgin in Cebu.

The moral of this tale, is that the dating sites can be time consuming but fun but in te Phis there are so many girls that it is easy enough to rely on serrendipity.

[Gangles]

Just reading through the posts, it looks like some are having the same problem that I had of keeping track of who/where/phone etc.

I mostly use Cherry Blossoms, which has a decent search engine, and I have a Match setup also. So I get daily emails with lists of girls who meet my "Match" specifications.

I have set up a photo database, with girls files numbered from 1 to whatever. I also have a spreadsheet with name, identifier, age, location, height/weight code, phone, email etc. The phone and email are just Y or N for if I have her number and email address.

And I have a Word document space for copies of their profile data.

When I find an interesting target, I open a new folder for her photo(s) with the next folder number, and copy her photos. This photo folder number is then her unique ID.

I copy her profile data into the Word document, listed alphabetically, with her heading being her name, height/weight code and unique identifier. And other important info she subsequently sends me I add below the profile.

I enter her info into the spreadsheet, listed by name, alphabetically.

This is a bit time consuming, but if I am planning to go to cebu, I can search for girls in Cebu for whom I have phone and email. I text first, about 3 weeks before I go there, then phone, using Skype, and some emails. may chat on YM, but I view YM as being very inefficient..

This generally works, certainly in setting up the contacts. But whether she shows or not is another matter, and whether she jumps into the pit with me depends on the usual variables. But the system means that I can set up a meeting, with one or two levels of backup. So it is rare that I do not have company for the night.

It sounds like a lot of work, but I am back and forth to the Phils fairly regularly, and stay for several weeks at a time. And I very much prefer local girls to P4P.

G

[Puerto La Cruz]

ROTFLMAO

I had this crap in Manila. I simply pulled out my SIN card (have a fully-loaded SMART/BUDDY clip) and enjoyed the peace & quiet. So much easier with the P4P at LA Cafe.

Precisely. I have never carried a phone with me in the Phils. The first couple days there, I just get P4P at LA Cafe or elsewhere and then I bring a girl along to wherever else I'm going there. Hell, I'm on vacation and don't want to be bothered with that.

[Lustforthrust]

When you eventually sort out who is who in the texts you try to line them up for say a 10am meet for girl (A) & 4pm for girl (B). But girl (A) is running late with several delay's & girl (B) suddenly has to change her plans & come earlier... Lots of txt's flying back & forth. Its lunch time by now.. In the middle of all this you get a txt from another unknown # 'i out of load i barrow my sis cp i come na'. So you are back into a long series of txt's with vague answers trying to establish who "I" is. Finally you nail one of them down to a place & time on that day and then she does not show after all.. Mutiply this by say 5 or 10 girls & you see how difficult it can be.

ROTFLMAO

I had this crap in Manila. I simply pulled out my SIN card (have a fully-loaded SMART/BUDDY clip) and enjoyed the peace & quiet. So much easier with the P4P at LA Cafe.

[GregLondon]

Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
Im a Mac user & did what you said.

.........

Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV

I think you are absolutely right that it becomes very confusing after a while. What I do is (1) when i add the girls no to my cell i use as consistent format eg First name age city then code for various attributes eg v for virgin, u for it up fro it, h for hot or whatever.

eg Cathy 19 Cebu H U

In my YM I change there names according to this format as son as possible.

I also set up a database in Filemaker Pro with fields for their various details plus my assessments. It's also good as you can paste pics in etc. I'm using a mac and Filemaker Pro is probablythe only decent database program for Macs. Windows users also have Access which comes with the more advanced types of MS Office.
If you are just planning a one off 5 day trip it would be a waste of effort to set up such a database, but if you do alot of this type of thing, its a very useful tool. The main pain is setting the thing up initially. Once you have your template to your liking its then easy. You probably also have to be reasonably computer literate to set up a database.
Both Filemaker Pro and Access are expensive paid for programs but are widely available fpor download via the Pirate Bay torrent portal. If you are not used to bit torrent just download a free bit torrent client such as utorrent for Windows or Transmission for Mac search fro the right torrent then it should download quite quickly depending on the popularity of the file. mac users should also download the latest monthly update of serialbox from Pirate bay (a database of serial numbers for mac programs), in many cases they wil have seria numbers fro the software you are interested in and you just download the trial version from the vendor site and add the serial.

[Lustforthrust]

First, IMHO don't let a girl book your room.

Second, you can always cut them loose by saying you have to meet some friends for dinner or drinks. Then bring the other girl in.

Have you been in the PI before?

Robb

I was in the Philippines in November. Had just one DIA chic - had a lot of trouble cutting her loose; weeping, crying and other womanly stuff that is unfairly used against men.

I paid $310/night for my suite at the Hyatt - I don't think any Filipina could do that booking and I stayed there 5 nights. Had a great time with hookers from LA cafe; never once went into that gas chamber, grabbed A listers before they went in to smell like shit.
The most I paid was $30, usually $20, all short-term.

I have changed my approach at DIA, an approach that seems to be far more successful than in November. I do not post a picture there, so I start with kind of a disadvantage.

[GregLondon]

Guys,

I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.

I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.

My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.

I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.

Suggestions?

There are so many girl in Cebu who are up for it it would be a shame to keep to just one unless you are the very romantic type.

Many Philippinas will prefer to set you up with a friend or cousin for the night or have a threesome rather than risk you dumping her for another one. I would suggest that the way to deal with it is to tel them that you have a very strong sexual appetite and really want to try more than one girl and has she had a threesome before. if the answer is positive then see if she can come up with a suitable girl otherwise say you'll find one (she'll much prefer to get a friend/cousin involved.)

As an illustration I was chating with a girl on DIA yesterday who said that she had just droped her bf off at the airport having spent a month with him. I was asking her to join me and my girl for a threesome she said she was a little tired that day. She said she had no problem though. Infact during her vf's stay she lined up a 5 some with 3 of her freinds with him and was vey proud that he was able to satisfy them all.

[Genghois]

Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
So you get in a long series of txt's back & forth trying to get them reveal who they are without making it obvious. You notice your P500 load that looked so generous is quickly burning up... Its not uncommon to nail down girl (A) location to say Pasig in Manila & girl (B) to say, quezon city manila before arrival. Then you get the vague txt's from unknown #'s. You try to ID the txt'er subtly by txt'ing them 'is it hot in pasig?' you get a long series of vague replies and eventually find that girl (A) was never in Pasig in the first place (long drawn out story about why she told you this) then find girl (B) is somewhere else (another complicated story).
At one stage I thought of putting together a spreadsheet or database with enough fields to cross reference all the names & numbers. Then I realised it was all becoming too much like work! Im decided i was supposed to be having fun and to hell with it.
Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV

Love your post. I don't disagree with a word you said. And I know you have more experience in Phil than I.

But don't discourage us short time visitors, too much. For all of the time-wasting YM and texting there is to be done, there are still a few diamonds to be found, through this method. Hit and miss, for sure, but I think it's better than showing up with nothing on board.

Take care, man! Your input is always appreciated.

[Amavida]

Actually the thing I'm most scared of, rather than being found on a website, is what hapened to me about 3 months back.

Was waiting around Market Market, for my "pick up" Was standing admiring a few cute ones and generally smiling when I get a " Hello Uncle XYZ ".

Turned around and theres two 19-21 year olds who I vaguely recognise. Wifes sisters daughters. Hadnt seen them in years. But they sure recognised me. Phew. Had that cold sweat running down my back for a while.

Jesus! I would have turned to stone FF! :) You just KNOW that your siting will be reported back & you better have a good excuse why you were there hehehe.
This is a reason why I avoid liasons outside of all but the biggest cities in PI, because of the risk of bumping into people. Even in manila, a huge conurbation of miliions of people this can happen especially if you frequent areas where relatives may live.
AV

[Amavida]

You ca just rename the contact eg "Cheryl 19 Cebu" in YM so that this shows up in your account rather than her real username

I use the MAC version where what you do is Contacts Get info then type in the new name you want.

I think in the WIndows version you need to bringup the contacts option and rename it from there.

Greg i have found the task of keeping track of 'who is who' quickly becomes very time consuming.
Im a Mac user & did what you said.

I found girls use a name in the dating website 'cheryl2' when u chat them on the site they say there name is joni can u meet me on ym? My ym is mary5. You ask to email them & they say its jane6@gmail. You get their cell number & txt them but they reply from another number without idenifying themselves or they inform you that their cp needs repair so they borrow their brothers cp (cue violin music). So you now have at least 4 different monikers and possibly 2 phone numbers for each girl.

Cell phone numbers : How many times have you guys had a list of chicks to txt, arrived in country sent a txt to #1 choice on your list but received several txt's from an unknown #'s with no identifying info "hi want me 2 go der na?" Etc.

So you get in a long series of txt's back & forth trying to get them reveal who they are without making it obvious. You notice your P500 load that looked so generous is quickly burning up... Its not uncommon to nail down girl (A) location to say Pasig in Manila & girl (B) to say, quezon city manila before arrival. Then you get the vague txt's from unknown #'s. You try to ID the txt'er subtly by txt'ing them 'is it hot in pasig?' you get a long series of vague replies and eventually find that girl (A) was never in Pasig in the first place (long drawn out story about why she told you this) then find girl (B) is somewhere else (another complicated story).

When you eventually sort out who is who in the texts you try to line them up for say a 10am meet for girl (A) & 4pm for girl (B). But girl (A) is running late with several delay's & girl (B) suddenly has to change her plans & come earlier... Lots of txt's flying back & forth. Its lunch time by now.. In the middle of all this you get a txt from another unknown # 'i out of load i barrow my sis cp i come na'. So you are back into a long series of txt's with vague answers trying to establish who "I" is. Finally you nail one of them down to a place & time on that day and then she does not show after all.. Mutiply this by say 5 or 10 girls & you see how difficult it can be.

Even when you are upfront with them about wanting to meet other women they can really dick you around & waste a lot of your time. It seems common for pinays to 'borrow' cousins/sisters email address's, YM's & cell phones.

Another time waster is the habit of putting their province home as their location in their profiles when they are actually somewhere else. You do a trawl through say CB looking for hot looking girls in say Cebu because thats where you are going next. You launch a chat session to try to verify location & get their YM so u can see them on cam to verify their looks. You get a long series of vague answers in chat eventually learning that she is not studying nursing in cebu but is in fact living at her grandmothers house in zamboanga 'because i have no money na' - cue the violin music... Rinse & repeat over & over..

At one stage I thought of putting together a spreadsheet or database with enough fields to cross reference all the names & numbers. Then I realised it was all becoming too much like work! Im decided i was supposed to be having fun and to hell with it.

Im not saying you cant get some very nice scores through the web sites but it can quickly eat up your time. Once you have visited here you realise how absurdly easy it is to pull chicks and you drop the web sites mostly. Its fun to poke my nose in occasionally with a pleasant results sometimes.
AV

[Genghois]

You ca just rename the contact eg "Cheryl 19 Cebu" in YM so that this shows up in your account rather than her real username

I use the MAc version wher what you do is Contacts Get info then type in the new name you want.

I think in the WIndows version you need to bringup the contacts option and rename it from there.

Thanks, Greg. I was going to send you a PM on this one, but it is good information for everyone.

[Robbaf]

Guys,

I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.

I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.

My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.

I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.

Suggestions?

First, IMHO don't let a girl book your room.

Second, you can always cut them loose by saying you have to meet some friends for dinner or drinks. Then bring the other girl in.

Have you been in the PI before?

Robb

[Lustforthrust]

Guys,

I've been sending invitations on DIA and I got scores of #s, some want to bring their cousins, some wished me luck, some very abusive, some were silent.

I got 2 strong candidates to accompany me for the duration of my visit (about 5 days). One of them went out of her way to look for suitable accomodation and she's pretty. The other one looks prettier and is game too and wants me to call her to organize stuff - I'm not calling anyone yet.

My question is how do I do them both, assuming ofcourse that this is real and will pan out.

I think I'm begining to have "oneits" (one woman man, disease) and want to resist that.

Suggestions?