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[Cunning Stunt]

Im staggered to find I STILL get chicks hitting on me regularly.

No bloody wonder these chicks are so suspicious & distrustful!
Its a no holds barred free for all it seems with Pinays.
The have no compunction about poaching a guy from another chick.

I'm surprised that you are surprised. It really is a buyers market out there, with guys been the buyers. I read somewhere that some enormous proportion of the Philippine population (?60-70%) are aged under 30 and that girls outnumber boys by an also not inconsiderable degree. Wish I had the article and stats to hand so I could quote the correctly. Maybe one of the Philippine ISG intellectual stalwarts (?GE) will remember and know the figures.

Guess this is why girls are so savagely competitive to avoid being 'left on the shelf'.

[Cunning Stunt]

Nice tits on that one, thanks for sharing GH. Im sure you enjoyed doing her as much as I would ;)

Thanks but think you must have been looking at the pic of the scam girl who wasn't Pinay. The cutey from yesterday had itsy bitsty, teeny weeny titties, but you know that more than a handful is a waste;).

Your right about the western sexual mores. It seems as though as soon as a guy hits 40, he should mysteriously transmogrify from being a horny young stud into a near celibate who should be satisfied by a once weekly (or monthly), rapidly completed, bounce atop the dogsbreath and strife. A lot of my friends and contemporaries back home are happy with this and sometimes less. Those that know of my lifestyle out here either don't believe me or are green with envy:D.

[Amavida]

I still find myself wrongly assuming Pinays think/behave like western chicks.
Been experimanting with putting up profile page that for myself that is OBVIOUSLY lovie-dovie with a joint photo of the happy couple to gage the response.

Im staggered to find I STILL get chicks hitting on me regularly.

No bloody wonder these chicks are so suspicious & distrustful!
Its a no holds barred free for all it seems with Pinays.
The have no compunction about poaching a guy from another chick.

It seems it does'nt matter WHAT you put on your profile.. if you have a heart beat & a wallet you are fair game!

What thinks ye lad's?

AV

[Amavida]

i would be cautious about plastering your photo on one of the dating only sites such as dia. after all, what other reason, apart from chasing pussy, could you have for being there? the social networking sites such as friendster, my space and tagged are much safer in that you could concoct relatively valid reasons for joining … i.e making online friends, posting photos for family etc.

agreed & seconded.

speaking of tagged, i joined several weeks ago... had plenty of bites but most have had to be thrown back for various reasons relating to age, body shape (fat) or looks.

thats been my experience also gh. i put up an innocent tagged page 2 weeks ago & got plenty of unsolicited bites most of which were.. ahem.. below my expectatiions.. ;) a couple looked very tasty. i feel dia & tagged are great value. friendster i avoid - whilst full of honeys, just too popular as a pick up site amongst pinays to look innocent there.
btw number 1 gf 'discovered' my tagged page & immediately went nuclear & demanded its removal hehehe :) she's not stupid! since im already well catered for in the carnal department at the moment i let it slide.

but finally took the plunge last week and met two likely lasses.. that looked reasonably good bets. the first was a 32 year old,.. we have agreed to meet again and she says that she would like to get to know me better;). suspect (and hope) that this means carnally.

tally ho mate! :d

the next liaison definitely comes under the latter category. this was a 19 year old, rather tasty but rep001ty bint that i met and treated to lunch yesterday... found her delightful, if a little weird..

i really love doing these kinds of dipsy hippie chick types!

had a few boyfriends including a 60 year old swedish guy who sends her p10,000 a month and that she likes older men.

yes im sure she bloody does, when these guys are so stupid to assume fidelity from a fuck toy 19yr old!

... in a trice i had whipped her off to eurotel where i proceeded to show her that an old dog know all the best tricks

nice tits on that one, thanks for sharing gh. im sure you enjoyed doing her as much as i would ;)

yet again, life in the philippines continues to delight and astonish me. could you, in your wildest wet dreams, imagine a similar thing happening back home?

too right cobber! an occasional trip back to oz gives ma a bloody big wake up call.. smile at a 19yr old hottie there, she slaps you & calls you a dirty old man. smile at a 19yr old hottie here, she smiles back & offers her cp #. incredible!

thanks again for sharing gh
av

[Mr Hawaii]

Maybe she 32-26-36. Or close to that. I don't think she means size 36 jeans and 36" waist!!! 36" hips, OK.

[GregLondon]

Curious as to how much the various scamsetrs one encounters make per week on DIA etc.

I asked one cam girl I got to know a bit and she claimed that she only made 500P a week after the agency took is cut - which seemed unrealistically low.

A friend of mine has got a very cute and wonderfully fun (and even better bisexual) fiancee through DIA. He actually met her on his second day in the Phils when having had a disappointing encounter with a girl he had been cultivating fpr several months, went to a net cafe and saw her on line. it turned out that it wasn't actually her on line but some ladyboy freinds of hers who were using her photo but after some confusion they put him in touch with her and hes been with her 3 years now. She said that her Ladyboy friends are online over 12 hours a day trying scams and that they usually get one or two big hits a week - where some dumb American guy sends them P20 -40k to allow them to "finish their nurse training" or such like. This seems on the high side to me. Anyine else have dfeedback on this one? I think one has to differentiate the cam girls who are actually providinga service 9even if te ones offering a free voew as long as you sign up and put your credit card details through age verification etc are doing it dishonestly. From the various scams asking for plane ticket, bus fare money finishing college, burrying grandmother etc etc.

[Amavida]

So when you say hide the profile, what do you mean?

Sites like CB (Cherry Blossoms) & DIA Date In Asia) for example have a 'hide profile' setting in their account screen (Gee i wonder why?). Your profile is temporarily hidden from public view. Hide & unhide as the need arises but dont leave it up for prolonged periods.

Yes, my wife is super distrustful and jealous when it comes to me and other women.

In that case its only a matter of time before your Pinay wife discovers your online activities either herself or by a relative/friend.

GH has some good suggestions in a following post about sticking to 'friend' (Tagged, Hi5, Freindster etc etc) sites & avoiding 'dating sites' (CB, DIA, FH etc). You will have to put in a LOT of effort to make your profile page look innocent as GH say's & remain vigilant to that none of your , er 'friends', posts a juicy comment there.

Even so your Pinay wife is going to be livid. FS & Tagged are well know as 'flirting/pickup places' amongst singles. She's not stupid mate!

Congratulations if you have gotten away with it up to this point. Enjoy it while it lasts.

AV

[Cunning Stunt]

i would be cautious about plastering your photo on one of the dating only sites such as dia. after all, what other reason, apart from chasing pussy, could you have for being there? the social networking sites such as friendster, my space and tagged are much safer in that you could concoct relatively valid reasons for joining … i.e making online friends, posting photos for family etc. her indoors, if she found out (unlikely), might be suspicious but with no proof of nefarious activities (make sure that you have a few older 50+ women and guys amongst your friends – not all nubile 18 year olds:d), what can she do? oh, the tangled webs we weave ….

speaking of tagged, i joined several weeks ago, after reading about it here and have been dangling my juicy worm ever since. had plenty of bites but most have had to be thrown back for various reasons relating to age, body shape (fat) or looks. had one interesting case of cyber stalkery in which a 48 year old fugly bombarded me with those annoying tags and countless messages of undying love. she seems to have gone quiet so maybe she has been returned to the asylum. another girl asked me to contact her by email and then sent me an interesting message which had little head springing to attention, together with some even more interesting photos (have a look). well, i never!! guess it was a scam or trying to entice me onto a pay site, or something.

but finally took the plunge last week and met two likely lasses, that looked reasonably good bets. the first was a 32 year old, rather plump but in all the right places, but otherwise rather tasty. we met for a rather pleasant glass of wine and merienda at a atc wine bar. purely platonic and nothing came of it, but we have agreed to meet again and she says that she would like to get to know me better;). suspect (and hope) that this means carnally. i reckon that she is married as she was a little evasive about her status, so maybe she is after a little fling. hope so, but if not, no problem, as she is rather sweet and to keep his feet on the ground a chap needs a few platonic lady friends amongst all of the fuck buddies.

the next liaison definitely comes under the latter category. this was a 19 year old, rather tasty but rep001ty bint that i met and treated to lunch yesterday. she immediately told me that she thought i was phil collins (not looked like …was, anyway is this a complement or an insult and what is a 19 year old doing being a fan of mr collins?). i immediately thought …’eyup …got a right one here’, but persisted and found her delightful, if a little weird (i seem to attract them like a cookie magnet ..the nutter on the bus always sits next to me). for some reason we got onto the subject of sex (what a surprise) and she told me that she lost her virginity at 14, had had a few boyfriends including a 60 year old swedish guy who sends her p10,000 a month and that she likes older men. well this was my cue and in a trice i had whipped her off to eurotel where i proceeded to show her that an old dog know all the best tricks. i wasn’t sure whether this was a p4p encounter or not so offered her a bluey as taxi money. she wasn’t offended and took the money with thanks, but i got the impression that a kiss and a bar of hersheys would have made her just as happy.

yet again, life in the philippines continues to delight and astonish me. could you, in your wildest wet dreams, imagine a similar thing happening back home?… to a phil collins lookalike or not;).

[Kavorka341]

I met a young lady online who I'm planning to meet next month.

She has only shown me pictures from the waist up as she says she has a big butt.

The face is great, and small titties which I like, but she tells me she has a size 36 butt.

My problem is I have no idea how big a 'size 36' butt is?

Any help appreciated.

[Laylow3]

IMHO the only way a married guy can minimise risk of discovery is advertise for short period & then hide the profile while following up contacts. The longer you leave a profile up the greater the risk of accidental or deliberate discovery.

Native born pinays are all distrustful, they grew up in a highly competitive environment where men cheat endemically.

Maybe you're married to an older non net using westernised pinay?

Good luck to you FF!

AV

So when you say hide the profile, what do you mean? Do you mean totally deleting the profile or do you mean simply removing all the pictures of yourself? Of course, I'll be using fake names. But if she has your picture already, then what is the use of "hiding your profile" or taking down the pictures?

Yes, my wife is super distrustful and jealous when it comes to me and other women. Even her family. Check this out, when I went to visit her family in PI last year she made sure that all of the females that usually stay at their house was gone. I know for a fact that she has about 5-6 females living at her house in the PI but they were nowhere to be found when I got there. I agree with you that they are always wondering what we are up to.

[Amavida]

Av

P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup.

Amavida. Nothing like a dramatically bad as you say. Been married for a long time to a Filipina and I am on all the " pick up " sites (with great and regualr success I should add) Thankfully no cousins sisters or anyone else yet found me. Tho I should add I won't go on Facebook in case my kids see me there. LOL

G'day FF! I'd say your a very lucky man in that case. Maybe we mix with a different age group. Every pinay i've had LTR with has been familliar with dating/social network sites along with many of her friends & cousins. I caution newbies to be aware of this & tread carefully!

Friendster is my biggest worry. You get a GF & before you know it she has plastered your mug all over her fs account. Even when trying not to cheat you find yourself being solicited by HER friends & friends of her friends! I think someone here on the forum said they call it 'shopping'. I've experienced it.

I've met many girls who tell me how they caught their BF/hubbie advertising themselves on the net. In the west a wife is on her own but in PI women are big on networking.

IMHO the only way a married guy can minimise risk of discovery is advertise for short period & then hide the profile while following up contacts. The longer you leave a profile up the greater the risk of accidental or deliberate discovery.

Native born pinays are all distrustful, they grew up in a highly competitive environment where men cheat endemically. Maybe you're married to an older non net using westernised pinay?
Good luck to you FF!
AV

[GregLondon]

Thanks for the suggestions guys. My next plan is to create an account in an internet shop, which shouldnt be picked up, then I'm hoping thayt once iyt is approved I wil be able to log on with my laptop when I'm in a different place withouty them being able to trace that the messages are comming from this specific computer. I'll delete the cookies and hope that works. The problem is that DIA has to have a very aggressive ant I scaming policy as it is so full of scammers. Which seems to have caught out me a legitimate user whose only misdemeanour's was to cut and paste and email tthe same message to a load of chicks.

For future reference, the solution seems to be to go to an internet cafe and set up a new account. They seem to check the computer/internet ID when u first set up a new account, then if you pass you can use your own computer/net connection (better delete cookies first though)

[FreebieFan]

Av

P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup.

Amavida. Nothing like a dramatically bad as you say. Been married for a long time to a Filipina and I am on all the " pick up " sites (with great and regualr success I should add) Thankfully no cousins sisters or anyone else yet found me. Tho I should add I won't go on Facebook in case my kids see me there. LOL

[Genghois]

Ok thats cool. It can be done but it is hit & miss. It can quickly chew up valuable copulating time. If it works this trip, congrats & enjoy but if it does'nt dont be surprised. The girls will often play you & dick you around. Like i said, if it works out its very nice but most mongers will agree that trying to get them lined up like ducks in a row produces variable results from trip to trip.
You need to be highly organised other wise you end up with a cell phone full of messages from identified numbers. Its not unusual for them to give you one number & them sms you from a cousins or sisters cp. They rarely use their name in messages (coz they are the only one you are meeting RIGHT?) It quickly gets unmanageable...

The punters that have the best results are VERY up front on their internet profile & chats about what they want. They make no bones about wanting sex & intending to butterfly. This way they only talk to those type of chicks who have enough mileage to handle it. Low mileage girls are gonna be very suspicious hence much harder to organise & potentially time wasting.

Personally i go for quality over quantity. Im happy to pursue just one low mileage girl if i feel she's worth it. I really prefer GFE over frantic copulation all over the place but that's just me. To each his own...

Dont get too excited about Burgos.

The girls looks there vary. The bar's there generally have more consistant quality & more nicely presented girls than in AC for instance. Instead of flouro bikin's you probably find Burgos BG's dressed in a uniform of LBD (Little black dress). They could step out on the street & look like a chick going home from the disco. These bars are often empty & you will get mobbed by heaps of very doable girls. Peak periods like saturday nights the bars get busy. Asian holiday season & Xmass etc also VERY busy.

They are often a little older, more experienced & professional. The prices are much higher. Your unlikely to get fresh off the farm chicks on Burgos. But if you choose well you will usually have a very satisfying BF.

Each bar has its own personality. Don't be in a rush, walk through & check them all out & see what you like. A word of warning - a couple of the Burgos bars charge VERY high prices for drinks & the girls don't BF in those. Read the makati threads about which to avoid.

My personal favourites are Fridays & especially Hollywood. I dont look for flashy bars for drinking sessions. I look for bars with plenty of good quality chicks available to BF with a helpful mamsan.

Agree with pretty much everything you say.

I can get excited about Burgos, but as you say, the LD/barfine prices are exhorbitant, in most of the bars.

In terms of Laylow3's questions on, "the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand". Based on my trips to both, last year, I'm not sure that any bar can compare to Shark Bar in Soi Cowboy in terms of sheer volume of drop-dead hotties. But, as is usually the case, you'll get better GFE in the Phils, even from Burgos, than from most girls in Bangkok/Pattaya.

[Amavida]

I just want to line up lots of sexy girls...

Ok thats cool. It can be done but it is hit & miss. It can quickly chew up valuable copulating time. If it works this trip, congrats & enjoy but if it does'nt dont be surprised. The girls will often play you & dick you around. Like i said, if it works out its very nice but most mongers will agree that trying to get them lined up like ducks in a row produces variable results from trip to trip.
You need to be highly organised other wise you end up with a cell phone full of messages from identified numbers. Its not unusual for them to give you one number & them sms you from a cousins or sisters cp. They rarely use their name in messages (coz they are the only one you are meeting RIGHT?) It quickly gets unmanageable...

The punters that have the best results are VERY up front on their internet profile & chats about what they want. They make no bones about wanting sex & intending to butterfly. This way they only talk to those type of chicks who have enough mileage to handle it. Low mileage girls are gonna be very suspicious hence much harder to organise & potentially time wasting.

Personally i go for quality over quantity. Im happy to pursue just one low mileage girl if i feel she's worth it. I really prefer GFE over frantic copulation all over the place but that's just me. To each his own...

I’ve never been to Burgos St. Yet so I don’t know if the girls are actually really sexy as hell but from what I’ve read on the internet and stories I heard from my friends, they are supposedly the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand.

Dont get too excited about Burgos.

The girls looks there vary. The bar's there generally have more consistant quality & more nicely presented girls than in AC for instance. Instead of flouro bikin's you probably find Burgos BG's dressed in a uniform of LBD (Little black dress). They could step out on the street & look like a chick going home from the disco. These bars are often empty & you will get mobbed by heaps of very doable girls. Peak periods like saturday nights the bars get busy. Asian holiday season & Xmass etc also VERY busy.

They are often a little older, more experienced & professional. The prices are much higher. Your unlikely to get fresh off the farm chicks on Burgos. But if you choose well you will usually have a very satisfying BF.

Each bar has its own personality. Don't be in a rush, walk through & check them all out & see what you like. A word of warning - a couple of the Burgos bars charge VERY high prices for drinks & the girls don't BF in those. Read the makati threads about which to avoid.

My personal favourites are Fridays & especially Hollywood. I dont look for flashy bars for drinking sessions. I look for bars with plenty of good quality chicks available to BF with a helpful mamsan.

AV

P.S. If your are married especially to a Pinay it is sudden death to advertise yourself on the Internet. Hope you have a pre-nup...

P.P.S. Please dear god learn how to use the quotes! - I nearly went blind trying to read your jumbled up post.