Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[GregLondon]

In addition to AV's advice, I suggest contacting them directly and asking why you were banned and/or apologizing and asking to be reinstated.

A while back when I was a paying member at Cherry BLossom I put my email address (without the 'at' mark) in my message (against the rules) and it went unnoticed. My payment period expired and the message remained. After about four months I updated something trivial and bam...banned. An apology and some lame excuse got me reinstated even though I wasn't a paying member.

It's worth a try.

X

Thanks for the suggestions guys. My next plan is to create an account in an internet shop, which shouldnt be picked up, then I'm hoping thayt once iyt is approved I wil be able to log on with my laptop when I'm in a different place withouty them being able to trace that the messages are comming from this specific computer. I'll delete the cookies and hope that works. The problem is that DIA has to have a very aggressive ant I scaming policy as it is so full of scammers. Which seems to have caught out me a legitimate user whose only misdemeanour's was to cut and paste and email tthe same message to a load of chicks.

[Laylow3]

[QUOTE=Amavida] 1) Bored just doin it for giggles as a time filler? Do it.

2) Lonely bachelor with lots of time on your hands? Do it. 3) Looking to learn a little about the way the chicks think/speak/act? Do it. [\QUOTE]1). i’m a student so I’m always busy and I never ever have much time.

2). i’m married

3). I speak Filipino so. .

[QUOTE=Amavida] 4) Want to line up a couple to check out as soon as you arrive? Sure why not. [\QUOTE]Bingo! That’s me. I just want to have as many sexy girls waiting for me as possible since when I go to the PI, I usu. Stay for at least a month. (that’s how it has been so far at least)

[QUOTE=Amavida] 5) Married to a filippina? Aaaaaarrrrgggghhhh! Don't DO IT! She WILL have many cousins/friends back home in PI who are active on these very same sites! They WILL see you & they WILL inform her!

Do you have a death wish man? [\QUOTE]So, on a serious note are you saying I should do it or not do it? I was thinking I could do it without sharing photos but I’m not sure that would work. (or would it? )

[QUOTE=Amavida]All jokes aside it can be an ok ice breaker for a newbie to get a few girls lined up but don't waste hours on it. [\QUOTE]Well, i’m not a newbie since I been to the PI before and I stayed for almost a month.

[QUOTE=Amavida]Put up a flattering pic with just a few reassuring words about your self & hint about coming very soon & where. You will get LOTS of 'bites' believe me. [\QUOTE]ok, so pics are mandatory then?

[QUOTE=Amavida]don't spend hours chatting to any of them. Get their CP #'s. Follow them up when you get there. Sometimes you get lucky other times its an anticlimactic waste of time/money. Don't go chasing after them when you get there. Make them come to you. The place is filled to bursting with desirable/available young women. After you visit here once or twice you will calm down & develop the confidence to pick up nice GF's/Freebies practically anywhere. [\QUOTE]I definitely won’t spend much time on their unless we "connect" in some kind of way. GFE doesn’t mean much to me although it is nice. I just like banging hot girls and from the quick search I did on AFF, DIA, blossoms, and hearts, there were a lot of HOT girls on there. I don’t if most or all of them are scams but damn 70-80% of those chicks were banging. That’s a high percentage!

[QUOTE=Amavida]If you're married may I suggest you give it a swerve & just to Angeles and go bang your brains out? Seriously, P4P is a LOT safer & easier than advertising yourself on the internet & them chasing after strangers. [\QUOTE]This is very true but I’ll already been to AC and don’t get me wrong, I really enjoyed and I will be going back but I want to try out some new things. Also, I don’t think I saw one single working girl in AC that made me almost bust a nut in my pants by just looking at her. Although of course I saw some regular girls that gave me that effect but that’s besides the point. I’ve said it before and I’ll reiterate it again. IMHO, AC would be perfect if it had a couple of bars where you could go and find available girls that are as fine as the so-called "models" working on P. Burgos. I’ve never been to Burgos St. Yet so I don’t know if the girls are actually really sexy as hell but from what I’ve read on the internet and stories I heard from my friends, they are supposedly the finest girls out there when you compare Philippines and Thailand.

[Amavida]

Alright guys, I've heard a little about using chat sites to pick up girls and/or have them waiting for you when you go to PI. The chat site I've ever tried is AFF and it was such a waste of money AND time. Time is the big problem for me. I hate wasting time making a profile, checking it all the time, advertising myself, and doing all this for a couple of hours everyday for nothing. I want to ask you guys honestly is it worth it?

The sites I know of are DIA, cherryblossums, and filipinahearts. If you all feel it definitely worthwhile, then my plan is to make accounts there and advertise myself. (I'm not sure if I should do free or paid accounts.) I speak Filipino also if that helps. Also what can of info should I post? Should I just post the basics or should I also post photos or is posting photo too risky? (my wife is filipina) I guess I should also that I have been to once already so I know what PI is like but I have never tried the chat site approach. I wanted to try to pick up local girls when I was there but I kept thinking that I would get scammed since most of the time I was in major cities like Cebu city, Manila, AC. I kept telling myself that if I go to Davao or the provinces then I'll pick up some local girls.

1) Bored just doin it for giggles as a time filler? Do it.
2) Lonely bachelor with lots of time on your hands? Do it.
3) Looking to learn a little about the way the chicks think/speak/act? Do it.
4) Want to line up a couple to check out as soon as you arrive? Sure why not.

5) Married to a filippina? Aaaaaarrrrgggghhhh!!!! DONT DO IT!!!
She WILL have many cousins/friends back home in PI who are active on these very same sites! They WILL see you & they WILL inform her!!!!

Do you have a death wish man? :)

All jokes aside it can be an ok ice breaker for a newbie to get a few girls lined up but dont waste hours on it.

Dont get a profile more than 4 weeks before you leave, I'd say 2 weeks in advance is plenty. The chicks go 'off the boil' pretty quick as they are constantly being hit on every day on those sites ( hitting on guys constantly daily i might add).

Put up a flattering pic with just a few reassuring words about your self & hint about coming very soon & where. You will get LOTS of 'bites' believe me.

Pick the a couple that are most attractive to you & chase them up with a few chats.

Have a squiz through the profiles for some chicks that stand out from the crowd but dont make it a big deal to win them over. Sometimes you get lucky.

Dont spend hours chatting to any of them. Get their cp #'s. Follow them up when you get there. Sometimes you get lucky other times its an anticlimactic waste of time/money. Dont go chasing after them when you get there. Make them come to you. The place is filled to bursting with desirable/available young women. After you visit here once or twice you will calm down & develop the confidence to pick up nice GF's/Freebies practically anywhere.

If you're married may i suggest you give it a swerve & just to Angeles and go bang your brains out? Seriously, P4P is a LOT safer & easier than advertising yourself on the internet & them chasing after strangers.

AV

[Laylow3]

Alright guys, I've heard a little about using chat sites to pick up girls and/or have them waiting for you when you go to PI. The chat site I've ever tried is AFF and it was such a waste of money AND time. Time is the big problem for me. I hate wasting time making a profile, checking it all the time, advertising myself, and doing all this for a couple of hours everyday for nothing. I want to ask you guys honestly is it worth it?

The sites I know of are DIA, cherryblossums, and filipinahearts. If you all feel it definitely worthwhile, then my plan is to make accounts there and advertise myself. (I'm not sure if I should do free or paid accounts.) I speak Filipino also if that helps. Also what can of info should I post? Should I just post the basics or should I also post photos or is posting photo too risky? (my wife is filipina) I guess I should also that I have been to once already so I know what PI is like but I have never tried the chat site approach. I wanted to try to pick up local girls when I was there but I kept thinking that I would get scammed since most of the time I was in major cities like Cebu city, Manila, AC. I kept telling myself that if I go to Davao or the provinces then I'll pick up some local girls.

[X Man]

Another thing to look out for is a lady lending her ym to a friend or younger sis/cousin. Or worse, mom or sis/ cousin is looking over the shoulder reading the exchange. If your chat is headed in the naughty direction, it's best to ask a few questions first.

My points are a bit different than what BD described, but it made me think of a few of my own irregular experiences.

X

Just logged onto yahoo to find two friends in Manlia online, only problem was both ID's belong to the same person. I got chating to both and wasn't hard to work out which one was my friend and which one wasn't.

My guess was my friend forget to log out while in a cafe and then someone has come along and changed their password and started using their ID. My friend thought they had forgotten their password and because they not use ID much, never worried about it until I came apon the problem.

The person who stole my friends ID didn't seem to care that they were using someone else ID which still had my friends picture on it. They just said "I own the account" and to stop talking to them. Who knows what they are using my friends account for.

I told my friend to get in and change password again, but WTF. Can never be too careful while using a cafe.

[Bob Down]

Just logged onto yahoo to find two friends in Manlia online, only problem was both ID's belong to the same person. I got chating to both and wasn't hard to work out which one was my friend and which one wasn't.

My guess was my friend forget to log out while in a cafe and then someone has come along and changed their password and started using their ID. My friend thought they had forgotten their password and because they not use ID much, never worried about it until I came apon the problem.

The person who stole my friends ID didn't seem to care that they were using someone else ID which still had my friends picture on it. They just said "I own the account" and to stop talking to them. Who knows what they are using my friends account for.

I told my friend to get in and change password again, but WTF. Can never be too careful while using a cafe.

[X Man]

In addition to AV's advice, I suggest contacting them directly and asking why you were banned and/or apologizing and asking to be reinstated.

A while back when I was a paying member at Cherry BLossom I put my email address (without the 'at' mark) in my message (against the rules) and it went unnoticed. My payment period expired and the message remained. After about four months I updated something trivial and bam...banned. An apology and some lame excuse got me reinstated even though I wasn't a paying member.

It's worth a try.

X

You must have been hitting that site hard for that to happen Greg!

Commiserations as its fun to surf the thousands of pretty girls advertising themseles there!

My suggestion is go hit some other sites for a while because the ban will probably expire after a period of time. Other suggestion is change ISP (if you are logging in from home) or if you have a laptop, go log in using another Wifi network.

You understand you will be now going to the site from a different (not banned) IP address right Greg?
I suggest start a fresh account, for gods sakes dont go to the site from another network & try to login with your old user/pass ok?
Good hunting!
AV

[Amavida]

It turns out that it is quite difficult to get back onto DIA if you have been banned for some reason. If you are using your own PC/Laptop you are in trouble as their site detects your IP details. It also won't help if you try to use an anonymous web surfing sit as you can only use the site if you have enabled cookies. A real pain.

You must have been hitting that site hard for that to happen Greg!

Commiserations as its fun to surf the thousands of pretty girls advertising themseles there!

My suggestion is go hit some other sites for a while because the ban will probably expire after a period of time. Other suggestion is change ISP (if you are logging in from home) or if you have a laptop, go log in using another Wifi network.

You understand you will be now going to the site from a different (not banned) IP address right Greg?
I suggest start a fresh account, for gods sakes dont go to the site from another network & try to login with your old user/pass ok?
Good hunting!
AV

[GregLondon]

Having read the DIA site it seems that they use complaints from other members to automatically ban people if you get enough complaints. I don't think my profile said anything offensice except that I was not interested in ladyboys or hearing from scammers. Maybe the scammers and ladyboys got their revenge??

It turns out that it is quite difficult to get back onto DIA if you have been banned for some reason. If you are using your own PC/Laptop you are in trouble as their site detects your IP details. It also won't help if you try to use an anonymous web surfing sit as you can only use the site if you have enabled cookies. A real pain.

[Scout 7272]

X- man,

I hope to god she is using me for my body. Hate to think its for my brain. As at the moment when I hit Manila the last thing that functions properly is my brain. And definitely next time I am going to make sure she does take some money or treat her to something.

At same time. I'm not wanting to get too close in case she thinks I want some sort of serious relationship.

Besides I have a few more on DIA I am working myself through.

But as I said before. Using DIA is a bit hit and miss. You need to really be smart in case you get hooked by some scammer.

[Amavida]

At first, I see all these pics on friendster. These gals will have hundreds of pics. Many of the pics will be the same, for example there will be a photo album of Boracay, and there will be about 10 pics of the gal wearing the same outfit at the same location, just different poses, but not that different.

At first, I think gee these gals sure are vain. But then I think. Friendster, its a Philippines phenomenon LOL. What else do they use the PC for?

Tony my GF's all do the same thing.. they stand around taking endless self portraits with their cell phones & posting them on FS. For the love of god how many times can you at pictures of yourself? But these girls are FASCINATED by it. I guess they have very shallow lives..
Im so glad I bring a little excitement into their boring lives ;)
AV

[Cuba Tourist]

The DIA name for this one is emsdcute13 from makati:

im a **** coz ill wear short and a tanktop,im a bicth coz i dont let u push me around.... (see below for her full text.)

I wrote her and she didn't answer.....

[X Man]

very good english. i have to suspect there is some pansy-ass british guy wearing stockings, lip stick and high heels as he types out that message.

i could be wrong....

x man
(no offense to my british friends)

another interesting one---


i olredi enrol at univ.b.a at political science!hope i can mke it

- i can be very shy around people i have never met before and i know that often comes off as bitchy, but trust me i dont mean it like that at all. -

- i still dont get why i get shy sometimes. -

- in all honesty i personally dont care if you like me or not. just please do yourself a favor and keep my fucking name out of your mouth.
- neweiz maybe i am too adventurous and naughty at times but i do know my limitations.. people often misunderstood me.. so you fucking people who does nothing but spread gossip! "dont judge a book by its cover" you dont know me.. this saying is so lame but true..

anyhow,. i am trying to change myself now.. ive been pretty fed up of who and what i am.. i am 20 and getting old.. life has been really though for me.. i am more matured now.. and pretty independent.. however i feel like being alone.. i wanna isolate myself from the very wide ridiculous world ive been in.. i am willing to surrender everything,. from my beliefs to peers.. i wanna be someone else.. a new michelle deguzman delacruz..

loosing something uve treasured the most has made me realize of who i am becoming.. this has made me stronger and gave me dedications to finally move forward.. time will come when eventually things will go smoother for me.. but as of the moment i am pretty much not contented of this lifestyle..

so a new me is about to come.. i am hoping it'll work out..


uhm addition to that im pursuasive.. hahaha.. pursuasive it is.. ehem.. i only said this so that ul be contented febri.. hahaha.. i am not.. geeez


- ive realized. how i never needed certain people in my life. i found out who matters and who never did. i know who's gonna be there for me when i need them. and who are/have walked out of my life for good. -

..sometimes you just gotta be weird, go against the crowd and act stupid, laugh till you cry and cry till you can't feel the pain.
don't listen to what other people say.
you know you're being yourself and that's all that counts.
don't worry what they willthink about you. your true friends will stay by you.
*so just be yourself*

[X Man]

It's kind of nice to get seduced once in a while. But I have to tell you scout, I think she's just using you for your body.

Ordinary salesladies don't make much money. You probably should have insisted.

Anyway, great post.

X

Just came back from Manila. Met this girl who works as saleslady. Through DIA. We had chatted for a while and got a bit raunchy online. She is in late 20s, more mature than most and got nice body and really big lips.

Arranged to meet at my hotel (Traders) for dinner. No mention of money as she has a job.

Thinking I would take a while for the seduction to take place so imagined a long flirtatious night before the fornication would start.

Met her as she got out the cab. And she looked nervous and first thing she said: "can we go to your room for our drink. I feel nervous in public".

Off we went to my room. As we opened the door. Gave her a peck on the cheek which turned into a full on DFK session. On to the couch where it was rip off our clothes time.

I got no bloody sleep as it was pretty full on all night.

Next morning breakfast and she had to rush home to get changed for work.

I offered to pay for her cab which she refused.

Lesson is with DIA. Pick a woman with a job and with more mature attitude and don; t make any promises to them either.

Amazing things can happen if you use your brain first before your dick.

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[GregLondon]

Hi,

I've just found that I've been locked out of DIA which is a pain. Of the various possible reasons the only one that could apply is sending the same message to lots of different girls. Something that I suspect most of us do.

Does anyone have a feel for how much multi message sending DIA will tolerate. Also as far as setting up another profile is concerned are there any complications. I presume one needs a new email? Do they also check you internet ID etc?

Having read the DIA site it seems that they use complaints from other members to automatically ban people if you get enough complaints. I don't think my profile said anything offensice except that I was not interested in ladyboys or hearing from scammers. Maybe the scammers and ladyboys got their revenge??