Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Pimpster]

check this out, this girl is really honest about what she wants, unlike most on dia.

http://www.dateinasia.com/UserProfil...8-baafbfcf3bf1

[Sammon]

I had a interesting conversation.
Her-Hi
Me- Hi How r u
Her- fine. I am happy. I will be graduating in april.
me- What r u going to be.
her- a nurse
me- good for u. What is your future plans.
Her- to go abroad to work. Do you come to PHI ?
me- yes, This month
her- I want to be with you.
me- ok. Where do u live?
her- Zamboanga.
me- Is it safe there?
her- Yes. I will never leave you alone.
Me- ok. but i prefer to be in manila
her- in that case i will come to manila and stay with you.
me- ok
her- But i do not have any money to come there
ME- I will send you the air ticket
her- Really? That is nice. But i do not have expense money.
me- How much for expenses?
her - 5000 pesos.
me- That is too much Why?
her- I need to buy clothes and other things.
me- I will only send the ticket.
her- Can u help me with the rent?
I ignored her after.
The Philippinas are adept in conning. Do not send any money to anybody

[Genghois]

I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?

The Friendster search functionality was changed, a few weeks ago, and has definitely gone downhill. The seem to be going the Facebook route and trying to make it so that you can only find people you really know (Hi5 did the same about a year ago). You go into Search, type “Philippines” or, better still, your city of interest. Then you have to chose gender, age and eliminate all of the other countries, so you’re only seeing girls resident in Phil. Pain in the ass, as it used to be much simpler.

Funny thing about Friendster is how the girls use it. Every Filipina on the planet who lives within 20 miles of an internet café has a Friendster account. I’ve got over 400 friends on my account, but I rarely get responses back to messages I send. I have better luck getting responses in Myspace, sometimes even with the same girl!

Thanks guys for the heads up on Tagged. My account’s been up for 24 hours and I’ve already got 40 friends, some of whom are very responsive! Although there do seem to be a few too many “too good to be true” profiles, and a high number of TS/TV’s on the site. Buyer beware! Also seem to be girls with multiple profiles. I had identical (and highly boring, monosyllabic) chats on YM, last night, with two supposedly different girls from Tagged.

I haven’t managed to get into Ringo. Is the site down?

Thanks also to X Man for his chat suggestions.

[X Man]

Yes, this is often a problem. One option is just to drop one of these types.

But, I also suspect you could avoid the topic altogether by changing the subject or suggesting that you insist on "friends first".

And if you have her phone number already, just let it go. Ignore her for a while. Wait until you get to the Philippines. Her tune may change when you call her up and suggest having lunch.

X

But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.


for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.

[X Man]

I agree with Robbaf's main point. But assuming that the online lechers are low-income lurkers is tenuous at best.

I'll add a few things about "playing the game" from the X Man point of view. Many of my comments are just generalizations, but they seem to work for me.

There are a lot of things you can say/do on chat to find out information and /or set up a possible rendezvous...

Where is your boyfriend tonight? (Comes across as a joke, but if you can confirm that she HAD a bf at one time, you can assume she isn't cherry.)

Do you live with family/ how many bros sis do you have / what is your work? (The more independent they are, the more likely your seduction strategy will work. And older ladies often fall into this category. Many brothers and sisters may indicate a lower income family...)

Can you recommend a good beach? Can you swim? What color is your bikini? (Some will recommend Borocay, but they've never been there. Having a bikini is usually a good sign, but best to chat a bit before going in that direction.)

Flirting in general seems to be very effective. "It's cold here in xxx, I wish you could give me a warm hug."

I'm sure others have their special techniques. Oh, and I try to get email and phone numers as quickly as possible.

X

IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.

IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.

Robb

[GregLondon]

I met a guy yesterday who had struck it lucky with a girl he met via DIA in GenSan a year ago. Turned out that she was bi and more than happy to participate whenever he wanted another girl He now intends to marry her and bring her to Pattaya to live with him as she is so flexible.

Anyone have any suggestions how to track down bi or bi curious giurls in the Phils?

[GregLondon]

I've found that many of the girls I have initially found on DIA or Tagged have a Friendseter account where they upload many photos. Is there an efficient way of using friendster for searching for potential contacts. I couldnt see that it had an age/location search function like tagged does?

[Cuba Tourist]

But I think they have to accept that we may meet several girls on the same trip. I don't want them to think it is automatically monogamous from the start. That same girl would not accept this idea.


for me...if i am interested to a guy....i would want to meet him...and i dont want him to meet plenty...it's just your choosing...and it's a big insult if i would be one of your collection...it might be okay for those women...they can take it...but not me. it would be waste of your time if you meet plenty and end up nothing... :) well, i guess you have numbers to choose for...so, i guess you already made up your mind...that;s good.

[Cuba Tourist]

One girl wrote me that she changed her photo back to the previous photo because the better photo was attracting the wrong kind of attention:


...good morning
it's not new photo...but i changed photo, trying to get rid of nasty messages...sorry.



i dont know why i received such messages..but i dont care...i dont get much messages right now..and thats fine... :) the more sexy pic i have, the more i get nasty messages... :)
so you're ready for your trip...good for you... :)

[Robbaf]

......as long as you know how to play the game.

Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.

IMHO, playing the game means being a gentleman. Don't ask them to get naked on the first webcam chat, don't talk about sex. I always joke and laugh with them and take the time to chat with them. So many times I have had girls tell me that guys are rude to them and start the chat with, "Can you show me your tits?" and keep asking for webcam sex.

IMHO, these guys are lurkers from other countries who have never been to the Philippines and most likely will never be able to afford a trip here.

Robb

[Cuba Tourist]

......as long as you know how to play the game.


Could you explain what you mean exactly. This could be very helpful, because I probably don't know how to play.

[Warbucks]

I have never been a fan of this social networking phenomenon but I have found Myspace, Friendster and Facebook overall more productive in every aspect in terms of seeing more photos; friends and family, day to day life and weeding out scammers.....

[FreebieFan]

I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)

Maybe low hanging fruit.

ES

Been on Tagged for past 3 months.. high success rate in several countries......as long as you know how to play the game.

[Eaglestar]

I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead http://www.InternationalSexGuide.nl/forum/showthread.php?p=803989 I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.

Good Luck
Robb

I went there and had a look also. Signed up and found many Chinese gals also. One pic attached :)

Maybe low hanging fruit.


ES

[X Man]

Thanks for the info AV and Robbaf,

I've been deleting mail from Tagged as I thought it was one of those bot sites that encourages you to sign up, import your mail lists, and then spams.

I've never warmed up to the social network sites, but I may have to give it another go.

X

I joined Tagged dot com last week and I was surprised of the number of Filipinas on there. You can search by age and location and most profiles have 10 photos and some have 100+ photos. I met my first Tagged girl in person yesterday (would post pictures, but thanks to Mr Dickhead http://www.InternationalSexGuide.nl/forum/showthread.php?p=803989 I don't do that anymore:() and I have to say, It beats DIA all to hell! You can see if they are receiving comments from others and from sexy pictures that they post, it almost seems to me it is easier to pick girls who aren't shy.

Good Luck
Robb