Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Skoalbro]

G'day Skoalbro, don't know about CB but when I do this on DIA I get inundated with cp #'s. YMMV but don't be surprised if you do. An embarrassment of riches means you will need to be very focused or end up chasing your tail.
AV

Well I made that "small adjustment" to my CB profile. Presto. Bombarded with emails on CB with quite a few adding cellphone numbers.

Of course the pickings range from young, mid age all the way to grannies, but enough to wade through and save for possible future reference. This will be my 4th trip to the Phils and I'm looking forward again to getting there on the 29th.

One side question for you experts:

I have previously stayed up in the Makati area but I'm staying at the City Gardens in Malate. How close is that to LA Cafe? I haven't been there yet and I had most of my fun up in the Burgos area.

But after reading the Makati threads, seems have seemed to change quite a bit, even from last year.

I've been reading the forum for quite a while now and hopefully I'll be able to chip in with a report or two on my trip.

DD

[Amavida]

I just updated my profile saying I will be arriving in Manila during the week of April 28th. I just want to see what kind of action I get in the next 11 days. Haha

DD

G'day Skoalbro, don't know about CB but when I do this on DIA I get inundated with cp #'s. YMMV but don't be surprised if you do. An embarrassment of riches means you will need to be very focused or end up chasing your tail.
AV

[Morepoonhound]

Really interested on your take on AFF. Good article. I'm a member also but haven't dipped my toe (or anything else) yet. Like you say their are lots of lardasses (not my type) and middle aged housewives (not sure I want to go there), but also some cute ones. Hope to give it a go soon and see where it leads.

I still have some more to say about AFF Philippines. I have already said a few things about AFF Indonesia, and so far it looks to me like the scenes are pretty much similar. I will try not to repeat myself, so if you're keen on the subject, do a search on AFF in the Indonesia thread, and you'll find a dozen or so posts from me as well as more experienced tourists like Dorman, Mandiri and a few others.

Stay tuned to this thread for more on AFF in the National Capital Region (NCR). Too busy today to write a long story, but I have at least one more of those to post from last week's AFF harvest in Makati. I got stood up twice by prospective partners who had committed dates with me and confirmed via SMS; hit on by several professionals who made sure I understood they wanted cash for gash (no thanks - I don't use AFF for that, even though I happily pay for poon from other venues); and strung along a few times more by several other game-players . . . which is par for the course. This is court-ship, guys - not pay-for-play - and the ladies offering free poon have TONS of options. So roll with the punches and have a plan-B. Paid-poon is always available if you strike out on the night.

The good news is that the pay-off for my up-front investment of a couple weeks working the emails (hard) was 4 separate freebie dates last week, including both a 22-year old "9" (truly remarkable - maybe my hottest-looking freebie ever) and a 3-some with two also very fine, late-20's, bi-gals who taught me some things I didn't already know about eating pussy, by showing me (on each other), and coaching me while I ate at the Y myself. Wonderful!

Best introduction to the ladies of AFF NCR that I could even imagine. I don't know how I will ever top that first exposure . . . but I sure plan to try when I head back again next month. Definitely!

If you don't want to read my bragging, because I warn you first that I will be mostly doing that, then skip past that next post. Sorry . . . sometimes, ya just gotta tell someone . . . and fer shur it aint gonna be my home-minister. (full smile)

[Morepoonhound]

Your right MPH, whats in a name. When it comes right down to it why not call ourselves sex tourists (although some of us live in the situ so that doesn't work

Actually, I think guys living in the Philippines (or any other place for that matter), can pay or otherwise play the local poon and still call themselves sex tourists. That label DOES work.

Look at it this way: the home country (better spell it "****-tree") is the pussy of the home minister. You live there, gentlemen . . . even if you travel away from the home ****-tree from time to time. If you have no home minister, and even if you do, but you travel to foreign pussy locations from time to time, then I say you're practicing sex tourism (grin). Think about it - tourists visit places where they don't live permanently.

On the other hand, some like the new place so much that they move there on a more-or-less full-time basis. Hmmm . . .

[Skoalbro]

BB

The Advanced Search on CB has changed, now I cannot seem to be able to type in the lady's CB number. Anyone else have this issue, maybe just me

DIA? Like any site, tell them you are in town next weeek...you will inundated :D

I just updated my profile saying I will be arriving in Manila during the week of April 28th. I just want to see what kind of action I get in the next 11 days. Haha

DD

[Adidas32]

If a chat room girl claims pregnancy and has details to track down an individual what are there possible options as to any claims from the phils. Obviously dumbness aside about giving them the info to be able to track you down but given there is no verifiable way to determine she is pregnant. Can she go to the embassy and make trouble?

[Cunning Stunt]

"Sticks and stones.

Your right MPH, whats in a name. When it comes right down to it why not call ourselves sex tourists (although some of us live in the situ so that doesn't work), pussyhounds or just good old fashioned DOMs (dirty old men). That is what people outside our closed little world call us so why not be self aware and honest. But really who gives a flying fuck what others think as we are all mature adults (I hope) and are not hurting anyone (I really hope).

Really interested on your take on AFF. Good article. I'm a member also but haven't dipped my toe (or anything else) yet. Like you say their are lots of lardasses (not my type) and middle aged housewives (not sure I want to go there), but also some cute ones. Hope to give it a go soon and see where it leads.

Cheers,

GH

[HornyGeorge]

Instead of monger I like the term "hobbyiest".

Agree with 50/50 that Jools has gone to shit. In the 90s it was THE happening place with a great floor show and tons of friendly and cute girls. When I went back last year it was a sad joke playing old Billy Joel songs while lifeless and mediocore dancers shuffled from foot to foot for a VERY sparse audience.

[MongerManiac]

This is a pic of my DIA date - met her at the airport at 10 pm had banged her by 11pm. Mmmmm

[Fifty Fifty]

Just got this from a CB Girl and I thought I had to share it:

"hi im siple, black plexion,''

Seems like a nice girl though, I was thinking, but...... ??

Then I had a rethink, hang on, could I write the same information in Tagalog??

Answer = NO, not yet anyway.

Therefore IMHO the girl deserves credit for trying, just as they all do.

YMMV :)

Cheers , F/Fifty

[Morepoonhound]

Thanks for the replies of experienced mongers here who have had good experiences of online dating in PHI.

Sometimes it gets boring with BG's.

But it is a big turnoff when the girl asks for money.

Yes, it is easy to find PHI girls online.

I see some DateInAsia, Friendster and CherryBlossoms tips in the thread. So I assume this is the right place to post about Adult FriendFinder (AFF) as well.

I hadn't been to Manila in a couple of years but I used to make the usual rounds, mainly pulling (paid) poon from Glorietta Mall, Greenbelt, or - less frequently - going to dodgy massage places like Imperial and Topaz.

Over the past year or so, I have had stunning success pulling free poon through AFF in Indonesia, so when I knew I would be travelling to Manila on business last week, I started working the AFF Philippines postings. I am happy to report that there are plenty of horny women in metro-Manila willing to entertain travelling businessmen (yay!)

Sure, some are clearly professionals looking to trade pussy for peso's. But they're generally pretty transparent about that, and that still leaves lots of luscious, libidinous, little (and fair enough - sometimes NOT so little) libertines liking to lick and lip-lock and lavish labia on the likes of me. I'm talking educated, professional and sometimes even married women of all ages. And I'm talking first-date fucking . . . for free! Is Manila wonderful or what?

I only have the first visit (last week) so far as a data point, so maybe I got really lucky. But the experience was pretty much like I have found in Indonesia on many repeat visits previously, so I tend to think that AFF can be a winning strategy for those of you willing to invest the time, effort and energy to score freebies there.

First, some standard cautions. One, I have no experience with AFF in western markets like the US, UK, Australia, Canada and so on. And I understand that most men playing AFF in those places find it practically useless and a waste of their money. Two, I do have a paid membership which lets me read any female profile and send email to them. It might be possible to pull as a "free" or standard member, but I can't say - I haven't tried it that way. Three, there are all kinds of people on AFF, just like there are all kinds in the real world. But the difference is that on AFF, there seems to be a much higher percentage of nut-jobs and crazies . . . oh, and as far as Asia . . . a much higher percentage of chubbies (aka BBW's) . . . than I believe exists in the general population.

About me - I am in my late 40's and I look ok. Not a handsome guy, but average-looking face and a flat stomach and gym-body from regular trips to the weight-room. Ah, one more thing - I am married and honest about that in my AFF profile, so there aren't any misunderstandings with women looking for their soul-mate. No kidding, there are actually quite a few women on AFF looking for serious relationships. Some tell me to fcuk-off and curse me for cheating on my wife, but most (especially the married ones) tell me that it doesn't matter since they are also just looking for a "friend with benefits". What DOES seem to matter is that I was honest about my situation. Hmmmm . . . I call that win/win (grin).

Plan on investing time in writing emails - lots of them. Any of the hotter women get dozens of proposals every week (some get dozens every DAY), so unless you are a chubby-chaser . . . and I am NOT a fan of the larger ladies . . . then your hit-rate will be discouragingly low. Maybe one or two replies to ten or even twenty emails sent. Better response-rate if you are clever and careful about targeting your message to her profile . . . worse response-rate if what you write looks like a form-letter or spam.

Anyway, I worked the profiles for a couple of weeks before arriving on a week-night last week. I figured too much trouble to coordinate a date for the first night, so I paid for pussy - see my recent post in the Makati thread - on arrival. For the next few days though, I was pounding poon from AFF. It wasn't exactly "free", because I give my dates taxi-money, from prior experience in Indonesia. But the ones I saw last week didn't ask me for money - it was my initiative. And in one case, she angrily returned my money saying "I'm not a hooker". The other woman we were with . . . yes, gentle reader . . . I pulled a freebie three-some with two bi-babes . . . the other woman persuaded her that I meant no disrespect, and all was well in the end (grin again).

Out of time today. I do actually work for a living (smile), and I spent too much time on the preamble here. So stay tuned for at least one more post on the bi-babes of AFF-Philippines. What a great bleeping place you lucky bastards who live in the Phils' get to enjoy. I'm slightly jealous . . .

[Morepoonhound]

Agree with X on this one, its a evil word, and although I use it, I much prefer the gentler British words 'to punt', 'Punter', 'Punting' in reference to p4p activities. One brings up images of gently drifting down the Thames, whereas the other is just plain nasty with its negative connotations (*****-m, war-m, fish-m!).

"Sticks and stones . . . will break my bones . . . but names will never hurt me." Still a lot of truth in that school-yard couplet, gentlemen. Monger is only a word, guys . . . and although it usually means "to sell" . . . "fish-monger" is someone who sells fish. "Wh*re-monger" is a pimp and so on . . . there are two other common meanings for monger:

First alternate definition is "to be involved in something often or frequently" - usually something disreputable or questionable, for example to be a gossip-monger, scandal-monger or war-monger. So while some of you may not like to call a spade a spade, get real guys: most polite society treats paying for pussy as disreputable (grin).

Two is to be a frequent user of something - sound familiar, gentlemen ? so another meaning for a "Wh*re-monger" is a frequent customer of working-girls, or in old-fashioned slang a "john".

Now THERE's an interesting word. One meaning of "john" is a common or average guy, sort of an everyman (as in "john doe"). Maybe they call pussy-mongers "johns" because the average guy likes to frequently use pussy (grin again).

But another meaning of "john" is latrine, or toilet . . . which is sorta offensive to fellows whose parents named them "john". One friend by that name used to retaliate . . . for many months . . . against people who he heard asking where the "john" was when they wanted to take a leak. He would reply "Ohhh . . . around here, we call it "the Bill" (or "the Bob", or "the Steve", etc.)" And then he would proceed to ask the poor fellow if he needed to use the Bill/Bob/Steve practically every time he would see him.

So if you don't like monger . . . don't use it. Pick a word like punter as Gamahucher suggests, or "john", or "pussy-chaser" or even "customer" (gasp!).

But don't take offense if someone calls you a monger. Don't assume that they are using the same definition as you. Maybe they simply mean that you frequently engage in the somewhat disreputable (but ever so wonderful) pastime of sport-fucking. That's what I think anyway . . .

OK, before any of YOU throw verbal sticks and stones at me for wasting time in what is supposed to be a thread on pen-pals, stay tuned - I actually signed on here today to post about my Philippines Adult FriendFinder experiences last week, not to play word-smith. So coming right up . . .

[Lachlan1972]

Hi guys,

Thanks for all the suggestions. Well I ended up sending her the money for the webcam via western union. She went and got the money within an hour and low and behold she was online with it about 3 hours later. She had a few issues configuring it which indicates she actually did buy 1. Good news is that she looks like her photos and has a very cute 18yo virgin sister who I also get to see on the webcam (started chatting there 2! ).

Since then I have had 2 late night shows on the webcam where she gets into the cybersex in a very shy and emabaressed kind of way. So overall I think I have a genuine one here. She only plugs the cam in at night when everyone is asleep.

In terms of the airfare I have also decided to buy it on my credit card. Cost bugger all and non refundable. That way she can't cash them in and I didn't send any cash. She was ok with that also

So again thanks for the feedback and will let you know how I go

PS I have also had a lot of girls on DIA wanting money alsmots straight away for sick aunt etc. I avoid these immediately.

[X Man]

I'd heard that as recently as two years ago Joules (and another place) had a fairly well-done choreographed show, and have not heard anything about any changes (except in the post I've quoted below). It's sad to hear the place has given up on that. 750 for a drink!

Okay, I retract my earlier statement. That sounds like a rip-off!

X

Six years, things have changed - everywhere.
If your opinion of Joules Bar is based on your six year old personal opinion, then I fail to see how you can truthfully contest my six week old experiences??

Joules is very expensive, the show is the same ''Bikini Dancing Crap'' that can be seen in any Girly Bar, but fully clothed so maybe not so good as other places where the girls are more liberal.



Barfines of Girls are not possible - so it was a good that you took a Date there cos if you have a Joules girl sit with you then the lady Drinks at 750 Pesos will soon break the bank.

There is no Entrance fee, to charge Entrance would be taking the [CodeWord140] as there is nothing to see or do that cant be seen or done in any other bar.



This link may be of interest - http://japundit.com/archives/2006/06/02/2650/



Oh no, apologies in advance again !! - Not accepted - sorry. :)

Cheers, F/Fifty

[1Ball]

Bilbo, IMHO, this is all a scam.
by coincidence, I am chatting as I type this, on YM with a friend, and about 1 hour ago, I get a window that pops up with....."hello, how r u"? I had no idea who it was. anyway, it turns out it was a phils girl who had tried to get me to do the same thing about 1 year ago. She had let me see her "show" for free a year ago, and as she was chatting with me today, trying to get me to pay up to see another, I remembered many strange things about the "show" I had seen last year.

The room looked like it was in Europe, there was a radiator on the wall behind the girl. It was a tape that ran about 20-25 seconds, then constantly played over and over again. it was on a loop.

Once I discovered this, I asked her to stand up, and of course, she couldn't, as it was not her, but a tape. I asked her to wave at me, and of course she couldn't. it was all quite funny, really.

Since this girl asked you if you like shaved or bushy pussies, I think she has several tapes she can run. I mean, if this girl were for real, and has a shaved bush, how is she going to produce pubic hair?

Also, the fact 1 day she is talking about 1 thing, and the next talking about something completely different leads me to believe it is not the same girl in front of the keyboard. As a matter of fact, is it really a girl, or a bunch of guys, with some footage of a girl playing with herself, trying to make a living, posing as horny girls?