Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[SergeantRay]

I was just on DIA and was corresponding with an attractive young lady. In her last post she had mentioned "gaining weight," and now that I check her profile several days later, suddenly there is a different, chubbier girl in the picture.

I had this happen the last time I met a gal from the Internet in the Philippines. She started to make noises about not being the best looking or the skinniest, and sure enough, when we met, she was obviously using someone else's picture.

Any chick has got to know that her fake photo is going to crumble when you meet face to face, so I think you need to watch for signs of backing up and qualifying herself.

[Wicked Roger]

Oh my god so many guys had really lame pics of themselves! For god's sake guys post a decent pic! You know what? A pic from your web cam is all you need, wear a modern shirt, maybe some shades.. give a cheeky smile.
Keep your profile simple & to the point. Instead of rambling on with a lot of twaddle just say "I'd like a nice girl friend' or something like that. keep it simple & direct, tell them in your ad that you are coming there. Say when & where. You will be amazed...
Happy hunting
AV

Don't tell everyone our secrets Amavida.

Also I tell them upfront in the profile that I am a horny bastard and very interested in carnal pleasures....and I still get 18 year olds saying hi...must be the way I write :D Or they think I have a huge wallet :D

[Finrod]

Marty I really did'nt notice the LB's on DIA to be a major hassle. Of the several that contacted me all of them were 100% honest. They all stated 'Male' n their profiles & so I just put them on ignore which ended any further contact from them immediately. This was 2 or 3 compared to dozens & dozens of girls contacting me. I don't really care which site anyone uses but I thought that people should know that some of us have had great success with DIA.
As a side note i'd like to mention that out of interest I took a look at the profiles of guys on several of these web sites just to get a feel for what the competition was like. Oh my god so many guys had really lame pics of themselves! For god's sake guys post a decent pic! You know what? A pic from your web cam is all you need, wear a modern shirt, maybe some shades.. give a cheeky smile.
Keep your profile simple & to the point. Instead of rambling on with a lot of twaddle just say "I'd like a nice girl friend' or something like that. keep it simple & direct, tell them in your ad that you are coming there. Say when & where. You will be amazed...
Happy hunting
AV

You made all my secrets public... waaah, I've got to compete now! :)

[Amavida]

Thanks to all for the comments. You do have me a bit worried now about the potential for Ladyboys on DIA. I'll try the cam route. So far only 2 of them offered that. I'll push it from my side for the rest. If anybody had any luck on DIA and wish to share the names from there, let me know.

I'll let you all how it turns out.

Marty I really did'nt notice the LB's on DIA to be a major hassle. Of the several that contacted me all of them were 100% honest. They all stated 'Male' n their profiles & so I just put them on ignore which ended any further contact from them immediately. This was 2 or 3 compared to dozens & dozens of girls contacting me. I don't really care which site anyone uses but I thought that people should know that some of us have had great success with DIA.
As a side note i'd like to mention that out of interest I took a look at the profiles of guys on several of these web sites just to get a feel for what the competition was like. Oh my god so many guys had really lame pics of themselves! For god's sake guys post a decent pic! You know what? A pic from your web cam is all you need, wear a modern shirt, maybe some shades.. give a cheeky smile.
Keep your profile simple & to the point. Instead of rambling on with a lot of twaddle just say "I'd like a nice girl friend' or something like that. keep it simple & direct, tell them in your ad that you are coming there. Say when & where. You will be amazed...
Happy hunting
AV

[South by SW 2]

I've only done Filipino Kisses. I've gotten two contacts that indicated they were LBs in the message or profile. Plus, I have one on hold until she can get on a webcam. She wants to do nasty chat, but no cam no chat.

-- SbySW

[Marty251]

Thanks to all for the comments. You do have me a bit worried now about the potential for Ladyboys on DIA. I'll try the cam route. So far only 2 of them offered that. I'll push it from my side for the rest. If anybody had any luck on DIA and wish to share the names from there, let me know.

I'll let you all how it turns out.

[Bob Bowie]

I have found cb the best site to find a quality relationship. It has the best search options. You can narrow it down to education, kids, and exact age. Last trip I signed up for 3 months. I had 2 months to prepare for the trip, and while I was there I was able to copy and paste"hi, I am in town and like to meet you" to dozens of girls.

Do not limit your self to only girls that have logged into cb recently. Find one that has not logged in for over a month, it means she has not received any emails to read. CB will send her a an email asking her to log on to read your message to her. On the same note, make sure to log in frequently so you show up more often to the girls that are searching.

I have used DIA. The search function is basic, and there are a lot more scamers there, but you will see many girls that will chat with you on yahoo immediately.
I set up 2 accounts on DIA, my real one, and one without a picture to "test"the girls. I am very direct and bold on the fake one, to get a feel of the real intentions of the girls. Basically the fake one asks if they want to go to spend a weekend in Bohol with me, for free. So many girls were interested. Good to know there are some easy girls out there.

If you want to see the most scamers, ladyboys or just plain desperate, check out DIA "last active" on the front page when it it is 3am in the Phillipines.

FH is a good compromise between CB and DIA. A lot of girls that are willing to put out with little effort, but they do a decent job of screening them.

[HornyGeorge]

Dia has more than its share of ladyboys for sure. Never send money to a girl (or god knows what) that you have never met and you needn't worry about getting ripped off. Manila area girls are more likely to be gamers than girls from the province, you can bank on that.

CB functionality is poor, but they do more screening to keep out scammers and ladyboys. The guy going to Cebu should check cebuanas.com.

Gamahucher: great post and so true. There was this one with enormous tits and a picture revealing them. I was very polite, but made a non crude compliment about her "ample assets" and she blocked me. Other than the tits, she was a middleaged pig with no apparent redeeming features.

[Wicked Roger]

Marty I haven't been burned on that site but the same caveats apply to that site as any other. You will get your share of repulsive ladyboys, annoying beggars, liars, fakes & scammers as anywhere else. Points in its favour, free, large & growing userbase of women keen to meet and simple easy to use layout.
AV

Basically the rule is to cam with them, no cam no chat.

Agree with Amavida, there are loads of LBs there - in DIA some actually say they are so we can avoid. But when you cam and lok you will see that many not as good as the pics but I have had a few that are far better......Hit and miss my friend

[Amavida]

Has anybody been burned from DIA in that the picture aren't even close or the girls tried to rip you off?

Marty I haven't been burned on that site but the same caveats apply to that site as any other. You will get your share of repulsive ladyboys, annoying beggars, liars, fakes & scammers as anywhere else. Points in its favour, free, large & growing userbase of women keen to meet and simple easy to use layout.
AV

[Marty251]

In preperation for my trip this month, I've been searching DIA and have come up with a bunch of good potentials.

Everything from I want a relationship, but if you get me a little drunk you never know what will happen. To here's my phone number call me when you get in town. To " of course I'll meet you, but I need help paying for school.."

I tried to restrict my contacts to the manila area so the choices range from a few a day to none. Most respond back pretty quick on the site. If the pictures match the girl, then I might do OK.

One of them works in a Webchat and keeps trying trying to get me to join her site so she gets a commission... I told her we can negotiate a commission later.

Has anybody been burned from DIA in that the picture aren't even close or the girls tried to rip you off?

So far at least the chase has been fun.

[Wicked Roger]

It came up with 8 blokes, and not one of them a possible ladyboy either ;)


Cheers, F/Fifty

But were they 50:50 :D

[SergeantRay]

It also appears that the "advanced" search doesn't allow you to search for women in a particular city. For instance, I'm going to Cebu, so I'm not really interested in women in Angeles or Baguio, for example.

The city search is also handy when you know you're going to a certain city, like Bacolod.

So far, I've been really pleased with DIA, both in the quality of women and the responsiveness.

[X Man]

I had a similar problem at CB about a year or two ago when they changed their page. When I checked my email, there were lots of unknown people there - mostly guys. I was tempted to email the guys so that we could complain together, ask for a contract extension, but somehow never bothered. It was interesting to see what the competition looked like - which is rather hard to do at CB usually.

I really want to switch out of CB, but there are so many hot ladies who seem to FINALLY reply to my email after my subscription ends. This may be a strategy of CB.

I'm one of those guys who can't throw anyting away...including 2mU messages from years ago when it was free.

X

Hi Rog, CB Search is all fukd up at the mo. I put in my usual Advanced Search, you know, using the 50:50 criteria etc.

It came up with 8 blokes, and not one of them a possible ladyboy either ;)

Possibilty of searching by CB ID has disappeared, only hope it is sorted before my next planned trip :)

meanwhile, back in Kaz.....

Cheers, F/Fifty

[Fifty Fifty]

The Advanced Search on CB has changed, now I cannot seem to be able to type in the lady's CB number. Anyone else have this issue, maybe just me

Hi Rog, CB Search is all fukd up at the mo. I put in my usual Advanced Search, you know, using the 50:50 criteria etc.

It came up with 8 blokes, and not one of them a possible ladyboy either ;)

Possibilty of searching by CB ID has disappeared, only hope it is sorted before my next planned trip :)

meanwhile, back in Kaz.....

Cheers, F/Fifty